 A person comes to your sixth imam, now listen to this, comes to your sixth imam says Mola what hawk does my brother have over me? Mola replies he says your brother has seven rights over here if you don't fulfill all of these seven Allah will chuck you out of our willaya so he looks up he says Mola can you tell me he says better you remain ignorant because of i tell you there's seven i'm scared that you won't be able to do it he insists Mola gives them all seven now look i'm not here to give all seven because i can guarantee you vast majority of you won't be able to do it if you won't search it yourself but i'll give you one and if this one you can do inshaAllah slowly all of the others will open up what is that one this one famously known as the golden rule what you want for yourself want for your brother you know what that means if you don't like people gossiping about you don't gossip about somebody else be vigilant and careful perhaps the reason why we're all at home today is because when we come to the masjid afterwards when we sit together il merajal happens and you gossip to such an extent that you lose everything you've come into the masjid to gain something and what happened your fashar al qabr increases when you die see this is what dofik is dofik is there don't lose that dofik once you want for your brother don't cheat somebody if you don't want to be cheated don't look at somebody's spouse if you don't want anybody to look at your spouse what does it mean do for other people that you want for yourself that's one condition of wilaya and if you don't have that you're out of the wilaya look you want people to give you a chance give other people a chance you want people to forgive you learn to forgive people digest this for tonight go home and change yourself come back slowly so we can change it gives us all a chance including myself it gives us all a chance in this moharam to change and if you can even do this one thing then i guarantee you that the whore is close as i told abah chid said bada takes place look our time is running i want to mention to a final thing even if you've sinned don't ever lose hope in hosayn don't ever lose hope in the ahul bayt let me give you a story of aidsullah hassan zada amali Allah gave him a long life he's sick at the moment sahib e karamat and i say this because i've seen it myself with my own two eyes i've seen that he is sahib e karamat very easily he can read you the mirror everything about you from the beginning to the end of your life he can tell you everything from my own experience sahib e karamat itullah hasan zada amali always wanted one thing he wanted to be one of the students of said alikati though alikati is dead but remember one thing a spiritual master such even after he dies he's still connected to students so itullah hasan zada amali had a student had a teacher that teacher's name was itullah hasan ilahi you've heard of allama tabata by allama tabata by his brother is known as sayyid muhammad hasan ilahi tabata by if he's not more than allama tabata by is nothing less than him the only reason you hear very little about him is because he was somebody who hit himself in tabriz one day itullah hasan zada amali says he says i came home in the morning he would go he would teach he would study and then at the hard time he would come to sleep for about half an hour when he came home at that stage two of his children were fighting or playing as children do for whatever reason that day he was or he had a stressful day he was stressed out he says one thing to his children that broke their heart itullah hasan zada amali says and this is one thing of his imagine what we say on a daily basis he tries to get to sleep he can't get to sleep half an hour goes he gets up he says look i can't get to sleep he realizes he said something that broke these children's heart no fault of theirs the children after all so he wants to go out he goes he buys sweets brings it back his heart doesn't help him he knows that he's done something he didn't like he says to his wife look three four days i want to leave amul i want to go somewhere you know where he goes he goes to tabriz why because his teacher hasan ilahi is there when he comes to the door of itullah hasan ilahi he says i knocked on the door itullah hasan ilahi came out he says what are you doing here you should be in amul should be back home why are you here for he looks up and he says itullah hasan zada amli's faces you could tell by the faces stressed out before itullah hasan zada could say anything hasan ilahi says straight away to him last night garvey came to me garvey was dead by the way at this stage 30 years ago he said garvey came to me last night and said you have done something that is repulsed by she hasan says hasan zada amli says he says that my face when peach red he begins to cry he says yes i said something to my children he says repent change even that small thing that you say to your family that breaks a heart you're removed from the wilayah because they're shea of ahlul bet be careful your wife your husband sometimes we take it for granted we say things to our children we say things to my parents we say things to our spouses be careful you say things to a shea the minute your lehan becomes such that is offensive and you break somebody's heart be very careful because at that moment you're out of the wilayah and then you think to yourself why don't have marif of ahlul bet it's not easy to have marif of ahlul bet hadif says in and of itself akhbar of ale muhammad is such truly such one day somebody comes to imam hussain says mola tell us your haqqaik he says you won't be able to take it he says please tell me imam begins to open his mouth to speak the person's beard went white his ear went white imam stopped that person forgot everything imam said may the mercy of Allah be on you that you forgot everything you wouldn't be able to take it why requires something more heart needs to be pure for your heart to be pure remember so you can ask me the question what has wilayah got to do with the brother your brothers know the entire shea nation is like a body be very vigilant to your fellow shea brother