 usipaw. Nami amir ni litoka kwa yoha, o mi na ishiku obina? Ya Ona, na, that's why most of the time utani onakou obina, you'll see my kids there. Nini mi ran, I'm just looking for? Nini, for peace. Apovo ukenda o masu jawa po injajawa. They know my car. They don't even charge me parking. They know, they don't even disturb me. They know I'm sleeping. Mila lisha kiti, ninalala. Ya Teza de butita, butita told. Ata butita ni me lalakwa ke. Nambia butita knows ni me lalakwa butita. I think butita na, butita Felix Omondi na Obina, those people na fanu asaide kuli pa rent. Ya, many house man say, and I pay rent tattoo, nali pa rent tattoo, yangu ya buda na ya bro, no na. So, siya ti na shindo kuli pa nyumba, mati jini mi fungi wa nyumba. We are not in the era where nili kwa na fungi wa gwa nyumba, no na. So, there's a day, night tumetokashu na butita po namba seven, I think it was the roast of, I don't know if the roast of ya langor abel mutua. So, amia tumetulia na butita, then kaniambe ah, which I end the home. So, amia tutabonga kiesho, kaniambe afika home po aso mi nika ingi apotu kwenye gari angunu kwanwe pak. Nika ingi kwa gari na apondo nili lalakwa, apondo nili lalakwa. So, butita calls me in the morning, amia, ei manze mi mindi yo, manze usingizi lini nitu kwa pa. So, I just had to lie to him, manze nili dozofa pakwa gari apa kwa packing kwenye lini achatunduni kwa badu. Ya, so, my car's never been clamped in town, ya, they know, they know I park in specific places that they know this guy goes through a lot, manze. What's up, guys? Welcome to SPM Buzz. My good name is Miss Kithingi. Thank you so much, guys, for joining us. And if you haven't subscribed, please make sure you do before we continue. Kindly do subscribe. Nakupia time to subscribe. Hit that subscribe button. Alright, thank you so much. Aya, sawa basi. Eh, guys, right here, I'm in Kitangela. It's very early in the morning, nili bidi nimi rauka, nimi kujakuona, the one and only comedian and YouTuber, Tumbele. I believe we all have seen him on Instagram, we have seen a conversation that has been going on and we are here to talk about it today. So, here is Tumbele. Tumbele niyadze? Pwasana inakwa agi. Inakwa fiti. Sana sijuka matume kwa misha maulu kwa usha amuka? Ni miyadze kablo kwa muka. Ileta imu nenda kwa muka, ndomi nenda kwa lal. Allah? Lagi nza su na amuka sangapi? Kwa muka? I just sleep for 2 hours or 3 hours. During the day, but I sleep while working. Yes. Tumbele, 2 hours inato shakuli akula la fatig? No, no, no. I think my body operates differently. Yes. Fatig ni... Maybe I get fatigue maybe at the end of the day yaw kumushumumumshu na feeling yda feeling. Kwa sabile uzit, wawte mwakam zima sasa niyo na ifilsasa. Izi ni manenu manenu zama genius ni ni ni ama? Ah, zizi zi. Mi una jwa, actually, ilinianza kitambosana wena uzin high school sikwana nenda kwa kula lalalai. Kwa trona kujiaizo, ilikwanya tohaje preps wana pata badu mi na... wana toka, ili ya usiku ili kuwa ni tuwaji? Ili ya... nidona wana Preps eh? Preps ili kuwa asubu ya ma ya usiku. Okay, at that time when people are going to sleep, wana ishia, wana rudi, wana npata kuwa, viletu ni li kuwa. Ya, so sleep ni kitu, ni wikwana weakness ya kulala sana for a very long time, even in high schools kwa na lala, campus kwa na lala. But ni kiki decide ku lala mi u lala, kama ni kani me dead ya ni. Ato ni dunke na kiss waji, ni siye zifil. Well, kini nye we kama u lali for all that long, clearly. Ah ya, basi, sowa guys, baby, this is the time you posted to us, you posted on social media, great, za kwa za high school, zili kuwa za ukulia manza wongu, e umu se li kuachu. Pi, e, e, e, e? People don't believe that I taught maths while in Fonfo, the whole Silabasia Fonfo, I taught the whole Silabasia Fonfo when I was in Fonfo, kwa we never, in our stream, we had the, I think three streams, we never, in our stream we never had our maths teacher coming to class. A liquid kukuja class, ye tu kufuza maths when we were in Fom 3 tam 3. So, we took in here from Fonfo, not any maths teacher wanted to come and teach us. So maths class was a free lesson, you can go back to sleep, you can go for PE. Yo, wei, kiki ya kani kani to flal. So, tutaka control. So, wakatiwa maths, ilikwa you can do anything, muneza unda groups muka, muka ni ni, muka pita kwa yuma, mama. So, it was a free class. So, me ni kadisai digi, I told my dad, because ilikwa na, na interestana, na science and maths, I told my dad what was happening, he bought me some revision materials, he saw my texts and fixes with absote. So, I used to teach myself maths, then during maths class na funza wei niwa na dai. It was the, I think it was the hardest class ever ni nishiai wei na ya maths. Kwa sabu, ilikwa na wasewa na ongewa na pigatu storiesao, za ball, ilikwa na wasewa na pigatu storiesao, then kuna maybe a few wei ni sasa wana concentrate. So, it was very hard. I think the people watching wua in our school wana is a test to that. And in our stream we had e, eplens na neza maths na e na neza maths. And the funny thing, I have never said this anywhere. The funny thing, it's always painful to me that my brother also got the E, one of the E's is a maths. Kwa ni sasa wendu, ilikwa jinsu zote zaya sabu tumbili? It was hard, I don't know. I've never said it anyway I've never told anyone this. Only me and my bro and the classmates know. My big bro. Yes. So, because mbuku ilikwa wema mkata atu. He got an E plane. Me ni kaget E plane ya maths. Ya, I tried the way I could. I tried. He was one of those people wana fokus, but I think wuna neza fokus na maindi ya kwa ikwa po. Nikweli plus I feel like also I think ma sumupi