 Hey. How are you? I'm good. That's a girl. How are you? I'm well. What you got for me? I'm 38. So what do you have for me? I wanted you to assess what you thought my value was because I do date. I just got back on the market and I pervert high value men. Well, I'm not really doing ratings, but I can give you an idea. I can give you an idea, but I'm not really doing ratings, but I can give you a general idea. Okay, let's go. How tall are you? I'm five, seven. Dress size? Four. How much did you weigh last time you weighed yourself? 130, it was like 136. Okay. Any children? Yes. How many? One. Age and gender. Nine. Female. Got a girl. Baby girl. Okay. You were married to her father? I wasn't. Okay. Hard truth. I haven't said it earlier on Instagram, so if you go back, you'll see it. A kid knocks two points off of every woman. Okay. Who? Okay. So let's say if you're a 10 and you have a kid, you drop to an eight. If you're a nine, you drop to a seven. Because it's that big of a deal. Are you looking to get married? I am. Okay. Are you 38? Yeah. I turned 39 and 50. Looking to have any more children? Okay, are you looking to have any more children? It depends. It depends on my mate. I do date older men, so if he ends up being a certain age, then I'm gonna opt out of that. But I would like to have another child. I would like for my child to have siblings. Okay. Just maybe one. Okay, so and the thing is when you put this high, and you're like a CPA or something? No, I work for a public accounting firm. I'm an advisory. I've been in corporate finance for 16 years. Okay, so automatically, what starts to complicate things is when you really start talking about high value, high value men tend to have to, you don't tend to become high value until you're 35 or 40 years old. Uh-huh. Then it went babies. Right. And you already got your baby. But I got one. Again, you got one, but logistically take you out of it. Yes. You know that if a man is looking, has had to wait and delay gratification, he's gonna want to have more than one kid. He's gonna want to have three. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. I'm an only child. I tell a man, don't do one. Two is pfft. So three is not in the repertoire. So you're looking for extremely specialized high value guy. Looking for a guy who wants one kid and it's all right with being a stepfather. Mm-hmm. What state are you in? I'm in Houston, Texas. Oh, geez. Yeah. And the Houston is loaded with finesse niggas. Woo! I know, man. I gotta ask, why high value? Why does he need to make them with food? Well, it's not even about, it's about a well-rounded man that's been grown properly. First of all, I've been in corporate finance for a long time. Then where are you going? Where are you going? You got to tell me that. It come down to this. If you got married. He has to be able to match my fly at least. And then what's that? Mentally. But what is the income, though? Where is my income? Give me a range, don't give me specifics. We in the six figures, we doing well. We doing well and I was doing well as an entrepreneur. Do you care if he's black or not? I don't care if he's black or not. I prefer to be a good black man. Is your child's father black? Yes, he is. All right, so it will matter because it will matter because tend to be, so eight percent of black men earn more than six figures and you want them to match your fly. And because here's what it comes down to. If I gave you, uh, call him James. Actually, call him Kenneth. Kenneth, Kenneth. And you know my daddy named Kenneth. All right, we'll call him, call him Thomas. I don't know. You're Tom Thomas. All right, you're Thomas is doing fine. And Thomas is making 60. He's a he's a master plumber and he gets $60 an hour. But he's really making $65,000, $70,000 a year. He's in the top 15 percent of black men. But you and Thomas decide to get serious and you want to get a home. And you're going to get a home based upon his income. No, you're going to want a home based upon your income and your lifestyle and his income. But then it comes down to this. Let's just say the mortgage is $2,500. OK. You were paying $1,700 and he'd be paying eight every bill that came down. You'd be paying two thirds of it. He's paying a third of it. Everything, everything. Every gallon of gas you bought, you paying two thirds. And he pay a third every gallon of gas in his car. You paying two thirds. He's paying the third. And this is what a shit. You see, I take the drink. It's got a tight like, oh, shit. Look, this ain't for some tea. I ain't playing with you. But the thing is, but the thing is, it gets real there because it is hard for women to really think about splitting their money like that with a man. It's not so much difficult for me to think about it, because I think about the opportunity for us to become accredited investors now. That's why I think about the threshold. OK, so there are several things I'm thinking about. And then I know strategy. So I could take a plumber and have him have an entire business because that's the way that my mind works. And so I would make that work for us. Put your penis up. Somebody's laughing. You see what you just did? I just. You see what you just did? See how I gave you. I gave you a man who's I gave you a man who's out doing just fine on his own. And you got to go make him make him earn one and be like you. That ain't going to work, boo. It's not. So you're going to mess with the hell out of him. Because it's like, well, now I'm trying. I've been a time and she's been a plumber for 20 