 boy tell me how you really feel I just want to build with you black girl tell me how you really feel I just want to keep it real with you I want to live better eat better I want to love better sleep better I want to feel so aligned sublime one time for the state of mind two times for elevated rhymes know I architected when I lay design I drown noise out of the clear blue I sit twist the threads of said silence that's an heirloom I am the shepherd I share sheep still fleece funds from the havedolls to the matadors who sidestep the bull beautifully to that applause around rappers a higher caliber catalog shines reminds I ain't coming to flatter y'all I spark chatter dark matter the sharks get on these dark waters who walked taller who barks orders God body garden with all the laws taught us not appear it's really fear near I pierce deep I'm revered my steps remain clear with fierce sweeps not a man here who could sense me I'm on the pier Elohim with the energy black boy tell me how you really feel I just want to feel with you black girl tell me how you really feel I just want to keep it real with you I want to live better eat better yeah yeah I want to love better sleep better yeah I want to feel so aligned it's all the olive here one time for elevated rhymes two times for showmanship three times for black hands and land ownership revolution I bring to you where they ring bling to you need see blues on war tunes to sing to you I am a rebel without a pause no applause trust me I must be Chuck D getting mine off many fools been clock watching my moves and I needed a reappraisal of flavor to the time off now back Jesus black feed is slumbering unborn off of the coffin and curtain untone I'm a rose that rose to etch pros and Rosetta stone yelling to do a megaphone always wrapping baby forever home I ain't the pond calling the kettle black I'm the flame keeping the kettle warm and I am to blame for the Renaissance is cold had the right and recited with down feathers on black boy tell me how you really feel cuz I just want to feel with you black girl tell me how you really feel I just want to keep it real with you yeah I want to live better eat better I want to love better sleep better yeah I want to feel so aligned sublime one time for elevated rhymes two times for showmanship three times for black hands and land ownership revolution I bring to you where they ring bling to you need see blues on war tunes singing to you I am the rebel without a pause no applause trust me I am Chuck D getting mine off many fools they clock watching my moves and I needed a reappraisal of flavor took some time off now back Jesus black feed is slumbering unborn off of the coffin and curtain untone I'm the rose that rose to etch pros and Rosetta stone still yelling to do a megaphone always wrapping baby forever home I ain't the pond calling the kettle black I am the flame keeping the kettle warm I'm to blame for the Renaissance is I'm writing recited with down feathers on I love you and writing recited with down feathers on that mean that shit cold and I'm the coldest listen it's the message right here black boy tell me how you really feel cuz I just want to build with you black girl tell me how you really feel I want to keep it real with you I want to live better eat better I want to love better sleep better yeah I want to feel so aligned y'all give a round of applause to this band right now when they tell me they want to feel the cause a little more than we got to do that again I wasn't in the rehearsal we didn't do that that was not a part of the set list rock what's up family y'all please put a thumbs up in the chat if I'm coming through loud and clear try something new today we got a camera right here hope y'all are well welcome welcome welcome as you guys can see tonight we are joined by we need to talk and I know it might seem confusing but if you go to the black marriage masterclass playlist you will see you will see the other we need to talk featured Mr. Convo and his lovely wife Jalissa so today we'll be following up with our conversation you know picking their brains a little bit more trying to get a little bit more insight on how exactly you make marriage work and how you make marriage last so y'all get comfortable grab your grab your wine your popcorn whatever you need so as I've said during other streams we are hosting an event that I'm really really excited about in June June 24th we will be in Atlanta Georgia for the hundred it's called the hundred because it's limited to a hundred people and we're gonna be honest we're gonna be honest about the problems that we have in our community and we're gonna be honest about potential solutions so if you haven't already please grab your ticket to the hundred if you're in Atlanta if you're around Atlanta shout out to Courtney Michelle she was able to secure us a hotel discount so we've got a hotel nearby the venue for accommodations for reduced accommodations and it's a nice hotel too so yeah if you navigate to the link that I will now pin to the top of the chat you'll be able to grab your ticket and you'll be able to navigate to a link to get your your hotel accommodations secured as well all right again good evening thank y'all for joining me thank y'all for joining us I'm looking forward to this I'm looking forward to this Convo Convo and I met through IG I I sent him the the Spider-Man emoji you know you know the emoji where the Spider-Man's are pointing at each other and you know since then you know we chopped it up we had the opportunity to meet you know he came from where he was to where I am and and that's where he was featured on the channel and then I took the trip down to them as well and I was featured on their channel so make sure you go over there you head over there click that subscribe button support the brother and his wife trying to set a good example for our community so shout out to them shout out to them dub will dub will I appreciate you my brother shout out to you $100 super chat he says not gonna be able to make it to the hundred so use this as a donation for someone else's ticket I appreciate you my brother thank you thank you thank you I'm still trying to figure out if I'm going to record any of it maybe for Patreons and maybe for members who couldn't make it but yeah I'm still I'm still trying to work out those kinks but please if you plan on being an attendance go ahead and grab your ticket as I'm looking right now we've got about 80 tickets left and we are I think two months out let me see I have a timer on the website 56 days 22 hours 33 minutes and 50 seconds away so please do not procrastinate go ahead and get your ticket today okay all right let me see what other housekeeping do I have two videos premiered this week the first one was entitled why do men cheat actually no that was the that was the second video this week the first one y'all bear with me I'm trying to get my life together now the first one was post op pathology that was another installment of my interview with jiggly booze Mcsugar tits aka Kayla and we talked about her you know her journey after getting her brazilian butt lift so that's really interesting it's really insightful as to kind of like the the psychology behind what leads somebody to getting their body altered and what some of the results are so make sure to check that out and then Thursday which was yesterday that video was called why do men cheat myself and my guests we had a pretty good conversation generally but that particular part of the conversation was about I think in her experience she she sees a lot of married men in her DMs so I was trying to make it make it make sense for her so make sure y'all check that out for whatever reason YouTube has I don't know if I'm shadow banned or what but videos that used to average you know 10,000 views are getting 2,000 and you know I frankly don't know what's going on or what to do it's to the point now and I think I talked about it last stream I've got one of the parts with miss jiggly boobs it's still sitting at like 9,000 9,000 views since it was premiered but a brother a media man shout out to media man he did a reaction video to it and that video got I think it should be at 60 or 70,000 views right now um so that that doesn't that doesn't make sense right um so y'all make sure please get in the habit of checking the page regularly get in the habit of seeing what's going on because I've even I'm even hearing from some of the members that you're not getting notified so um yeah help help me help me just help me you know the website is still under construction hopefully we'll be able to migrate over there but you know YouTube is still gonna be a tool you know because it it houses um so many people's attention um instagram is growing I think that's that's that's good the a clip of the conversation I had with Courtney Michelle a couple months ago where we were talking about um we were talking about sex that is it's on its way to 300,000 I think it's in a 236 right now um so that's been that's been moving so maybe we'll start doing more stuff on instagram maybe some um some lives and things like that so if you haven't already go over and subscribe well not subscribe go ahead and follow us on instagram um let's see the housekeeping I'll be doing another stream sunday um bringing back Ms. Jamie um and we'll be recapping her her videos as well um and you know just following up what her life has been since being featured on the channel and uh you know trying to elaborate on some of the conversation we had um while she was on the couch so I think that is everything let me make sure yeah I think that's everything so without further ado I'm just going to click the the clapping button I invite the uh the we need to talk podcast featuring Mr. Calvo and his wife Jelisa hey Jelisa had a little had had a little disclaimer go ahead baby what's the correct announcement Jelisa uh oh Jelisa I apologize oh no get on that train bro go your way man she's got the door knocking get it right I apologize I felt like I wouldn't say it properly you know I can't tell but I appreciate it I appreciate it but how you guys doing you got these shops and schools her name up man we good on this side man it just started raining the thunder and where we at um we can hear it through the microphone so if you guys hear that just you know we we're not at war it's just a little rain coming through yeah yeah I'll be easy but we good though that's it that's it how y'all how you feeling on your side man how you feeling on your side of the world can you guys hear me all right not okay yeah I don't know what just happened hold on I think it's because I'm using these uh these headphones maybe that's what it is but anyway we're gonna keep it pushing all right y'all so um how has it been since the video premiered since the interview um your part convo and then y'all's part together how what's been the reception on your end man I mean it's it's been it's been a great ride for me man because um for the first time ever in my 30 something years of living I got to realize that um there's a lot of men that share similar stories to mine when it comes to uh you know son and mom or son and parent in a dynamics and everything and relationships and stuff like that so it was kind of a eye-opener for me and I was like you know what maybe this is the conversation that needs to be had um a little more and bring a little bit more awareness to that you know I'm saying you know that can ultimately affect us as parents and help us cope as the child you know I'm saying at the same time um right now we we have a video that's you know fake going viral on instagram give it up for instagram one time for the one time you know it's uh it's it's basically pointed towards you know some of the mistakes that you know a mom could have made while raising a son versus raising a daughter and how that could have affected them you know as adults and how we interact with each other now you know I'm saying from our upbringings and um I'm telling you man that that video got over 25 000 shares about 30 000 likes 300 something thousand views so I know for a fact that there's a lot of men going through this or have been through this or believe in this um notion and I think it's really important a real important conversation to have absolutely man absolutely so when um um when you know when we linked up and and we we talked about having that first conversation and we talked about kind of the differences between my version we need to talk y'all's version we need to talk elaborate for the audience what what is it that you guys are trying to accomplish well first of all start with how we even got the name we need to talk and then what are you guys trying to accomplish well you want you want to take that a little bit baby I'll start to let them know baby let them hear your beautiful voice oh god okay so we decided to we want to do a podcast and talk about different things that's going on in the community and relationships and stuff like that he was thinking of a name thinking of a name and like what about we need to talk because it sounds like whenever you hear that um phrase you know you were in trouble oh yeah and it catches attention so that's why I said that yeah and