ni ikwa genetics tukama hai ikwa kwa kwa ikwa. No, for me you see when I joined high school I used to fail maths. I used to fail maths. Nili kwa na pata below average. But one thing came to my mind when I, okay I'm a genius yes, but I was not passing maths. I was below average. So I found out it's all about attitude. When you have a positive attitude to a subject or anything you will have it. When you have a negative attitude towards something you will never get it. Attitude towards the subject attitude towards the teacher if you don't like the teacher never expect to pass the subject. So mi li bidi ni gifos ni pende mualimu na ni pende yopu subject. Let me tell you at a primary school my first I used to fail composition kwa sabu I never like the English teacher. But the moment ni kaji fos ni kaza kumpenda ku interact naeni ni I wrote a composition which was the best li pata 37 out of 40 37 out of 40 composition. Ya. So my English right now can't match kwa sabu na jua writing is different from from speaking. That's why you see the people in the coast nobody has ever passed kiswaili kiswaili was so passed but the best in kiswaili is maybe this size of Nyanza. kwa sabu the way we speak is not the way we write. Ya ya ya. Mombasa people write the way they speak which is not the right kiswaili ebana we ni lingi yam ni kaji pata ni mi mi and that's why they are never the best in kiswaili. That's something I actually didn't know. Okay now guys let me give you a back story of course on where we are here and I'm sure you're waiting for that now like two days ago there was this story that was posted up by the kiswaili presenter Oga Obina in regards to Tumbili and it was a case of baby mama assaulting Tumbili and it was just a conversation that has raised so much reaction on social media and it was a video that was posted on Obina's pages on social media whereby Tumbili was assaulted he was bleeding it was quite graphic to be honest and we just wanted to come here and talk to Tumbili just see how he's doing and just get his side of the story on what exactly has been going on. So Tumbili, tuwanzetu na kukuliza how are you feeling emotionally physically you know una filaje? Physically this is how I am still having some dance Jan and Menda will see for some check up kidogo because you know when you look at someone you never know they are fine physically like physically if I look at you now you are not dentiote but maybe inside kitu me kugonga ni kama kuchunua kuna kichunua kuna ga makinabaki but kuna uchungu so kichua kidogo as you can see here we had some some cut kuna dipa pa we've seen people saying you know yo damu yote kwa ni I match the the dents this is the whole body na kwa gana damu so damu ina tokaga ina tokagi ina tokana dani and here in the place it was pressure it was jetting out so right now I can say with the meds na tumia I am going unwell emotionally I don't know I am feeling emotionally I think I just have a problem of not focusing on what is going on that's why you see all this has been happening for a very long time and it took someone like Obina to expose it out there otherwise kwa ni mimi still right now kwa ni kwa na shoot celebrity kwa ni nili kwa miena kwa shoot because still you see that thing happened and I was still out there doing my stuff emotionally I don't know how I am feeling maybe just to answer I mean that says a lot the fact that you just can't explain how you are feeling but I am just hoping you know it will get better with time so I think please if I remember well there is a time last year you posted something to do with the violence and then I don't know kama uli toa alafu uli se matuki dogo alafu katoa I think I remember in my Instagram story I am one person who doesn't communicate directly kwa sabu you know sometimes you must una kwa kiaful kozuen I always like I don't communicate direct even if I am telling you that I was beaten like the interview that Kibbe was playing from radio maisha I talked about it and the presenter the presenter kulemo na they are my neighbors by the way so I don't communicate direct so as I talk about being beaten by a woman kama ni na jamama ni me fiumi ni yama sura i me kunjika always I say with so much confidence design ikitunu kuelia ma ni kiki kwa sabu when I told kwa radio maisha ja na ni me piguakofi ja na ni me vali wa proper they never believed it and that's what Kibbe played I saw Kibbe alimaj the two videos where the first question was una bebi mamuangapi and I answered Sina Eote that was the start of the conversation but the whole interview kwa ni nizao kunaile umse aneza kuliza because they know you because these people the presenters they know me they know I have kids they know I have a baby mama so wakani cimba proper so kabili ni kwa ambia atajana so it's something that has been happening nili post palikwa status and that was the first time I think Obina reacted by coming to my house sikwana isiapa I left that house I left that house you can see this this is a new house me kwa pa four months I'm just trying to kui weka weka though sikutaka kwekani because every time we get something vita ikitokia properties angundu onekana yahazi na pasuliwa the coffee table and everything the television so I posted it I never removed it because it's a 24 hour thing it was stories Obina came katukai shachini first she was not there kaitua kakam Obina is the one who called her kakam kwa hau we sat down tuka ongea Obina told us yaw kilam se ayande andiki she has a statement kwa police she refused me I went to the police station we wrote a statement we were given an OB I went to Kapitri she was called to the police station pakaka