 hi guys I'm back it's been a while since I've been on this channel of a week I know I usually post more but I've been super busy y'all um so the title I'm gonna wait for a few for a few more to show up okay so hi everybody so the title play dumb to get more from men okay this is my one of my problems when I do consultations for women they seem to have bad luck and strike out with men quick especially men with money because they're too smart and they talk too much and that's not a bad thing it's not it's a good thing but they don't need to know how smart you are how much money you make or how accomplished you are because they don't care okay how are you doing everyone they don't care like who wants to sit there and hear about your career and how smart you are and how many degrees you got and how good you doing at work and how many promotions you got who cares they don't care they're men okay they can talk about that with their colleagues and their co-workers they want to talk to you to feel happy to feel good to feel important to feel like a man okay and so when you get up there and you on the date and he's like so tell me about yourself and you start talking about your job and your accomplishments and all the things that you've done it's like now it's a competition so he he has to outdo you and if he doesn't feel like he can outdo you or that you'll be easily impressed then he's gonna give up he's gonna be like let me go over here and get sharkisha because she's impressed by you know what I can do this lady here she's seen too much she's done too much she earns too much money she's a career woman nothing I'm gonna do is gonna impress her so let me just get this get through this date so I can not call her back okay you gotta play dumb when a man goes out with you he wants you to shut up look pretty sit back and listen and laugh at all his stupid jokes and know a little something something so that you can keep up and understand what he's talking about not that you're gonna be totally lost because if you're too dumb that's a turnoff if you're too smart that's a turnoff you got to be somewhere beneath him so that he feels like he's teaching you something even though if your IQ is way higher than his if you're smarter than him you have to act dumber than him okay because men like to teach women they like women to look up to them they like to feel manly and masculine and their ego is too fragile if you're smarter than them and most women actually are very intelligent and very successful and they can't keep the attention of a financially successful man because a financially successful man who could have any woman doesn't want a cup you know a competition so that's why I say you know if you're going to start dating men play dumb you get more okay I had someone write me and they were like well the guy I'm dating you know he was gonna give me this and that and then after we had the date and we talked for a while now he doesn't now he's not talking about doing this for me anymore I said well you probably talked too much and revealed too much about yourself and he thinks you're a smart girl and that now those little things like giving you this thing is not gonna impress you and he feels like you know if you make all this money if you're that smart then you're just using me if you're really stupid and dumb and like oh I'm so I'm so impressed by you giving me a thousand dollars it's just like this made my year he's gonna be happy to get it but if you make that much money and one day at work and your career woman and you expect money or gifts or trips he's not gonna do that because now you're his equal I'm trying to put so now you're his equal so he doesn't want to give to you okay so play dumb don't tell him how much you make listen to dumb stories okay a lot of women will like you know well I went to school I have all these degrees I'm smart and sometimes I can't help it it just comes out in conversation well that's where acting comes in you got to practice you know or listen more you know what I'm saying let there let them talk more and you just listen you know and then praise them you know act like they taught you something oh I never knew that that's very interesting you're so smart you know so much you know I love picking your brain even though you know all that stuff memorized it and he probably made some mistakes and what he said was totally wrong don't correct him okay women that correct men bye they're gonna call you back you have to make that man feel good about you I mean good about himself while he's with you okay he has to feel like the king of the world the smartest guy in the room the sexiest guy in the room the most handsome guy in the room the funniest guy in the room and you have to make him feel high in a sense so when he leaves your side or when it's time to go home and you guys part for the evening he's already gonna miss you because now his high is coming down and the next time he sees you that high is gonna return that's what men like fun to feel lifted to feel high to feel important to feel masculine against a feminine woman it's not a competition and a lot of these ladies are out here trying to compete with a man on a date and that's the wrong place you compete with a man at work for money not on dates not in life okay this is how it's this is how it's supposed to be if you want to provide a man you want a man who's gonna pay bills you can't be