 The narcissist will never forgive you. So it all starts off when something goes wrong. And this may not even be something that you have done. It might be a fault or mistake that the narcissist has made. Maybe they did something wrong. But as we know, narcissists cannot accept blame. They cannot accept responsibility. So they will of course blame you. They will shift the blame onto you. They will say it's your fault. And they will tell everyone about it. They will beat you to the punch. They will get to them first. And they will tell them what you have meant to have done wrong before you can say about them. And they will become very bitter and resentful towards you. As though they've been treated unfairly. You've done them wrong. And they're not happy about it. And they will be very unforgiving. They will hold a grudge against you. And like I said, it may be for something you're not even responsible for. And yet they will still find a way to blame you. It's crazy making. It really is. But this is what they do. And they will just never let it go. They don't know how to let things go. They will hold on to it for life. If you're still with them or still talking to them five, ten years after the incident, they will still bring it up. They will still remind you of it. They will still tell you this time when you did something wrong, you did something to them. Even though it may not have been you. You may not have done anything wrong. But they will still blame you. And they will bring things up from a long time ago. They will rewrite the past. What happens could have been very different. But they will turn it into something else. Something where you are at fault. And there's nothing you can tell them. That they don't even care about the truth. In their minds, their feelings are facts. If they feel hurt, you must have hurt them. Of course, they don't take into account that when they make a mistake or when they do something wrong, they feel hurt then as well. They don't think about that. A narcissist is a narcissist is not about to take responsibility for their emotions. I want to see if a narcissist could do that. Well, then they wouldn't be a narcissist would they? Because that's what it is. That's what it comes down to. They're just people who will not take responsibility for their own emotions. They won't own their own shit. If they did, then there would be no problem. But they're not about to do that. Why would they? Just so everyone can point the finger at them and say that they're wrong. Just so they can feel those intense feelings of shame that they've spent their entire lives trying to avoid. Just so they can deal with the consequences of their actions. What narcissist would put themselves through that? They're very weak and they find it more of a benefit to play the victim. That's what gets them attention. That's what gets them supply. And of course, it's supply over everything else. Over loyalty, love, whatever it is that you thought you had with them. Their supply, attention. These things are more important than that. So of course, they will never forgive you. They have too much pride. They have too much ego. They will hold a grudge against you for life. Just a short video today. I know I've been posting a lot of lives lately. I hope you've been enjoying them. I hope they've resonated with you and your experiences. I'm just laying on this chair here by the window looking out at this amazing view. So beautiful at night. Four years on YouTube posting these videos, saving millions of people's lives around the world, millions of lives every year. My life has changed a hell of a lot in the last four years. I never knew that one day I would be traveling the world, driving cars that I always wanted to drive, eating at all kinds of different restaurants, eating out twice a day, meeting amazing people. I'm just so grateful for this life. Even now after four years, I wake up every day and I just can't believe it. I can't believe how blessed I am to have this life and to have all of you who support me and encourage me to be the best version of myself. It's just incredible how quickly life can change. There was a time when I didn't have much confidence in myself. I couldn't really talk to people and now I'm on here talking to hundreds of people in a live video. Just in the last day, there's been over 40,000 views. It's amazing. It really is. Life is whatever you want it to be. Everything changed for me. You know, there used to be a time where I had no job. I couldn't find a job. I just used to live off money from the government every month, which is about 400 or $450 a month. That's all I had for my food and for my cat and all I did every day is just walk around the town, go to the coffee shop, go to the gym, go food shopping and maybe play with my cat or play on my Xbox at night. That's all I really had going on in my life and that's all of the money I had to spend every month for everything. Maybe $450. It's not a lot, especially when you're living in the UK. But look at me now. Now I'm out here just laying on this bed by the window, looking out at this amazing city view. Now every day I have something to look forward to. I can do whatever I want to do every day. I can travel around. I can go to the beach. I can go to different restaurants. I can buy whatever I want, change my life, helping people, inspiring people, but I changed my life. And that's really the best part about it, is that I got here by doing the right thing. That's what means the most to me. It's knowing that to get to where I am today, I helped a lot of people along the way. It's not like a sociopath who steps on people to get ahead. I didn't have to do anything like that and maybe that's why I was without a job for such a long time and without money because I wasn't willing to do that. I couldn't get ahead at other people's expense. But yeah, I made it. All of my life in the back of my mind I knew somehow I would get to where I want to be and now here I am. I did it four years on YouTube, posting videos every day, 145,000 subscribers, 37 million views and of course I can't take all the credit. Where would I be without all of you? We made this happen together and of course I have to thank my team as well. The video editors, the marketers, everyone who made this possible, who helped me to get this far. And as you may know, I am encouraging other people who are passionate about this or passionate about something else. I am available for coaching. If you would like to build a successful channel on YouTube, you can send me an email now at coaching at Narcsefiver at Ikori UK. I'd like to help you get there. I can give you the tools that you need to become successful on YouTube and to help thousands or even millions of people around the world and make the kind of money that you'd like to make without sitting at a desk for 9 or 10 hours a day. I can help you to do that. So just send me an email and we can start straight away. But yeah, that's all for this one. I just wanted to share that little story with you about my past, everything I had to go through. It wasn't easy, but here I am. Everything that I ever wanted to be in my life. I can honestly say that I am that right now. And I am very proud of myself. And I'm very proud of my team. And all of you guys too, every time I read your comments. And I see that you've moved on. You've got no contact. You're no longer falling for the BS. It's great to see that. It's great to know that I'm making a difference in so many people's lives. So yeah, thank you all. 108 live viewers, please give this video a thumbs up. 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