then she you know she gave the idea at first I thought it was Kat I was like you know what she's just saying stuff because she's not really the entertaining you know I'm saying she's not really um the public figure type you know I'm saying so at first I thought she just wanted me to hop on it myself and just you know saying take it and just run with it but she was like no this is a this is a marriage thing this is a us thing you know I'm saying so our very first episodes were basically based off of parenting like in our with our three little kids and everything like that and then we got into you know talks about how we met and our first dates and stuff like that and then it just evolved into the conversation that we're having now which is more less um bringing awareness to well a little more awareness to um male and female um interdynamics and you know how we coexist with each other and how we can better coexist with each other you know I'm saying because the first step to making things better is the understanding of what's going on you know and what we're trying to incorporate now um in our in our episodes which Jelisa made a great idea for is to always end our episodes with a solution what is the solution to this problem that we just discussed for an hour and a half to two hours or whatever you know we don't want to just keep bringing up the problem let's try to solve some things so that's what we're going to be diving more into now some more solutions because we have a lot of them we've been together for 18 years counting you know I'm saying we build this something together right now and I think we're doing pretty well for ourselves you know I'm saying within our relationship and and as people out in the economy so we got some advice together absolutely man so what um what has it been like for y'all on youtube since uh since y'all started on youtube uh we we post our videos but they don't get as much play as our um clips on instagram or tiktok we went viral on emily and time yeah yeah but um people say their opinion they call us names yeah for sure a lot of names and and you know we are facing that same struggle that um you had mentioned earlier in um doing during your introduction and stuff like that um when you was like you know you had a videos that um average about 10k and that are getting about 2k we had videos that was um averaging a few thousand as far as our reels and stuff goes or shorts on on youtube and now they're getting like maybe a couple hundred and it's like out of nowhere but you know we can blame the algorithm but you know I think it's just a little bit more studying that we have to do on our end to see um when our audiences are online um there's different things that we just have to do research on for to reach the you know I'm saying the masses and stuff like that but it's been it's been a journey a huge learning curve man because at times I'm like oh yeah we drone we get lit we go and then you'll post something and it's like up people ain't hearing this so it's like you just got to really figure out what people want to hear from you and stuff like that and what youtube wants to push that's the big thing that's yeah that's why it's very important guys everybody that's in the chat right now that's tuned in right now it's very important that you do hit that like button right now as we're streaming because it's gonna help my brother Alan over here push his channel and get it bigger you know I'm saying get in front of more people that like button helps a whole lot so please make sure you guys doing that absolutely so are you guys hearing an echo no no okay okay I don't know why he's doing this oh yeah someone in the chat said there's an echo yeah yeah yeah yeah is is the audio coming from me is it just in y'all's headphones or is it playing yeah okay so it's from my end let me just do this I'm gonna do this all right how about now now still still you're good or not and still I don't know how they're feeling in the chat though that's weird yeah you know these these uh these computers and and pieces of equipment bro they gotta monitor their own sometimes man all right let's let's let's do this I'm gonna let y'all you know just cook for a little bit talk about the videos and talk about kind of the comments that stood out to you all right and I'm gonna be in the background trying to figure this out all right all right cool so um yeah let's uh let's let's go ahead and take it over man but you know one time for the one time it's giving up for my boy Aleph I having us on his platform one time thank you for the one time um yeah so so since so since leaking up with Alan baby what's up how the feedback that we've been getting you know so how do you feel about what stood out to you the feedback on on any of the videos you know I'm saying especially people people people like the controversy they like the country yeah they don't like the positive things yeah yeah everybody want to see a fight you know I'm saying that's like from when I learned that I'm being in school and stuff like that you know I'm saying you want to get somebody attention okay if you talk to your girlfriend you see a fight on the other side of the lunch room you ain't talking to your girl no more you're looking at that fight what I find is so weird is because people complaining about these things going on but then when you talk about something positive they don't want to talk about it yeah yeah don't get shared and so it's just weird like okay you're complaining about situations that's going wrong and we give solutions and we talk about something more positive but yet you don't want to feed into the positive things it makes me think like you just want to stay trapped in your negative world you don't want to be better and become more positive that's true that's that's what I get from some of the things yeah I mean you could you could kind of you could kind of blame people just being bored yeah you know seeing other people go through stuff is just it's just entertaining to us now you know I'm saying I blame flavor of love that was comedy though I don't it was but you got to think about it though baby imagine if that show had no drama that show would be dry because you really you'll be looking like why the hell all these girls fighting for this dude you know I'm saying or even on the show for this dude you know I'm saying but when you got your new yorks that coming through spitting in people's faces like oh drama let's look at the drama let's tune into that you know I'm saying it's just it's just entertainment you gotta you gotta realize once you want this youtube once you want to screen you have to entertain but what I don't believe I don't believe that you have to fall victim to people's expectations too much I we I think we have a due diligence to entertain but we don't have to like conform to what they expect if we have a positive message I believe that we should continue to put out the positive message because the positive message is the lesson the the drama is just for entertainment it's gonna pass it's a fact it's a trend you know I'm saying yeah yeah so I would like for our words to be everlasting you know I mean we have so many arguments going on these chats and under the um post and I don't know it's just so polarized like most of the men are on the one side and the women are on the other side and they just fighting back and forth back and forth you know what you know what comment stood out to me on the um the video that's on the this we need to talk platform there was a guy that said it was on our video he called me a simp for one right and then he went on to say yeah his wife definitely has um a secret bank account and a dude waiting in the stash just in case he messes up what's your response to that man baby I don't have either of those yeah no period that's it just that simple uh I don't I what's the point that's too much of a headache to keep up with I don't have time for it I'm your wife I'm a mother I have my job it's just too much to keep up with I don't have time for it and guys it's not it's not a fairy tale go ahead go ahead though people do that when they board and don't have nothing going for themselves true true true but it's not a fairy tale to really love somebody and really begin a relationship a committed relationship it's not a fairy tale so when you have an example sitting right I love my baby I love you too man you know it is what it is you know I'm saying this is 18 years in the making now do we argue ladies and gentlemen do we argue yes all the time it happens I yell oh and scream and I be trying I be matching her energy you know I'm so crazy because we're actually opposite when we argue like on the show he's a talkative one and you know I'm quiet but when we argue oh yeah I'm the one yelling screaming throwing and I'm like he's the more calm like right yelling and then I have to collect myself like damn I am supposed to be the the bigger person and not yeah but look with that though right you say you have to collect yourself yeah honestly how long did it take you to come to your senses it'd be like it's about time I start collecting myself look that's something that is ongoing and you always have to collect yourself because I've been thinking that since we were kids right you just didn't have the willpower to actually execute those those um feelings I'll I'll I always have it in my head but in that moment in that moment oh my god in that moment I forget about it it just and then when I catch it I'm like oh man I'm supposed to not I'm supposed to be better why am I why what is wrong with me why am I doing this and you know what that is that's called self reflection and accountability because even in the heat of the moment when you you just know you right you want to get your point across you want to you know I'm saying you have to also think about do I want to continue arguing or do I want this argument to stop arguing should be very difficult ladies and gentlemen if and if arguing is easy and something you enjoy then I think you got some some some things to work on you know I'm saying but when you when when we argue I don't want it to last more than a couple hours I'd rather us sit there talk about it and get through it now with that Jelisa is the opposite on that she would rather let it breathe give some space if I feel like I'm getting to a point where I'm not going to be respectful I want to walk away because then it's going to escalate to more and that's not what I want to do right right but you don't be letting me go because of how and then they escalate exactly and then I feel disrespected and I'm like oh how you gonna call me you know I'm saying and then it gets to someone else but that's when we have to if we both do more self-reflecting in the heat of the moment then that fire could be put out way earlier you know I'm saying because oh man there's nothing worse than going to bed mad at her and she mad at me oh wait not I'm gonna tell you what is worse though when I'm not mad at you no more and you still mad at me I'll be mad at you for days yeah because I try to give you the scoot over in the bed and you're scooting further away and next thing you know you at the edge of the bed I'm like there let's just go back on my side of the pillow it's all good though you know I'm saying but there's this this tactic though that you got to use and it comes with learning your partner and it also comes with how bad do you really want a relationship do you want a relationship that's the question you have to ask yourself or are you out here just trying to have fun yeah because if you want a relationship dude there's things you have to change bro there's things you have to change sis you can't the worst advice that you could give somebody is oh when you get in a relationship you ain't supposed to change who you are yes you are because you have to change to mold who you need to be for your relationship you are who you are for your individual self you can't be an individual self for another individual that's a whole different individual y'all have to learn how to come together and mold each other to be you know I'm saying a great partner for each other now don't take a complete piece of shit and say I'm gonna grow some flowers from it you know flowers can grow you know it does fertilize the lawn but damn it I'd rather go to them Home Depot and buy a nice back package of fertilizer not some raw dog shit and say let me just learn how to plant this oh no you you built from something you know I'm saying you can't you can't save people guys you can't save people you know I'm saying so you have to have something to work with from the beginning that's a fact that's a fact so let me ask you this question baby do you think it's healthy for people to stay in relationships just because they have kids together oh god um it depends if they are able to be healthy with each other and with the kids but if it's not like they're always arguing and the children are seeing a bad representation of a relationship then I don't think it's healthy yeah that's that is definitely true because those kids do kind of get a representation of what love should look like from their parents and their relationships um prime example you know