his competition you have to be impressed with him don't talk too much they don't want to hit they don't they don't care about your career unless they're trying to get money out of you okay okay I picked a smart guy and he knew I was faking well you can't overdo it you know you can't overdo it sometimes you got to be like oh yeah I remember that thank you for reminding me like if you're too smart to play dumb then play like you forgot and he just reminded you and you're still impressed because he knew that like oh my god you knew that you know that was somewhere in the back of my mind I just have forgot about it but oh my god you you reminded me you are so smart you know I have not met a man who are who was on that level intellectually oh my gosh you know and just keep talking about how smart he is even though you already knew that and you can't fake it and they know you're too smart then that's what you have to do you have to like continue forgot about it and how you're how impressed you are that he knows about it and don't try to compete this is the time that women will try to compete like oh I bet you didn't know this or I bet you didn't know that at this time you'd be like well what else do you know you know you might teach me something now you can play dumb because now you've boosted him up now he thinks he's super smart and well what else do you know you know and then like you know I think I heard about that but I didn't know about it in that depth oh my gosh you know now you got to eat not your hand so play dumb men like to rescue women too don't act like you have it all taken care of don't act like you have everything under control be a damsel in distress men like to rescue women you know they like to help you so always have something coming up I always have an issue but not something that's too much but just enough for him to feel like he's saving you like build him up to think it's gonna be something big like oh my god I'm just I'm so worried I don't know what I'm gonna do I'm just so stressed out he'd be like well what are you talking about what are you doing I need new tires on my car you know I need a new tire on my car oh that's it you know he's thinking you're gonna ask him for like the rent money or pay your car note you know oh how much do you need for tires you know that's hair and nail money right there so yeah you know build it up so he thinks you're getting ready to ask for a lot and then bring it down then he'll give it to oh that's it okay here you go you know because they and they'll give you more because then they'll feel like if they give you a little bit more you'll be impressed you know what I mean so then you know now they're in the habit of saving you coming to your rescue now that now that they've done it once it's gonna be easier to ask the next time you know to me so a lot of women will say well I don't want any guy to pay for my stuff I'm independent on this and that I'm men hate that men hate when women say that unless they're trying to use you okay unless they're trying to climb you to get to their next level so they can leave you for the next chick in the future okay so don't don't go around thinking because you're independent women that's attractive to me men say that because they want to use your resources okay because if you were independent and they were a provider they wouldn't care you know and in fact if you were independent and you were with a provider they would they would feel like okay well she could leave me at any time do I really need to invest in her if she makes more money than me or you know this this isn't that they'll probably go for someone who makes a lot less money than they do so that they don't have to worry about any of that you know yeah someone says when you when you say independent you attract freeloaders that's true don't ever say independent never say you know I work but you know I still need a little help they want to help you because they think if they help you they can gain your confidence your trust your love you know you're not like you don't you're not trying to come into the situation to boss them around or to create or build a man because they're already established they want to feel like the man when they're with you so they're gonna help you so that's what you need to realize if if you're a man and you're watching this women like stability and they like masculinity if you're coming here asking what do you bring to the table what can you do how many bills can you pay let's build together you're gonna get a picnic chick and y'all know what picnic chicks are those are women who are so desperate for men they will sacrifice their femininity and their self-value just to say they have a man and they will take on half the duties of a man just to be with a man okay and there are always those ones in the comments that are you know saying well a woman should work and help her man and hold her man down and do this and that and enable him to be mediocre okay that's what that's all they're saying so if you if you're with one of those chicks you're gonna climb her back save your money and then when you get tired of having a mother a boss a co a co what do you call it a co-worker because that's what she's gonna be and a roommate and you want a woman to look up to you as a man you're gonna leave her and go get someone beneath your level that you can impress that's what always happens because you've