 How to sport a female narcissist? Female narcissists always seem to think that they're so unique They seem to think that they are so different from everyone else Yet they all share the same traits They all behave in the exact same way They are very manipulative They are always scheming calculating Always trying to figure out a way to get to them out of you They can be grandiose They can be impressive or imposing an appearance or style Especially pretentiously so They have an unrealistic sense of superiority They consider people of certain class Intelligence beauty or heritage to be inferior to them. They have an inflated sense of self-importance They believe that they are more important than other people Which gives them a strong sense of entitlement They believe that they are inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment Female narcissists spend most of their time reinforcing their fragile sense of selves They are very insecure and unsure about themselves So they need constant reassurance from other people constant attention and aberration Which often causes them to manipulate people But they don't care about those people They don't even see them as real human beings They're just objects that the female narcissist uses To prop up her false self Female narcissists can be physically and emotionally abusive Especially to people who they believe to be wrong or inferior to them If you don't do what they want when they want they will punish you They will no longer attend to your needs They will withhold affection They will guilt-trip you They will use denial, projection, blame-shifting, gas-lighting and a double bind Sometimes they will do this covertly Other times they will do it in an open and unashamed manner Either way they will do it without remorse Female narcissists always act like they're the victims They will exaggerate their discomfort or distress in order to obtain sympathy There will always be chaos and drama There will always be some type of problem They will always seem to be suffering from something They will portray this image and so they are sacrificing more than what is necessary To get attention, praise or sympathy from the people around them They expect you to see it as though their pain and suffering is worse than anyone else's Female narcissists are very superficial They only care about things that exist on the surface They don't really value or have any interest in anything deeper than that They care more about their image of reputation They care more about material items Like having the biggest house or the most expensive car They will brag about how great their family is While telling them the opposite when no one is around They see it as though whatever they like will prefer The other choice or option is bad or wrong There are no alternatives for the female narcissist They have this my-way or the highway mentality They are self-absorbed and lack empathy They lack the capacity to consider anything Other than their own selfish needs They are excessively focused on their image and appearance They have to wear the most expensive clothes The most luxurious brands Many of them will even go under the knife In a desperate attempt to perfect their image But just because someone cares about how they present themselves That doesn't always make them a narcissist It depends on how they perceive and treat other people Female narcissists think that they are superior to most people And they treat those people with disdain or disrespect Female narcissists will judge other females Who focus on their appearance When they see women who have made an effort to present themselves This may feel threatening to the female narcissist They will imply that these women are beneath them Because they are trying to get attention But they will also point out people Who they consider to be neglecting their appearance And they will rate them on a scale As though it's a fashion contest The female narcissist will judge anyone Who chooses to look differently than she does The female narcissist is always right No matter what And if you dare to question the female narcissist She will not hesitate to tell you all of the reasons why you are wrong Female narcissists are extremely jealous and competitive Especially with other women The female narcissist has to feel like she is the most successful The most attractive The most intelligent Or whatever they define to be the most desirable qualities If you are a woman who makes the female narcissist feel threatened in any way They will bully you in a cruel and violent manner They will become angry and aggressive They will try to make you feel shame They will try to make you feel humiliational distress As though you have engaged in wrong or foolish behaviour They will smear your name And try to get everyone to see you in the same way In an attempt to cut you out of a community or social group There is nothing a narcissist won't do To get their needs met Female narcissistic mothers Are very controlling They don't care about how their children feel Or what they want They will control their children's lives Even when they become adults Even when their children try to move out And find their own home The female narcissist will design their house To suit their own taste Or they will get involved in their relationships Female narcissists have a set standing in relationship partners for their children They will demand them to raise their children in a certain way Everything has to be done in the way that the female narcissist prefers There are differences between female and male narcissists Female narcissists are more likely to play the victim They are more likely to exaggerate their discomfort or distress In order to obtain sympathy They are more likely to use their appearance or sexuality to manipulate people They will use their bodies to get what they want Until they age And it gets to a point where their bodies are no longer desirable That is when they will become more forceful They will engage in coercive control Where they persuade you to do something by using force or threats When female narcissists can no longer use their bodies to manipulate people They will become even more controlling Even more bitter and resentful And even more vengeful If you refuse to do what they want Thank you for watching I hope this video has ended with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos Check out the new Narc Survivor website at www.narcsurvivor.uk Where you can read my blog posts, 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