unfortunately I've never seen marriage growing up my mom was never married my dad was never married my aunts uncles because nobody's never married I was the first person in my family to get married and when I stepped into marriage I stepped into the marriage with a whole different mindset it was a oh it's all about just just me now just you know I'm the husband and it's all about just me totally forgetting that she has a whole family a whole mom a whole dad a whole sister a whole brother a whole this that third that's still her family they might not be immediate on the the spectrum of marriage and you know I'm saying but they're still there they're still present now me with my upbringing I had like more of a shattered family you know so it wasn't like nobody was really prioritizing those people you know I'm saying when they got into relationships when they got into relationships they said forget everybody I'm gonna just move on my life type job you know I'm saying and that's a prime example of we treat our relationships how we grew up yeah you know so you've seen marriage your whole life so you knew it was something different I did see marriage my grandparents my parents my aunts my uncles was all married I didn't see any negative like I never seen them argue or be upset with each other those kind of things I never seen that I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing because and not seeing it then when I do get into a situation I didn't really know how to handle it in a healthy way I just you know like it's weird but I did see like the love of two people um my parents they were never like huggy lovey-dovey so I didn't I didn't see that but I wanted that so that's how I was you know it's crazy no because we really we don't want to argue and stuff like that you don't want to argue in front of your children you know I'm saying it damages them you know but imagine if your kids never saw you guys or heard you guys argue I have a you know a pretty decent disagreement then when they become adults and they have an argument with their significant other they might think oh no this ain't this this ain't a relationship yeah my parents never did yeah this ain't supposed to happen at all like so I think in some type of way um seeing a healthy disagreement a healthy disagreement there you go and something good to model for your children there you go yeah no no no like uh no no physical contact and stuff like that they don't need to you know say and be around that type of stuff but yeah they I think they need to see that you know couples do disagree but they are proper ways to have disagreements you know I'm saying when you have these children involved you know I'm saying they start dating young now too I'm talking about dating dating they start dating dating at 14 15 years old now right you know I'm saying so before you know it they out there calling somebody boo you know I'm saying you just got to accept it like your boy convo man like I don't I don't like that you know my daughters be talking about they got boyfriends I'm like I'm only one person I you know I can't y'all y'all sharing me man I don't I don't know the person y'all talking about but they are so yeah um conflict resolution is a big part of being in a relationship it's very important to get your um express how you feel in what you expect in a good way without screaming because you know when people are screaming you're not listening you're just screaming you're not hearing what the other person has to say you need to and I have to take my own advice a lot of times man be quiet and when you hear something don't um try to don't try to react to what try to understand and if something is coming off like you might say something that you might not mean in a bad way but I take it in a bad way you need to clarify that like what do you mean by that what I hear is such and such and such and if that's not what you meant it to be then you're like no I didn't mean it that way that also um can like resolve or stop any other tension that might build up because you're arguing and you're saying something that you might not mean but that person heard it that way so that's another thing on top of what y'all already started arguing about so communication is really important in um in a relationship in conflict resolution and in fellas um one thing that I learned I learned this year earlier bro earlier this year we can't fix everything bro oh god no matter how much we just want to talk yes sometimes you do not have to fix every problem right if they want you to fix it they'll say what should I do yes and that for me honestly guys that for me was a very difficult thing to do as you guys may know or may not know I am an eight-year veteran of the army so while I was in the army we did a lot of that's a problem all right go solve it now like no questions ask get up be hot speak go over there and solve it so when I'm hearing gripes or anything you know I'm saying from from the wife or even from the kids the kids is a big thing too my immediate thing is when they when they say certain keywords I don't even hear nothing else I'm like oh shit I heard that I gotta I gotta it's time to fix daddy mode husband mode automatically you know I'm saying when a lot of times these people just want to talk to us because we are the men in their lives and they feel comfortable they feel safe just talking to us not saying they need a resolution I get it I get it guys we are we are the fixers and the builders and all of this dope golden stuff but we don't have to be that all the time with family now when it's your job and you're getting paid to fix everything you hear about fucking rock out you know I'm saying but when it comes to family um when it comes to communication a big part of communication is listening it's not using your mouth it's using your ears and your mind too to understand what you're hearing a lot of people just fake opening air let it come out one coming one one side out the other yeah you have to really take in the information you're receiving then you can understand your significant other and even your children a lot better and there's some things that you don't gotta say oh I need help or what should I do like if I come to you with the babe we don't have money for this of course you need the solution I'm not just telling you just to be no that stresses me out I ain't gonna lie you kind of mean we got me need money what we broke oh shit I gotta go put some overtime in I I don't even hear what you want all I heard was yo I don't think we could be got the money to buy this right now I'm automatic oh damn we broke we probably got a few thousand in the bank but she you know another thing too is with money stuff yeah budgeting yeah you know like there's a lot of things that this relationship relationship stuff guys that um that people need to understand um I don't like what I'm seeing right now um as far as the data market with how easy it is for people just to um leave relationships um I don't like seeing women and men not fighting for their families and when I say families I mean there's children involved um because a lot of times what people do is they'll have their differences and they'll leave believing that there's something the grass is greener on the other side and the whole time when they separate that family those children is upstairs or they're in that next room they are suffering you gotta realize when you when you decide to actually have the child life is no longer about you anymore life is now prior primarily about that child you have to consider that child how this decision will affect that child when you're married you have to think about how that decision you're making or however you go out to move is going to affect your significant other yeah you have to think about people other than yourselves and I see a lot of selfish ass people out here asking for for relationships yeah everyone doesn't deserve a freaking relationship and for those people that you know you don't deserve a relationship if you don't like being the one yeah if you don't like being the one stop asking for all about yourself you want everything for yourself I want this I want that money me need them if you out here you're trying to impress everybody you want to be the center of attention forever you want to wear the boobs out booty all out no don't ask for no relationship because you're gonna fuck around and get a good dude that really want to take you serious really want to make you his wife and you in the back of your head like man this dude right here he corny you know I'm saying the corny dudes you know I'm saying the good dudes the corny dudes baby answer this question do good guys finish lives sometimes yeah why why we got to finish lives who said you was a good guy oh I'm a good guy man can I get a daughter market for the good guys out here man one time for the one time but I'm definitely a good guy out here man you know I'm saying and it's like you you grow up and you see these movies and you you take advice from your mom and you take advice from your eyes they all good guys on the movies they good guys on the movies every every movie it's a love story I can't even watch a space movie without somebody falling in love jumping in front of an ad story to save some chick you know I'm saying but you see all of these chivalrous characters you know I'm saying and you you start to think this is what this is supposed to look you feel like so I'm gonna be that guy right well maybe because when you do I don't know when you get that guy they just not it I don't know but the popular the popular guys it though is it true that women want men that other women want like I can only speak for myself I don't want nobody else man right no because of what I hear a lot is like yo if you're not desired by or by multiple women then your woman would know that you're not desirable and it would make her desire you less okay and we have this thing called the internet where that's going around the internet right now you know I'm saying yeah so is that because honestly me I don't know because I people need to mind a business like I'm all about my mind like how me and you are I'm not worried about that mind your business why are you worried about who likes this person oh if that's the person likes them I should like them to like stay in your lane come on mind your business worry about yourself yo you know you know what else I seen um on some of the comments on the video that we did with my boy Allen um this one this one lady has said um you know it's beautiful that we was able to find love early how do you feel about that do you think that that's ideal to start taking someone serious at such a young age that we did you was 16 hours excuse me was 15 hour 16 at the such young age that we were do you think that was the healthy thing for us to do or would you recommend people actually getting older and learning themselves before they step into a serious relationship yeah um it it can work it can work if when you're young you're in his heart is very rare that people are already like put together and mature and help like set healthy boundaries and know how to argue healthy and you know all of those things but as a being young and getting into a relationship where you don't have those things in place it can damage you because you guys can hurt each other and because it's your first one it gives you a neck it could give you a negative look on relationships early because of you got that one person that did so much damage to you now that's just you know when we young we that's what we stoke in that's what we think life will be right but which is not necessarily true so it I think that people should um give it some time you know learn how to be in a relationship yeah true before you actually become in one because you can do damage to each other and that's not good I think the biggest lesson we had to learn um honestly um coming from such a young age dating at a young age and being grown-ass adults today we had to realize that that 16-year-old boy she met and the 15-year-old girl I met was not the 20-year-old girl that I was married to and I wasn't the 21-year-old dude that she was married to and then the 30-year-old girl but okay no I'm saying but I'm just using strong increments baby strong increments people I'm going with this you know I'm saying so and I also had to realize that at 30 she wasn't the same girl that I married when she was 20 you know I'm saying we go through the different phases as we get older yeah and that's the thing with growing with someone you have to love every stage of their journey and you can't expect for them to stay the same and that's not really not fair to expect for someone to stay a teenager that's just not you can't imagine that imagine you dating someone with a 16-year-old mentality yeah like but that's the that's the pros and cons to um dating young and dating when you're already an adult now when you're an adult the risk you take is now and you got to take this motherfucker and they they body stuck in their ways you know I'm saying hey they probably don't want to change or better themselves to be in a relationship or they've been through so many traumatic situations with men or women you