been in a marriage so long your wife has helped you got to where you got you know she's like okay well I did have to work so you know I helped you now you can't even feel like a man in your own home because the woman that you're living with is gonna take all the credit because she helped you so you can't even feel like a man in your own house you can't even be the head of household in your own house if she's paying half the mortgage or half the bills you're not the woman automatically takes the lead because she has the children okay so you will never get that lead role if you're not providing it's just you will never get the respect either and you know the kids are gonna see that as well they're gonna see you getting disrespected they're gonna be like well why does mommy talk to daddy like that you know because mommy pays for half the rent or half the mortgage or more than half you know it makes more money than daddy so daddy don't count so then those little kids are gonna start treating guys like their mother treats their daddy they're gonna start saying well you don't do this and you don't do that so I'm in control you know you do what I say the boys are gonna grow up looking at the women like the women are in control and they're gonna go look for a woman just like their mother look you need to take care of me or you know I need you to make X amount of money because I saw my daddy you know so y'all gotta stop that y'all got to step up and be men again and stop looking for picnic chicks to climb have children with them jump ship and leave for shark issue okay so you stop and when I refer to shark issue I mean someone easily impressed by your little you know mediocreness or the little success that you got from common on the independent woman's back you know that's what I'm talking about so and I'm not mad because it happens all the time and people don't realize what's going on until it's too late you know but if you're just getting into the situation it's not too late if you're meeting someone if you're dating and you see a pattern start to emerge like why do you want me to pay anything you know then you can get out quick because you know exactly where it's heavy if you want to pay so you can have power as a woman because you don't want to be powerless in your relationship remember you're still gonna drive that man away eventually down the line he's gonna go find someone who thinks he's powerful okay and she's gonna be less than you anyway my dog is barking outside there's people walking their dogs he's barking but yeah so playing dumb as a woman not being so independent not being this is and that will get you further and will attract more successful men to you you ever notice all the men are most of the men who are rich attractive or just rich their wives are not super intelligent some of them are but for the most part they're not like these geniuses they're just they just look good and they let him lead they're not in competition with him they're not trying to outdo him they're not paying anything basically they just there to be his wife or his woman not his competitor not his boss not his instructor not his life coach but his woman okay if you if you if you're your man's life coach his mother if you're his bank you're his ATM if you're his roommate then you're not his wife okay or his woman you're he's climbing your back so he can get to his woman but playing dumb on a date will ensure you like when you first start meeting guys and you're if you're going out with successful man play dumb I promise you you'll get more dates and you if you're too smart they're not calling you back okay I was I acted so I acted so done with my husband he had no idea I knew anything like all I cared about when I was dating him all I cared about was music clubs drinking clothes you know I had you know I had degrees when I you know but he I didn't talk about it because I never wanted to go back to work so why would I brag on something that was actually insinuate that I should be working so well you know after years after we got married he realized how intelligent I was how much I knew I actually knew more than he did you know on many subjects and he was impressed but then I saw his face like I saw I saw how impressed he was and then I saw how betrayed you were acting yes I'm alive what's going on hi Sasha all right y'all can get y'all can get out where y'all fighting over the remote why don't you go watch TV now but turn it down playing dumb never worked for me well okay playing dumb okay you got to understand you have to first of all if it doesn't work for you you have to you have to really be honest with yourself like if you don't have anything else going on but your brain that's what you have to use if you don't have if you're if your competition is not you know if your looks aren't strong if your you know body isn't attractive and all you have is your brain that's what you're gonna have to use but in chances are you know those are the targets that people will you know zoom in on to climb okay you got to be careful because if they're just looking for a brain they're looking for somebody who's smart who got a good job career that can work and build them up to that next level so they can jump off that ship and go and get a woman that they really want so you got to be careful it's very important to work on your outward appearance when you're dating okay men are visual creatures