 Alright, you're still watching Waze Now National Son and Daughter Day is a holiday celebrated annually on August 11th. The day is a time to celebrate the love and joy that sons and daughters bring to their families. It is also a time to reflect on the importance of parenthood and to appreciate the sacrifices that parents make for their children. The holiday was first celebrated in 1984 by Mary and Codd, a mother of five from St. Louis, Missouri, and Codd wanted to create a day to honor both sons and daughters as she felt that they were often overlooked on holidays like Mother's Day and Father's Day. What an interesting day. To my sons. Say Happy Son Day. My son is actually going to be 17 tomorrow. Like I saw him when he was on Wednesday. I was like, whoa, who's that guy? They're both of them. Like they're literally taller than me. Oh, absolutely. I've recently been seeing something on social media which I'm liking. I'm just like clicking the like button. My son, right? Yeah. I'm like, oh wow. He's unleashing his inner. Yeah. And it's just beautiful to see them growing in two men. Like I was listening to one of his clips on talent speaks or something where he was talking about rejection because this is the phase where they have like applied to universities and you know, you get responses and some will reject you. And I was just like, Kai, see, grow to maturity. See him handling it like, why not? But well done, Alpha. Like I'm so proud of you. It's going to be his birthday tomorrow. I don't even know whether I have any plans. I don't have any plans. You should have a plan. I'm going to come for you. I love you. You know, I have nothing but love. But hey, it's, what did we find in the news? So yeah, let's concentrate. Okay. So big brother, Niger, all stars. It's been, I think so far, is it making a lot of waves more than the last two or three big brothers? So now the thing is yesterday night, they were having a full party and something happened that got a lot of users on Twitter. Sorry, ex talking. And so it happened that Merci, former winner, was dancing with fraud. We obviously know he's a married man and his wife is married. Oh, is he married? Who is married? What on the planet are you on? Sorry, I don't know them. I don't watch it. So I'm going to know this. Okay. Your team is your products. It's okay. Yes, very. So now fraud is married. His wife is heavily pregnant with their first child. And so there was a full party in the house yesterday, Thursday night, and a fraud was dancing with Merci. And like the dance was erotic. It was very erotic. So that got a lot of people talking like fraud. Why are you doing this? You have a pregnancy. What is the issue of why are you doing this? The pregnancy was that allowed him to enter the house. So now here's the contrast. So we are looking at the three married men, the three non married men in big brother, things all Tony, fraud and Mike. Now everybody was, you know, backlash in fraud and likening him to things all Tony, only that this time he told everybody was married. However, Mike was married. He was in the house, all the erotic everything that happened in the house happened. But we saw how he carried himself with respect for his wife, knowing that once you decide to commit to a woman and you have a ring on it, there is a line is drawn, you know. See, there's another style you're forgetting to mention. At least that one I know him. Women don't want big brother. Toby Buckley. This is why I'm not heavily pregnant. Where is he? It's with his wife. So for the fact that you decided to enter the house in the first place, that is even where I had the problem. It's not whether you're going there to go and dance with somebody or whatever. Like literally, why would you go there? You know, wouldn't you be happy to be present with your wife and work, I mean, watch the pregnancy grow and all of those things? Are there things that are more important to you at this point than your own child? Does it make sense? So for me, I find it that he's a very irresponsible human being. I did not watch it. I don't want to watch it. Okay. But for the fact that you even accepted have been pregnant twice. I know what it means to be pregnant. So you accepted to leave a pregnant woman that is heavy to go to a big brother house from all. Front is not irresponsible. I went to the same university, Uni Zikaoka with this guy. He is not irresponsible. Plus, you saw when he entered the house, the wife was, there was clips online about the wife like congratulating like, girl, go my boo, I love you, make it, get the money. So both of them are irresponsible. No, I'm serious. I'm being honest. Look, you don't joke with pregnancy. You understand, you're carrying a human being inside of you for goodness sake. You don't joke with it. You can be doing all of all those kinds of things. What is more important to you right now? Is your own born child? Come on. Let's call what it is it is. I mean, this one is the height of irresponsibility. If you say she cheered him up, two of them are irresponsible. As far as I'm concerned, please go ahead. My what's in the news about that's like, okay, that's like from zero to hundred in split seconds, but that's fine. I don't want to be here for one month. My what's in the news is about Spitz Darlington and his comments on or his post on one of the social media platforms