years. And you just happy. Yeah, now she's got me trying to have a truck and this and that going over here. Why? Well, because she's used to working bags, you know, she thinks we can become accredited investors. And what's that going to be like sitting up in the bed on Sunday when Thomas wants to sleep in? Hey, you know, you should get up and start their website. We can do this. We can do that. Now, you see why I say somebody got to be on the same frequency as me, somebody that enjoys preparing and creating a masculine frequency. Oh, OK. You're not on the right view on a masculine frequency. OK. So if you want somebody on that, OK, are you all right being one of five? Oh, I already had this scenario and I didn't like that. Well, then are you all right with letting Thomas just be you not going to accept Thomas? Why does Thomas have to be my scenario, though, when I'm surrounded by being that of like engineers and they don't know about your mamas. I feel like 40 years old because they want somebody given because because an engineer like myself who had to work to make up I want three of my own kids and I don't we paying for yours. But I've been paying for mine. Yeah, every every dollar I put in your kid's mouth is a dollar I'm not putting in my kid's mouth. But is there this and listen, listen, let's take it away from you because it gets too personal. OK, how was your child? How was this? How was a single mother's child an asset to another man? Come on, accountant. Only in the legacy that she lives and leaves. But she's not an asset to me because there's no DNA tied to me. She's nine years old. She's I am putting into I am. That man would be putting into your baby daddy's legacy. I would be paying it. That's a big investment. Oh, it's your investment. But it's I've been a stepfather. I can't go get the money back that I put into my stepson. But it's wrong. Well, all the dollars I put into that, even though it was there, I have to accept the fact that it didn't go into my daughter's mouth. Right. Because at stepfather's, you have no legal claim. And how many stepchildren. How many times do you see somebody stepping up to get a ticket and an award? They want to say, I didn't think my stepdaddy. They always think they step, mama. When their mother and men, you know how this goes. So your ambition, you make too much. And you waited too long to have a lot of opportunities in this area. That's true. I agree with you on that. So why did you wait this long? I was really focused on entrepreneurship like during my 20s. I really enjoyed my career. And I honestly did not take dating seriously. I was really dating for fun because I was really more self-focused on my career. So you were married? And the only time I took it seriously was after I was forced to settle down, which by having my daughter at 30. And then it was like, OK, well, now I understand the value of. And so and when I do this broadcast next week and I explained to black women how they were, how they bought into this dream or anybody else. I agree with you on that. And unfortunately, I can't undo that because you can't get those years back. Right. You will focus on your career. OK. But that's how our parents advised us, honestly. That's what they were told. My daddy advised me like that. Well, but the thing is, I'm not going to look. But I feel what you're saying. The problem is the problem is that non-black women in your position don't look at their men with contempt. I agree. I have and have had clients who make far more money than their male counterparts, their husbands. And they are submissive. And they're not trying to get their husbands to become copies of them. Maybe it's because I associate blue collar work with. And this is my own fallacy. And I apologize to anybody that might feel slighted by this statement, but I'm just being transparent. Like maybe I associate blue collar work with not being well-traveled, intellectual. Where have you traveled to? I'm sorry? Where have you traveled to? I've been to the Philippines, Japan. There's several places I haven't been, but I've been a few places overseas. I've been, of course, a lot of places domestically. I have a bucket list, though. I know of places I would like to go. There are places I've planned on going in 2021 also with my daughter to start helping her. Who's her father? Is her father a high-value man? He does well for himself. He is an entrepreneur. Yep. I don't want to go into too much detail. He's not living a lifestyle that's in alignment with mine. All right. So you put yourself in a position because, like I said last night, your income and your education do not matter to the kind of men. They don't matter. And that's what you're judging me on. And the guys who are actually effectively around what could work for you, you think they're beneath you. I don't think they beneath me. I just try to. I don't think that beneath you, your money or your education doesn't make your high value. If they're just not, what you didn't say is if you met a guy who was in the top 15% of earners of black men, you didn't say, oh, I would be happy and be thankful I got someone who'd be willing to step in and be a stepfather to my daughter and would be willing to take on the liability of another man's responsibility. We didn't get to that part yet. But no, no, no, but because we didn't get to that because you automatically said that you would try to get him to make more money and do other things other than realizing. I see what you're saying. Other than realizing he is giving you one of the