know I'm saying to where when you meet them you got to meet them with this anger and this resentment that they might have for you if you trigger a certain emotion you know I'm saying and it's like that's where it could be like too much I honestly wouldn't have the patience for that yeah honestly baby if we if God forbid if we ever did divorce I'm not getting into another marriage because I'm not trying to learn anyone else again you know it's one of my co-workers she was telling me that she um she has had some traumas in her past relationships in that the guy she's with now he realizes that and when they when he triggers something in her he's really patient with her and he'd be like it's okay I understand he's crazy like I got that type patient and she she's she's he's a good guy she's so appreciative like I can't believe that he's like I know that I'm crazy I know that I'm triggered and I know my triggers and my traumas and I I bring it up to him but he still is patient with me he still loves me don't you think he deserves better though do you think it's fair for him to stay in that relationship like he sounds like an awesome guy I think he needs a better girl he loves her and he understands her okay so that man is happy like truly happy in that relationship then you know cool those to him give it up for him one time for the one time give it up for relationships man give it up for relationships we are advocates for relationships guys relationships and family you see that right there man it's family man and you know what one thing I did um also I was thinking about earlier today baby I was like this um you know with everyone leaving their relationship so easily let me ask you this question today right now baby today tomorrow you and your sister y'all get into an argument right is she not your sister no more she's still my sister she's still your sister my blood my blood but she's still your sister bro you know I'm saying she's still your sister whether y'all like each other you love each other now y'all still y'all still sisters I believe in a marriage not just in a marriage you do become family yeah just because you have a trial you have in a disagreement it doesn't mean that I'm not your husband no more it doesn't mean that you're not my wife no more it doesn't mean that I don't love you anymore it doesn't mean that you love me any less in that moment in my field that way yeah hell yeah how do you shoot I'll be in in in arguments with you the next thing I know is talk is cheap motherfucker and it's like damn and she be sounding just like DMX too rest the peace of the goat bro my baby she get loud bro yeah I think this little this little ticket time bomb right here yeah but you know we we don't give I ain't gonna lie when it comes to get the giving up thing how many times we don't fake broke up baby a lot plenty a lot plenty bro yep we used to break up every week when we were teenagers dead eyes dead eyes though dead eyes dead eyes and I don't know I I was just so like in tune with like just knowing or you know I'm saying believing that you know this is this this the girl for me you know I'm saying like I'm not out here trying to be experiencing my other chicks or whatever like that you know I'm saying so this is the girl I put my energy into I'm gonna go through it all with her and we're gonna get it right one day you know I'm saying nothing worth having comes easy you're gonna have to go through your johns you know I'm saying you know how many married couples I done spoke to that's been together for 60 70 years bro you know what most of their relationship advice was keep your relationship in your bedroom stop getting your family involved stop getting your friends involved you keep your relationship in your bedroom you solve your relationship problems nobody really knows what goes on in your relationship yeah you go ahead and I being you get into it I go ahead and call Keith or I call Allen like your Al bro man forget you Lisa bro I'm about to move on something different bro I got a little goatee popping I'm hot out here you know I'm saying the next thing you know he like yeah bro like man forget it move on do do do whatever you know I'm saying next week we lovey-dovey again now I got a call Allen with the yo bro I'm still at the crib why are you still there but now we good now man I don't win on instagram and cursed out and shit like that like you know I'm saying yeah I agree I could see where you say that but like when my friends say things like that I'm like yeah yeah girl okay okay but I know what it is y'all arguing right now you just saying that right now I'm agree with you but I know what it really is you gonna be back with him next week and if she's gonna be okay right right but we need more people like that okay there's a lot of damn soldiers hyenas out there that's like that's your friend you should know you should know your friend it's just you know vinton right now they mad right now they really love that person yeah you'll know when it's like truly honestly dead ass over though like if the infraction is crazy yeah you know I'm saying that you you'll know but if the infraction is just some shit because this dude came in and he always playing his video game that's not no reason to freaking break up with someone it's not it's not a reason I be here and I'll be seeing these girls on the internet oh he I don't want no dude that come home and play his video game so if I don't play my video game you gonna entertain me what you about to do or you're gonna give me the remote and tell me to pick out the girl how can a girl entertain you that's what I'm saying a lot of times as grown men like it's unless we're going out you're like it's not your job to be sitting here entertaining me and it's not my job to sit here and entertain you if you want something you like to do I'm talking about solutions so I'm saying like okay she don't want you on the game the solution is to her for her to change that don't not want me to be on the game but what does she want to spend time with you all right then have something in play then don't say get off the game and you make the thing that's entertaining that will substitute you playing the game something baby something don't don't don't tell me to get off the game and then hand me the remote don't hand me the remote you pick the movie you should have a movie already planned that something if you want me to stop doing what I'm doing so that we can spend time together you better have something in play don't tell me to get off and then tell me to use my brain I was using my brain I was on the 10 kill street you know I'm saying so it's different when it's that you know if you got something in play then then it becomes sweet like oh that was cute like you know what if what if she is upset that you're on a game while she's doing a whole bunch of other stuff that you can be helping with oh yeah that's selfish then that's selfish if you guys are living together and you you you just sitting crib just playing a game and she downstairs cleaning the whole downstairs she dusting the freaking ceiling fans and you know I'm saying dishes and and you just sitting there then yeah but on top of that though strong black woman right if you need my help say it because there's a lot of black women not just black women there's a lot of women going around here right now acting like they don't need no help from no man so men are sitting back and letting y'all go through that shit until y'all come and help ask for help there's a lot of men doing that so if you did need some help you didn't want him playing the game you want him to help you got a baby I need you right now yeah I need your help and I'll bet you 9.5 times out of 10 that man is going to stop what he's doing and come help you that's serious if you ask that man for help but you what y'all be doing this is how they help wow this because I've experienced this many of time I did so if I ask you when I was pregnant I remember oh shit babe can you bring up the laundry for me and okay in minute let me finish this whatever whatever I waited a little bit then I'm like okay he's not getting off I want to do this now because I'm going to be tired later I need this done now so when I pick up the thing then now you want to come help I don't already asked you yeah but you know what's crazy then when you want to say oh why are you trying to be all strong in my dude I asked you you didn't do it right that's a fact but just now this second I just now learned that the reason why you would go ahead and take initiative after asking me or whatever if I was already engaged or something is because you weren't going to have the energy later a lot of times yeah I never thought I want to do this right now yeah I never I never I never thought that you know I'm saying like and that's part of the communication yeah you know I'm saying like if you was a little bit more you know I'm saying like yo babe like this is type urgent like I'm gonna be tired later I definitely you know I'm saying when but if you just just bring up something John I'm not expecting you to say that you was gonna be tired I could have been a little bit more um pregnancy aware and used my my my chakras and comma common sense and said you know what she might be tired around four five o'clock it's like two right now I should you know I'm saying go ahead and jump to it but dudes we ain't mind readers neither are women you're not mind readers that's why men have to be super elaborate and and very informative when it comes to communicating with certain women I'm not saying oh guys when we speak on the we need to talk podcast we speak in generalities we do not speak as a whole not every man is like that not every woman like is like that that's common sense can we please stop commenting about that like really we all we know that nothing's absolute we're grown people let's have grown conversations they just say that just to argue just to have it on your not all people so I know not all people meatball why do I have to tell you that I know that God that's y'all bro that annoys me more than seeing people right the wrong to you ever see people write the wrong to like but that comment makes me it just makes my skin curb I'm not all people do that not all women not all men not all mothers because you know my my topic right now is the mom the mommy issues you know I'm saying and you know how that sounds mommy issues yeah that's that's a thing it's a thing but people don't really like talking yo this yes they do out of baby out of the what the 1300 comments that we got under that one video right I can honestly say you know I go through all the issues too about 20 females said that's a great point or something along those lines mm-hmm every other female was like oh how dare you blame your mother for everything and you know how I kill them what else has women been blamed for those women probably didn't have their dads probably probably probably but it's okay to fall and they fail away because they're mad like my dad wasn't there for me see we always ask the guys who hurt you we don't ask the girls that but we need to who hurt you true like why are you act who hurt you and a lot of them have been hurt that's why they are acting the way they do who hurt you for the females damn the reason why you know what's crazy what if you ask them that I believe that they will answer they're not gonna be like the men nobody hurt me they're gonna tell you they're going to tell you who no let's listen ladies and gentlemen I'm trying to advocate for the men that's going to be honest about that shit who hurt you let people know yo bro I had my mom's or my sister or my ex bro I love to the death and she did she did me dirt it's nothing wrong if you're a victim you're a victim bro you can't be you can't you know I'm saying you're a victim you know what I mean we can victimize every day you know I'm saying so it's like don't be ashamed of that bro we men what's somebody gonna tell what's somebody what can somebody really tell me because I had issues with my mom to make me feel bad you can't make me feel no way about that I haven't felt already for years bro yeah you can't make me cry tear that I haven't cried yet bro yeah so the the way you help get over that stuff is being honest with it and talk about it because now look I talk about it people thousands of men it's like yo and now you don't feel so alone and that lives a little bit a little bit I'm not not a lot just a little burden like wow I'm not the only right so I don't have to feel weird weird right right baby you know I'm saying that's a fact that's a fact because that's exactly what it did for me you know I'm saying thank I think my boy um my boy Al let's give it up for him one time for the one time again one more time because I'm truly grateful that um he was willing to share his platform with us and actually allowed me to speak on those issues now let me let me tell you this when we went over to island studio we went there to talk about relationships it's the black marriage masterclass it's not the black boy mommy class you know what I'm saying yeah but that affects your relationship it does affect your relationship that's a fact because it affects how you view women