 Hi guys, so I want to share a little story with you all about the first time a doctor yelled at me in front of a patient and how it felt and my experience and such. But I had taken care of this patient for five shifts straight and I had formed a super great relationship with the patient and the patient's wife and we just had a really like good connection, so to speak, you know, like when you can like relate to people and they trust you and respect you and the doctor rounded for the shift and came into the patient's room and I came in with the doctor because I like to listen to what the conversation is have between the doctor and the patient. I like to answer questions or listen to the questions the patients are asking and the doctor had pointed something out that he was super unhappy with and yelled at me for it even though it wasn't it wasn't directly my fault and I just didn't say anything. I was super like embarrassed, I felt like super disrespected and I had known this patient for the past five days and we had got to know one another and then to be like called out on something it really made it look like I was doing something wrong and that maybe the patient shouldn't trust me because the doctor was yelling at me so I felt super, super embarrassed and when the doctor left the patient's wife actually said I'm so sorry that he talked to you like that and I was just like you know he must just be having a bad day and totally like try to play it off like cool even though inside I like literally felt like I was about to like burst into tears. I was so sad, I was so angry and I felt so like disrespected and I didn't say anything. I didn't say anything to the doctor, I didn't report it, I didn't I didn't do anything. I just like bottled it in and like moved on with my day and looking back at it like just because someone even if someone's having a bad day doesn't excuse someone to be verbally abusive towards you there are professional ways to handle things and at the time I just didn't really know what to say or what to do and to be honest like I'm a very more passive person I don't really like confrontation so when someone is being like aggressive towards me or hostile or like calling me out I have a really hard time with like trying to redirect that conversation and handle it but I want to share a resource with you guys that I think you guys could benefit from. Today Katie Cleaver launched her new nurse master's class and it's geared towards new nurses all those things that no one teaches you as a new nurse that you kind of have to learn on your own this class is for that so for example like how to handle situations where doctors yelling at you how to call doctors and communicate with them how to delegate to a CNA who has been working for 40 years and here you are you're 22 years old and you're having to delegate that to them how you know hey can you do this blood sugar or how to balance working night shift or how did not take all the stress of work and the emotions from work home with you how to balance that so it's a really comprehensive course and I know you guys can benefit from it because I know there's a lot of new nurses that follow me so if you're interested I'll have a link down below the course is $100 off just for the next five days which will be August 2nd so if you're watching this way down the road I'm sorry but for those of you who are watching it right now it's a hundred dollars off it's self-paced it comes with 20 continuing education hours a ton of great content to help you be successful as a new grad nurse because I know a lot of people go into the nursing role and they're worried about all the seasoned nurses and how they're going to just like eat you alive but there's a lot of people like myself and like Katie who really support you guys and want you guys to be successful and I don't want you to go into work as a new grad and feel like you're alone and feel like you're having to navigate all these things that you could have learned prior to starting your shifts I want you guys to be set up for success so if you're interested in the course the link will be down below and also I want you guys to share down below if you have any experiences with doctors yelling at you and what you did or what you said because I feel like a lot of us don't say anything and that's not necessarily the best way to handle things I don't know it depends on the situation but if you're wanting to know more that will be in Katie's course thank you guys for watching this video give it a thumbs up and subscribe to my channel and I'll see you next time