block police akandikua message she ran away she was tracked alitrakiwa and her phone was traced in some place in Mudamako she went with the kids and she came back after four months the kids never went to school which it costed me a lot to make the kids be upright emotionally physically kwa me isha you see their health they are trying to catch up I spent a lot of money a lot of time a lot of efforts I had already took this house but it was later I decided to take the house and try to get the kids to get what they need and I was there with them I was there with them I tried to get the kids to see what they need and check up it wasn't easy I think we have seen videos with you guys there in the studio I saw people I have seen people others saying I am never there for my kids and I have seen a lot of people recording on Instagram and here the thing is I can't even talk about my kids but my kids can talk about themselves and me and the family but I don't want them to talk but they can talk these kids you see they can talk but how long have you been with your baby mama because you said this has been happening for a long time did it start back in the days or is it too juicy so we first got our first kid in 2016 but I think we met 2 years back 2014 when I was in campus she used to visit me in campus she was this nice lady I was doing what I'm doing now and it's the source of everything art is what has been feeding me is what has been feeding my family is what has been paying my school fees and any other bill that I pay look yote na pigatakani bwak ni amani art but I was doing science in campus so normally answer I think 2017 yeah 2017 where tumili is I'm a gykuroisha independently I'm one person who has tried to fit in some space but the spaces were against me I've tried so many stages but the stages were against me so if Kamali I don't want to depend on anyone so I was creating my own platforms I was struggling I was struggling trying to make people want to leave you a check so sometimes you are hosting a ladies night at work competition then you have to do your best you have to do your best you have to do your best you have to do your best something that used to happen but me do na kwa mbia kwa sabunilkwan toka club sa kumi na indana freshen up na toka class cos I was doing science so kulu kwa na labs sometimes you have a lab up to 7 p.m. a ma 6 a ma 5 na toka 5 p.m. na indana freshen up na india club tena used to host for Fredumondi and sometimes na jifanya ma shozangu ma dem ladies night sometimes the birthdays parties these are clubs, whatever was happening in the clubs una pata foto si me toka jas de fotografa kwa stage kuna dema na kurombo seha na wew na hype yo kiva ma sana so she used to be jealous with that mbaka e kafikamali I did it doing club shows because of her nimeru ditu nilihacha kabi sa nilihacha nilihacha I can say I was one of the best comedians for club kuchekesha mlevi kwa club not every comedian would do it I used to see we used to invite them just for numbers to send me to anani atakuwa pa leo people come see them but they used to do nothing this is when you end up to control everything so Ika bidi nimi wewacha so time by day I have never said this nilihikamali the toxicity li kwa li kwa jusana I think in 2018 nilihime zaga I took a poison nilihime zaga poison clearly you were suicidal at that time no you know me akuna kitu wanga inani I don't know about I'm never emotional lamani ni sinaga feelings so I just took it sayo tini li kwa suicidal lamani ni mi nge kwa sayo suicidal nge kwa saisi kwa pa kwa I've gone through shit I've gone through everything that someone can go through from pressure pressure dependence I have a million dependence but what I get is not matching to support them like right now I'm just from sending another kid to school she's in foam one another one went yesterday so the pressure in akwa too much you can see even I think my kids are home for them I've decided they will go from next week let me just handle this because I have to make everything stable no I end a shule because waki enda shule I have to pick them but for this one waki enda subui they have to come back in the evening and right now there's no one to to ni need to look after them I'm the one to look after them I have a small kid who can go to take care I'm not a person who supports take care I'm not a person who supports because I'm not a person who supports to take care I'm not a person who support but I have to go and take care to take care of my kids so most of the time I move with my kids now I can drive with them to work like that day I think I'm moving so fast don't you think so no it's okay I'm almost jumping ...jamping to what happened to, what led to why you are here. Okay, lemi ask you to Billy, are you trying to say that now the root of all this, you know, assault ...ni just because of your job, ama kuna shida ingine? It's part of it because this time also I can say it's because of my job, ...but for the longest it's because of my job, of what I do. I even stopped doing comedy because when I crack a joke, a joke about women, ...maybe you talk about kuna matim flan yaw to pay nda yanyun, you get. So ina mwingia. Ana ichikulia, nikama ni kitu reality, nikama reality. It's something like it's happened, you know. So I even stopped doing comedy because of her to some point. I used to do a show called Lift Mpaka Job. People don't know why I stopped doing Lift Mpaka Job. It's because of her. You're carrying so many women in this show. This women like kuna mlevi flan in Libye baga, which people say they scripted. Yaw una udem bora na say matiyo, the chick said, So many