 She was seven. Okay, so I've had a lot of men commenting on my channel Telling me I shouldn't be making videos helping women Get things they want out of men How no men are like this and they're complaining. They just keep complaining complaining and complaining and making excuses and all this kind of stuff So I want them to hear it from you ladies Tell them why it is necessary for women to have a plan To marry someone financially stable Tell them why it is good for women to protect themselves and not give a sex away to just any stranger Because they pay for a meal. Tell them why women expect men to pay for dates Tell them all of this because they really think that it's okay for them to be what I call Children and if you're going to try to date a woman who is educated Who loves herself who has standards who was raised with a father? And who knows where they're going in life what they want and have priorities You're gonna have to step up your game or you're gonna have to date those women Who will accept what you have to give them because a lot of women aren't accepting this stuff anymore y'all They would rather be single And date Then settle down with a loser, okay a lot of women would rather become a lesbians And we get within a successful partner then settle for a loser man, and I've seen it Okay, plenty of times. Okay men think that okay I'm gonna tell y'all men think that because a woman is Turns lesbian it means you know, she was always gay. No women like Comfort women like security That's why you can see a woman go back and forth from being a lesbian to being straight because they like the security Okay, they don't want to be with someone who they have to second-guest who they have to worry about who they have to Think oh is this person going to be able to pay the bills this month. They don't like living like that. Okay, women like comfort This is a natural Thing that women are attracted to since the beginning of time. We like comfort We're not gonna go for the loser who is always losing his job always in and out of prison always in and out of jail And if we have we were very young and we have learned our lesson We are not going for the man who has You know barely a high school diploma and Works at fast-food restaurant if we are over the age of 25, we're not going for that Okay, we're not going for any of that stuff and ladies y'all need to tell these guys because they really think it's it's a joke It's not a joke You know, it's sad that men have been so feminized and Taught that it was okay To have low standards and To expect women to have low standards. No women can't go backwards in lifestyle We can't and we were raised in a certain environment and we have if we grew up in A certain class we can't date somebody who who or marry someone who's broke. Okay? Y'all have to come with it We can't like don't try to get with a woman who is out of your league and call her Names and call her stuck up and call her gold digger and call her delusional and full of it No, that's her perspective of the world and if you don't fit into it, you just don't fit into it Okay, someone has to tell you all the truth. Okay, someone has to tell y'all the truth the truth is You can't be mad at this lady for wanting With her father and mother raised her to want you can't get mad at some Some lady who says no, I can't deal with you No, my if I brought you home to my parents, they would slap me. Okay. No Step okay, you have to remember women have parents women have mothers women have fathers Uncles and it's people that care about them and if they drag home some loser They're gonna be judged for dragging home this loser. They're gonna be like, hmm. I bet she taking care of him I bet she pays on dates. Oh my god. He looks like you don't pay for nothing. Oh my god She can do so much better I'll be so glad when she dumps him. He's such a loser. Look at him. Look how listen to how he speaks, you know And Their family is gonna judge you anyway So if you try to date someone out of your league and they give you a chance and they bring you home to meet the family You're gonna automatically be like, you know what? Looking at their house all their nice things and this is what she expects and I can't give this to her Why am I even here? You know, let me go and find someone in my own league who's gonna be happy with what I already have because I Don't have this woman cannot inspire me to become this great because in my little Silly mind. I think that she's supposed to come down to my level not I'm not supposed to go up to her level because Well, I don't want to I shouldn't have to you know, we're equal now No, if a woman doesn't inspire inspire you to become a better man Then you're with the wrong woman. I'm just saying if your woman cannot expire Inspire you to greatness Then what is she there for? you know for me my My ex's I'm like, like I've had ex-boyfriends who didn't have much I bring them home to meet my family read my mom. They'd be looking everywhere like and After that, it was like either you you come up Or you you make room for somebody else to come do this, okay? If you can't provide this or better Bye-bye. Okay. If ladies if you want ladies if you came from a good family and your mom and dad have their stuff together Or your aunt or your you know, bring them over someone's house who has it together You know and bring them to meet and see your environment once they see your environment They're either gonna step it up or leave you alone Okay, most men can sit here and type online all day about women this and women that and you go to their house They have like one piece of furniture no art on the wall just you know Cleaners bags wire hangers and all that crap in the closet and have like two plates and a pot if you go to their house And they're they're living like that and you bring them to your place and you're living like, you know lavish They're either gonna have to step it up or leave you alone so that you can find somebody on your level Okay, a lot of these men these days walk up my own business. All right. I make this much money Yeah, you that's good for a single person. Yeah, can you take care of a woman? Can you take care of family? you know a Certain amount of money is only good for one person. Okay, that's not impressive anybody can live lavish if they're Single and not and don't have anybody to support. Okay. We're looking for men who have real Support financial stability. Okay, you can you can work at your little job You can own your little own business. You can drive your nice car But if you can't support other people in a family, we don't see you with as you know a man of means We see you as that that bachelor that if if he had a wife and kids he would be driving And something else, okay So that's what I always look at when I