and how you take their bullshit but anyway he allowed me to open up and be transparent and I was comfortable enough to open up to homie you know what I'm saying like he he understood like I you know he's behind the camera but as I'm talking we make eye contact and he's he's back to like wow bro like what like oh that's crazy and to hear another especially black man you know I'm saying not that he related that he been through through it as well but he was able to understand me that made me I was like yo this is a good dude right here bro this this this is a good dude right here you know I'm saying because he wasn't on some judgment to shit you know there's many dudes out there that like what boy you grown man like you're sucking up man like what you being a little bitch for right you know I'm saying and then that's what solace is people you know I'm saying when they're going through things and you when you when other people don't give you that avenue to communicate and that's what I call male toxicity not that's that's what I feel it is toxic masculinity you mean yes talk like silence and somebody or making a man feel bad for having feelings that's just weird we're human we're supposed to have feelings yeah for you not to have feelings is not human that's not normal that's a fact that's a fact that's a fact but I don't think we can be we could be too into with our emotions though yeah um I think it is healthy for us to be able to channel it and um let a lot of emotions just run down the toilet hmm you know I'm saying some some of those emotions um does help mold us into stronger men yeah some of those trials and tribulations um and those are some of those trials I think we should hold on to so that we learn a lesson um and gain wisdom from it but then there's a lot of things bro that you just need to just let flush by bro because another thing that I've learned man it takes hundreds of more muscles in your face to frown then to smile you know I'm saying and I and I always I always tell my my kids this I'm like yo do not have hate in your heart for anyone the moment you have hate in your heart for someone that is the moment you will not be able to move on in life because you will always have a reason to sit down and be mad people that's happy don't sit down in one spot and smile people that sit down in one spot and stay stagnant are usually like this frowning because when you upset you stay there when you hate something or you hate somebody you stay in that hatred yes let that shit go certain should go and smile when you smile you can move on and go on and flourish your life okay so one of those comments we go back to what we're supposed to be doing yeah one of the ladies what is she saying to you um I know he's married if you have to say I know he's married whatever you're saying after that should not be said because it's disrespectful if you know a man is married make your comment don't make like talk about what he's talking about don't comment on the guy and stop like you look stupid and you look weak trying to go after somebody else man yeah that's that's spicy you know and um but that's something you don't hardly ever see you know what you don't see them in shooting a shot I seen it before you even showed me that I seen it in another um there was some other platform or whatever she said the same exact thing I know he's made like come on now get your own man don't talk about I know he's married wasn't the same chick though no no it's a completely different person but in my head I'm like why like that's my that's my disrespect well there's no reason for that so how true is it do you think how true do you think it is that um women are like single women are kind of more attracted to married men because they they have that uh oh if he could do it for her he could do it for me type shit how true you think that is it's hard to answer those questions because I don't in my experience I never met somebody like that so I don't know their thought process behind that I can only give a guess of why they like that and that would be why I think because or another thing is because they have a self-esteem problem where they feel like if I can get this guy away from his wife then that makes that bigs me up bigs up my ego I must be the shit because I can do that those I don't those own things I could think of so you think they do that they don't want a relationship with those guys yeah but my thing is if you could steal him what makes you think he can't get stolen from you that's why I don't I don't know that shit is weird yeah I don't like I could see if she was doing it just for an ego thing and just don't do like move forward with it you know I'm saying like I but I approved you a piece of shit got my rocks off move up move out my way but if you want some yeah you could really seek a relationship I think you are the epitome of stupid I don't um I don't when I said that it's for an ego thing I don't think that they just maybe some of them just do it just to do it but I think some of them do it because they do want to be in that relationship because they want to be treated in that way that the guy is treating his wife I saw um a collaboration that Alan did with Courtney Michelle and um he was speaking on um why men cheat and um he said something along the lines that um is basically like I want to see if I still got it game you know I'm saying um which is an ego thing an ego a ego game yeah that's all it is um that sounds pretty accurate to me you know not saying that I go out and cheat or you know I'm saying I have I play ego I do play ego games you know um shoot when I was doing my music heavily honestly you know getting fly and doing other to see some girls say oh damn he's cute that made me feel accomplished a baby feel like oh I bet I girl still think I'm cute out here like you know I'm saying not saying that I'm pressing the issue but to get those compliments it made me feel good yeah you know I'm saying so it made it gave me that I still got it feeling you know so that's why when I said that was shorty um if it's an ego thing like if she's just doing it just for her own affirmation then you know I'm saying that's one thing opposed to doing it for an actual relationship because I ain't getting fly known for these shorties to have a relationship with them you know I'm saying if they can say they love for me that's that's fine for me like you know I'm saying I'm good with that but I guess I'm a IG thought I'm a IG model now y'all with a gut I gotta start eating better yeah I don't I don't know why women do things like that the way you get them is the way you're gonna lose them that's balls baby the way you get them is the way you lose them she's gonna lose me in the movie theater if he not I mean like in a bad if you got him in a bad way you won't like if he was willing to cheat on his wife what makes you think he not gonna be willing to do it to you when you and his wife that's true he done proved to you that he can't be loyal because he was doing it with you I don't know that's true that's true and then you in the relationship stressing and wondering oh like if he start doing stuff that he was doing with you like you know what he you know how he was moving and he start moving that way then you gonna be stressed like oh is he doing this to me now and let me ask you this question baby do you think it's healthy for married couples to have a bunch of single friends it depends on your friends if your friends are supportive of your relationship then I don't think so but if they like try to sabotage you then no it's not healthy but you gotta pick your friends wisely don't be around a whole bunch of people that want to not see you do good or you know don't want you happy so let's imagine right that you got a friend name whatever teddy because that's the bear right there you got a friend named teddy female and me and you have an argument because I spent $50 at Lowe's on some tools but you wanted that $50 because you wanted some new makeup right and you get mad about it you go ahead and tell teddy about it you okay you will leave this there go where and spend that money that he knew what to buy this mascara with fuck him I hate him and and teddy's response is yeah girl fuck him I got some niggas that we go talk to right now I understand the third you need to move on and expand your horizons anyway I don't know why you caked up in some marriage mm-hmm what's your response to teddy that's not cool to say in the heat of the moment you telling her all of this stuff about that $50 and that's her response I'm gonna be like nah I'm not gonna do that yeah and ain't that serious right yeah like really but do you continue to hang out with her see that nah because why like you should know me you should know that I love my man and I'm just venting right now I'm mad right now you shouldn't be trying to get me out there you should be like girl that ain't nothing that ain't nothing you know whatever whatever that type of friend you should be around is that is that type of friend you are I stay quiet I let people talk I don't and that is bars ladies and gentlemen this lady would she would one word you to death she would one word you to death bro she's not gonna sometimes I do like sometimes I do I'll say like you just saying that right now you know you love him or I'll say like I hope it works out between y'all too I think y'all should try to work it out or whatever or I'll stay like why do you think he would do something like that or like try to see you know well since I advocate for family and togetherness my first maybe 10 times is gonna be oh wow man let's go work out work out with your girl nigga shut up oh at the 10 you not after if it's a if this is something that you are consistently unhappy and complaining about bro as my bro is gonna start hurting me that you're always hurting right and then you'll be like you need to do what makes you happy yeah not saying out y'all I got some holes for you over here down the block you know I ain't got that but bro I take that break or whatever you need to do right like I don't me personally don't know females that say yo I got another dude no it's more of girl you should do what makes you happy not a I got somebody else for you if it's let's hit the club you know what that means I don't go to the club yeah but you know the you know the club is just a a building for finding some sex that's all that is so if you go through it with your dude and your girl like girl get dressed put on some makeup and let's hit the club that's so you could get around some other niggas that's gonna push up on you and give you some attention that's all that is because unfortunately that's what the club is and that's why when I go to the club I go my lady period that's my best friend we have fun together and it's nothing wrong with that it's nothing wrong with cuffing your chick shorty it's nothing wrong with being up under your man's arm so he could tell people she's ready to go no that's a fact I get tired mad fast yo you don't know how me that is a fact baby you are and who you know any of my homies watches right now I'm about to expose some you know what I'm saying we used to go to a lot of events um because I was in the music industry when I was in uh in Brooklyn New York and we used to go to a lot of events you know mixers and all this other type of stuff I get sleepy you understand I'm saying around 10 o'clock 10 11 o'clock my eyes is like I better spot that time bro so instead of me looking like the party pooper I am I kind of make her look like the party pooper bro I'll go to my friends I'll be painting a picture I'm like yo bro man you know Jelisa trying to go home bro so we're gonna hit the door bro next time we come I'm just leave home bro but Jelisa don't know what's going on I go back to Jelisa like yo you ready to leave she's like already I'm just I'm just getting into it she got a little drink and stuff like already I'm like yeah man it's going back in here let's get up out of I'm tired as hell bro but that's because I know I got to drive home she ain't driving home so I gotta be awake you understand what I'm saying I gotta be awake or to drive home I'm saying but yeah that's my baby though man it's 18 years in the making man how does it feel when you tell people how long you've been together old I feel old for real I feel very old yeah we ain't even old out here though bro like 18 gosh that's a whole adult so let's let's read some of the some of the chats right here the problem is an awareness of emotion for men it's when we let emotion control us yeah hey jg I agree with that anybody not just men like women we need to be in control of how we feel too yeah that's that's true we got another one by two mad with aj demonstrated ability is always more attractive you should just have some standards not go there true not go wait what what it like we when you demonstrate the ability like to say no and stuff like that you know I'm saying just have some standards um guys like the affirmation yes we do like affirmation yo tell me I look good sometimes well tell me I smell good this new deodorant is lit you know I'm saying we'd like that too yeah you know I'm saying like hell yeah we like that affirmation you should