things have stopped doing so many many many things. I've dropped so many friends because of her. My siblings don't come to my house. It's problematic. The first time I moved out of a bed-seater was in 2016-17. I moved out of a bed-seater. At that time I was hosting The Little Thola Thola also. The house was crowded. I had my brother, I had a thola, I had a thola's brother. I had a thola's friend who was also his manager. At that time, I had a thola's friend. I had a thola's friend, I had a thola's friend. My girlfriend had a thola's friend. I wanted to stay with my kids. I love kids, I just love kids. Before I had a kid, I had adopted two kids. I've never said this. People don't know how come I have seven kids. That's why we know what we are. But now we don't understand the biological kids. I've never talked about that. I won't talk about it but I have seven kids. Even her, there's a time I adopted another kid. This one I wanted to stay with. I wanted to stay with my kids. I wanted to stay with my kids. I came with a kid to Nairobi. I was with Felix Omondi. I had done a show in Meguri. I came with a kid to my house. I wasn't living here. It was problematic. It was problematic. The following morning, I had to take after that kid. I took after Nikilia. I was in the environment where I was promised to go to school. I was in Nairobi. I didn't know where the kid is. It was problematic. Back to your question. What was I answering? Is that the only issue about your job? The issue is that it's about my job. Mejali is about my job. We do not check it at home. So, from those photos, images, even me just could perform here too. Like here, I visualized after that show. I will go somewhere with them. That's why I don't check it. I'm a liar. Sometimes I put captions. I'm a liar. Now, I have to own it. I own mini-poko. From my last birthday show, I decided to do 20 club shows to celebrate my turning 30 years. I did a couple of shows and people see it at me na jibamba. I have never taken alcohol and I will never. No situation has ever made me. I have been to every situation that could have made me take alcohol. But I always sit at my stand. I had promised myself one of the things when I check it, but I don't know because I don't know when I decide. I don't want my kids to be raised differently. I want my kids, separately, I mean, at ECG, Buddha is happy, mother is happy. Wao, Sijwa is happy. So, it's only one of the things that I know me. From those pictures, na bandikuwa mini-poko, from the last show, I recorded how we entered the club with Obina. There's some chicks, some waiters who came and received us at the reception, at the entrance. All wanna to hug, wanna to hug tight, ni ni ni ni. Ni waita, like there's a chick and it's a... I think the one that people talked about so much is called Mora. I don't have even her contact. But in that show, Obie was not feeling well. He wasn't feeling well, up to now he's not feeling well, ali toka sa tisa, sa nane. Something that Obie doesn't do. After the one for excess, he left the show at 5.30 and by 6, tulukotuna miskiza kua radio. So he, sa nane and it was Friday na kuhil kwa sato the following day. Sijui, kwa sa alitoka sa nane, mimi ni katoka sa tisa and I was here in my house here sleeping, sa tisa. I even left my friends waki jibamba. I left, I left with no one. Ni kakuja, kadoz. Ali kuwa pa, mi by they sleep here. I have these at the bedroom house and here kuspesiake, my kids they own space, mi my space here. Kwa sa bia water has been happening for the longest, you know. Ni letu, I decided let me, kwa sa bini, mua chia spaceiake uko, the other house. Piakona, ali chukuwa, the other of the four months ali chukuwa kejake flani maali, which amekua kini beg up ni mulipie rent atwe vituza ke uko, hazile teapa. So when I came, nilipatao radio, li kwa sha watch that video. So she was just talking, talking vituza ke, kukas kuni ni ni ni ni. Nasa sa anase mautav teka zingime ama anata kaji? Mi, mi yun na jwa mi have tried. Ya, that's why we see Nikanza celebrate. I just took, do you know, let me tell you, people don't know this, but I have so many things that people don't know because me ni muse moja. Even I go through this, I don't tell my parents until they find it themselves. I think I talk to Obina so many times than I talk to my parents. Ya. It will happen, maybe some yemunyendi atanda ambe Buddha, ama ambe heho. Ambe tumili aru di kwa haho. Nona. So Buddha will be like, because me Buddha calls me every day atasai maybe ana ni call my phone is silent. He calls me every day, every day. Every day. So ata ni call and ambe e all along nani ambe kwa haho kumahao. Ambe mi ni litoka kwa yo hao, mi na ishiko Obina. Ya. Nona. That's why most of the time utani onako Obina. We'll see my kids there. Nime ran. I just, I'm just looking for ni ni for peace. Ya. Apovo ukenda o maso jawa poinjia java. They know my car. They don't even charge me packing. They know, I'm sleeping. Me lalisha kiti ni nalala. Ya. There's a day butita. Butita told, ata butita ni me lalakwa ke. Ya. Nami ata butita knows ni me lalakwa butita. I think butita na butita Felix Omondi na Obina. Those people na fanoa saide kuli parent. Ya. Ya. Many house man say ana pay rent tattoo nali parent tattoo. Ya. Yangu ya buda na yaburo. Ya. Nona. So siyati na kuli pa nyumba matizini mi fungi wa nyumba. Ya. We are not in the era ni li kwa na fungi wa gwa nyumba. Nona. Ya. So there's a day, night tumetokashu na butita po number seven. I think it was the roast of I don't know if the roast of ya langor abel mutua. So amia tumetulia na butita. Then kanya mbe ah wacha hende home. So amia eh tutabonga kesho. So