 The narcissist will always miss you, they will miss that sense of security and stability that you provided to them. You made them feel safe and secure, where they didn't have to worry about anything while they were with you. You were predictable, you remained unchanged. A lot of people in life are going through ups and downs, they're okay one minute but then the next minute they are struggling. Their lives are in shambles, but it wasn't like that so much with you. You stayed consistent, you were always on top of your game, no matter what life threw at you, you were able to take care of it. It's like there was nothing that you couldn't do and although they may never tell you that, the truth is they secretly admire it and respect it and they wish that they could be more like that. When they were around you, they were hoping that those qualities would rub off on them. They will always miss how you were, your determination, your strength, your willpower, your ability to get things done. Some people love to talk, they love to tell you what they could do, what they would do if the world wasn't against them, some people supported them, if things were just the way that they wanted it to be. But when you were with the narcissist, you weren't like that at all, you never had the time to talk about nothing. You were too busy making shit happen, you took action every day, you did what they wanted you to do, you were their grade A source. So of course, they're always going to miss you, but it's not so much about missing you as a person. It's more about them missing those feelings that you provided to them because narcissists are all about feelings. They don't have feelings for you, these feelings are for themselves and that is the fantasy that they exist in every day. It revolves around these feelings that they have towards themselves and when you were with them, you made them feel safe and secure. You made them emotionally stable, at least to some degree and that was due to your predictability and your high tolerance level. You had a high pain threshold where you could put up with all of these things that they were saying to you, all of these things that they were doing. Most people would have killed them by now, but no, you stuck in, you put up with it. You did everything you could to deal with it, you tried to make things better for them, you comforted them. They felt comfortable around you and of course these are all things that narcissists are looking for. They want to feel safe and secure, they want to feel comfortable and that is how you made them feel. So of course they're going to miss that, they're going to miss that, they're going to miss it because of course it's not so easy to find someone who's just going to come along and make you feel that way. There's someone who's going to make you feel like everything in the world is perfect and there's no worries and no problems. Even for a normal person to find someone that they connect with, someone who makes them feel safe and secure, comfortable, without any anxieties or worries, even for a normal person to find that it's very difficult, it's very difficult. And for a narcissist it's ten times harder. The odds of them really finding someone to replace you, someone who's at your level, someone who can do what you can do, someone who can make them feel how you make them feel. The odds of them finding someone like that are very slim, but even if they did find someone like that you could be sure that they would mess it up. Just like they messed everything up with you and that's how you know that they will always miss you. No matter what, because even if they did find someone who they believe to be your replacement, it's going to be short-lived. It's not going to last for long. It's only a matter of time until it's all over and then they're just going to go back to missing what you want to provide it to them. The benefits and conveniences, the money, the accommodation, the trips, the gifts, the special occasions, the connections. Yeah, they're going to miss all of that and they're going to miss that sense of safety, security and stability, the comfort, the predictability. They may not regret their actions, they may not feel bad about what they did and they may not make any effort in an attempt to correct it, in an attempt to make things better for you so that maybe you could then reunite if there is a chance, if they do believe that there is a chance that that could happen. No, they're not going to do any of that because as we know, narcissists believe that they're always right, they believe they can't do anything wrong. If anything goes wrong, they believe that it's your fault, so you're meant to make it right, not them. So they're not going to feel any regret, they're not going to feel like they have to fix things. Although they may come back with an apology, but that's only because they know you think they're wrong and they know what you want to hear, they know what you want to see. And narcissists are master manipulators, they're experts at saying what they know other people want them to say, at doing what they know other people want them to do. They're experts at that, but it doesn't mean they're about it for real. They will lie to you, they will give you false promises, they will future fake, but it's just empty, it's just empty. And that is why they will always miss you because you're not looking for that, you're looking for something the better, you're looking for something more, you're looking for something real. And real, it's something that they're never going to be to you, but yeah, they'll always miss how you were, how you treated them, how you loved and respected them even when they didn't deserve it. Especially when they didn't deserve it, because deep down they know that they are not deserving of that kind of treatment, but you gave it to them anyway. You overlooked their flaws and imperfections, their faults and mistakes, all of the hurtful things they said to you, all of the horrible things they did when everyone else would have walked out on them and slammed the door. You stuck in with them, you continued to help and support them and to give them what they need. You were their doormat, you were their fool, and that is what they will always miss. They will miss those times when you were stupid, those times when you lacked wisdom, knowledge and experience. That's all I've got to say on this topic. I hope it vibes with you. Just walking through this beautiful park right here. 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