if you if you go out the house trying to date looking busted and you wonder why no one's calling back that's why okay you can't you can't expect a man to fall in love with your brain only or your personality okay because first of all they got to be seen out with you in public you know they might want to have children with you you know and I'm trying to be rude you know makeup and wings can do wonders you know what I'm saying as long as you look good in the public you know then you have a chance okay yeah if you're okay a lot of people don't like to face this looks are important okay if you're and looks you don't have to be born with looks people can buy looks you can buy looks you can buy weed you can buy makeup you can buy whatever you know you you can do what it takes to look good but you can't be lazy you got to put it put in that work men men will say they don't like makeup they don't like this and that but as soon as the one walks by that's what they're looking at so don't listen to what they like they like they're women at home to look like that so nobody else wants okay yeah beauty does fade eventually but have you ever heard a man say I'm gonna go get the most average looking chick or the ugliest chick and marry her no never heard that you've heard beauty fades but they're not marrying those women after a fades okay so beauty fades when you get old yes but while you're young and you're trying to date and you're trying to get married and land a hood and so that you can grow old gracefully then you got to use what you got yeah someone says anything they secretly love so you have to realize you got to put in effort you got to put in work okay I'm trying to do what they say like I said okay someone says that here bitches manipulate me and very easily if you don't look pretty when you're being a bitch it's not gonna work like I said that's why when you argue with a man make sure you look your best make sure you looking sexy and you looking beautiful when you're arguing you can't be a bitch and be ugly those two don't mix you got to be you got to look good and act bad okay I'm not saying you're ugly cuz I don't even I can't see your picture but I'm just saying if you're gonna be rude the guy you gotta look you gotta look good while you're doing it okay that's what they like how can I get a man to want to buy me stuff make up stories um you know just make up a soft store you know I've been so stressed at work I've been working nonstop I haven't really been able to do anything for myself lately you know I really would like I used to take myself once a month shopping and now I can't really do that so it's kind of like you know it's kind of putting me in a bad mood I might have to go get like a side job cocktail waitressing at night you know name some rich side of town on this side of town so you know I can't have those you know simple pleasures again and then he'll be like well how much do you need I'll take you shopping because he's not gonna want you cocktail waitressing in the rich area of town where you can meet even richer men who's gonna say hey why are you working let me take care of you so that's how you can get it done that worked for one of my clients just say you have to get another job I don't I don't know anybody name a mall for me sorry okay thanks for the amazing consultation yesterday oh you're welcome Erica I've been doing consultations kind of help women on you know in dating and stuff like that okay getting women is easy but to find a black woman to be submissive that's an Irish story but still I love well if you can find one that submissive they're acting darling and you gotta have money to get a woman to be submissive especially a black woman if you ain't got no money you ain't getting no submission because submission really means trust they trust you enough with their heart with their body with their life with their finances to let you lead if you're not in a leadership role no woman is gonna submit to you unless they're stupid okay and if they do submit to you they're playing a game as well you know maybe they like you because you're not like anybody they've ever had before but see black women they're like okay if I'm gonna get my heart soul love cooking everything to this man I gotta trust him enough to put my life in his hand which means submission if you can't take care of bill if you always late if you can't keep no job ain't nobody gonna submit to that and that's just the truth you know if you if we need our bills paid for the month we'll pretend to submit to you you know if we need a little something we'll pretend but the real reason that we can't submit to you is because you are not financially stable you know you always oh well I see when white guys and black women are together the black woman is submissive yep cuz he's paying for everything he ain't got his arm out saying hey give me some money or you gotta pay for this one or let's go to Applebee's two for twenty you know he got it so that's why we can't submit like that and I'm submissive to my husband cuz he got everything you know he pays for everything I don't have to worry about nothing so I can submit comfortably and it's real it's not fake it's not an act because I trust that when I wake up the lights are gonna be on the mortgage is gonna be paid the cars are gonna be in the driveway the kids are gonna have food I trust that so I can breathe I can exhale you know the