 I think a lot of people find themselves in a situation where this person's hopes and dreams for me are so big and they're the opposite. You know, their disappointment in me is so big and so salient to me. It feels so here and present. And as Johnny was mentioning, I might not be as in contact with what my own hopes and dreams were. My history may not have nurtured that in me. I may not have been well-resourced to know what I really hope for, what I really dream about, how I see myself, right? If my history hasn't picked that, hasn't nurtured that, then that would be at a loss. That would be something that would be really difficult and maybe I don't even know what is hard for me or what would make me sad or disappointed. And so if you're here and you've got all these big feelings about it and when somebody goes, well, what do you want? You go, oh, a lot of times it feels the lesser risk to trust the other person whose feelings are bigger, whose hopes and dreams are clearer. You know, it can feel a lot easier to do that, even though it's not resourcing. One thing that I end up telling parents sometimes or telling graduate students sometimes is something like, you know, there are plenty of really, really unhappy people with PhDs. There are plenty of really, really unhappy medical doctors, you know, that turns out that we can have something that everybody in the world would look at in point two and say, that is what success is. And we could be not meeting any of our needs. I mean, literally none, you know, including basic, you know, needs. I mean, we could be not feeding our body, not sleeping, you know, not moving our bodies in ways that grow us, you know, reminding folks, I think when they're in the position of being subject to those sorts of opinions, big opinions, big ideas about me, that they might actually need a stretch of time where what we're resourcing is the pursuit of a relationship with themselves. Who am I? What do I hope for? We might need to try on some things that you never thought you would like, you know, just to try some stuff and see how it suits you.