say that women who become a wife need to still be his girlfriend a lot of women stop doing those things hmm how you feel about that baby that's hard it's hard but it's true though yeah it can be not just women know us husbands do that too but go ahead yeah it can be true but it's hard like this is why you have to stop being in your own head and think about other people and how they may feel because now I'm a wife so I have more responsibility I'm more tired so I might not be able I have a whole new baby y'all don't understand how tiring that makes you you lose effort it's some it's a certain amount of sleep that you lose and you never get it back so you're constantly tired because you can't make up for the the time when you had to wake up just even the whole labor process right so but then when you're in relationship you do have to make sacrifices so you do have to be able to like suck it up yeah I'm tired right now but I do have to give some attention to my man so yeah I believe that in relationships we go through different stages of course that first stage is that puppy love stage where you want to do everything cute you want to impress this person you're even stepping out of your natural character to impress this person yeah because you was yeah I was completely different cool collected but no I ain't gonna hold you but you bring out the confidence in me no bro I was really I was really a calm cool quiet dude bro I was really that but I thought that girls like the more live why you do bro so I had to become that I became that because I thought that's what girls liked but what it don't matter what girls like it matters what I like if you want me you are girls though but I never I never gave you that that um thing where that no girl does that though no girl comes you say y'all I want you to be a live wire of course not but like you see them gravitate towards I never gave you something to say like yo I want you to be loud and it or like that's just not me yeah I never even been with loud people before you like that's just not what I gravitate towards but that was me not that was me not knowing girls or anything like that's me 16 years old shit get a little shorty I like I'm height but they're not like because you are loud and live and all of that stuff it kind of compliments me because I'm quiet and timid and stuff and that was part of the reason why I was like oh I this is because I'm you growing up with the whole opposites attract which I don't believe opposites do not attract um what scientifically when it comes to bag magnets and atoms yeah I cool fine but when it comes to personalities you have to have a lot in common with someone to have a relationship with them if y'all have too many indifferences your fucking relationship is going to just be a bunch of indifferences that's it you have to have some things in common with this person um there's a lot of times like that movie that movie atl with the homie ti you know i'm saying his big gripe was yo he met this cute girl that he thought was from the hood right so he thought they had something in common they have the similar struggle or this that in the third so I like this girl because she been through some shit that I've been through so she can relate to me you know I'm saying when he found out that she was rich lived in the hills big-ass house nice cars it broke the man down because it wasn't just that she lied it was like yo you probably really don't understand me bro you faking like you you understand me like this is you know I'm saying mm-hmm so when it comes to being opposites I think I think that is more false than true yeah some things you know I'm saying go hand in hand like shorter girls want the taller guys the weaker girl want the stronger dude okay some of those things like that when they come to physics and shit like that but personality I think you have to have more in common yeah or you're gonna be working a lot more and then you you'll start to if you if you want to be in a relationship you'll start to change and compromise and do and then you are not yourself and then you're living a lie of yourself you're not being you're actually who you are right right right right right now that's a fact that's a fact man I hope I hope my boy Allen man is doing good in the back there you know I'm saying I hope that the storm ain't sweeping away man but you know what we are gonna do we are gonna give it up for my boy out one time for the one time yeah oh yeah we hear you brother we hear you we hear you what's up what's up bro what's going on I think I figured out what's going on let me try something all right y'all um if there is a an echo let me know in the chat please I think what's happening is for some reason my uh my audio is coming through from y'all's in because I just muted y'all and there's no echo yeah yeah I think the audio yeah there's a reverb thing happening um so yeah so whenever I speak I'll just mute y'all and then I'm gonna unmute y'all we're just gonna do it that way will we be able to hear you though now he's going to mute uh we're talking okay so what's up bro what you got for us man you got you got anything you know I'm saying that you want to chop chop it up bro are there more comments oh yeah this this yeah yeah so um let me see so I I why why you guys were talking I uh start some of the uh comments in the chat so I'll just go through them and have y'all um have y'all respond cool all right all right so jg says love seeing the cooperation sick of the migtail narrative so how do y'all feel about migtail the whole movement of men going their own way okay um I am not on social media I don't keep up with the jonesus um um I do what's good for you I don't know like if you feel like the women that you aren't that you're meeting are not worth your time don't force something that's not going to work for you and if that means going your own way then go your own way until you find that person or you can change up your whole where where you're looking for these people at right change up completely do a whole switch up of or even like if you go change up the type of girl you're going after maybe go after the more quiet shy girl yes or not the girl that's you know got the bbl not even that just like the center of attention when she walks in a room everybody's staring at her aka a bbl because everybody's staying at that booty when she get that bbl and she know where she going to get where she getting that bbl she's getting stairs guys I say this on my podcast everyone doesn't deserve to be in relationships if you are a female that is in attention whore you do not deserve to be in a relationship I think people that deserves to be in relationships are people that's willing to be devoted and committed to one person's attention time energy and sexual needs not not a plethora of instagram followers or tiktokers or whatever you want to call them what's your relationship calls for nah I think that because there's people that's in like troplets and stuff like that I get it and you know we had this conversation before we had this conversation before about like people that's do that do sex work do they deserve relationships I say they deserve to have relationships with people that's doing sex work don't come to a regular dude like me and tell me you want a relationship man and make me have me fall in love with you and then you you you disclose to me two years down the line that you was doing getting crazy on only fans for the past three four years that's not fair to me because you know damn well that a regular dude that's not in sex work is not going to accept that you gotta meet my mom you gotta meet my aunt you gotta meet my you gotta meet my family up front yeah in the beginning but if if if I was in that business too I have no right to judge I'm in I'm there too fucking I might I might accept it right you might understand like how you said you know coming from the same background right I understand exactly exactly exactly how do you feel about men going their own way narrative oh me yeah how you feel about it bro I was talking about you oh I just you you go first cover so about the whole men go their own way um listen man you go your own way you are gonna be on your own you know I'm saying I advocate for togetherness I advocate for family we have too many single-parent homes we have too many fatherless children too many people that should not be having children yes we have too many single marriages people that's in relationships by themselves by them fucking selves yeah they're in these marriages and they don't even have a relationship with their wife they don't even have a relationship with their husband because they that relationship has no togetherness you can't even access this person to stay with the kids you got to contact somebody from outside the house to watch your kids you got a whole husband that lived there with you don't go your own way bro you better devote your life to your family that's what we're here for we're here for family you know so I don't believe in a whole you know men go their own way honestly I've never heard of it but I'm just you know from the acronym right there I'm just putting together what it sounds like and it sounds like yo do do you do your own thing you know but like she said though to each his own you know I'm saying but so Alan what is what exactly does that mean so my understanding of it is like women well basically kind of like y'all said before about nice guys finish and last some men have found that when you focus on women women don't focus on you so my understanding of it is like it's kind of like focus on yourself king right like go your own way find your own reasons find your own motivation because unfortunately a lot of dudes motivations and and sense of self and sense of self-esteem is rooted in there is their ability to get women right so you know I think that's the healthy part of it but I think some of the more unhealthy parts of it are kind of like the the in cell culture of women are the devil and this this and that but I think some some aspects of it especially like you know it all starts with you that that type of concept that stoic you know self-accountability concept I'm all for that all right yeah guys focus on when it comes to the um men go their own way movement from what my boy Alan just said yeah focus on success yeah and yourself bro women are a byproduct of that bro yeah once you become that dude women are going to gravitate towards you bro because there's a lot of guys out there wanting their women to follow them but they have nothing's nothing to follow or no like you don't have anything to follow how can you expect for a female to follow you if you're not going anywhere so you need to have that set up yeah true true true yeah focus yeah focus on becoming the best man you can be you got to be a productive product to society you know I'm saying when you pass away what are you going to be remembered for bagging bitches that's it bro that's it that that's what made you a man you was able to bag bitches nah bro all right let go down caring cancer or something something that helped humanity right right right all right so I got this other one from mr s dot web he says before technology of 2000s era cable internet etc spouses would play board games cars dominos and wives came to husbands with something sexy on lingerie heels the works and get our attention what do y'all thoughts on that we love playing speed we love it we play taboo we love game nights with other couples or whatever we love I mean it still happens though the problem with this whole comment is relationships aren't popular today there's not many people in relationship I think people should try it they probably think it's like corny yeah but just try it it's very fun very fun hanging around other couples to bring it up like oh let's play it like with your neighbors yeah I don't know I don't I don't know where you guys be at yeah so like like us we live in a subdivision right if you guys live in a subdivision a little little suburban area whatever have a schedule a little couple's night where three or four couples come over you up might have some drinks play some space some monopoly play a little music you don't even gotta be in a suburb and you don't yeah that's what I'm saying because I'm saying it might be a little difficult if they like in the projects or something like that you're not gonna go to auntie surely house and play games all the time that's a fact hey bro yo yo um that's that that joint still happens bro but the thing is marriage and and relationships just aren't popular because people are just fucking people that's it it's just it's a whole sex culture now it's like more buns is getting thrown around and ever before now bro now the the second part about the laundry and stuff you gotta yeah it's not it would be nice to do that but in your right because of technology it makes more women are self-conscious of how they look and it's like if my man is scrolling watching all these fine ass bitches and looking low like this for me to put on something I'm not gonna look as good as them like what why would he care like that you know like because I could unconscious thing but let me let me let me let me elaborate on