kanya mbe wefika home po ah. So mi nika hindi apotu kwenye gari angunu kwenye pak. Nika hindi akwa gari. Napon do nili lala. Ya. Apon do nili lala. So butita calls me in the morning and ambe hei manze mi mindi o manze usingizi li nijuku apa. So I just had to lie to him. Manze nili dozofa pakwa gari apakwa paking kwenye achatun do niko badu. Ya. So my car's never been clamped in town. Ya. They know. They know I park in specific places that they know this guy goes through a lot. Manze. Ya. Now tumbeli you see this assault thing has been going on for. Use malaka like a few times ya. Have you ever reported to the police ama nikitutu nanyama zianga una se ma maybe itaisha. What have you done about it? Ah I'm not a person of letting people to know because I know the Kenyan police. Ya. So most of the time when I go to report I go to report so that she doesn't go and report before me. Okay. Kwa sabu ikai. Mi mindi yo. Kwa sabu I know the impact if she records the statement before me and she will lie. She knows how to lie. Like she knows how to lie yo. She's good at that. Ya. So na una. So on tajendapale the record statement. The other time we went recorded and the police outside yukuta futa. They traced where she was but they never made a move to get to where she was or communicate to the police around that area to try and get her. So most of the time I report even this because I didn't report immediately I reported a day later. Ya. But from what I know she knows she can go to report kwa sabu she knows there are other cases. Nimutu nimembeil out out of police cause of her other problems. Ya. Not with me but with other people. Ya. So it's something that I know she can go to the police station. Ya. Mimunye you asked if I've reported I have so many cases I've reported in the police station. There's no action that has been taken by the police. Kamai Sasaya Juzy. There is one that I think there is one there is one that came I called the GK ataka iwaso aju enikarao but enikarao the comedian GK the comedian GK is Rikal. So he's the guy who I always call he knows maze pakame chokaga GK aki onatu koliangu visatisasa nani usikwana juwaga wiya nauli wa uyu. GK knows by the way GK knows I always call him I always take it as a shortcut to reach the police ataka There is a day he send police to my house polisu alkuja kwenyumbayangu kama that day Sasando juwaga na enda proper. Ya. So it comes poliso kajapale ko hao I wasn't living here I don't know which year poliso katungelesha they wanted to take away but you know sikutaka my kids are sharp actually the reason I wanted the police in my house is just to calm everything down. Ya. So you know when Obina was talking to people on Instagram he said that you know most men don't report because nothing is really done by the government no one is taking care of the boy child do you have the same sentiments now that you know you're in this situation Ya, me atrokin cheki ikiongeliaikitu I could have turned down the interviews but I'm just talking about it for the sake nothing is gonna happen she nothing is gonna happen for real but so many have gone through comments from different platforms in your story me postiwa and I can say men wana piguwa pa inje wana piguwa proper actually wana mwa wana piguwa you can see even from the video I posted of me going for the checkup in the hospital yesterday even the doctor was talking about it haipia mi kwa ki piguwa hali kwa ki piguwa masiji bada na piguwa it's happening so we're talking about it and that's why you see wana piguwa inje wana piguwa let me tell you if I was violent in the first place me there's a way I was raised before I just lived with my mother for 7 years only for 7 years only with my mother and I've my dad is still alive I've not lived with her so much but we communicate every day every day every day I can recall it's not all about him asking for money it's about him instilling knowledge in me I never I never told my dad that I have a woman who we are expecting a baby I never told my dad that I live with a woman I never told my dad that I've moved out of hostel I've never told my dad that I live with a woman I'm a silent person very silent I'll just be silent I'm talkative yes but when I'm talking I'm supposed to talk I'll never talk about me so men out there wanna go through a lot I've gone through the comments the interaction but I'll just be silent because of that one reason I'll just be silent in 2017 2018 I was told that I live with a woman just because I had a whole week booking a whole week booking ya gigs so I said I'll just be silent I'll just be silent I was told that I live with a woman and I was broke I have friends who can even pay my rent but I don't ask money from friends I will tell you I'll just be silent it's reality I'll just be silent but I'll just be silent I'll sleep hungry in my house but I'll just be silent the only people when I'm silent I'll just be silent I'll just be silent it's my dad my mom and my stepmom and my brothers even my youngest brother when I was in school he told me that he was broke he told me that he'll just be silent it's real but I'll just be silent I'll just be silent I'll just be silent I'll just be silent I'll just be silent I'll just be silent I'm still in my house so I'll just be silent I'll just be silent and maybe it's a Monday I'll be back I'll just be silent we'll be silent But to me it was the days people were never crying Even now I'm not crying. I'm just communicating to people. It's a message I'm sending. I'm not crying at in me pigwa na waifama, me pigwa na baby mama and stuff. I'm not crying. People are saying yo, una pigwa jina baby mama, yo