 So you can have everything you want as long as you're honest about it You know if you're honest about it like and these are things that are cool that took me 25 years to learn and Lots of anguish because there was like four or five times. Well, I'm such a cool girl I'm like I think I'm monogamous again, and then I got monogamous for not a lot a long time Ended up cheating and fucking being miserable and thinking fuck so I knew after a certain thing I am not monogamous. I have great respect for people that are monogamous, but I don't think it's for everyone And the society doesn't really reward men who have multiple women So you got to understand okay, what are you about so you can be upfront about it when I meet women for the first time I just go like this. I say basically say hey I'm really only will date and I'm really using the date, you know, I hang out with Bisexual women. Oh, well, I'm hetero. What could we hang out? I go it doesn't do me any good It doesn't do you because what if we hang out we start having sex we start developing feelings What's gonna happen? Okay, it's not gonna be fair for me Because I know what I want and it's not gonna be fair for you. So let's just be friends You know when you put something like that on a woman, you say let's just be friends or you know It's it's not really working out on a sexual level. That's a new paradigm for most women So I want you to understand that if you have your philosophy down and be powerful with it and have examples and Analogies of why it's important a guy came up to me says, how do you have all these? Relationships with women and and and not have any issues with it. I go, I never said I didn't have any issues All right, like even my wife sometimes it's funny, you know, my wife and I may split up It's not because we don't get along it's because she really wants kids and I'm not feeling it You know, I'm like look at your it's probably at that point where we need to split But she was saying that one point. She's like well This doesn't seem to be working out with a lot of the girls Sometimes she has conflict with girls that in itself Minaj management is kind of rough I said so wait a second. So it hasn't worked but for the last 25 years. I've had four girlfriends consistently At the same time and there's a cycle sometimes they come and they go I'm like, so I've been living this lifestyle for 25 years and it doesn't work. Do you think I give a shit? Would you give a shit if you had that kind of Lifestyle and you were learning things along the way No multiple women. Yeah, I've learned a lot And the nice thing is is I'm at this level now We were all talking about Xan Johnny. We're at this level now. We're fully content. We went into the gutter We went into the basement. We got dirty There's there's a fulfillment there when you live your life the way you want to you can't explain it All I can say is there's a certain peace because I knew that I put myself in those situations that were grinding me out And the thing that's really cool about that is you guys are young like it took me 25 years to do this We didn't have seminars like this. This is why it's so cool We didn't have guys that are true and tried we went through that weird phase where a bunch of guys were coming out And they were you know, they got laid three times. They're like, I'm a guru You know, and you're like, huh, you know like bad advice You know most the guys that I know I think we're doing it just because I think they were secretly gay And that was their front. Well, look at me So there's a lot of bad advice But now we're at the point where we have guys that have been here over the years that are consistent That really know what they're doing and what took me 25 years because I didn't have any real role models Now you guys can get the best material and if you really look at it like any other subject It's only going to take you I would say for the average person two to four years to figure it out And that's that's quick. That's pretty simple. It's just like any other subject. You've got to study it Dynamics, especially between men and women are hard. There's a lot of adjusting You're going to fail lots of times Okay, but you just keep on getting back up getting back up beginning back up think shit, man You know, I'm out of girls. They need to go get new girls