 Life is complex and we humans make it more complex through our choices and decisions, actions and inactions. Most times, we invest so much energy on the things that we should ignore and disregard the essential things which we are supposed to exercise energy on. This attitude tends to cause us to be unhappy and frustrated in life. Hence, this article seeks to unearth various attitudes that you portray which are not worth it in life. If you are an entrepreneur or an ambitious person, we especially invite you to join our motivational channel which was designed to give you daily inspirations so that you will have the strength to pursue and achieve your most important dreams. We call this channel Hunt TV and you can join in the description box. 1. Malice and Grudge Getting angry is a normal part of life. Even arguments are bound to occur amongst individuals. However, quarrels that lead to holding grudges and keeping malice are not worth it. As much as you can, avoid holding grudges because apart from making your heart heavy, grudges and malice tend to drastically affect your psychological, mental and physical health as well as your productivity. A study by the American Heart Association revealed that high levels of anger might increase the risk of coronary heart disease. Life is too short to spend it keeping malice. Your health is too precious to be wrecked by grudges. 2. Hating on people Envy and jealousy is one trait that is inherent in all humans. The fact that you feel those emotions sometimes does not make you a bad person. However, you must endeavor to keep a clean heart and shake them off so that you do not transcend to the feeling of bitterness. Although these emotions may be seen as unhealthy, still, they could be channeled into positive views like self-check and hard work instead of hatred. On the other hand, some people even go as far as killing their fellow humans just because of jealousy but come to think of it, is whatever you are jealous or envious about or hating on someone else, are there no better ways to express these emotions than hate? 3. Material Things The want for material things is something deeply engraved in our hearts as every one of us, no matter how much we have, will always want more. It is a famous saying that, the want of man is insatiable. However, some people are overboard with this and doing human things for their unnecessary cravings. The wise king Solomon of old was not wrong when he said that everything in life is vanity and will one day fade away. The only thing that lasts in the end is our soul. So think about it, are the vain things of life worth more than the purity of the soul which will not pass away? Many people do not think about these things before they indulge in various despicable acts in their quest for material things. 4. Fake Living The emergence of the internet and social media has given rise to fake living and deception. Many people parade themselves to be who they are not just to meet up with the lifestyle and lives of those they see online. Some go as far as denying their family and humble background. Others indulge in fraudulent and contemptible activities such as boring clothes, cyber begging and even taking photos with other people's properties just to show off. That is why Mayum Absam advised, don't trust everything you see, even salt looks like sugar. But then again, the truth stands firm that in the end, life is not worth the pretence and lies. 5. Fighting with Family Members Over Late Parents Be Quitter In the quest for materialism, fame, etc., many people get involved in uncultured acts, one of which is fighting with their family members and close folks. There are countless stories of the children and extended members of many rich people who have died, taking themselves to courts and having physical combat just for the sake of the money that their father left behind. This attitude is one that is not worth it in life. Relationships broken may never be restored. However, material things can be recovered a hundred more times. The next time you are in a position to break a relationship because of money or fame, do well to ask yourself, is it worth it? 6. Running Others Down Most times, to massage our ego, we tend to bruise other people's own. Nonetheless, you must not bring people low so that you can feel good. Most times, the reason you pick on others unnecessarily is that you are insecure and have low self-esteem. But then, for you to have a healthy esteem, you must as much as you can refrain from bashing other people. Running others down for your selfishness and egotism is not a worthy act to do in life. Furthermore, lambasting others just for falling or castigating them behind their back is also not worth it in life. Hence, if you have issues with a person's character, you should learn to always sort it out without castigating or bruising egos. 7. Putting Others In A Position To Make Unnecessary Decisions Ever imagine being put in a position to choose between your lover and your best friend, your best friend of over a decade and your lover whom you intend to share the rest of your life with? Well, that's exactly how it feels like to deliberately put people in a tight spot where they have to make tough choices. Anytime you are tempted to make heartbreaking demands from people, think of the scenario described above and ask yourself, is it worth it? 8. Deferred In Others For Your Gain A man steps in a store to get an article. He knows the amount with which the item is sold and has enough money for it. But because the seller stepped out for a while living only her 7-year-old in the store, the man decides to trick the young child into giving the article for a ridiculous amount. He walks away feeling like he was smart and had saved up extra cash. But then again, is it worth it? Is it enough to deceive others for your selfish interest? Deferred in other people for your gain may seem like a smart move to you, but really, it is not a proper action to take people for granted just because they seem vulnerable to you. 9. Revenge If you truly understand the concept of revenge to justice, you will find that revenge is a futile act. In revenge, nobody learns anything. The perpetrator is giving reasons to rationalize their actions and also made to see the one who revenges as a bad person as well. One very powerful quote by Martin Luther King Jr. is that, an eye for an eye leaves everybody blind. What is the gain in life if everyone becomes blind? 10. Paying Less Attention To Your Health Because Of Your Job Mahatma Gandhi once said, It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver. Most times, we focus more on busy schedules that we do not even take out time to consider our physical state. Chasing riches at the expense of your well-being is a risk in life that is not worth taking. This is because the repercussions of such an attitude most times are heavy to bear. As you may lose all the riches that you have been trying to gather to drugs and medications. 11. Living In Regrets As long as you cannot change the experience of your past, then you are not supposed to wallow in self-pity. Regret is something we all experience once in a while when we make certain mistakes. Nevertheless, you cannot change situations that have already occurred and so you ought not to dwell on the regrets. You need every mental proudness within you to focus on the present and create a better future. Hence, regret is not worth your energy. 12. Trying To Force Yourself On Someone Have you ever been in a situation where you admire someone and you do all you can to be close yet the person's attitude towards you is repulsive. Most times, you even go as far as stalking the person and trying to know the person's likes and dislikes so that you can be perfect for them. Also, though it is not out of place to want to be close to someone, trying to force them into liking you is not worth it. Always be yourself. Let people like you for who you are. 13. Trying To Get Over A Failed Relationship With The Use Of Addictive It is distressing when you get hurt by someone you love, but it is more devastating when a person you love walks out of your life. In such situations, letting go and moving on is usually a tough thing to do. Thus, many people, especially young people, resort to the use of addictive substances such as hard drugs, alcohol, marijuana, and even sleeping pills amongst others. But the truth is that the pang of a failed relationship is not worth your getting addicted to other substances. It is only by letting go, you will be able to heal genuinely. If you take a closer look at the things mentioned, you will notice that most of them are either directly or indirectly in relation with other people. Therefore, before you carry out any action, always remember to ask yourself, are they the people who are making me carry out this action worth it? And just before you go, watch other videos on YouTube. If you are an entrepreneur or an ambitious person, we invite you to join our motivational channel. The objective of the channel is to give you daily inspiration so that you will have the strength to pursue and achieve your most important dreams. We call this channel Hunt's TV and you can join in the description box. We love you.