look at guy I'm like, okay if he had a wife and kids could he still afford this car and this this place And if the answer is yes, he's good if the answer is no, he's front because as soon as you know You know a lot of those men can't afford it But they're not gonna be lit be able to live the luxurious lifestyle that they've been used to but they can't afford it So if you're not trying to be like overly Materialistic and you just want that stable man. That's fine. But is he gonna give that up for you? And see gonna trade in his Mercedes for a Hyundai So that he can support you and you can stay home and raise your kids he gonna do that or not You know if the answer is no then, you know That's the kind of guy you're dealing with you're dealing with someone who can only take care of himself, okay So you want to find a financial man that could take care of you and your kids in himself Okay, so don't let don't let the fake. I have a video on fake ballers. Don't let the fake ballers for you Okay It's funny because You'll see a lot of people that live like that in front like that and Are totally fine with it. They will never get married They will never have kids because they value that lifestyle more and that's understandable, you know, you can't change people like that You just move on Someone asked me to talk about this book called the rules and And There's a book called the rules and it's the rules of dating and you know if a man makes the date with you at the last minute You never accept it Because he's putting you out your last-minute thought, you know, you need to be a priority When you're dating someone you need to be the priority otherwise, it's not really worth your time because a Man chases what he wants a challenge is is the first thing on his mind Okay, if he's not chasing you if you're a last if you're an afterthought then don't even bother with him and tell He's chasing you and blowing up your phone and we'll meet you at the drop of a dime when you're ready That's a man who wants you, you know, if you have to call Reset dates make dates. You're the man. Okay. Don't be the man be the one There are so many men out there who will love to date you and pay for you Don't settle for those who are living in fantasy land. Okay, those men live in fantasy and if they think women are okay Subconsciously with paying for dates women might pay for a date, you know, this is 2015 almost 16 Women will pay for a date. But guess what they is in their subconscious mind. They see you as less They see you as a loser. They might not say it. They might not realize it at first But when things start to go sour And the relationship they're gonna be like, you know what? It was a red flag. He wouldn't even pay for my dinner What a loser. I know next time, you know subconsciously when you don't pay for something mid Your woman has put you on a shelf with the label loser under it and when it's time to pull that card She's gonna she's gonna remind you. You don't even pay for our date What kind of man are you? You know, it's it's gonna come out. It will she's gonna use it against you later on You know, I have to pay for your I have to do this. I have to do that for you You're not a real man. Get away from me. You know, I can do that for myself. What do I need you for? You know what? You know, they're gonna pull all that But if you pay for stuff, they're gonna be like, you know, you're so right Thank you so much for for always taking care of me and doing this and that, you know I'm thankful for you. I'm thankful for you. Other women out there have to pay for their men and I just look at them like I'm so sorry For you because you don't deserve that And they will they will hold an animosity Over you because you make them pay You might not know why they're looking at you crazy one day or not talking to you one day Or feeling sad because they just saw their friend Who whose boyfriend or husband bought them some lavish gift or took them on a trip and your man's like you gotta pay for half of everything You know, you might not know why she's upset. She's upset because you're a loser And you expect her to pay and you're you know, and some women will literally become emotionally Depressed Or things like that. They will watch other women's relationships with with their men. You're like, I wish my man was like that I think I settled I really want to start over and this is what when women start cheating Women start cheating when they see other men Doing things for other women that they wish their men would do and they'll hint and give you clues But if you don't follow and if you don't get them and you don't improve she's gonna be like, well, maybe I should replace them Um, yeah, I'm a dead in relationship. I just don't feel things anymore And I look if to get out of this like women will start thinking women are always in their head So this is why it's important for men to pay on a date because Later on down the line if y'all end up together She's gonna remember your first date What you ate if you paid or not and all that and when your child if you do have a child asks Well, mommy, what's your first date with daddy like? Oh, he made me pay No, you would be embarrassed to tell your daughter that And you you should be embarrassed as a man to tell your son that story. Oh, yeah, mom Your mom paid for my dinner and her own dinner that night and Here we are You know, no no wonder so many boys are going out wanting to be women Because women do way more than men these days, especially in the dating area and in the mothering And nurturing section, you know, we got to work cook clean teach do homework Uh deal with the the kids. We're like super woman. Okay. All y'all do is go to work come home sit down to couch Okay, who wants to do that? That's why Men are looking up to women as role models these days Because you're Putting all of your roles on us and we do it way better You know, I don't want to do the role of a man. I don't want to do the role of a woman And that's what I'm doing I will tell my kids their girls Go to school get an education because the men these days They might as well be women. So you got to make your own way. So I am teaching my kids to be independent Because I know men are far and few Out there these days and it's pretty sad And I but I didn't tell my kids don't ever pay for a man If you if you have to go on a date and that man doesn't pay it walk away Never pay for a date ladies. Never Okay, and I'll see y'all later Thumbs up and don't forget to give those guys a piece of your mind as to why These kind of videos are necessary to deal with these type of men of today and they don't they don't get it. They don't get it They would rather avoid the problem Then understand it, which is pretty ignorant if you ask me. Okay, I'll see y'all later. Bye