 What happens when you expose the narcissist? You may desire to expose the narcissist because you want to show people that you're not the problem. You want to show people that you're not crazy. You want to show everyone what the narcissist has been doing to you. You want to show them that the narcissist is lying because up until now everyone has been looking at you. They've been thinking that you are the problem. They've been gossiping about you. They've been seeing you as this horrible person who mistreated someone who tried to help you because the narcissist told so many lies about you. They left you to take the blame for them. They left you to cover up their lies. While they went on with their smear campaign, while they isolated you, they had you under their control by making people question your credibility. They destroyed your reputation so that people no longer trusted you. They did all of these things to you. So now you may feel like you want to give them a taste of the old medicine, but it's not going to solve anything. It's not going to help you. It's better to walk away because the narcissist will eventually expose themselves. If you give them enough rope, they will hang themselves and eventually even the narcissist flying monkeys may even see who they're really dealing with. They may realize that they've been under a spell the entire time. They may realize that they're being used, but there is a way to expose the narcissist. There is a way to show people who they really are. There is a way to expose everything they've done to you, but first you need to expose the narcissist to yourself because you may not know who or what they actually are, which is why you need to educate yourself about narcissism. You need to learn about what a narcissist really is. You need to understand the disorder. You need to understand how narcissistic abuse affects you as a victim. You need to learn about the symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder. You need to learn about their manipulation tactics and then you need to protect yourself because when you threaten the illusion and their false self, they will do whatever it takes to get what they want from you. They will do anything to hurt you if you try to expose them, but if you really want to expose the narcissist, you have to stop making excuses for them. You have to stop covering up their lies because up until now you've been taking the fall for them. You've been blamed and punished for things that they did, but when you stop doing that, it will start to show people who they really are. Instead of trying to protect the narcissist's reputation, start telling things that they actually happened. Say something that triggers the narcissist and then the narcissist will expose themselves. You just need to tell it how it is. Instead of beating around the bush, think of things that will trigger their rage and then use those things to expose them. You may feel bad for doing this, but you need to remember all the times they did that to you. Narcissists think they're perfect. They think they never do anything wrong. They think everything's your fault. So you need to say something that contradicts the unrealistic perception of themselves. You need to say something that contradicts the grandiosity. You need to expose their stories and lies. You need to question their abilities. You need to point out how they're so dependent on you or something else. You need to point out that they need you and that you need to help them because they believe they're better than everyone else. They believe they're special and they expect everyone to treat them differently. So if you want to expose the narcissist, you just have to let them expose themselves by making people see through their mask, but it will make them very angry and they may try to get revenge on you. So you do need to protect yourself because they're not going to like it. The illusion is very important to them, but even when you expose the narcissist, it's not going to stop them. It's only going to delay the inevitable. It will only drive them to find someone else and they will use you to get supply. They will play the victim. They will tell them that you are this crazy person who is so mean to them. They will say that you're trying to turn everyone against them. They will say that you started a smear campaign against them. They may even act like they were a victim of narcissistic abuse because you use their own tactics against them, which is why it's not really a good idea to expose the narcissist because it's just going to make you look bad and it's only going to help them to get supply somewhere else, which is why you need to focus on your own life. You need to create the life that you want without them because you're never going to be happy as long as you're having narcissistic in your life. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonates with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate, my paypal link is in the video description. Coaching inquiries. You can email me at coaching.narchs5.co.uk. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.