 Hi there, lovers! This video is a follow-up to a massively successful video on this channel, Women Who Love Casual Sex. Now, obviously, there was a massive missing voice in the piece of that puzzle, which is the male perspective, and that's what we're fixing today with a video all about men who love casual sex. As a guy, if you want to have sex with a girl again, if I masturbate before I'm about to go see you, if I still want to see you after I masturbate, then right, right, right, so I still want to go. Like, it's deeper than that, so I guess I'm waiting for that feeling. We're gonna have sex for as long as I want to have sex with you, and if you don't want to have sex with me anymore before I don't want to have sex with you, then you can stop. We can stop whenever we want to stop. If we want to go hang out, we can hang out. If we don't want to hang out, we don't. You know what I mean? Like, it's just straight up, you know? And if it goes further than that, like, I might marry you, but I'm probably not. It's like, I'll say that, I'll say that, but I'm serious, though. Like, I probably won't. It's like 99% possible, but that 1% is what makes him like, I'm gonna fuck this guy. What is a good casual sex experience from start to finish? I don't know. There's so many. Just name and how you define sex. My name is Steph Achao, and sex is when a penis goes into vagina, and you know, handles it. My name is Jer Brady, and sex is creation. That was such a very anatomically incorrect answer, Steph, and we'll get to that later. My name is Dwayne Mooney, and sex is life. My name is Jordan Joseph, and I believe sex is the physical intimacy of two beings. Would you guys, is there a differentiation between sex and casual sex, in terms of how you define it for yourself or how you experience it? I think that when you're casually having sex, you're going in to get something, and you're out, so it's casual. Well, what my feeling is, is like in life, like, you don't know what's gonna happen in the next minute, you know what I mean? Like, I could just slap Jared in the face in a minute, and we will forget that, I said this, and I'll do it. No, I won't, but I'm fine. But, we never know what's gonna happen in the next moment, so what I said to you is like, look, it's not casual, it's not not casual, it's not anything. It's just, we're gonna have sex tonight, and then tomorrow, if we both don't die, and if we both have free time, we could have sex again. And then the next day, unless I don't move to Texas on some business shit, you know what I mean? Like, we'll have sex again. And that's why life really pans out. That's the way it really actually goes down, because you don't know what the fuck is gonna happen tomorrow. So, that's why I live my life. I'm just extending it to you, girl. For me, you know, me being a Tatra master. Yes. Kamasutra. Thank you for the eye contact while saying that. Yes. It's the eyelashes. Well, pretty much so. So, yeah, yeah, I'm, I'm, I'm ejaculation control, and so even if I'm having casual sex, it's for, for the healing and empowerment. So if I just meet you, and we have a vibe, and we have sex, it's going to be very enriching. And I'm there to help change the quality of life. Because once we have sex, sex won't be the same. So because I'm, I'm gonna make sure you're gonna have multiple orgasms. And some women have never had orgasms. Some women have not had clitorial orgasm. I only have clitorial orgasms. So I make sure that I teach a woman how to have whole body orgasms. So for me, it's very enriching, even if it's casual. So, but if it's more long term, what usually happens when I have sex with somebody, it turns into a long term relationship, even if it's every now and then, it's consistent because of the quality of the exchange. So I don't think it gets cheap and unless you go into it feeling like, like as a woman, you will go into it feeling like, oh, I'm about to let him fuck. Like, you never want to feel like that. You should go in feeling like, oh, I'm about to give it to him. And he's, I'm going to get mine. And I guarantee you he's going to get his. That's how you should feel because I'm going to feel the same way. The only time I have a one night stand is if I'm drunk. I have many, I've had many sloppy little tucker roos, sloppy tucker roos. I have had a few of those like nice little connection. We're both like really out to please the other. But I've had many where I'm just like laying back. It's bad, but I'm growing out of it. What's funny is when you ask all these questions, it's funny. I feel like everyone in here has had, you know, quite a bit of sex with different partners, but people like in men in general have not. You know what I mean? The average amount of women that men have sex with in their lifetime, I read this on a magazine on your table. It's five to seven women. There's a lot of sex to have. You just. Yeah, I think. Is there no stigma? Is there nothing that prevents you or makes you feel guilty as a man for saying? I think, I think that it would be from if you're, I think that would be if you're like he was saying like a younger mentality. I think that if you're mature enough to have casual sex or to say that you have casual sex and not just have sex with one and then go have sex with others. If you're respectful enough to say, Hey, I'm down to have casual sex with you. That doesn't mean I'm going to have exclusive sex with you. And so if you're a man enough to say that to a woman, I don't think that the man is feeling like he's cheapening his self. I think that he's more like, I'm just going to be honest with you because I've hurt women in the past. You know, I think women should be held to the same standard. I don't