movie exhale waiting to exhale that's what that's all about we were we can't submit because you won't commit and be financially stable that's just it okay you know that's why a lot of women date older men because they're already able to you know submit to them naturally as well as they're naturally already financially stable so you know you're gonna have to go for a younger woman if you want submission and you have to be able to impress her you know you're gonna have to be able to like take her out if she's used to McDonald yeah Applebee's is upgrade okay having trouble meeting fake ballers in the beginning and disappearing um go for older guys okay older guys seldom fake ball younger guys do that you know look up their address on Google you can see if they own that place or not you know Google them do research before you even go out you'll see if they're fake ballers or not that way you just cancel the date how do you feel about natural hair and I feel like you know if you're trying to date a wealthy man and you have to be around his you know colleagues his people invited to certain things then you're gonna have to fit in that's just how it has to be you're gonna have to fit in or he's gonna have to accept you as you are and you know not care what people think so whichever one you think you can pull pull off that's what you can do but majority of the women who go for successful men that I'm not talking like I'm not talking low six figures I'm talking millions high six figures to millions to multi means you know it just all depends on their lifestyle I would I would say to attract and to bring them in you know in our group on Facebook the women who have had natural hair or very curly hair have straightened their hair put it on the profile pictures and they get they've been getting rich guys like this like you know I'm not saying you have to do that but it brings them in faster because you know the first thing they're gonna see is is your hair they're not even to focus on this they're just gonna see your hair oh she's wild that looks wild and I y'all know I used to wear my hair curly and I still wear my hair curly but to certain men and they're thinking it's something that they don't want to be you know with because it's it all I can't bring up her around you know she's her hair is too wild you know some men love it some men will be like hey I love it don't change but the experiment was done and the women who straighten their hair got more hits in their inbox trips money and stuff like that quick you know before they was in there not much fake ballers you know there's a guy then all of a sudden money trips you know cruises things like that so I feel like if you got to get a week get a week you got to straighten your hair man straight hair over curly hair already so they've done that's true it's sad but it's true like when I when I cut my hair and started wearing it straight my hood and like we going out this weekend you know I'm like okay or you know go go buy something to wear I'm gonna take you out like I'm going out tomorrow I mean we would still go out my hair it's curly but it was more me saying I'm bored let's go out now he's saying let's go out so I think it's just because they have this association with hair being you know a beauty status or a symbol of beauty I don't know whatever what do we talk about about let them talk let them do all the talking if they ask you a question just ask them what they think like say well I don't know I just thought that that meant something else but you know you're teaching me you know keep keep talking I'm learning a lot from you you're so mesmerizing you know just keep throwing it back on them it's like oh you know I didn't know that that is so interesting you know I need to do some more reading you know do you have any suggestions or you know maybe we can watch you know the history channel together and so far one day you know what's your favorite TV show start start acting dumb by asking about TV you know when they're talking about something smart what's your favorite TV show you know it just changed the subject don't go too deep into it even if you're passionate about the subject stop yourself just show a little bit of interest it's like oh that's so interesting I would love to learn more about that but don't don't go too deep because they don't like that they want to be the smart one you know it's funny but they want to be the smart someone says if a woman can't teach me something I don't want her well if a woman can't teach you something if you're trying to learn something from a woman first of all if you're trying to learn something from a woman it should be after you guys are in a relationship you know when she's when she's secure enough that you are not going to leave because she's she's smart you know what I'm saying on the first date you don't want her to outdo you and impress you because all you're gonna do is try to climb her back and you know learn from her and then you're gonna run somebody in box thinking you all smart spiritual and try to talk to her and teach her something she's teached our teacher you want her knowledge to teach this chick over here so that don't work I know y'all do it I see it I'm on Facebook all day I'm on Facebook all day I see it I see somebody take everything I say word for word and put in sharkish's inbox copy and paste okay but at least they paid for it you know so you don't