 why you don't why you don't hear from the narcissist there could be a few reasons why you don't hear from them of course the most obvious reason that anyone is going to say is that it's because they have new supply and i'm not going to say that that isn't true yes they may have found someone else they may have found someone to replace you to take on the role of what you were doing father that is a possibility they may have groomed and advanced a new source to the primary position that's a common thing that happens once they get rid of you they need someone else to take your place that's just how it is but that isn't always the case there could be other reasons why you don't hear from the narcissist which i'm going to get into here another reason why you don't hear from them is because you figured them out you're no longer susceptible to their manipulation they can't manipulate you they can't pull you into their realm you're no longer under their spell and when that happens they notice they feel it they sense it they realize that you have escaped their web their control they pick up on that and when that happens it doesn't make any sense for them to hoover you because they're not going to get what they want you're not going to give it to them so why would you hear from them why would they come back to you it wouldn't serve any purpose they would just be wasting their time and energy which could be spent on something else they could use that time and energy to pull someone else into a relationship someone who is foolish and will give them what they want they would make more sense to them to do that once they know that you figured them out once they know that you're not going to see them the same way and so a lot of times that is what they will do they will go on to find new supply other times they may have experienced a narcissistic collapse where they've just given up they don't know what to do they don't know what to think they've just fallen they've given up they've lost motivation to even try to get you back their ego has deflated and they just don't feel good enough for anything so they don't even want to communicate with you anymore in that moment they may just want to be alone or they will play the victim cards in an attempt to gain new and fly monkeys the narcissist isn't going to come back unless they think you're a fool unless they think that you still believe in the illusion that's the only way that they're going to come back because they're not going to put themselves in a position where they could be humiliated where they could be rejected where they're going to experience a narcissistic injury that's not what the narcissist wants they don't want that to happen but yeah this is a reason why you don't hear from them because they've gone down they've experienced they fall and they don't want you to know about it because they're quite embarrassed about it they don't want you to see them when they're down they don't want you to have the last laugh they just want to ride off into the sunset and make you think that everything's just fine and dandy they never needed you you are the one who needed them and that's is why you may not hear from them because they're using their silence to punish you to make you feel like you've done something wrong to make you feel like you've made a mistake and sometimes that may make you try to come back to them you may send them a message you may call them because you're not hearing from them and you don't know what's going on which is exactly what they want you to do that is yet another reason why you don't hear from the narcissist because they're full of ego and pride they feel like they're so important and they don't want to come down off their high horse and just be real so instead they sit back and expect you to do the work to get in contact with them or for you to try to figure out what's going on that's what it's designed to do a lot of times it's a manipulation tool you can almost guarantee that nine times out of ten their silence is designed to punish you it is designed to hurt you a lot of times that's what it's designed to do pretty much everything a narcissist does is manipulation nine times out of ten that's what it is but don't forfeit i'm giving you this information now so that you don't make that mistake there is a reason why you don't hear from them and it's designed to get you in some way just don't let it get you don't pay too much attention to it just focus on your life find things that are more important to you because honestly if you don't hear from the narcissist that should actually be a blessing to you now you have some peace now you can just sit back and relax and enjoy your life without worrying about these type of things so just enjoy it enjoy the silence this time of not hearing from the narcissist because you never know when they're going to come back and finish the job when they're going to come back and try and bring you down again you never know when that's going to happen but it's no point over thinking about it and stressing stressing yourself out that's not going to help anything just enjoy this time of peace that you have now make the most of it maybe it's here to stay maybe it's not going anywhere but just in case savour it enjoy it because you never know where the narcissist what's around the corner that's all i've got to say for this video i do appreciate you sharing your day with me i appreciate all of you your support means so much to me and the many survivors around the world we couldn't do this without each other out here sharing this message bringing inspiration to millions of people around the world that's what we do and we're going to keep doing it no matter what so yeah if you would like to support this channel please give this video a thumbs up share your thoughts in the comment section i read your comments every day every morning i go through hundreds of comments in here every comment is valued 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