 Not gonna lie. I put off reading this book for ages because it's massive and as a dyslexic, autistic, time-poor person it was intimidating, but it was totally worth the time it took to read. Every chapter is written by a different person and the contributors list is a who's who of people I admire. There's something to learn from every chapter and a real variety of perspectives including education, social care, emergency services and families. Some chapters stood out for me. If you're going to dip a toe in the water by reading three, I'd recommend. Show me you know me, which is about exclusion, what leads to it and some practical steps for avoiding it. Warrior mothers and fathers, which gives a fresh perspective on working with difficult parents. As someone who's been that parent, I felt very seen by this chapter and the serious business of play, which explores the necessity of playtime and alternatives to the traditional punishments of withholding play from the children who need it the most. This book is a great springboard that will inform your thinking about your square pegs and help you to develop a transformative to-do list.