where he was like, he wants to get his second girlfriend between the age of 16 to 20. So he received a lot of backlash, especially because the age he mentioned was like, that's exactly what a lot of people and I'm like, at what point do people get to know that they are crossing the line and it's no longer cruise because it's like these days, everything is cruise on social media. I'll just come out and just say what I want to say and that's fine. So I think this is totally wrong for him to and there is within joke, you can, there's some truth in jokes. So I feel like people should not just come on social media and just say whatever because it's social media and they just want to catch cruise, perhaps we were just catching cruise on. I guess so, because why would you even be saying you're looking for a second girlfriend, like speed, speed, speed, what is his name? But this guy, and he was even making comparison between Nigeria like he, his freer in Nigeria when compared to his USA. When you go on a slow page, he's always somewhere doing something. So these people, you should know that there are some people that are just looking for clouds and he's one of those people. You know this kind of nuisance that you become nuisance that people just, whether they like it or not, they have to notice you. That's, I think that's what I see in this guy. Why do we have to be responsible for everything today, everywhere? I feel, oh you remember this lady, the one that someone on TikTok said something about her and she had to go arrest her. Oh yeah, badmoss. Yeah, that action that she took, I feel that maybe if we normally are like the forces or something would take up actions like that, like speed, speed, speed, speed said something like this, you could get him arrested on that account. What if he said 16 is, so they are 13 years old, been married off, been in the north. I mean your lawmaker, he does it. Wait, that's the point. No, if you want to, if you want to go to that place, let us go and start from the national last minute. Do you understand? Let's go and start from there first, because you see, it is because again we are lawless people. That's why anything can fly. You know, there are some places that they will hold you, you know, like literally they would arrest you for making those kind of comments. Let us focus on important people. Okay, tell us. All these ones are irresponsible. Tell us. Tell us. Dr. Sam Adeyemi has said, he's the senior pastor of the Easter Christian Center for Deals that do not know. He described the huge gap between leaders and the masses saying that it is a peculiar problem in Africa. He said African countries are dealing with a deeply rooted leadership culture that makes leader very powerful and the lead practically a slave across almost all sectors. And this, he was speaking against the backdrop of the military coup in Niger in a series of tweets that he tweeted, which was yesterday. It says, neither military, democratic nor monarchical systems have fostered rapid development in most African countries. So I really agree with Dr. Sam. Yeah, because again, I mean yesterday I had a very intense, you guys should watch out for that interview or more. He brought out his chest and he was saying something when I was talking about there's no middle class in Nigeria. There's no middle class like literally. I agree. It is here and here, right? Because you are just one policy away from poverty. You know, as we stand with the way things are going. Just like the liar floated. So I really don't understand how leadership works. Are you not supposed to be happy to empower the people that you so literally I would want to retire and just watch things happen that I have set off. That's how I see leadership, not all the time, you know, in a position where I have to, you know, you come and do this, I would have to like literally control being in control of your life. No, you must let at some point, let people grow, let people thrive. Yeah. So if you are if you are a true leader, right, it is it is actually a disservice to that title that you're not watching, you're watching your subordinates continue to look like slaves before you. Because you know, sorry, you know, they would say that as a leader, your success independent on how you're able to raise more leaders. That is it. It's in the following, right? Jonas and the succession that they see that they can point 50 leaders that came out just because of your leadership. Yeah. That is what a true leader is. I'm not the one that so there's a there's a there's a skewed way of leadership in Nigeria. I want you to grow, but you cannot go beyond a certain stage. Yeah. So even the ones that seemingly feel like they are helping you and oh, I can't say I helped him. If you dare, if you dare grow to certain level, they cut your weight on you. That is true. We really must do better in this continent because we have so much. You know, we have so much. Imagine if our leaders truly allowed everyone of us to breathe. Yeah, let us use their English. Do you know what will happen to this economy? We cannot be rivaled because we have so many great talents in this country. And it sickens me. I was at the airport yesterday, like I literally came back home crying because I saw so many people live in this country. On that note, let's take a break. Let's discourse on media and technology.