that though ladies you're heard what you listen to sound right feeling like the difference is I know I get it baby but the difference is those are scrolls I can grab this booty right here boo that's the difference I can't have those girls I don't want those girls I'll say that but when you fantasize when you look at like and I've heard you say like you look at the girl and guys think oh I imagine I can't I want to imagine how it feels to be with this or to fuck it or whatever so that's what how y'all think so it's not I wouldn't say to to smash you might want to see how the booty the booty moves listen listen listen listen listen but you literally said I wonder how that will feel like not you personally but like other men yeah right that listen ladies and gentlemen the booty the gluteus maximus oh that's true lingerie do get in the way the booty is a very sexy part of the female body men like to look at it when it walks past in Walmart when it sits down in church we'd like to see it that's it that's it a lot of guys chase it they want to make it jiggle they want to make it wiggle there's guys that do that but for the guys in relationships that has that woman there on the scroll by yo that that's a nice looking booty double tap or not even probably double it's probably a keep scrolling he is the devil but guess what I can't have that booty I don't that's not my booty that's my booty right there that's the difference I'm grabbing this booty right here that's why you don't have to feel so self-conscious about it you don't have to because I'm with you yeah we all gotta work on that just like that that's like me feeling a certain type of way because you scroll by and see somebody with a Lamborghini he made more money than me I gotta be self-conscious about that no you ain't riding his whip you in my whip you feel me let's get to the next let's get to the next one bro yes sir yes sir all right so double also said lingerie just gets in the way um let's see so uh steward d night he says good to hear a couple that meld with each other so I mean I think a good follow-up question for each of you individually how have you made it work for this long convo how have you made it work for this long gelisa um what made it work for me um you know how um when a person is deprived of something they don't want like their kids or something like that to be deprived of it like that's how I am I never had I never had the the whole family dynamic you know I'm saying it but I'm when I'm married with when I'm with my woman I'm not just with her I'm also with my kids you understand I'm saying so that's what helps me you know I'm saying stay motivated instead and I love my wife to death like this is my I'll jump in front of a bullet for her a train a boat or whatever I love her like this is my this is my bestie and that's that's also was there I'm not ashamed to admit that my my feelings is on the line my heart is on the line with her when I'm in the streets though I'm tough with everybody you know I'm saying she get that soft aside that's it just like with me I get that super submissive whatever the case may be with her when she's on the street she's not a a super crazy dominant t-rex you know I'm saying masculine woman but I get a different gelisa than the world gets she gets a different convo than the world she don't even get convo she gets jimmy you understand I'm saying so that's that's what keeps me going I love I love my family I love my wife I love my kids and I think that they're a total package so yeah well what keep me going is because he said so because of what because I said so yeah when I always want to leave you you'd be like no I'm not gonna leave and you bring me back to reality like you're crazy so I just listen to what he's saying you know what you're right he's like I know you better I know you okay fine I'll listen to you whatever yeah yeah I get that yeah I do I do do a lot of put but you know that's he knows me so like when I'm in my crazy moments I know he he wants the best for me and he's looking out for my best interests and I trust him so I'm like okay fine I'll I gotta listen to what my man says because he he knows and I love him and he still makes me laugh and he still turns me on you know all the all those things that's supposed to be in a relationship is still there definitely still turn if it wasn't if it wasn't that's real that's real that was a good question though I've never been asked that question right there so I got another one from essay and he says I mean I'm sorry es died he says good guys don't finish last they just weren't aware of what they their worth was they figure it out in time same with women do away with the nice person finishes last sometimes you got to lose to win what do y'all thoughts on that dawn the market for you bro um they just weren't aware of their worth what they worth was uh I kind of agree but bro good people do finish last man like it's how many stories have you heard where you got the good you got the good guy throughout high school or something like that all of the basketball players or the football players were smashing all the girls the good bad pretty too ugly they was getting all the girls right but the guy that was focused on chemistry and making sure his essays was right and all his commas and stuff was there and dense you know got that focused on school or whatever or better than himself he didn't really get that attention from the girls that he was attracted to now now granted he might have been attracted to the wrong type of girls but he should have been after the ones that was doing the same thing that was doing the same thing but that's where we both make those miss the that good girl finish last too you know I'm saying so it takes time for us to mature and go through things and realize damn that was the wrong move for us to make and that's why it's up to OGs like us right now to educate the youth like yo don't go after that that girl that's seeking all the attention or that guy that's talking to all of the girls or this that the third we gotta tell you we gotta bone these kids on how to move so that they don't be that good person that's finishing last we would want the good people to finish first you know I'm saying because by time that that good person gets older now they got a plethora of damaged goods that they gotta just settle for now everybody really loses at the end because you had those girls that was you know they was they wanted to get white they were supposed to get wiped up by somebody earlier but they done used all the day youth and beauty and fertility to somebody that didn't even deserve it you know I'm saying and then the guy that does deserve it he gets you last if he gotta take care of you and somebody else's kids now and it's not fair to him because he was your dream guy you was you just you was living a nightmare thinking it was a dream how you feel about it though um yeah I do think that they um just didn't realize they're they're worth um because if you do then you move differently you won't put yourself in situations that will harm you or you know um be detrimental to your your wealth and uh not your wealth your well-being sorry um what else you say you said sometimes you gotta lose to win which is a great way to to end up to um to close out that uh that that um comment and that's true that's true bro you won't learn but that's that is the the that you know that is the reality of good people finishing last they're losing before they win yeah right you know I'm saying so and and lately we we have shit bro we just gotta go through it you know because and honestly with this as long as you win though you win because look the people that was living all that fast life they lost because at the end of the day they by themselves and nobody want to be with them but where does the good guy where does the good guy win at you win because you get that person well it says like I mean if you won you won if you feel like you won then you won nobody should determine that for you it's what you feel now you got a girl that got some kids or you know been through some shit but she's treating you like a fucking king you won right yeah yeah but it's hard when it when it comes when kids are involved and a lot of a lot of a lot of the good guys finish last thing is guys like my dad you know saying I got with a woman with children already that you have to be a step dad too you know I'm saying and that's that's where it's dangerous for the man because I go a lot I don't think I'll be able to be a stand-up dude like my dad was and take care of some other man's children but then again but like I said if you feel like you won if you want to be with those kids and love those kids that's your family you feel that way then you won like these are my kids like yeah I get it I get it but good guys definitely finish last bro good girls definitely finish last there's no getting away there's no getting around it just in life as human beings we're not born with all of the wisdom in the world we gotta go through that bullshit yeah then finally realize at the end of the road unfortunately that's how it goes um if we want to make it better it's up to the og's it's up to those adults to really mold these children better now of course granted these children don't fucking listen they don't listen bro you could tell them everything great in the world they still gonna want to walk their own path but it's still us to do our due diligence to plant the seed maybe that plant won't sprout early but it's going sprout and hopefully it sprouts before they don't damage themselves too much you know I'm saying yeah how you feel about that brody what's up how are you at with it I'm here I'm here now I mean I've talked about this in a few of my streams like making a distinction between nice guys and and good men and and kind of like the whole mixtail concept earlier I think the difference is women tend to gravitate towards men who prioritize some kind of higher principle like it seems to be the case whenever you make a woman your priority she deprioritizes you right so I think that's where the nice guys mess up because when a woman is constantly seeing you compromise yourself compromise your integrity your principles in service of her she's going to lose respect for you because she can't follow somebody following her you feel me that's deep and that's true that's true and honestly I'm gonna give a I'm gonna give an example I've experienced that with my baby she might not want to admit it but I've experienced it with my baby before so I'll give you out this little quick story right when we were back home and you know she was in school for to go to school for her profession I'm not gonna disclose that um there was a point in time where I wasn't too busy you know and what did that drive me to do it drove me it drove me to want to know where she at and you know I'm saying what you're eating for lunch and all it is paying too much attention to her opposed to me leveling up I'm my attention was just on her you know and it turns off she's like bro you gotta get busy like you you you track in my location you're doing all the all the unnecessary stuff you strut yourself out bro you gotta get this ain't this ain't attractive you know I'm saying and then I had to really step back and realize like damn I am tripping I'm focusing on this girl way too much I'm not even focusing on myself I'm sitting here in this bed focusing on what she's doing what what classroom is she going to next you know I'm saying and it was a turn off for us so that is that is completely true yeah I see what you're saying um on my side of that it was like we had we had a goal we had this goal set and I'm doing things to get to that goal but you weren't and it was frustrating like oh come on right right and that that says right to what um Alan just said like if you're not working towards the goal and you're just focusing on the girl unattracted unattracted all right so we got another comment from JT he says random thought it only takes 10 to 20 of the population to make significant changes MLK only had support from 15 of the black community most thought he was troubled so basically like what what are y'all's thoughts on marriage in the black community and how can we get it to a place where the concept is popular and we can like you know we we we can make that the precedent of the paradigm instead of what we're doing currently when we were talking about the other comment I thought about this too I'm like we say that good people finish last but I feel like a lot of people don't talk about it like people that were in those situations and did finish first and have they good person off rip you know people don't really talk about it we we need to talk more about the positive things because we only hear negative everybody's going to think it's just negative there's no positive why should I even try right we need to televised the good yeah um a step in that right direction um since podcasts are blowing up the way they are we need more positive married couple podcasts people gotta be stop being afraid to be in love stop it stop being afraid to be in love it's nothing wrong with that and I guess people might feel like they if they express that