 As the Magnus site movement roaches forward to one million subscribers, 84,000 strong or 3,000 or four on its way to four. I can't remember. Anyway, so this email here comes from a Magnus Seat. I haven't gotten an email from a Magnus Seat type in a little bit. So let's get this in, shall we? So it says to please help. It's a dating and standards issue. Hi Tyrone. Without the E, my name has an E on the N1, but I shall let that go. So as I recently started watching your videos and you show such intellect and head screwed on, so I thought I'd seek your advice. Thank you. About three months ago, I met this guy who asked me out through work. He was a tall spicy chocolate and I was vanilla with a punch. Sound like you're starting off your own little romance novel here. I rejected him at first, but he kept pursuing me and it impressed me. So we exchanged numbers. We went out a few times and very quickly I noticed that it was losing impact. He started requesting more and more that I come to his place rather than actually make the effort to pursue me by going on dates, getting to know and getting to know each other properly, not casually. He would keep saying that he wanted to make me his girlfriend, but I was on the fence about things the whole time. He would be reluctant to actually ask me out, but insisted that he's the type of gentleman that would swoon and charm the lady. Now I'm very romantic and I need that a man who can lead and take charge. So let me stop you for a second because you said it started to lose impact, but you did say you went out a few times. So if you went out a few times, that means you went out on a few dates, right? Is that what you're telling me? If you went out on a few dates, apparently he got comfortable enough with you where he wanted to invite you to his place. Now I'm going to tell you right now, there's not too many guys out there that continually go on a bunch of dates. Even me, when there was this girl that I was dating, I think we went on two dates and a week after the first date, I was destroying her. So we talked for a week because we met on a Saturday. We went out on Friday because we went to the movies. We kissed when we went to the car. Then the very next week, where we go, I think we went to Chili's for dinner. We kept it really casual as far as dinner went. Chili's is more of a casual. It's not like capital or anything, and then we was getting in. Hard and good. So it doesn't mean that he's not a quality guy or not even a gentleman, but what you may seek is more of a traditional gentleman, a guy that all it is is dates. You sound old fashioned to me, which isn't a bad thing. There's not too many guys left that are actually that shithorist. And I know a few guys that are good men, but they just don't take girls out that much. But let me keep going here. So I clearly told him that this is what I seek and need in a relationship. No half-assed attempts and merely texting with no intentions to plan a date and court me. So you're using words like courting and all this, like you sound really old fashioned. I don't know any women my age that even talk like that. It seems like this guy was pinching pennies with me, which was baffling because he wasn't exactly broke, which is something you don't exactly know. Some guys will spend most of their bill money just to take you out and quote unquote treat you right just to impress you. And then because he doesn't have the money, but he doesn't want to lose face. He doesn't want you to lose respect to him for him. I think he's not a good man and think that he can't provide. He just offers to ask you over for leisurely encounters. You know, hey, let's watch some movies. Hey, let's do this. I can't tell you. And it's just because this is how I am. I've always been like this. I've always been very casual, very casual. And I've never traditionally ever taken women out on dates. Majority of the time it was getting to know you time. So like I remember this one girl I met and you know, I went to see her at a high school football game. That was the first time we actually hung out and I talked to her. And then we went to the mall and hung out and went to Burger King. This is when I was younger. And then we're like other girls like I remember we went to this one girl we went to Dave and Buster's. We had some finger food, talked all night, walked around, filling and stuff. You know what I mean? Like that's how I always said it was. So don't think that the guy's a bad guy. Just because you're not doing things. But I understand that you want romance. Yeah, so I'm gonna get to that in a second. So I hinted and suggested a few things he could do. Yes, I was getting more frustrated. This just hold encounter sounds like one of my old relationships. And that only got him to dig his heels deeper, saying that I need to let him do it. Well, those gestures never came. What I didn't understand was he was the one that started this. He said that I am his ultimate woman. So why play my games? As you can tell, we both are headstrong and neither one would give up. The sex was amazing. But there was always something off. He started showing signs of out of God's and disrespect, which just tipped me off the edge. Guys usually start talking shit after they didn't hit you off enough. And you're starting to piss them off. That that will happen. Because you're pressuring him. I'm not saying that he's right and you're wrong or you're wrong. He's right. Or he's wrong and you're right. I'm not saying that, but I'm just feel tipping you in. Okay, start showing signs. In the end, we stopped all contact three weeks ago. And I am driven crazy because he's the best sex I have had in a long time. Damn, this sounds too familiar. So do I stick to my guns and standards of a quality man? Or do I give him one more chance? And if so, how do I deal with it? Or do I just call him for a booty call? P.S. You have the same eyes. I knew it. See, one of my fling. Look, girl, look, if we ain't doing that right now, you know, things just had to had to go. You know what I mean? I will go with the last option and just call me for a booty call. Just in case this ain't one of my old things talking. Let me sink my teeth into this. So what was funny is men tend to stick with how a relationship started. Let me give you an example. When me and my last girlfriend were together, we started out very, very casual. And that's how it stayed. Never took her out on any dates. Actually, one time I took her to Cracker Barrel. We did go to Cracker Barrel for a lunch. I wanted to actually come visit. She told me she was getting out of church. And I said, I want you meet me at Cracker Barrel for some lunch. She was like, okay, so we went and talked. And after we had gotten together, she had told me a few years later that, you know, it always bothered her that we never had a courting process that was never a dating process. And she was a huge romantic. And I wasn't kind of like this guy. And that's the thing with guys. If he romantically perceived, he stopped, but the thing is with me is that you want more dates out of him. But the thing is, is he got comfortable before you did. That's what happened. He got comfortable before you did because and we men do that. Like, we're not like, you know, in our 50s. And we won't continue to just ask you out to do it. Why, ma'am, you're a handsome woman. I'd like to take you out on 18 more dates. You know what I'm saying? Like it's, it's more expensive than what women think. Okay. When I was rolling in it, a couple of years ago, when I was a man, I took Sarah out all the time, always buying her stuff jewelry, dresses, food, taking to the movies or restaurants. I used to man, she used to get a lot of shit from me. But as things went on, you know, different financial situations happen, that shit can't happen all the time. And some women just have to realize that some brothers are doing the best that they can at the time that they can. And you have to look at it for what it is. Is the if the relationship really has substance, then you stay with that man stop harassing them about dates. Okay. But if it don't have substance, then I kind of get it or are you starting to feel cheap because the sex is so good? Are you meeting up just to fuck? And you're starting to feel maybe used or like the date isn't true. The relationship isn't truly a romantic one because you're, you know, just going to see him and you're not getting a romantic evening with the dinner and conversation before you have sex. Okay. One way to get what you want is to ask and persist. But you have to be persistent, very, very persistent, and strong in the beginning. And the guy will get the point. If you lacks a day's ago about it, and you let it go, he's going to let it go. Just like the other way around. I'm sure you've been maybe asked something to do something by a guy or a guy wanted something out of you. He kind of laid off on it. And he got relaxed. So you got relaxed. So I mean, do what you like with this. I mean, I feel like you don't truly care about each other like that. Anyway, I feel like the sex is off the fucking chain. So you know, if he calls you again, and you really want a relationship with him, tell him what you need or no. And if not, go ahead, make him a booty call. I was a booty call with someone for a full gear before we got together. So you know, and that's exactly what it was. And we eventually grew on each other. And that's how we got together. But the whole booty call relationship was absolutely fine. So I hope I've answered all your questions and PSI have the same eyes. Are you trying to seduce me, Mrs. Robinson? 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