I'm not seeing it as a weakness. I'm not crying. I've not cried to anybody. Even my dad saw it on social media and he called me crying. We have a family WhatsApp group. My bro was communicating. He said I'm not crying. I'm not seeing it as a weakness. I'm not seeing it as a weakness. I'm not crying. I'm not crying. They won't help anywhere. I'm not crying. I'm not seeing it as a weakness. I'm not crying. I didn't see it as a weakness. I'm not crying. I'm not crying. I'm not crying. I'm not crying. I won't cry. They let us know they are Salaw azha in difficult times. kama'in bihia kwa tungbili ana klaoutai kwa kwa maho takutu wyo kira t що mote mwio nai mwio? Sharkutani, na mwio ka hwia wati kwa kutu kwa kutu aanimu p Title pado kwa kutu kwa kutu kutu kwa kutu kwa kutu kwa kutu kwa kutu Spread the idea that program is a clown chasing because the parodies are all about what I go through but we can see people before this thing kwa kwa onguja ni Ni go mama Ni go mama, lakini saizu Ni kitawa sai Oh, we can listen to the song about what I go through But I can't release it I even heard a song, like, okay let me just have projects This is the right time that I can release. Ni kwa na celebrize. Mi li tatu zi ni mi edit, ziko to ready. If I just release them, people will say, ah, kumpe. Then again, coincidence piyani, I had a previous day before this thing happened. Amma, was it... Ya, after me being beaten, the last one, after me being beaten, ah, ah, inapen, already had, ni li kwa na mi panga, that, ah, istori li apen lini Friday, Satu. Satu li li kwa na mi panga, ni tatu, ni ni. It was on Sunday. Was it Sunday? Today is Tuesday. Ya, so Sunday, today is Wednesday. So Sunday, I had planned for a, for a small party with friends, had been organized a party to celebrate my YouTube silver plate. Yes, yes, yes. I couldn't cancel it. I turned up with my pain and my dense zote without any last applause. No, me, you, me, I don't care. See, I didn't have any feature, no cap, no shades, no mask. Ni li turn up for that party. Though I turned up late, but they were waiting for me at carnival. The video is out there, I posted it. So ni li release yu video, maybe people would have said, yo, kumeli kwa cloud chasing ya, ya ni ni, ya, but ni li kwa ni shaa pigwa, but video, story aiko mi wa fiki ya badu ni ni. But obina had it, so obina li release after already. Sherei li kwa shaa pigwa. So waliwa na sema ni cloud chasing, mi by the, I have scripted so many ni clouds here in 254. Sinnezaji undi ya mi mi piya. I have scripted so many of them, which am juwagi, but ni kitakatu ni jyundi e desa ii. Nita jyundi e tu. Ninge ifa ni kitambosa na una. Okay. Now, tumbil, no gender-based violence is a very sensitive conversation and topic. And in your case, your kids are involved. They, I believe they know, they have seen and clearly they also have things to say. So, what are your thoughts about now, the kids are involved? Because I've seen people in the comments section na kwa miya usi e kwa usi e kwa usi ungeze wa toto kwa isi story, ondoa wa toto, seza ume pangaji wewe? Nambu one thing, I've never wanted my kids to be involved in this thing. No matter when we're talking about this here, I have to excuse them. Yeah. Mi mi nimze, like I've gone through a lot in front of my kids. Kutukanua. Even when I see kuna mvrutano like that day, before things heated up, I had to force my kids to end up here, kwa bedrumia wa lale. Nuna. And it happens every time. Like, aki ni kultu iwi anze kuni tukana, na naji wa tuyo kwa pei always, na katanga sayi. Nambu one thing, atapigatana. Nambu one thing, kutuketu inja mwende kwa balkoni tuonge. You are in the mood to insult me, go to the balkoni. She doesn't want that. You feel poor, sana bedakini tukana bale wa tuwi. She will call me those names. She will tell my kids how I am this prostitute. She will tell my kids how I am this. How I am this. How I am this. How I am this. How I am this. How I am this. How I am this. How I have this woman, this kind of woman, onyeshia paka picha. Nuna wiyuni dadi. Nuna wiyuni dadi. Nuna babaen wiyu. And sometimes in enda gampaka to the extent, eku kaisawatu ichi niwa mbe wile misi budayao. Nuna. Which maybe I have never had any problem with that. If my kids are being told I am not their father, is their mother who knows the real father? The real father. Maybe budayao real mtust! ZombiechRo And when you find all of them they're my kids, want no behave as if they're not mine. They'll still remain people that I'll support. I'll pay their fees. I'll pay their rent I'm allowed, you know, I want to allow them what they say in the name of what they do and what they say to Buddha, yeah. So everything by their weakness, my weakness, kidnapaswa siskei, my weakness are my kids, yeah, my kids. Man say if you just, I don't even listen to my parents when it comes to my kids. Yo sigi, leta watu iya pa, leta watu kuangu a Buddha, oh my kids, my kids, my kids. I was taken to the children's court during the four months as she was not there and the officer uttered something that ilifanya nika fium, nika change yata, the way I was responding to them. He was saying my kids wa pere kwe children's home if we cannot hear issues, yeah, yeah, yeah. Kama bhe cheki Buddha, wewe. I saw you posted one of your kids the other day. What are the kids saying because they look like, you know, they are informed and do they know what's going on? One thing I must appreciate God is he gave me kids with brain from the youngest to the eldest, kids with the brains. But they just behave like me. Nita nyama zapo, ujifanya mujinga, onajie dunia nujifanya fala, when the place is. So, not in a