biggest gifts of all. He is accepting your lack of giving him children and taking on somebody else. You should be washing his feet with your hair. OK. So out of the eligible men that are making us to be right now and needing to be right now, you saying that I should just be thrilled that these men are into me the way that they are? I'm not saying I can't. I don't know the eligible man that you're dating. I'm saying that if a man who was talking about like Thomas, a man who's in the top 15% of earners of black men and is willing to step in and marry you, that puts you in the one out of four black women that will ever marry in their lifetime. You should treat him like a king for the fact that he's willing to do that. In addition to the fact that you have a child by another man that he has to pay for. I agree with you. And ask him, how many children would you how many children would you like to have with your wife? Probably going to be more than one, but he's going to accept one from you. And he has to raise one that you already have. He's the one that will be sacrificing a lot. So instead of trying to get him to do anything else, you should be, honestly, it's like, oh, thank you. Because see what used to happen when women used to have children out of wedlock? Yeah. You were a pariah. No one wanted you. In China? In China? And you've been overseas? Try this shit in Japan. Try it in Korea. You're called up. You know what they call you over there? Women who are unmarried over age 27 called leftover women. Leftovers. But women who have children out of wedlock are pariahs. And we used to do that in this country, but we've made it OK to where you can even go sit up in a church with a child. To where you just think a man should accept it and be like, there's no big deal, because I can take care of my daughter. But understand, you had a daughter, right? I did. I do have a daughter. So let's just say change his name to whatever. Let's change his name to something sexy like Boaz. You marry Boaz, and Boaz, Boaz is matching your flow. Boaz is a $110,000 insurance salesperson. OK. All right, he's doing his thing. You and Boaz got Boaz Junior. And then your daughter turns 14, 15 years old. You and Boaz have married five years. And one day you come home and your daughter's in tears and say, what's wrong, baby? Boaz touched me. Boaz is dead. Everything that Boaz, first thing you're going to do is fuck Boaz, fuck my kid, fuck everything else. What you do to my daughter, you've got to deal with your ex husband or your baby daddy, because she's going to tell his daddy. Boaz has been a stepfather to a daughter. In the Me Too generation, it's asking for a lot of problems. Trust me, which is why when she was born, I literally said, I ain't dating. I said, fuck it. I said, I'm going to wait until she 18. But now I would like a companion. I know what you would like now. But the thing is, you have to ask yourself, what am I asking a man to do for me? OK. See, you ladies are good at saying what you want. And what I'm good at doing is asking you what the kind of men you want want. But then when you have a child, much less a daughter, you asking a man, I mean, you know how this happens. If she says something, it's guilty until proven innocent. Trust me, I. Remember what I said, you and Boaz had a child, Boaz Junior. It wouldn't matter, Boaz Junior's there. Now, Boaz Junior got to see how his mom was turned on his mom for his step-sister. Thinks that he going to like his step-sister. And God forbid she was just doing it just to be malicious. Because you know how many times kids are called, CPS, children use stuff. Ma'am, all these things are in man's mind. This is why. I understand. We have gotten to the point to where you should not marry before you have children. And if you have a child, you should marry the child's father because you guys have the investment. This is why I say it's all liability for a man. All liability. Understood. So I get what you want. I do. I do. But you know, like I know, you want a man on a certain kind of income level. And I don't know if you've got enough there to make somebody who has those kind of options pick. He only gets one for you, too. You've been choosing me, though. Choosing you for what? Well, for what? Listen, I'm going to be honest with you. Can I talk to you for real? When I talk to other men about the option of women, I can be honest with you. A lot of women can be beautiful, but they lack substance. That's one of my pluses. Choosing you for what, though? Choosing you for what? Right now, since I've been on the data scene, they choosing me to date with a purpose. We dating with a purpose. No, no, no, no. Choosing, see, this is what I talk about. Women will take the mistake that a man will choose you, will deal with you as if that means he was going to marry you. No, no. I'm talking about a man chooses you when he's willing to drop to one knee and present a ring of significant characters in public. Agreed. That's why I'm single till I'm married. So men will choose you because you're an attractive single mother who has sexual desires. Let's go, let's get it in. Let's do what we do. Let's talk. Let's talk this shit. Talk all this. Let's talk that. Well, you ain't just. Come on. I didn't say. You ain't got to be. Hold on, hold on. It's a deal with everybody. I did not say that. It's a lot of comments down there. I'm not worried about the comments. I'm talking to you. OK, come on, Kevin. You're looking at comments. I'm talking to you. All right, I was most out of it. I'm saying