 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله ومبركاته بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم والصلاة والسلام على أشرف المهسلين سيدنا ونبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين يا ربنا لك الحمد كما ينبغي لجلال وجهك وعظيم سلطانك اللهم ابتح علينا فتوحنا عارفين اللهم معلمنا ما ينفعنا وانفعنا بمعلمتنا يا أرحم الرحيمين اليوم إن شاء الله سوف نتحدث about two of the female companions of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم the first one is زوجة جولي بيب the wife of جولي بيب and the second one is فاطمة بنت الخطاب so who are these female companions let's dig in زوجة جولي بيب the wife of جولي بيب رضي الله وحنهم her name was not known so who is this person she is known by زوجة جولي بيب this is the wife of جولي بيب رضي الله وحنهم so who is this person she is known by زوجة جولي بيب his name was unusual incomplete جولي بيب means small ground and it's the diminutive form of the word جلبب the name is an indication that جلبب was جولي بيب was a small and short جولي بيب is the long coat the long count that the woman wears so جولي بيب is the shorter form so it gives the implication that it was a small and short even of a dwarf like stature more than that his described جولي بيب was described as being the meme and the meme in Arabic means ugly very ugly and deformed in a way or another even more disturbing for the society in which جولي بيب lived his lineage was not known and there is no record of who his father or his mother was nobody knows about who his father was or who is his mother even so they even don't know anything about his tribe they know nothing about him so جولي بيب could not expect any compassion or any help any protection or any support from society that he lived in because the society plays a great deal of importance on family and on tribal connections and we know nothing about him so in this regard all that was known of him was that he was an Arab and as far as the new community of Islam was concerned he was known as one of the Ansar so this جولي بيب the disabilities under which جولي بيب lived would have been enough to have him ridiculed and chun in any society and in fact he was prohibited by anyone by one person whose name was Bersa he was prohibited even to enter his tent so was there any hope for جولي بيب being treated with respect and consideration no was there any hope for his finding emotional satisfaction as an individual and as a man no was there any hope for of his enjoying relationships like any other person relationships which are taken for granted again no but was what about the position of the new society that was emerging under the guidance of سيد المحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم was he insignificant also we have to stop here so just as he was aware of the great issues of life who سيد المحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he was aware of everything around him everything the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم was also aware of the needs and sensibilities of his most humble companions so with جولي بيب in mind the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم went to one of the Ansar and he he he said I want to have your daughter married and the man said how wonderful how blessed oh messenger of God and he what a delight to the what a delight to us so that was the reply of the Ansar Ansar man and with this joy and happiness سيد المحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said I don't want her I don't want your daughter for myself and the man said then for who oh messenger of Allah who are you asking my daughter for who is going to marry my daughter and سيد المحمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said the Ansar man have been too shocked he was too shocked to give his own reaction and to answer but he said I will consult with her mother and he went to see his wife so the messenger of God صلى الله عليه وسلم now now wanted جولي بيب to get married and he chose the young woman who he thought she is suitable for this man so let's see what happened then the man said to his wife the messenger of God صلى الله عليه وسلم wants to have your daughter married and she was also thrilled what a wonderful idea she said what a wonderful idea what a delight for us and he immediately said he doesn't want to marry her himself so she will not be the wife of the prophet but he wants to marry her to جولي بيب so the mother the mother was shocked to جولي بيب he wants he wants our daughter to be the wife of جولي بيب no no no never never to جولي بيب and she said she will not allow this she said no no I will not let her marry جولي بيب so the man got the answer and he was about to leave and to go to prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم to tell him of what his wife said but the daughter who heard her mother's reply she asked mom who proposed to marry me and her mom told her of the of sayidna Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم request for her and to marriage to جولي بيب and when she heard that that was the request that came from sayidna Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and that her mom absolutely opposed this idea she was she was greatly disturbed she said to her mom and to her dad أترداني أمر رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم do you refuse the request of the messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم أين تذهبان من قول الله تعالى how would you reply to Allah's verse وما كان لمؤمن ولا مؤمنة إذا قضى الله ورسوله أمر أن يكون لهم الخير أن يكون لهم الخيرة من أمرهم it's not for a believing man or a believing woman when Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم his messenger have decided a matter that they should have thereafter they should have any choice about their affair إدفعوني إليه فإن الله لن يوضع يعني send me to him for Allah shall not he certainly will not bring ruin to me so this was the reply of a truly great female who had a clear understanding of what was required of her as a Muslim she understood that that was the order of Allah that was the order of Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم so she would not question it she would not reject it she would not say no so what a great satisfaction can a Muslim find in responding willingly to the requests of Allah سبحانه وتعالى to the requests of the messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم so in our life when we obey Allah we feel happy when we pray we feel happy when we fast we feel happy when we do anything when we do anything of the orders of Allah سبحانه وتعالى we feel happy because we know that Allah سبحانه وتعالى it has promised great reward but even though we do not worship Allah سبحانه وتعالى because of the reward because we want to get into into paradise or we want to avoid hellfire no because Allah سبحانه وتعالى because He deserves to be worshipped so this female companion of the Prophet whose name we do not even know she immediately remembered the verse of the Quran that whenever Allah and his messenger have decided a matter it's not it's not for a believing person to claim freedom of choice so this is Allah's order I'm gonna follow it this is Prophet Muhammad's order I'm gonna follow it I'm gonna do it so this verse that she remembered is in Surat Al-Ahzab ayah 36 so we all have to understand this verb we all have to remember this verb this verse سبحانه وتعالى puts us in any situation then we have to think we have to accept Allah's orders because Allah's decree is gonna happen whether we like it or we don't like it فمن رضي فله الرضا ومن سقطف عليه السخط whoever is pleased with Allah's order then he will be pleased but whoever is not happy is not pleased with Allah's order then he will be punished but Allah's order is gonna be fulfilled so this female companion was married by the Prophet to Julayb عليه السلام and they lived together we lived happily together so سبحانه وتعالى dangerous imagine that the Prophet سلى الله عليه وسلم was the man the achmaker between these two two companions of his he chose her for him what a blessing she understood that this was an honor and she didn't want to miss it she got married and she lived happily with her husband until he was killed من المساعدة التي ذهبت وقلت مع سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم لذلك في نهاية الوصول المفتاح يسأل أصدقائه، وقلت إلى المساعدة الأولى وقلت لي، هل لديك أحد؟ وقلت لهم بحيث أن أعطوا أصدقائهم من أصدقائهم من أصدقائهم وقلت لهم، وقلت لي، وقلت لهم أيضاً في المساعدة، وقلت لهم، هل تعجبت بحيث أن يشآلوا أحد؟ وقلت لهم أنه لا لذلك فالثلق الثلاث معجبت على أنها no ونحن هنا، سيدنا محمد الله عليه وسلم ولكن أصدقائه جوليبيب، لتشغل with him في الأحياء ومايصدقائه حيث شعوروا جوليبيب خلالنم شخص معه seven of the non-believers كانت ستحصل علىه قبل أن ينقذته، وأنه هو أنفسي وكانت الجميع قد يتحركه وكانت يأتي إلى بحياته وكانت جولي بيب وكانت جولي بيب قد ينقذه وكانته جولي بيب قد يتحركه أبناء فائراء وكانت يحصل علىه هذا الناس هو مني و أنا منه إنه مني و أنا منه ما شاء الله يا الله، نسألكم نسألكم أن تكونوا من سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم نسألكم أن تقوم بعملنا من سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم و أننا نتفتح أسفلنا من سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم و أننا نتفتح أسفلنا من سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم لذا أنه يفتح هذا هذا الناس هو مني و أنا منه سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم يفتح هذه الأفضل وعليا أو ثلاثة و the Prophet then took him into his arms و then he himself سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم helped in digging the grave and he himself placed Julebeb in his grave so Julebeb and his wife are not usually among the companions of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم whose deeds are sung and whose exploits are recounted with reverence and admiration as they should be but with the little info that we know we know about them we see how humble human beings were given hope they were given dignity by the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم where once there was not only despair so everyone refused all the young girls refused the proposal of Julebeb for marriage but the attitude of this unknown and unnamed unsorry female companion of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم her attitude how she readily agreed she immediately agreed to be the wife of a physically an attractive man so this was the attitude which reflected the profound understanding of Islam it reflected on her part the unimportance of personal desires and preferences she did not care that Julebeb was not the husband on the white horse to propose for her everyone has special expectations for the man who is going to propose but she put all her desires on the side and she accepted him because of the request of صلى الله عليه وسلم so with this acceptance with this attitude this attitude reflected on her part a total disregard of social pressures also she didn't care what would people say about her she married the most ugliest the ugliest person she didn't care about that she cared about صلى الله عليه وسلم and above all this marriage this attitude reflected what do you think already already and implicit confidence in the wisdom and the authority of صلى الله عليه وسلم and submitting herself to what he deemed good so she knew that صلى الله عليه وسلم would choose the best so this was the attitude of the true believer so even if we do not understand the reasons behind some issues this is how we should act complete adherence to the messenger of الله complete acceptance to the orders of الله this is how our life should be so in جليبيب there is an example of a person who was almost regarded as a social outcast because of his appearance what happened he was given help confidence encouragement by سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and this is the result he got the he deserved the commendation of سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم when he said he is of me and I am of him so may Allah سبحانه وتعالى guide us all to the best of wisdom guide us all to to know what to answer when we are asked for something for the sake of الله for the sake of سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so may Allah سبحانه وتعالى grant us all the wisdom so we fulfill his orders without any questions so may he keep us close to him may he keep us close to سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم we want to be like جليبيب we want to say to him this person is of me and I am of him this was the story of the wife of جليبيب who we do not know even her name a female companion of سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم whom we learn a lot from may Allah be pleased with her may Allah be pleased with her husband and may Allah guide us to be like them moving on we will talk about another female character another female companion of سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم فاطمة بنت الخطاب what does this name remind you of who do you remember when you hear بنت الخطاب who remember her brother عمرو بن الخطاب the courageous عمر but who was Omar before Islam who was he عمرو was a head strong young man of great determination he saw Islam as a threat to Quraish and he became most violent and wild in his attacks on Muslims one day he decided that he has to put an end to the trouble so he decided to do something that that's so courageous so he took up his sword and headed to the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم to his house so on the way when he was going there he was very angry and he came face to face with one of the believers who believed secretly in the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم so looking at his face he saw Omar's cream expression so he asked him where he was going and Omar immediately said I'm going to kill Muhammad okay the believer the believer saw to discourage him from his intent but Omar was deaf to any arguments he noticing that there's no way of making him away from his intentions or changing his intentions this secret believer said to himself okay then I'm going to divert him by doing something I need to warn the Prophet of the intentions of Omar so he wanted to gain some time just to to to warn سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so what did he say he said Omar why not first go back to the people of your own house and set them to rights now this was a shock to Omar he said what people of my house and this this secret believer said your sister Fatima and your brother in law سعيد they both they have both forsaken your religion and they are followers of Muhammad in his religion Omar upon hearing this he got so angry he turned and he went straight to his sister's house he Omar was very angry he wanted to go and see what's going on he wanted to make sure that what he heard was correct so at the house of سعيد سيدنا سعيد and سيدة Fatima there was سيدنا خباب ابن الارت خباب often came to to the house he used to go to the house of سعيد رضي الله عنه so to recite Qur'an to him and to Fatima رضي الله عنه so he was with them at the time when when they they heard Omar's voice so they got scared خباب hid behind the corner of the house and Fatima concealed the manuscript the page of the Qur'an that she had in her hand but Omar had heard the sound of their reading and when he came in he said to them what is this هاينما what's this gibberish that I heard so they tried to assure him that it was only a normal conversation that that he has heard but he insisted he said I heard it it's not a normal conversation and he said is it possible that you both have that you both become apostates have you not considered the religion of your forefathers have you abandoned it and at this time سعيد he wanted to reason with Omar he knows that Omar is a very strong intelligent man and if you reason with him you can convince him so سعيد said have you not considered whether the truth is not to be found in your religion have you ever thought about that so he was trying to reason with Omar so Omar instead of understanding what his brother in law was saying he started to hit him and to kick him and when Fatimah went to the defense of her husband when she wanted to defend her husband Omar struck her up low on her face and Omar Omar what if the truth the truth is not in your religion I bear witness that there is no God but Allah and I bear witness that Muhammad is the messenger of Allah so Fatimah's wound was bleeding and when Omar saw the blood he was so sorry he's a loving brother so he was sorry for what he had done to his sister and him and having heard what she said there was a change over him and he said to his sister give me that script which you have and I myself want to read it and we all know the story Fatimah Fatimah said to him you are impure and only the pure may touch it go and wash yourself or make a blusion and then come to me make it all and come to me so as I just mentioned there was a change in Omar at that moment so he washed him he went and he washed himself and he came to his sister and he said now give it to me and she gave it to she gave the page to him and on that page there was the the ayahs the verses there were the opening verses of Surah Taha and he began to read it Taha ما أنزلنا عليك القرآن لتشقب and he kept reading until he reached إنني أنا الله لا إله إلا أنا فعبدني فعبدني وأقب الصلاة للذكر حقا أنا أحيان أنا الله لا يوجد ديتي عني فعبدني أحيان ويكون أصدقائي في القرآن لكي أتذكرني لذا أردت هذا أمار أمار هو أرب لذا كانت تفكر about the verses that he read and he said to his sister show me where Muhammad is so they went together they took him and they made their way to the house of الأرقب دار الأرقب and there they declared he declared his acceptance of Islam سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and all his companions rejoiced سعيد and his wife thought him up where the immediate cause which led to the conversion of the strong and determined أمار and this added actually أمار's accepting Islam added substantially to the power and the prestige of the emerging faith so the Muslims were more powerful now with the Islam of أمار بن الخطاب so Fatima with her strong character with her strong belief with her great love to Allah سبحانه وتعالى and to his messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم was the reason behind the Omar's accepting Islam so if we go back a little bit when Muslims were still few in number Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said اللهم أعز الإسلام بأحد الأمارين Oh Allah I want one of the two Omar's to be a Muslim so they would give us strength they would be a great support to he would be a great support to Islam to us and to the Muslims and when he said بأحد الأمارين with one of the Omar's he bent أمر بن شام or أمر بن الخطاب and Allah سبحانه وتعالى has chosen أمر بن الخطاب so it was أمر بن الخطاب who got the blessings of entering the under the falls of Islam he was a great source of courage for the Muslims so a sister was the reason for her brother to become a Muslim this is how how family ties should be one seeing a mistake made by by any family member should act for the sake of Allah سبحانه وتعالى should act out of love to that sinning member why because as a family members should love each other for the أخرة not only for the dunya so they should fear about each other they want to to meet all together in in heavens so they care for the أخرة of each other and he relies the the حديث of say جد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم الدين النصيحة religion is to give an advice and this advice should be only for the sake of Allah سبحانه وتعالى it should be purely the intention should be for the sake of الله سبحانه وتعالى so this is what فاطيم رضي الله عنها did so فاطيم they mentioned did a great favor to her brother she was with her husband the reason for him to become a Muslim so imagine these great female companions that we are learning about their stories so with this session actually with this meeting of us today we come to to the end of this series about the female companions of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم the female companions around سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم we shed some lights on the lives of 21 female companions of the profits throughout this series and we just mentioned a little bit about them due to the short time that we have so 21 female companions we learned about we learned some something about them فاتيما بن توسع فاتيما بن توسع أسد aboutهم سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم كانت أمي بعد أمي she was my mom after my mom she took care of him after his mom passed away رفيد الأسلمية and when we hear her name we remember her tent because she was a doctor she was the doctor she told nurses around her she she she took care of the wounded people in battles she her tent was blessed by سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and this was our second female companion that we talked about then we talked about خديجة رضي الله عنها the mother of the believers and we all know who this amazing mother of the believer was she was given the glad tidings of a palace in in Paradise Then we talked about زينب the daughter of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم we talked about her sister Fatima the daughter of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم we talked about الشفاق بن تو عبد الله and we talked about عائش بن تو طلحة أم رومان was the wife of سيدنا أبو بكر رضي الله عن and we talked about her daughter بن تو أبي بكر and we talked about الربي بن تو معوذ and we talked about أم سلين بن تو ملحان we talked about أم مع بعد who gave the most accurate description of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم how he looks looks like we talked about we talked about him بن تو أبو and about فاو تيم الزهر رضي الله عنها we talked about در بن تو أبي لحب the daughter of أبي لحب and أم جميل who were who were known for everyone that they are of the people of her fire but their daughter was we talked about الخنسا رضي الله عنها أم سلم the mother of the believers and we learned her دعاء اللهم اجرني في مصيبتي وخلوفني خير منها أو الله give me a word for for this uh uh calamity that I am in and replace me with a better with a better thing we talked about بركة أم أيمن رضي الله عن her the النان في صيد نمحم today we talked about جولي بيب وايف and فاتي مبينتو الخطاب رضي الله عنهم جميع so from these amazing female characters we learned a lot and these companions of سيد نمحم صلى الله عليه وسلم about them الله سبحان هو تعال سد in صورة الفتح محمد رسول الله والذين معه أشي الدع وع الكفر روح ما وبينهم تراهم ركع سجد يبتون فضلم من الله ور الدوان سيما هم في وجوه هم من أثر السجود look at the description at the characters at these characters whom الله سبحان هو تعال is talking about these are the companions of سيد نمحم صلى الله عليه وسلم so الله is saying محم is the the messenger of الله those with him are forceful against the disbelievers they fought bad badly with سيد نمحم صلى الله عليه وسلم merciful amongst amongst themselves you see and bowing and and prostrating in prayer making سجود making الكو or make سجود they're seeking the bounties from الله سبحان وو تعال and his pleasure what's their mark their mark is on their faces from the trace of frustration there is the light on their faces they're happy with الله they're happy with سيد نمحم صلى الله عليه وسلم and this is how we all should be so this is greatly illustrated in the characters of the chemical pens of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم we talked about during their footsteps we have to follow the orders of سيد نمحم صلى الله عليه وسلم he said صلى الله عليه وسلم أصحابي كان نجوم بإيه موه بإيه موه تديتم وقت تديتم my companions my companions are like stars my companions are like stars whichever of them you whichever of them so my companions are like stars whichever of them you follow whichever of them you follow you will be rightly guided whichever you follow you will be rightly guided so we ask الله سبحانه وتعالى to be like them we ask الله سبحانه وتعالى we ask الله سبحانه وتعالى to grant us the love and to unite us with him صلى الله عليه وسلم الله تو we ask him to give us the love of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم الله ما صلي على حبيبك المصطفى والسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته السلام عليكم