negative way as you get to nyama zupi kwa manini, but nyama zatu utanga mani na watu upate, you know. So, my kids, atu ki cheki that video, I had to record it to ask him again. When we are not in front of the camera, my kids are lively, they are so lively, they talk a lot, what I reveal everything. So, I'm like, yo, ulukuna se majie, because now I've turned on the camera, kuna vituali se ma off the camera, which now I feel like, ziku, nafazikwe kwa, kwa camera apa, no na. So, I'm like, yo, ulukuna se majie, no na. Kuna taha ingine, I did, ulukuna se majie atu muliambi wajie, then tuliambi watu sikutu naongi na watu uto ubina. Namunataka kuongi na ho, hei atutunataka kwen doko sayu, no na. So, I'm like, yo, vitu ni mingi, vitu ni mingi. From me, kwa kuna ubina, it's a problem. Kwa kuna ubina ni ya many change, I wasn't like that. Pesai many change, I wasn't like that. Misiyoni difference ya do, kwanza sayatanda usina do. Sayi beti, lemi tellu, I don't have money now. I have to go out there to record a video ndo, siji niwa wativi, bob-bob-bub-zango, siji 30 bob, 40 bob villi zina ingiwa kwa YouTube. I was to get gigs like all in iti yanga gig, I knew you, the first day I saw you, ulkume twitia gigi na utulotul, and it was a lot of money, you know. So, those days we were getting money from comedy shows, you know. Watu wa kwa na tujuwa, but the people who used to know me, wal kwa na ni tia gigs, big gigs, from paka inji ya inchi, nimenda na kido kama mani jawango zambia, I'll say the country have gone to South Africa, America, Australia, UK ni mi ni mua visa, those days I was getting money. Nona, sii kwa na isi iwi kubatisha kama sayi. So, sir, to billi, tricky question, given a chance, because clearly it looks like your job is the problem here, given a chance, would you choose your marriage to your job? Which one would you go for? My job any day, kwa sabun kiangali ya, marriage is not paying me. I'm not being paid for being married. Then there's nowhere that is written that I'm married. Ya, it's just the kids who want to get married to me, to me wa na ma to me olewa, you know. So the thing is, mimi, from, I'm dropping everything, from marriage, I'm focusing on my job, because let me tell you baby, I have no job, but they are jobless, but I always go out there to hustle. I hustle hard because right now, I know that person will go and hire some incomplete building, nipige picha apoka na jifanya na angali ya ukarafu, na irobe gosi for tokenoa same, to billi building his mansion. I don't do that. So, I'm currently building a home for my family, for my mum, which is really, really, really draining so much money from me. My two kids are joining a new school, they are joining a new school because we are in kindergarten, we are in pp1, pp1. So we are primary, we are grade one. And it's a lot of money from uniform to their transport to their admission to everything. It's a lot of money. I have four kids, four siblings in high school. There's two when you're in school, Fizao in full, the others when you're a stepmother, when you're in halfs. I have a brother in college, he and Diana Nyangali, I don't pay his fees, but he is a kukua kwa kwa, I don't pay his fees. So clearly there is a lot to be taken care of. I have my eldest brother, I have a job. Okay, we always have this problem of living beyond our means. So, I can say maybe my elder brother is that kind of a person. So most of the time I pay my salary, I pay my salary, and I pay my rent. So, for the rest of the month, mendo lazima nipigyesimu, nikam through for him, for things to do with transport to his workplace, fare, nini, food. Araguna time mame fungiwakeja me kujapa na familiar ya ke, and it was a big problem. Al kujan familiar, he was living, mimi am one person who is always accommodating anyone. Ataku japa, nimambere ho kamin lala, he lived in my house for a whole week with the wife and kids, and the food they were eating, everything. And that time, the reason why I was living here is because at that time, baby mama yukua me ishia. Ame fanyamambu ya ke kama kawa me ishia. And you know, coincidence, ni, the day, the day, alipanga kuru di, mame brother's wife alimpigyesimu, akamuliza, hei, no me kawi aku tutembelea, una tutembelea lini. Let me tell you, let me tell you, kumbe alibu kwenji anakuja. So we kufika, anapata wa watu. Nia. Hapa. Na watya skewa me kua kishi, hapa for a whole week. It was a problem, ali watu kana pundani, it was chaos. Nia yukua usiku. It was at night. You can feel, they felt like kuhenda, siju wa laleinge that night. I had to hustle ni wa lipie. We lenda, that the following morning rauka, sijin ni kenda wapi, I did some assignment somewhere, then kuna wasetuna kwa gani me okole ya wuku inje inje, they owe me a lot of money. So kapi getu moji akibati ya kani, kani lipa. Ni kama biya bro, shika i doende li pekeji ya kumane. They had to go and sleep. So it was a problem. For sure. Ya, it was a problem. So we have, ya, I have, she has a problem with my family, she has a problem with me, she has a problem with how I live, she has a problem with my workmates. Let me tell you, he, this one, this one, this one let me just say, kus manze, mi ni mehaki wa, watu ni mehaki usiwa ni me lalana oni wengi. Uli za ubiata kwa mbiya, ubi like the things we've, we've, we've, to me hide vitu ni me nyama za nasu oni mob. Like, mi e kandu, like if I give you an hour interview, it's not enough. Yes. Ya, I have to, to do a documentary series to say what I'm going through. Ya. Clearly umeka piti ya. Na sugamami, sndo anani leya. And I'm like, yo, kama ni kona sugamami, sndo anani leya, na tunakuleo do na vere. Why should I, mi ni