that you're a healthy woman. Yes, you can have a great time with the man. But it is going to be difficult to find a high value man. Because that's what you want. A man who's making a certain cut. It would be eat. Your daughter's nine. She wouldn't be out of house until 18s, nine years. She'd be 47. Only 8% of black men made that kind of money. I'm sorry. And y'all aren't happy with regular guys. I just don't understand. No, I'm not saying that I'm not. I'm just saying that. Well, you know, I know, I know, but it's not your first choice. And if you did get them, you feel like you were settling. And we know on YouTube and Instagram, people are watching. You and I know it's true. We know it's true. That it's not something you'd be proud of. But it ain't like you'd be running after people. Tell them, oh, I'm so proud of my guy who's a plumber. Oh, I just love his plumbing ass to death. Come on, that's not what I'm saying. Listen, if I choose him, trust me, believe it will be for a reason. Of course, but many reasons. And this is one of the problems of having dating with children. And because you have the child, you have grown accustomed to how you have to move. But every movement, every sacrifice you make, you have a child that is yours for the rest of your life. So it's all investment. You get a return. Somebody who's outside of you has no return. It's all, it's all expense. Investment. Men have an expense. And as a smart financial person, what are the things you want to do? Lower your risk. Minimize your risk. Minimize your risk. Minimize your expenses. I agree with you. I'm sorry, but that's what it goes down to. So I don't know what's wrong with you and your ex, but that'd be your best bet. That's not my best bet, but I will, however, re-evaluate my options and consider guys. Like, it's not about the salary thing, but I just need to consider guys that maybe there are cultured men that don't make six figures. I mean cultured. When do you mean cultured? Like, I like to do that as well, Rand. What are you from? I'm from Houston, Texas. Most city-wedder girls are pretty. I live in Houston for six years. What do you mean by cultured? Why is that so important? It is important to me because, for one, I like to be able to enjoy different things with a person, art, music. I like to be able to go to different museums. I'm the type of person I consider. Did you do that with your ex? Did you do it with your child's father? Yeah, some of those things. Yeah, a couple of those things. But that's not some, but that it wasn't a nature of your relationship. No, it wasn't. And the nature of our relationship was a friendship. So a man that you reproduce with did not have to romance you and do all this other kind of stuff. But then a man who is going to be a stepfather has to deliver more. No, that's not what I'm saying. That's not what I'm saying. But that's what I'm hearing. In my history of dating, men have romanced me. I've enjoyed that. I mean, I'm not saying romance. I'm talking about the culture and this and that. You didn't have to do all that. He did a few of those things, y'all. A few. A few. We connected on a level that I would appreciate actually was consistent in other men. It wasn't consistent with him. But what I'm saying is, OK, OK, but the thing is, the thing is, you said you want somebody who's culture and your baby, your B.D. wasn't culture. No, he was. He was educated. Was he cultured to the level that you're talking about? I would say for the most part, there wasn't anything that we couldn't talk about. So I would have to say, yeah, he was really educated, intellectual. I mean, he was a guy that I liked and I enjoyed being around. So I would say yes. And I actually date those kind of guys now. You can't set your standard higher than your B.D. Well, I would say this. When you find out. I mean, any woman. Any woman can do that. Well, Kevin, at some point, you have to, right? So as you date, as you evolve, as you evolve, the level of or your standards change over time. OK, no, no, no, no. See, it's where you ladies get confused. Why? Because listen, listen, listen, OK. Here's a business. Here's a business problem for you. Name me a product that increases as it ages and gets used. Appreciating assets. It's like, it's like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Name, name me a product. Give me give me an example of a product. OK, let's name what people relate to in a retail Rolex. It doesn't appreciate the value. No, it doesn't. It does not appreciate in value with use. OK, not with use. OK, I hear what you're saying with use. There's not exactly not in the terms you talk about. So what you ladies try to do is try to act, try to come and say, well, as I've got an older and more experience, I should be more valuable because I got more experience. Yeah, but the job you are on or the things you're doing got the benefit of your experience. I'm just getting you at the top of your experience. That means you want me to pay prime experience and I didn't get the value of you getting there. You're asking too much. I think listen. I'm sorry to be so quickly. But older use just because see the thing is you value yourself higher because you matured and learned more and got all these other experiences. And for the thing is that doesn't matter to us. Well, we look at listen how men think about it. Hold on. It's going to get tight. That's just additional miles. We're looking at the fact that you the gravity has been on you more than your kid is sitting over there. You cannot. Y'all are all