 i'm going to be really yes with this basically saves you time psychological energy i let girls know within a minute or two your fucking sexy would get to know you i'll start hitting on her a letter now my attention if she's not interested in this uh... not like you the boyfriend whatever cool awesome high-five great we met big hug see later okay or hey maybe you're cool we can be we can be friends maybe she's really awesome that's possible saves a lot of psychological energy that's huge when you're when you got shit running in your head we walk away from a girl you're saying oh man i've just wasted my time i hate her why she does after i spoke to her for forty five minutes that's killing you right everything is connected your you're wasting a huge amount of energy uh... and it's extremely counterproductive they do not waste your psychological energy get more action you actually get more action take anyone guess why you get more action being direct just being clear about what you want wow what's that absolutely if you're actually say more time you can meet more girls absolutely but just as importantly you're actually asking for exactly what you want there's a chance you might actually get it it's really that simple you're asking hey alexandrosi some girls are made by yeah i'm horny you have some pussy cool instead of a so do you know where the uh... yeah i was just kind of lost can you help me knows yet of course of course is more awkward you're just you're just fapping around let's just say that you know uh... not asking make some awkwardness less awkwardness absolutely oh yeah this is a huge one when you're directed authentic honest you end up with women who are actually into you who wants to be with a girl who likes them for who they are anybody yes okay so when you're inauthentic use any kind of premise you know if you're using routine whatever it is you're doing but if you're not really just being like you know i like it when it gets to know you if you're being inauthentic you're trying to impress girls whatever you're doing you end up with a shake doesn't really like you she likes what you represented maybe it was your car maybe it was you know you you know pretending you had a certain type of personality trait that you don't have whatever it was ultimately this is why a lot of guys just don't have girlfriends they just end up like having one night stands and all that stuff because they're they're not projecting who they are they're projecting you know a bunch of bullshit to get girls and you'll get girls who fall for that kind of stuff hey you know have a Lamborghini or hey let's do this routine and I'll impress you look how interesting I am but you're not that interesting you don't drive a Lamborghini okay so yeah you'll hook up with some chick and you'll never see her again because you're not that person you're representing okay so by being direct you're essentially you're being authentic so you're gonna end up with chicks who actually like you for who you are and that's the most important thing you get to a point eventually where you don't really have to try to get women like if you're just cool being yourself and you're having a good time you're just jumbling around just being you girls are gonna sense that he disguised as but in cool being himself he doesn't give a shit so they're gonna be attracted that automatically you don't have to do jack shit imagine just sitting at home and girls just want to see you without using escort services just put that out there escorts are not your friend by the way this is my second-ever powerpoint presentation it's awesome isn't it's like cheating you know you can't forget what to say it's on the board you get more respect this is a huge one they women respect a man who has the balls to say what he thinks and wants they have one of my students great story he had all these female friends and he liked some of them and he just was always opposed to you and i just i flipped out on one day i was like dude what do you want to have do you want to have thirty female friends that you hang out with and don't have sex with or would you rather hit on them all some of them will get angry and then you'll you'll filter it down to three female friends who you're sleeping with anyone yeah actually i wouldn't mind that that's exactly what happened he just started going around hitting on all these girls being you know what it's about time we hooked up you're sexy i'm sexy let's do this come over for a back rub let's get magical okay he just started hitting on all these girls right and what happened was a lot of them were like no i'm not interested in that but but cool he ended up poking up with about three of them okay but then what's interesting is the hottest girl this is amazing this goes with what i was saying before i love this the hottest girl in the social circle who's literally one of the hottest girls in this school she said to him no i'm not i'm not interested in hooking up with you but i do appreciate your honesty and she started treating him completely differently than before she started treating him like a boss every time there was an argument between like one take one day he got into an argument with another one of her friends even though he was being a dick and was wrong the hot girl who he hit on took his side okay and all the other girls in the social circle started treating him with more respect because she treated him with more respect so suddenly they're like well he must be fucking cool now because and all he did was be like you know what i'm gonna fuck the shit out of you she was like nope yeah that's all that happened he's like yeah i'm gonna fuck it she's like no we're not uh but at the same time more respect okay just for being honest and saying what was on your mind fucking awesome i love that all right develop your self-esteem okay again you're being authentic you're going for what you want you're doing all these things you just feel better about yourself you're not being a slimy little fucking maneuvering like hey let's yeah let's go to my house i've got a iguana i want to show you yeah what oh you don't want to have to oh sorry uh there well there wasn't iguana but it um it's sick right now it's in the hospital no okay it's about your self-esteem this is really important there's your self-esteem again it's for for your whole life right you're always either growing or shrinking okay so by being direct and honest and authentic you respect yourself i look in the mirror and i think yes that's a sexy man i love him okay there's i haven't done anything evil wrong don't manipulate people therefore i feel pretty good about myself i look in the mirror in the morning i go yes if i was a chick i would marry the i would fuck the shit of myself look at that man he's delicious okay so self-esteem very important