then they corny or they like um I don't know listen a lot of men struggle with that um honestly I've only had two guys that I know personally that has came to me and said yo I really love my girl bro I really love her you know I'm saying only two dudes it's okay to love your shorty openly and public publicly love your girl that's the only way we're gonna make it popular if you are open with it you can't just love your girl in your house and then when you outside you some oh man I don't care what she say and when you run home baby you know I love I missed you all day no bro tell your tell your homies yo look I gotta yo like a spot a mother go home and eat dinner with my baby with my with my wife oh bro are you always running back because that's my wife bro that's my wife bro that's why you gotta stand up to your gods that's trying to talk you out of it make you feel corny you got to that whole narrative girls have up now like oh you gotta use them for what they got girls could be a player to all that stuff oh my god like stop please we need to show more because these girls young girls are listening to you guys and you're not being a good representative knowing damn well you be booed up with your man in the corner that's a fact and our music too we gotta we gotta we gotta stop popularizing all of this hate music this is hate music for each other we got these hot girls some what the fuck is a hot girl summer bro what is that that is horrible a hot girl summer literally means to be a thought for summer why are we popularizing that you understand I'm saying who was the last representation of a wife in the music industry we don't hear we don't hear about this it's not entertaining to people having a family isn't entertaining yeah the biggest way to do it even with the males they don't do it either music is just not a representation of relationships because what it used to be though men used to sing to their women yeah you know i'm saying and and really you know tell them they love them and stuff like that like lute lute of andros days back in the day i mean i was about 40 50 years we don't hear that but i'm saying to bring that back but look families was way stronger back then there was way more people married back then and you know i i hear some women in the comments and some are content that say yeah you know women were married more back then but they weren't happy but they were fucking married they still had a family life ain't all about smiling all the time and being life is hard bro and a lot of us are depressed nobody's gonna be a hundred percent happy now that's not it's not ever gonna happen bro so i'm trying to chase happiness man and chase what makes sense it makes sense that you gotta you you you having children bro if you're gonna have a child with somebody ladies if you're gonna have a child with a dude you better think about having a family with him why would you the the moment that you you have a child with somebody and say oh well i'm not gonna make it work because i'm gonna go to somebody else you have initially broken up a family there's too many broken up families if we're gonna lay down to have babies with people you have to make it work with that person bro or you gotta fucking you gotta put the all the condoms on you can because you gotta protect that child you gotta protect a potential family that you don't want to be in bro yep i think we should like um that the 100 thing that you're doing i think more of those things need to be around the country and pop up and we advertise those and push those things more positive things and we'll get that 10 to 20 percent of people yeah because we're not far from it if we had if we had what 15 it's not it's not bad like you know what i'm saying but we just got to popularize it man we have the internet the internet runs the world we learned everything from the internet yes you know we have to just put it on we just got to put it out there that's all man change the narrative facts facts facts and that's the goal you know uh we're starting with Atlanta but the goal is to uh you know hit uh houston dallas new york um dc la you know so that's on the way that's on the way this first one just gotta go off go off the right way though but uh jg says ks used to say that a that a woman who becomes a wife needs to still be his girlfriend a lot of women stop doing those things what are y'all's thoughts on that we kind of talked about that with the other now that that was when i read i had read that comment oh earlier we touched on that let's go to the next one we have we have um commented on that one already god got you got you got you all right so let's see red pill top gun this will be the last one he says the men lack sexual morality as well they realize women won't want men with experience and don't know how to stop when a good woman that isn't a how comes that isn't a whole comes in front of them thoughts okay so men lack sexual morality as well um yes i kind of agree yeah uh they realize women want men with experience and don't know how to stop when a good woman that isn't a whole comes in front of them um that's because good women and hoes look just alike they talk alike walk alike dress alike smell alike and they eat alike and they dance alike so it's very hard for us to differentiate who do we treat like our queen to be um i talked about this excuse me i'm sorry guys i just want to make sure that the stream is always looking good put that back up there i talked about this um a couple of weeks ago with my cousin and um i told them there was an analogy that i seen on tiktok that said um if i see 10 lions 10 lionesses or whatever right running towards me right in reality nine of those lionesses will eat the shit out of me but there's one of those lionesses that don't want to eat humans they only want to eat what's in the wilderness i am not going to be able to differentiate what lion that is or if those lions have different motors if they're all in the same pack surrounded by each other i'm gonna assume that every lion over there wants to eat humans they want to eat me so ladies if you want to be treated or respected or look valued differently from these hoes you got to stay away from them you got to stop talking like them you got to stop dressing like them stop dancing like them stop going to the same venues they at stop being around them stop advocating for them and their and their behaviors you have to separate yourself that would be the only way men would be able to value you differently trust me when a man sees a woman that's dressed in a certain way we judge you off the rip if i can see them titties boy i'm thinking sexually are you off the rip because you sexualize yourself first i can't sexualize you without you doing it now there's some creeps out there yeah or whatever but in general in general women sexualize themselves first and then men follow suit how you feel better i don't feel that way but okay um i mean so to the comment they do they just have to be able to see the good woman if you and if you want to be with her you have to make those sacrifices and realize like okay i got my experience i got what i wanted now in this girl i gotta stop i gotta slow down if she's worth it you just have to have that um what's that word um i can't even think it but when it comes to that what i find real interesting about this comment is men lack sexual morality sexual morality i watched this um last night i watched this on podcast and there was like a lady that she's just studied the art of sex right and she was telling she was telling the panel she was like yo look you guys think that having a 10 incher is what's getting us off you know she said it's really the g-spot is like right and two inches if even that inside up top she said really live does it really matter too much it's about the girth right so the one of the panelists was like yo that's crazy because for so many years women have shamed men for having small penises oh get your little dick out of this out of third they'll attack his wages and the sons of his penis that's the two biggest ways to insult a man right so that's why that could be why a man doesn't really sexually know what a woman wants because i don't know because i don't want to know y'all want to pleasure yourselves because if you wanted to know you would ask but not many men are asking how they're not trying to ask how can i make this feel good for you or what do you like they don't ask those questions they all i care about is day night true i can't i can't i can't argue that you know i'm saying but for her to say that you can you can get by with a three incher just aim up yeah i was like what the hell and that's the thing what you said is um how they splurred out oh you got a little dick or whatever they're doing that literally to insult you that's it that's it yeah yeah yeah and and if you you probably wasn't doing it right right right right right right right that's real that's real but yeah that that was just an interesting conversation they had i was like damn bro like this whole time niggas niggas out here getting lengthy fucking surgeries bdls you don't need it you know i'm saying guys don't let a woman shame you on your man parts you know i'm saying half the time they ask you to have a woman's body half the time they ask you to have a ruler and all they could take bro is is probably this much you know i'm saying like a lesbian maybe how to like ask somebody that knows how to please a woman not another man they don't know i know how to please my woman i don't know what she's talking about you see she said early he's still terming i know how i know how to do the pleasing you know i'm saying and it ain't about to tease hey listen listen listen i appreciate y'all i appreciate y'all listen um tell tell the people about you know what we have planned for next week um and what they can expect from tuning into uh you guys you guys is we need to talk take over if we need to talk all right all right so ladies and gentlemen ladies and gentlemen let's give it up one time one time for the one time for my boy allen on the we need to talk show because we gave us an awesome proposition ladies and gentlemen so starting this wednesday we will be taking over the platform with a live show for you guys um we will be bringing you more content similar to tonight where we have a bunch of advice random conversation just a good time you know i'm saying expect for us to have maybe some guests come through on the panel or maybe up here on the FaceTime or Zoom call um and we even people that's uh tuned in now we would like to have you guys part of the show if you would like to if you would want to be part of the show one of these days you can email us an inquiry at wnttmail at gmail.com and we will feature you on an episode live on youtube on the platform so just expect some more conversations like this we maybe do it live some days we might do a prerecording it doesn't matter but you will be seeing us every wednesday right here on the we need to talk platform right baby yes you got some advice for the ladies when you come through with it you got some balls for them i'll try but yeah man um big shout out to you al bro for giving us this opportunity man um we super super duper grateful you know i'm saying for you considering us and um for you rocking with us bro like you know i'm saying that's love bro forever thank you i appreciate y'all man thank y'all so much thank y'all so much and a round of applause again for convoy and to lisa thank y'all so much thank y'all so much um so like they said make sure to tune in next wednesday um they'll be taken over the stream um if you have marriage questions if you have uh questions for them individually questions for them collectively make sure you're here uh next wednesday do you guys have a time in mind yet yet um we would try to shoot for around this time um right eight o'clock you know i'm saying to say right around the same time that we shot for this stream um yeah right around the same time eight o'clock eight o'clock wednesday perfect perfect yeah i appreciate y'all thank y'all again another round of applause for the lovely couple thank y'all thank y'all thank y'all um yeah uh again thank you all for tuning in uh thank you guys for joining us again next wednesday they will be back here so watch this back if watch you know their episodes back if there's anything that you want to follow up with make sure you tune in next wednesday at eight o'clock again thank y'all both um any last words before i close this out hey thank you guys in the comments thank you for commenting yeah thanks for the participation man like just stay tuned stay tuned for wednesday um you guys could follow us on instagram at uh we need dot the number two talk um you know comment on some of the look look at some of the content we have up there if you guys have any questions comments or concerns about that and when we tune in they let us know we'll be able to run through these chats and um you know i'm saying engage with you guys a little more and um thanks for the support man you know i'm saying shaboy convo again thank you thank you all thank uh our guests um oh yeah i missed a super chat from 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