 Team I want to tell you guys how hard in the pain I went for you I was invited to YouTube black, which if you saw it on Twitter was a conference of some of the best YouTubers who are black if you didn't put the two together and what was really cool about it is in the last sex talk video I did with Cleo Thomas I asked you guys Who do you want me to interview next about sex and you guys said three youtubers mist it got jokes T-pindle and the hodge twins and it so turns out that all these people were at the conference And so if it wasn't for you guys, I honestly Wouldn't have done the interviews because did nobody else I mean nobody else brought a tripod and their full-ass camera. Everyone else is like, no, I'm just I'm here for the Experience. I'm just here to like, you know, I don't really want to work right now And I'm like no bitch. I came to work I approached the hodge twins first of all and didn't have one coherent sentence like Hodge twins sex channel and they said yes Let me know in the comment section below from other races Who do you want to see interviewed? Please continue to push me to be stronger and to get more interviews and to ask more people and to broaden the Conversation because the work that we're doing together is important and I value the role that you guys play in that So that being said let's talk about that baby Let's talk about you at me. Let's talk about all the good things and I'm happy I feel like we're about to have sex No, I am so nervous. I'm not gonna put my finger up your butt Oh boy Shannon's Shana Lord, you know what's so interesting is that my channel is mostly women and you watch And I bring on men because I'm like I always have women talking about sex. It's always a female perspective, right? But all the women don't want to talk about sex and this YouTube conference All right, so I'm here with road to Hollywood the only one that matters That's nice for those of my brothers But you are the one like Mom is the most sexually experienced. Oh Make sense to have you here. Whoa This is serious. Oh My god, this makes me feel awkward because it's like, you know, I'm still like in that in that aspect Even though obviously I have a daughter and they the cats of the bag, right? And announcing that was so embarrassing for me because then I knew that my parents knew even though I was like, how old was I? 2027 I was still embarrassed Yeah, but I feel like I you know I'm still like a kid when I in relation to my parents and just talking about sex and stuff is not something that Kids do and for some reason I in the mind mindset. I'm still like want to be an innocent kid for whatever reason When did you lose your virginity? Things you don't really think about like the kind of sex you're having and what it says about the state of your mind I think it's really easy for people to be like, oh change the diet Go for runs, you know, what are you reading? But it's also how are you connecting to people and is it healthy actually had an ex who was the first person to be like You're so disconnected, but I never really understood like even the concept of connection and And what that really said about me and my personal fears with connecting and I guess I had developed this wall that It's cute at first because you're just like, oh, I know I don't have like I do what I want and I have fun sex But it was actually me in blocking Being hurt. I also blocked being in love You come from your parents to make it to make it yard. Okay, so Jamaican Upbring is one of two things either. Yeah, I must get pump on my my you and I get pump on yet. Yeah dog. I'm trying, right? Yeah, you're my you're like, yo, yo, Michael. Yo, we must get near some pump Yeah, so but it never happened. It's just after high school. I was like, you know what? This is it. I'm just my time is it quantity or is it quality that makes sex worth having quality? Quality quality quality The quantity is this Yo, it's not the same when you have that quality. There's nothing about a girl a woman that you could like she has a mind of her own She's It's something about it. Like you get to know her and like You just you just you go in a different space when you have sex with it It's a different feeling. We you know, I've dated Felipe in high school It's not like it was never asked for but I was always like No, like That's not gonna happen until I'm ready like cuz you know and then we broke up essentially One of the reasons was because I wasn't like doing what he could have you know, but he could have gotten from the other girl So that's really the reason we broke up. Yeah, and I was like, that's how you want it and then he came back later on I was like, mm-hmm So what I thought what advice would you give to people who feel that pressure in a world That seems to be having sex all the time Yeah, to wait for what you know when your heart is deserved of you. Yeah, and to reap the benefits as you have Yeah, my advice is just to do what you want to do whether that's to have sex or not to have sex Make that choice before you start dating and no matter what type of pressure you're getting from your spouse or anyone around you Your friends stick to what you decided you were comfortable with and always remember that because you know It's very hard to say no to somebody that you care about Knowing that you're gonna make them disappointed or whatever or knowing that other people are doing it Just decide what you want to do before you're put into the situation Because if you're gonna if you're in that situation and you have to make a split second decision You might not make the decision that you're comfortable with I think for women There's so much pressure put on the kind of sex we're supposed to have right that be like corn saturated or the Donation where you donate your body someone else's pleasure, right? How do you reconnect with what works best for you in a world where that's not even a consideration, right? Well, I think you know hard sex corn and pornographic sex I think it's all healthy and great as long as You know why you're doing it and it's a choice and not necessarily a defense mechanism Or a hurt that you're trying to cover up and then creating a whole new lifestyle that hides the actual hurt that's happening it's a reflection of How much more I enjoy myself now and And like truly enjoy myself because now sex feels completely different because it's more so about What I want to feel what I have to offer Before it was just like a thing to do But now like it's like I get it if that makes sense if you could be a sex ed teacher for a day What would you teach that they don't talk about in school condoms, man condoms try on different condoms, though Sometimes if your meat ain't that big, bro, that shit would slide off and you go back in that shit wrong But try that condom on man. You ain't big Man gonna go in the condom fitting room try it on make sure you're good And then you slide in man. You don't just go in there You know, they gotta you got to know your condom size man. No way to know your space in life. No where you fit Thank you. Hey friend. Hey road to Hollywood Naptural 85 as well as T. Pindale who I actually want to do a full-length Set sit down interview with him because he had really good inside information and it just was too loud But I want to do him again I'm also saying mystic god jokes gave me his email and said hit me up We could do a one-on-one. So send him this video and hold his ass accountable Also, Taryn Taryn guy also said that she wanted to a sex talk with backed out I couldn't find her ass after that. So also tell Taryn that I'm looking for her and we're gonna do this. So Keep it going. Okay. It was they were friends. I thought it was like you couldn't fit inside So he called you in because you have a narrow or penis and he was like, it's okay We got everything is the same The same I don't want that be fucked up if one twin came out with a ten inch dick