 When you ghost the narcissist This is how they feel it really depends on Whether you were the grade a primary source Or just a secondary source of supply to the narcissist if you were their grade a source Then they're really going to feel that if you ghost them because that would mean that you spent a lot of time with them and They're used to that lifestyle of being with you. So of course, they're going to miss it when you're gone When you ghost them because of course they do know the difference between What is good and what is bad for them? Especially after they've been with you for a certain amount of time they are aware of that so Yeah, if you were the primary source of supply their grade a they are going to feel it when you ghost them and If you were the secondary source They're probably not going to care so much Because they may not have spent much time with you Not enough time to Advance you to the primary position and another reason why they may not have done that is because in their minds You may not have been suitable So they're not going to care so much if you ghost them because also you have to consider that if you are the secondary source Then there's a fair chance that they have other secondary sources and you're not the only one and of course a Narcissist that has a lot of options in those situations, even if you were the primary source They may not they may not even care Even if they've been with you for years, they may not make much difference if they Have money or they're attractive And you know they've got a lot of options Why would they care If they have everything that they need Why would they be worried about you You've got to remember how narcissists think They are very arrogant in Their minds, they are the best thing since sliced bread so It's not that they need you and Their minds you are the one who needs them And if you want to leave if you want to walk out the door, that's on you. That's your mistake not theirs because they're gonna keep doing what they do and They're not going to let you affect that They're just gonna keep moving on and finding new sources. They're not gonna care about you in The way that you think They're not going to miss you as a person They never even took the time to get to know you but I can tell you that what they will miss is The benefits and conveniences that you provided to them they will miss your supply But they're not going to miss you as a person They're not going to get they're not going to care about that They never get to know anyone as a person because It means nothing to them They don't care and they're not just going to Suddenly start caring about you Just because you decided to ghost them that's not going to change anything if anything they will just become even more fake and You might get the fake apologies the false epiphanies They may do anything to try to get you back But that doesn't mean that they actually care Just because they're trying to get you back That doesn't mean anything Just means they might be bored or lonely and Then they'll just forget about you very quickly narcissists have Short-term memories so They can forget you from one moment to the next and The moment changes depending on their feelings and it doesn't matter how long you've known them or what you've done for them It doesn't make a difference They will forget you so easily and so quickly what they may not forget is Money Good sex They might not forget that too quickly But even then you're fighting and losing battle It's about you're not going to win Because whatever it is that you think you've got it just doesn't matter There's always someone With more money. There's always someone who Gives a better blow job and you just can't compete with that You can't There's always going to be someone who they deem to be better in some way So whatever it is that you thought you were providing to them. It's not as important as you think it was They will always find more they will always find better They're not going to value the things that you give to them in the way that you might think in The way that you might want and expect them to But if they catch on of course they'll play along and they they'll act like they're so sorry They understand now They didn't appreciate you they took you for granted And this time things are going to be different Don't fall for that. I can promise you that they are never Going to change and you can be sure of that they are never Going to change Doesn't matter who you are You could be the primary source You could be the secondary source It could be anyone. It doesn't matter So you need to be aware of that It's an illusion of significance of Your importance You're really not that important to them You're not important at all You're not anything significant to the narcissist You could be a wonderful person You could have all these things going on in your life. It does not matter Because in their minds, they think they can find someone else And even if you've got everything they want That doesn't matter too Because they'll move the goalposts They might say they want this this and that And then you finally achieve that And then now they want something else Something you don't have So now they have to go somewhere else to get it and it will never be enough They will always want more Because they will never Be satisfied Many of us we have our own arrogance our own egos To where we think that we can please this unpleasable person No, you can't do that You may think that you can You can't And they know many of you You don't want to give up. You want to keep fighting Because you believe you can You may believe in yourself your qualities your abilities and traits But you have to remember that this is not about you It's not about your worth. It's not about how great you are Or How great you're not It's not about that at all That doesn't make a difference That doesn't deter in anything with a narcissist It doesn't And you need to be aware of that You need to know that They just don't care They really don't care at all All they care about is the supply The benefits and conveniences that you provided to them And that's it. They don't care about you They don't know you they don't see you and trust me They never will So thank you all for watching I hope this video was helpful If it was give it a thumbs up down below And check out my other videos as well Thank you all for your support And I will talk to you in another one very soon