 Men do very well with having a mentor following seeing what they do now The problem is is that the the role models that are out there for men are terrible They tell you either you got to be the version of masculinity that drives fast cars sleeps with everybody Parties all the time like this weird Billionaire character that anything else, but he's also super happy and satisfied with life or whatever that Version or you get this other version where it's like this emasculated weak docile Subservient, you know kind of whatever type of dude when in reality the best role models show you that they're good fathers They're good providers. They're good partners. They're disciplined. They're consistent. They're honest, and it's like an integrity integrity Like like media does not highlight that at all You don't see any of all the models all the models we get media are terrible. They teach men to be either Violent assholes or docile sheep very interesting