 You got to have self-control with yourself control to me when I meet a woman for the first time I'm not even thinking about having sex with her. I know that sounds crazy. I do want to smash don't get it wrong But I'm not thinking about having sex with her why Because I can have sex with a lot of other women. What's so special about her? What the fuck is she bringing to my table? You see I'm saying guys See most of you guys she already knows the game. She knows you want sex So she's gonna play you based off of your desire and your hunger for sex But when you have control over your thoughts and who you are you don't make it about sex because what y'all don't understand is While you're talking to on the phone or texting her you really having sex with her on a mental level