out of whack with how men think. This is why you can't get what you want from us because you're valuing something up here that is a used vehicle with a lot of miles. OK. Just because you hand washed it. OK. I said this last night on my show. Do you believe that because this is where I'm at. At 20, the way that I dated men is now different than the way that I date men at 38. And the expectation that I have while I'm interacting with them, even on the surface level, when you do the first lunch meeting and all of that, my expectation level is different now from that experience. Not that I expect him to pull out all the nuts and bolts and whistles, but my expectation level of transparency. That's the problem. And that's the problem. No, I said I'm not expecting that. I'm saying I'm expecting a different level of transparency because of the way that I enter into the scenario. All right. But the thing is at 20, you were 20-year-old hot. You had 20-year-old wound. You had 20-year-old body count. You had 20-year-old trauma. You had 20-year-old experience. That's what we value. That's all it comes down to for us. But don't you feel like with those experiences, a person can add value to it all the time? Look. If we plan to be a life partner. OK, you want me to answer? Yes. Men value your youth, your fertility, your purity, your femininity, submission, ability to cooperate, and fitness. And all of that is at your highest in your youth. The older you get, the older you get. Right. But no product gets more expensive with time and use. You just sit back and say, I'm more valuable now because I'm not this same 20-year-old. I am this. I am that. Fine. But have you ever been to the pawn shop? Yes. All right. If it takes up to you really value to the pawn shop. I have. Did they hurt your feelings when they told you how much it was worth? Yes. I was like, what? Yes. That's you. We the pawn shop. Baby girl, I've been there. And you take something you really value to the pawn shop. This is a watch that tells time in France, mouse guy, and star. In fifth ward, it's worth $50. And did you hear the thing? Let me ask you a question. Did you take the money to pawn shop off it? Or did you leave with your product? I left with my jewelry. Well, guess what? Buy a dog, die alone. There's a funeral plot out there waiting for you. I don't think I'm going to die alone. But you get the ultimate point. But I got real. Your standards are up here. And you're like most women. Go to my show last night and there were 20 calls. And then the show before that with the single mother is another 15 calls. Yes, I saw that. 35 women all arguing with reality. And like six of them yelling. I feel like I'm in touch with my reality. I just feel like you're in touch with your reality. You are in touch with your reality. Unfortunately, that's you. That's what I say, guys. Women honestly believe this stuff. I give it. You're in touch with your reality. But it's your reality. Our reality is I'm a high-value man. I can pick you, her, her, her, her, her, her, her. I'm going to pick the best deal on the market. I know. And that's what I've been experiencing. But mainly what I have understood is that if I bring peace to the scenario, that's also wonderful. Like I have things to bring. No doubt. But here's the thing. All the things you have to bring peace, what about when you bring it and another one brings it and she's 27 years, 26 years old, and wants to have three of my children and no kids. OK, well, let me ask you this one more thing. Listen, the thing is, you guys never think that someone's bringing to the table what you have and more. You always assume you're the most valuable. No, I do because it's Houston, Texas. It's a lot of, I know what's out here. But I'm saying to you this. If I consider, which I have, consider that I like dating season men, OK? And I understand in that scenario. Season men meaning what? Because I'm not having that. Season men meaning what? Now, conversation. Season men meaning what? 50 plus. And what does that mean? I'm 52. And I'll tell you right now, I don't date women your age. Oh, but they hold baby. But they liking it though. And I'm just saying it's cool though. Listen, listen what I'm about to say. I don't date women your age, not because I can't. It's just I don't want to have to, I don't need to do all. Women your age tend to, this is a fun back and forth for content, but I'm not going to do this in my personal life. I'm dealing with women who are younger, who are happy to be there. They're cooperative and all sort of things. And then they listen to women your age. And I'm like, they know who my competition is. And I'm like, oh, I can be heard because all I have to do is not try to be as demanding. And the thing is, I mean, no offense, man. It's not like I've never met a black woman who didn't think her VJJ was the bomb. They all think y'all are the ish. And I'm going to tell you, no, no. And I'm trusting it. I've had plenty. I believe you. You said you was a kid. And the thing is, so it's like, if a woman I'm dealing with is, you know, a bona fide LA nine and she's on my program and she's like, I can beat her because, and I'm not as demanding in the ass when I was, I take her to Ruth Chris. She appreciates it. I take her to a Ruba. She appreciates it. You just expect it. You might listen, listen, not you. Let's go now. Let's go to Bahamas. Oh, yeah, I love the Bahamas. We should go. There's a store. Wait a minute. Everything I done with you and already been. Let's have a baby. Oh, I've been there too. Ain't