think we should be held to the women's standard of like being like, Oh, not on the first day. I think that we should, let's raise the women up to, yeah, fuck on the first day. Men, we are, we're 50% of everyone. We should already be like, yeah, no, change the stigma. All men, we're good. Women can fuck on the first day. It's not a whole thing to do. It's cool. So I'm curious to know if there isn't a stigma that men feel towards having casual sex. Why do so many men lie about it and try and pretend that it's something more than it's not? So it's the same with women. Why we lie to them are because when I was younger, why I would do it because you think that's what they want to hear. And if I'm telling, if I'm playing the knight in shining armor, I am your hero, you want your hero to be pure. So I'm going to come off like the best representation of the fantasy that you want, because it's going to turn you on, it's going to make you fall in love with me, and it's going to make you very hot for me. So that's why I lie to you. It's really, I'm really trying to hypnotize you. I'm not really lying to you. I'm telling you what you want to hear. If I thought you wanted to hear, hey, I've had, I just had sex last night, I would tell you if that's going to open you up and get you hot. So that is just the way this society is built through the movies, through TV, you want that knight in shining armor. Exactly. And I figured out that that shit is shit. Like women doesn't want what I'm sorry. The I'm just I'm what I'm trying to say is, is that hullabaloo about everyone wants the white knight and all that and the fantasy of the love and the romance from a man to a woman all that. Man, I don't mess with that at all. Like, I got to this. Yeah, but I don't believe that at all. You are just a human like and I'm just a human and like, look, and I explain it like I'm always one I'll tell you upfront all the things you don't want to hear right now because you want to hear them. You actually do want to hear them. You know what I mean? You actually respect me at the end of it, even though no one tells you this in life that I'm like, Hey, look, listen, we're gonna have sex for as long as I want to have sex with you. And if you don't want to have sex with me anymore before I don't want to have sex with you, then you can stop. We can stop whenever we want to stop. If we want to go hang out, we can hang out. If we don't want to hang out, we don't. You know what I mean? Like, it's just straight up, you know? And if it goes further than that, like, I might marry you, but I'm probably not. It's like, I'll say that I'll say that, but I'm serious. They're like, I probably won't. It's like 99% possible. But that 1% is what makes them like, I'm gonna fuck this guy. And so you got to leave the 1% because you get fucked. But I'm sorry, you're gonna have sex. I'm swearing because of the fact that they want experience. Because they want the lie. Yeah. Well, I don't think, well, when you're in a, whether it's a nightclub, you walking down the street or in an app or any aspect, I don't think for guys or girls that the person that is the knight in shining armor, as you called for men, I feel like most women don't even want that until they reach a certain age. And I feel like most men will walk into a club or down the street and you're going to look at the girl with the shortest dress and the highest heels or something like that before you look at the woman that's fully covered up could have amazing sex and amazing body. And, and everything you might want after sex. But and so I think that being the knight in shining armor or being the Mary Magdalene, I don't think that it plays the part that we would think because I loving sex and sometimes having the image of a bad boy, I, most people wouldn't go in and most women looking me one way. And then five minutes into discussion, I'm like, Oh, well, damn, he not even the bad boy that I thought which I was going to take home and give some or whatever. You know what I'm saying? So I think it's, it's actually the opposite of that. Wow. That's deep. I mean, I think it's per person. I think that's where the, the, the, the real like started the discussion will be is like, what is intent? Like, what is your intent? What do you want? And what do I want? If we want the same thing, then we can continue. You know what I'm saying? Because like we started off with casual sex. So it's like, but all of us, we're always up front with our intent from the gate. You know what I mean? Before it was just, look, this is where we are. This is where it is. And that's where I, that's where we fit. And then as things grew, that's, you know, then we're here at this place. But I think that if everything is intent and everything is honesty, you know, from the moment when you put your motives out there, even being honest when your motives change. And I want to talk about the honesty because there are a lot of people who fear the honesty because they won't get the immediate outcome that they want. As people who have experience, maybe have traveled in line at some point, what would be like the warning you would issue out to somebody? Honesty is the only way for a man to behave outside of integrity. Yeah. You can have sex. No, I mean, I think, I think, I think that, you know, after you get older enough, or you get older, you start to realize that there is a lot of fish in the sea. So being lying about it, you're not getting what you actually want. When you're honest, you might catch the fish that wants the same thing and then you feel whole. Exactly. Yeah. And she might get that feeling like, oh, finally, someone who wants to do the same thing I'm doing is not a pussy. You know what