malaya, na li, yo. Na sasa tu kemalizia tumbili, what are your plans? Because clearly it's been happening, it's been happening, na tunajua pe agenda best violence, iso assaulti ni ni aziendangi, does not end well. What are your plans? My plans, my plans is walking away, not even walking. It's printing, it's printing, it's printing away. Uh to, I don't know if it's getting a, because you know, me moving, from even moving from itengela, it's so costly, but it a bidi, because I have to move the kids out of, to get the kids another school to to wear. Okay, they are, they are supposed to join another school, so it's me looking for another school elsewhere, na ni to move again. No, to move out again. Yeah, to move out again. Okay. Iko sawa Basi. Nimona Obina Alisema, you know he's starting a board that is going to be addressing the boy child issues and more or less, you know, gender best violence. I believe you're going to be part of that, but even before you guys begin that it looks like you're doing, I believe you're doing just okay, you're trying to take it as it comes. Please encourage someone else who is going through the same thing. Nimona Obina Alisema, he knows so many celebrities that are going through that same thing, but they don't talk, yeah? Encourage them. We get calls, we get calls with obese. Sometimes we are just in a sitting even. Yes. We are sitting with some celebrities, manzei, kila mutu ananzaku funguka. Yeah. Celebrities that you can't even, sasa wacha na natumbili anapigua. Kuna celebrity flani, if I just happen to even mention his name, people will, will confirm this is cloud chasing. What? Ule mse anapigua proper. Eh. Na, eh, if ukyangaliya, is what you say me in my body, me, will yanguni ndogo. Yes. So, here ya nimukuwa. Eh, oh na se mani niwawe. Tochanzaku guest, Majina Tumbiliu, kise maivi. Maybe Alisha Slim, Alisha Slim musiku maybe. Okay. So, eh, people are going through this. Yeah. And eh, I do want to talk it at because Obi pushed me. He has been pushing me for the longest. Yes. I think he has been pushing me from day one we started working with Obina. We were, this thing, the kufungu kailiyans when we were driving in, in some, we were driving from Narok, for a show with Jalango and, and Obina. Obina was the one driving. Jalas was there back left apple. Mia was seated, co-driver seat. Yes. So, tulkotuna piga story, mueshalu kwa gamaikapo nyuma na lala, baka mueshali ya muka. And you can notice that's the same, same day, the following day, Obina wali fanya bonga na Jalas because of this talk. Yes. Because of this conversation. Yeah. We were, like you can imagine a conversation that started from Narok, baka na Nairobi, baka tukapak maali Nairobi badutuna piga story. You can imagine. Yes. Obina na rusha na rusha, Obina na rusha na rusha, baka hiwi Jalakwami lalanga hiwi kwa baka left ya ke kwa gari flani s-class flani, hiwi baka kwa munga kwa hiwi. Yeah. Hiwi sasa tu skeze. What are you saying you guys? Is this what you go through? Conversation. Yes. As soon as possible. Noona. And that's when the following day, it was supposed to be like a week's time wakuna conversation but I think it was burning mueshandani. Yeah. A kama kukulko obi kama mii. Yo, can we do this tomorrow? Yeah. So are you encouraging people to speak up in case they are going through the same thing? Guys come out and speak. I know 99 percent you won't get help but to some point you will need at least your address so that we see what we can do. Yeah. Yeah. Me personally, I can say I'm already helped already but someone who is going through and I go through the same thing out there we've seen a few boys coming for toxic girlfriend kwa nani. Toxic boyfriend kwa obina sure but piwa na unge na woga. You know they are not saying what it is atakuna mungine ali kampa le wafiya kenikarao mazi ana pigu apropa na karao. I don't know kama end yo karao kama li kwa na pigu na karao there's a episode out there but people need to come out and and talk yeah what wanna wawa yeah what wanna wawa. So atumbili asante sana for you know just talking to us explaining to us what has been going on and I really pray and hope that you're going to get a solution to this once and for all and I'm also praying for your kids because that trauma and emotional torture sio kitukidoga especially because they are very young so I'm just hoping watakua sawa. Atakua pelika America watulia tulia atilista kiliau ita ikaisa. Kwa kuna passport tumbili. See him wakatu. That's what they want. That's what they want. Yeah yeah but they are okay he plani we working on that. Okay. Yeah. Let them get it. Why what's idea itu wakue sawa. All right. Sawa sawa. Thank you so much for coming. Yes. Yeah yeah yeah. Sawa tumbili. We have tea here. Tea needs to be made. It needs to be made Lisa to make tea. All right guys I don't know what are your thoughts about this conversation that we've just had with tumbili. Leave a comment down below. Do you have any encourage in words to tumbili and the likes of him who are going through gender based violence. Let us know are you encouraging men to speak up. Personally I am encouraging men to speak up because I feel it's off. Solved you know if you speak up that's a problem have solved. Speak up. We also reassiji kwa muwanaume uta kufa kamauna kwa muwanaume. Don't agree to that. I mean look at tumbili. Is it just fine and he has spoken up. But in case you're not able to get yourself a friend like Oga Obina who is going to do it on your behalf so that you can get justice. But we hope tumbili gets his justice. We've had his story. Leave a comment down below. 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