want a woman unless she can teach you something and press some other woman right we know the game is too late it's too late I'm not doubting you I'm just saying men think they want a woman that can teach them something until they're in a situation where another woman pops up and they think that they're attractive so they just repeat what that woman taught him to that woman to get that woman's attention and now that woman thinks you're smart so really you do want a dumb woman to teach after you've been talked it's kind of like you know that's why you want a smart woman so you can go and teach other people because you really want to feel intelligent because then it becomes a competition like if you can't impress your woman with your brain she's gonna grow bored of you and you're gonna feel like emasculated compared to her no one's gonna listen to you because you don't know what you're talking about when she talking you know people are gonna tell you to be quiet do you really want that so okay so do y'all have any questions I'm gonna take questions I'm not gonna be on here forever I'm not gonna be on here for you know that's a thousand questions um being your femininity but not doing male things don't pay for nothing don't try to impress people with what you know you know expect to be treated like a woman you know look beautiful all the time look soft where don't don't look masculine you know don't talk masculine don't scream don't yell don't shout you know smile you know don't offer don't give too much of yourself you know make them chase you that's how that's how you wear dresses I'm wearing jeans and stuff all the time where some where's something beautiful from time to time spoil yourselves take care of yourself nails hair you know expect to be treated wherever you go like okay yeah I've already done my my thing my things for tonight you're gonna have to catch me Sunday or next Thursday um let me see dinner and drinks tomorrow for a guy just met any good advice play dumb laugh at everything he does make him feel good about himself like give him a high you know like oh look you know you smell so good what is that you're wearing oh my god you know you're so interesting make him feel like the best thing in the world so like I said earlier in the video he wants to see you again as soon as possible because you make him feel high and make sure you look good look good so everybody is envious that he's with you okay don't just come up there looking blah look a little bit special okay where like where something pretty so that other men are looking and thinking the guy you're with is lucky okay can ladies find successful man on social media oh yeah there's so many websites with rich men looking for women to take care of that's all that's all we do in our group we post about the guys that they're dating a lot of the girls are like sugar babies and dating these rich guys and getting trips and money and shopping and and purses and jewelry and stuff like that so they they they will list you all the websites and everything there's free books in there on how to get money out of guys how to be a sugar baby how to marry a millionaire there all the PDFs are free so it's like they have like a library of resources to learn from other girls that are doing exactly you know what they want to be doing so they can learn from the other girls also my advice because I'm in there all the time and other women who got you know who got what they want out of guys who can teach the new the new girls how to get it because you know I've seen girls in my group they went and like four months from dating a broke bum to date the multi-millionaire in less than four months because that's I don't know how long how long my group been open they they've all you know they came in they got their their information they started getting on these websites talking to these guys getting paid you know going on dates meeting millionaires you know go getting to go shopping and all this stuff so you know they didn't kick their old cheap boyfriend to the curb and now they're getting what they deserve you know so this it has nothing to do with love either you know if they fall in love great if they don't whatever they're they're more after being treated like they want to be treated you know they're more after the lifestyle and knowing their value as a woman because when a lot of these women get married they want that lifestyle not the love because they've already experienced the love and it doesn't pay the bills and it doesn't guarantee you're not gonna be cheated on and it doesn't guarantee you're gonna have a good life but that money does that money guarantees a good life even if you get cheated on you can be like oh well let's go to Louis Vuitton okay oh well let's go on a vacation let's go on a cruise oh well I could you too you know I'm saying so it's not about that anymore because they've already been through that they've already been in love and gave their all to some dude and the dude just you know prove them right you know I should have gone for the money so now they're ready they're like okay I'm ready let me get these tips let me get this information let me go play dumb on this date let me go laugh at this old man joke let me get that let me get my shopping spree let me get my Louis Vuitton to get my Chanel let me get my trip and let me go enjoy my life you know I'm done dealing with broke dudes let me