I'm saying? Like, I'm sorry. Then you have to ask the woman, like, at what point does she do something to even get the honesty without trying to like trap him or use sex or or build a relationship from that? So if you felt like the man was lying, like, what did you do about it? Did you still go home with him that night and have sex? Or if you felt a different vibe? Like, I mean, did you go in for pleasure to get your casual sex and then go home after or like after y'all have the sex? Now you're going to question him about a million things or feel like he's lying to you about something. So when you look at the progress of sex or where it's going, or even as somebody, you know, who's been sexual for some time, has it improved? Has it improved for women pleasure wise and also? Definitely. So I feel like the expression has definitely changed and we reached another evolution of sexuality. Again, it's just that the empowerment is not catching up. But that's coming because there's a new age of of just because of the openness of sexuality and women know they can have orgasms. Now they're expecting it in the bedroom. Which is great. You know what I'm saying? Because a lot of times women used to what's that now now they're expecting it. And like, if you don't give them an orgasm, you got about two weeks to figure it out. So I think that's a good change that men have to step up in their sexual game. What is a good casual sex experience from start to finish? I don't know. There's so many. Here's one. Casual sex with a stripper was interesting. That's interesting, because I had a getting a lap dance from a stripper. And because when I'm dealing with a stripper, I again, you know, they deal with random dudes. So anytime I go to a strip club when I used to go, I used to go like I'm going out on a date. You know what I'm saying? Because because they're not they're not used to that. So I'm like, I'm going there to romance you. Right. So I get with a stripper. Literally, I'll get her in the room. And she will literally lose time where it's like, which is going on and on because she's going into orgasmic bliss. And I had a stripper actually put my penis in her vagina, right? And didn't charge me for it. And literally, this fellow's this woman literally was having orgasms every 10 seconds. I don't mean just I'm talking about like like, I felt like I was in an ocean. That's how much was it's like a volcano just erupting every 10 seconds. I have never she was sexual. No, I mean, she knew what she was doing when she jumped up there. So that that was the most amazing casual sex I have ever experienced. What makes casual sex good after the sex? Like when the it's no longer physical, when people are out and not worried about it. When it's just a freedom, you don't even have to you know, I just think of freedom after sex is liberating. It's freedom anyway. So when we could just like, you don't have to ask me nothing. You don't have to say so you don't call me like there's nothing. It's just a freedom. Y'all could laugh, joke. We could, you know, pop tires, coffee, whatever. And then just go about your day. And if I see you again somewhere or if I decide to get your number, then I think that that makes it amazing. Like not only did we have an amazing night, we have fun. I have fun with my homies wherever I was. Great sex. And then like you cool to like, I think that's what makes it, you know, it will make me want to possibly see you again. Like I want to run into you again. You know what I'm saying? You know, he just said something that's very important. This is, this is what makes casual sex what you just said fun after the fact when you're like this, when you're both smiling. It's a joy. Rather if you speak it or not. And every time, well not every time, most of the time whenever I had casual sex, that's the feeling. And it goes with what you said because of the honesty, the conversation. So what's the hang up? It's like, you know where I'm at? I'm going to my other woman or I'm doing whatever I'm doing it. Like you had a boyfriend, whatever. This was just the moment we all knew this. And it was good. Do you think that sex or an amazing sexual experience can change your mind about the relationship? So if you went into it originally and thought to yourself, I'm already have a, you know, emotional partner, I already have a partner for this. Can an amazing sexual experience adjust your emotional response to somebody? I'm going to go, I'm going to go with no because I've had really incredible sexual partners that I didn't develop relationships with. And so for me, I think I'm really mentally stimulated. So we get each other on a mental standpoint, then that's where the relationship starts for me. You know, sex is sex. And I don't equate that to relationship or love for some reason. And I could be doing it wrong, but it's worked best that way for me. And of course, when I love somebody, then the sex is better. You know what I mean? But at the same time, sex does not equal love. I think people confuse casual sex with a lot of sex. It's not a lot of sex. Casual sex is I'm choosing the right partners that I want to choose that is healthy for me. Well, to the point I do want to talk about safe sex. How do you prioritize safety in your sex life? Safe sex is important. I think safe sex is important no matter if it's casual or not. You know, I think it's just always using a condom and condoms, they protect a lot. So if you're going to have sex, you're putting yourself up for risk for pregnancy or risk catching a disease. And I think even every three months is a good meter stick to get tested every three months. Just get tested even if you only have one sexual partner because people lie.