 Hi, she was seven. I'm back. Okay, so I wanted to answer questions. Somebody asked me and I think I think a video would Be great for this topic. So I just go ahead and gonna answer your question on this video and Let you guys know what I think. Okay, so I asked me if I was rich If I was rich, if I had all the money I would ever need Would I be married? If I was rich and had everything I ever wanted or needed Well, rich doesn't mean not being lonely, you know rich doesn't mean, you know You have a partner. So of course I would be married. I don't know If I would be married to the same person, but I definitely would be married, okay, because I think at a certain age It's fun to do things as a couple and if you both, you know, have means or money Way way way better, especially for women You know, because we like to be romanced wind and dine and things like that So of course I would have a husband. Duh um See men are different though, okay When men get money their true character comes out, okay They will be like, oh, I can have many women see women don't think like that when with a woman has lots of money and She has one person She just wants to be taken care of Treated special be winded dine have all this romance and see when a man gets a lot of money He's like, oh, how many women can I have? Oh, how many? uh Women can I see in a month and you know, maybe I'll have a main chick and a couple side chicks and You know, see men think like that women don't I mean most women don't you know some do I'm not gonna lie some women do think like that But for the majority most women just want one special person. Okay, naturally Now men get upset because women Want this one special person to do all these things for them. Okay, and men Don't like the pressure because they don't feel like they can live up to it Or want to live up to it. They like to be free play that until they get old and Say, oh my god, I probably better settle down, you know And they're probably least likely to settle down with someone their own age Maybe someone a little bit younger. They're probably gonna go for that because men Are not As serious about relationships as soon as women are like women are really get married around 26 25 27 Men aren't trying to get married until they're almost 40 Okay, so They're not trying to settle down. They're still trying to have fun to play and da da da So yes ladies If you focus on your career, you Get some money get everything that you need And then you can decide when you want to get married if you want to get married You don't have to depend on a man and I know I say all the time in my videos Oh, you need to find a man you can depend on Yes, you need a man who's gonna allow you to stop working if you do want to have children and who can afford to take care of you guys Yes, you at least need that Okay You at least need a man who will allow who can allow you to be a woman. Okay Um and a mother you need a man who can swing it When you know when you need To raise your child, okay now If you can't have that then you know Honestly People only do what they've seen their parents do or what they think is possible. Okay If you lived in poverty and you've seen your mom raise five kids um, you know and work five three Two jobs or whatever And you go ahead and do the same thing That's In your dna that's in your bloodline. You are used to that so it doesn't seem crazy to you, you know, that's Normal to you but if you didn't see that at the child and you don't associate struggle with love Then that is not an option to you, you know, that's not an option to you. You're like, uh, uh, no way, you know, so A lot of women Who watch my videos some get upset some get mad. Well, I did this my grandma did this my mom did this. Well Good for you. My mom did this my mom did this and my mom did that my sister did this my sister did this so I can't relate to Seeing struggle, you know, so a lot of people say, oh, well You've never had to struggle and this this and so that I chose not to struggle. Okay, there's a difference When you see something that your parents do Oh, it's okay. My parents did it. You're choosing that Okay, you know how they say break the cycle You can break the cycle. Okay. I saw my mom do this this and that my mom was struggling in the beginning But she broke the cycle Okay, my mom was struggling in the beginning After she had kids. Yeah, she was struggling a little bit but After she Made up her mind that she was no longer than a struggle. She didn't okay So Struggle is a choice. Okay. It's not It's not a family heritage It's not a badge of honor. It's a choice so I don't condone it But I don't say it's wrong. I just say The cycle hasn't not been broken with your generation, you know, if you choose to continue the struggle um simple choices can End the struggle end the struggle and end You know All of that can end it. You know, you'll have a new family Creed you'll have a a new reputation, you know um Same with men too, you know If you have a history Of, you know, men in your family leaving their spouse or children You know, you can be the one to break that. Okay I had a friend who uh You know whose dad left him front of the woman and he swore That he would never do that to his kids no matter what, you know That's a promise you have to make to yourself not to a woman But to yourself men You gotta make that promise to yourself to be a man, you know, anybody can uh fertilize an egg Okay, uh men need to make promises to themselves not other not to women but to themselves And as for women, we need to make promises to ourselves too not to get pregnant by someone who you know Cannot take care of you or your child. Okay, you need like an alert system, you know Low bacon cat alert and look bad job alert, you know Irresponsible alert have 10 different kids already alert Don't lay down with somebody who's had kids with