 Let's face it, nothing is more emotionally devastating that when you've invested in a person, especially physically, you've invested emotionally when they pull away, when they start to breadcrumb when they go, when they disappear. Once you think about this, when somebody stonewalls a relationship, when someone pulls away after they've made an investment in a relationship, that's a rather cruel thing to do to another human being. And so when a man pulls away, I think this is the time to call him out on his behavior.