nothing new with you. Ain't nothing new with you. Buy a car. I already did that. You own your own home. I have. I'm about to own another one. Home purchase, nothing new. Have a baby, ain't nothing new. What can I, what can a man really do with you just knew that somebody else ain't already done? We can become, we can begin, we can get married. We can become accredited investors. We can travel to other parts of the world that I haven't traveled. We can create new memories just within H-Town. Domestically. What else can we do? Listen to what you just said. After I marry you, there ain't gold places that you have not already went, but you've been to these places. So what if the places that you've already been, I want to go for? Oh, no problem. Because we can create our own memories there. Listen, listen, listen, listen. No, no, listen. See, to be a high-value man, I had to work 60, 80 hours. So I couldn't get out and travel. So now it's ready to go. And ready to go, it's like, all right, we married. Let's go over here. And I'm going to know you already went there. We can try to make it new, man, but you know what it is, once you've already been someplace, there's nothing new. There's no new magic with older women. And you keep talking about this accredited investor and this and that. We don't care about your money. No, it's not about my money, it's about our work. Listen, you may do well, but God's on my level, baby girl, that's what, a month income? I mean, really? It's not that big to us and guys like that. It's like, no cap, but it's like- No, I can't do it. Because accredited investors are just like, this bag costs more than, I bought this girl a bag that will cost more than your car. The point is, you don't understand that men want to feel like a king. And it's hard to make a man feel like a king when you've had so much experience with other men in life. You got a full nine-year-old. We're gonna go out of, we're gonna go out of, okay, let's, okay, you know what? You're dating me. All right, you know what? I want to go work, because my wife will never have to work. Never have to work. You know what? I want to make content from Spain. All I need is an internet connection. I'll take my sister, I'll send her. Okay, we're gonna go to Spain. Barcelona, and we're going to actually live in Barcelona for three months. Oh, we can't do that because your daughter has to be in school. Not true, virtual learning, and we can bring the nanny with us. And the private tutor is virtual as well. And I got to pay for nanny. And I still have to, I still, and here's the thing. I don't have my wife in Barcelona have a butt naked freaky circus sex. Doing all the things I want to do is a young married couple. We're already a ready-made family doing that kind of stuff. That's why you have a nanny. Yes. No, a nanny is fit. All of that. Oh, Jesus, she's not listening. See, this is why I said, this is why I say, ladies don't get it. Look, man, I've been on both sides. I've been on both sides, and I will tell you right now. That's why I said, women who are pet owners and being, you are a parent, and your dating a parent is just, there's no, the spontaneity. You can't just be spontaneous. That's true. Like you can't be with... That's true. I have to schedule all my... And the thing is, the kind of men you want, they value those kind of things. True. I mean, you think I'll be like, okay, we're gonna go to Barcelona. And I got to buy a nanny something, so all that is is more expenses. It is. And then also, I got to... We got to talk to your ex, your baby dad. We need to get him signed off on that because we can't take the child out of the continuous fire. We got to do all that because you just can't take these kids. And if he say no, then we got to do what? That is if that person has that type of barrier. I understand that will be an issue. Right. And what if the kids say, I don't want to go? Oh, baby gonna roll with mama. I mean, go on. So baby gonna roll with mama. So I don't want to be gone. So if the BD said I don't want to go, he has legal rights. He has legal rights. And if you guys have any kind of custody agreement, you can't take the child out of the contiguous counties without giving a... I would never violate anything like that. So if he says no, you can't take the child. You just simply cannot do what you want to. Absolutely. So, and even if he says, okay, and if she says she don't want to go, okay, but she gonna roll with mama. So that means the entire time I'm boss alone, I got a wife and I got a nine year old with an attitude. I want you to create a different scenario. All right. Well, we've been, okay, I've already, I'm all right, this is the problem. This is the situation. But I hear you don't. This is the situation you ladies with children put yourselves in and the higher up you go on the food chain, the more you want for a man, you never seem to understand that the men you want want things. They want a lifestyle. They wanna move a certain way. It's always the man that you want all these lists and these guys are supposed to just want nothing. No, they got requirements. That's why they'll deal with you. But when it's time to pick someone, they tend to pick a woman who has no children so they can make their own family and their own legacy. I cannot overstate that. The ladies really seem to have a hard time accepting it because of the choices you've made and you can't undo them. I respect it, but you can't undo them. I gotta get on to the next call, I know. Appreciate it. Thanks Kevin. Bye bye. Bye.