other women who are not with them. They're gonna do the same thing to you Okay, keep it moving. Okay Be that snob and you'll you won't end up one of the Ones that he leaves behind. Okay Um, I remember I dated this guy when I was younger and he had like Kids by three different women. Okay. I'm like a lot. I dated him. Okay. I didn't know he had three kids by three different women in the beginning and um You know, I was like, okay And then I was like paying attention. I started paying attention because I was really young. I was like young I was paying attention. I'm like Okay, this is a loser Okay. Oh no, I can't live like he still lived with his mom. I'm like No, I can't live like this. Well, he was living with one of the baby mamas At first then he got then they broke up then he lived with his mom. Then that's when I met him and I'm like I was young and stupid, but you know, I was like I'll date you for about a summer That's it. That's all I could have done. I we had fun dancing to some Jamaican music in that summer But after that that was it. I'm done. Okay. I can't go backwards in my life. I have a plan. I have goals. Okay. You were just Like Rihanna say You didn't know I was a savage Okay, so anyway Yes break the cycle Make better choices ladies Struggle love is an option also, um, you know If you want a man who has it going on you need to have something going on about yourself, you know Whether it be your personality whether it be your looks whether it be something that you And only you can do that. No one else can do, you know A lot of men are always saying well, what do you bring to the table? And I always answer that question. I'm not bringing nothing to the table. I am the table, you know What you bring it to me? Whatever whatever, you know, never answer that question ladies when men ask you what you bring to the table walk off Walk off walk off and say I'm bringing Uh, I how can I bring anything to the table when I am the table? Okay And just walk off and like you ain't ready for this because you still ask it be How many bills I can pay on how much I got on it, you know, you need a roommate don't need a woman Okay, um So I will leave it at that. I know this video was kind of all over the place But sometimes those are the best kind of videos because you can take something from here and here and here and um The whole point of the video was to answer question if I was rich would I be married? Yes, I would be married, but probably to a different person. Why I'm going to answer why Because when I met my husband, I was 22 years old and um He Was the type of man that could take care of me and give me everything I needed Okay, I don't know if I was rich if I were rich rich at 22 years old Would I have even talked to him or we'd have kids together? Probably not. I would probably have You know Married somebody else later on whenever I felt like, you know I'm supposed to be married It would be more out of You know, oh something that you're supposed to do because you're a woman type of thing, you know it wouldn't have been because I was attracted to his ability to protect me to take care of me to teach me things to show me things that I've never seen before um to Worship me basically I would like I don't think I would have married him if I had money because when you have money It's like, okay. Well, I don't really need a man. You're interesting. You're really not my type I don't even want to get to know you because You're not my type and I already got everything you can't offer me anything. I don't you know, you can't offer me anything like That's why women are attracted to men with money because They can offer them more than just money. They can offer them Security protection to teach them things how to earn money. Okay? Um, they can teach them You know lots of things and women will respect a man that It's like that. Okay. Now if you have your own money It's gonna take a lot to impress a woman with money. Okay, you got to do tricks and flips and Be able to you know, you got to have a perfect six pack and You know, um Look good at some Calvin Klein. I don't know you just you're gonna have to be damn near perfect damn near perfect because Most women only respect Men, you know that have accomplished a lot of things in life or that's Something beautiful to look at like a statue. Okay That's it. Otherwise, it's kind of like I don't really need a man. I'll take it or leave it. You know, I got this I got everything already Um, you know, and then the woman will always be paranoid. Oh, is he cheating on me? Is he using my own money to go cheat on me because I know how men are and Blah blah blah blah. So no, I don't think I'd be married until I was about 35 36 if I was rich I would probably wait till the last minute and then go try to have some kids with a pretty boy and then Make sure that prenup was signed real good and That they ain't gonna be able to take anything from me And then I just keep him as my boy toy until he probably starts cheating up later on in life When uh, he realized that uh, I don't know I'm just making it up. Um But yeah, I probably wouldn't be married to the man that I married to if I had money. No But hey, I'm glad I didn't have money Because the man that I married to taught me a lot of things. He taught me how to make money He taught me how to be patient how to be optimistic. He taught me Um About, you know valuing, you know, certain things Put in priorities in order And all those things so I'm glad that I married somebody who had the keys to success already And they could pass them down to me and teach me so that we can teach our children And so that when they grow up, they'll already know what to do. Okay. So yes, I did marry my husband Because of what he could do for me And I'm glad I did because otherwise I wouldn't be the woman I am today. All right. I'll see you later. Bye