move forward that's what these women are about so you know a lot of women who are still looking for love good luck you'll find it you might not you might not keep it or you might not want it after a certain point and then you might want money later if you can get both you're gonna be lucky and sometimes when a man wants to do everything for you you fall in love with them anyway it's like dang he wants he wants to make sure I'm happy you know that's love when you want to take care of somebody fully that's when you will submit to someone you know because you trust that they're gonna take care of you so that's what it's about and sometimes it's not about that at all it's about getting what you can get and getting out just all depends the constant flip-flops I was just reading someone they're cold and then they're hot with their significant other like upset nice upset nice that's is that why they stick around yeah because you're a challenge they're constantly trying to figure out how to please you and when you're happy they feel high when you're mad they feel low and they want to feel high again so they stick around and try to improve you know I'm saying so but you you know you can't be ugly doing that because they'll be like I ain't got to take this I was just using you anyway you know you got you know you got to make sure that when you're being a bitch you look good too you know what I'm saying you can't just be looking crazy and yelling and screaming they're gonna just get up and go whenever I get mad I make sure I look good I strategize my anger okay I'm gonna be mad for this this and that let me make sure I look good put some perfume on put a cute outfit on all right now I can be back I can't believe okay now imagine that with your with the hair bonded on a ratty nightgown or some ugly t-shirt no makeup bags okay believe it you know then I'm like then I'm gonna hear nothing you say and it's only looking at the monster okay so when you get mad you got to look good that is true because they're gonna not gonna be focused on your anger they're gonna be focused on what you look like when you're angry those looks are so sexy oh I can't bud and when you know when you're acting and you're getting mad you know how you look in the mirror cuz you practice you know I can't believe you did that what were you thinking you know just you just get on my nerves you know then you'll be turned on like okay whatever I fix it I'll do whatever you say I'm sorry you know cuz you dressed you look good if you that man you can walk up the house and you walk up the house man looking good you know you might go have a drink at the bar you might listen to it this dude has to say you might let somebody buy you a drink you know I'm saying so always look good dressed to impress like you can walk out and leave looking sexy he's ain't gonna let you leave he's gonna try to fix the problem right there but if you're if you're not an attractive woman and you're with an attractive man they're just using okay they don't want you for real they're climbing your back if you're not an attractive woman you need to get a not an attractive man okay because he's at least gonna be real with you you know what I mean he's gonna you know he's gonna be afraid to lose the woman that he finally got after all these years you know he's just happy to have you but don't don't go trying to pull that stuff if this if your guy look better than you because it doesn't work someone says I told her turn gold diggers into nuns okay so somebody said my sugar daddy is older than my parents too well that's good then they won't feel responsible for you I want to take care of you know cuz like then you can use that against them I'm just you know I'm only this age I'm only 20 something you're like 50 I don't pay for anything when I was here they were everything everything is your treat you don't have to be my daddy you know so that's another way to get anything plus getting gifts you know they have more money than someone your age they work longer and they should have had more stability and higher paying jobs or careers someone said they passed up a meet and greet at Red Lobster good cuz I hate those commercials they make the food look this big and when you get there the shrimp like that small I'm like what the heck is this you know Red Lobster is like even Olive Garden has bigger shrimp than Red Lobster you know I'm saying go to Joe's Crab Shack actually that's not really fancy but the food is better Landry's pick a Landry's restaurant at least that's decent you know I'm saying I'm gonna know Red Lobster what if I'm talking to the cashier or some do I sound and you're talking to a cashier like if you're talking to the cashier in front of the guy yeah I play dumb like like oh you know oh wow yeah I'm stupid the more the more it did see you act the more you can get don't go to somebody said Golden Corral no don't go to go to Corral my friend tease me and see it real lobster wasn't a date about it but it really wasn't I was going out with my homeboy and same one that gives me money now well you know if they're giving you money and they want to eat Red Lobster you know let them go eat Red Lobster as long as they're paying you then go wherever they want to eat you know the same as long as you get paid you know they might just like those cheese biscuits you never know it's Netflix and chill good enough only if you live in a mansion baby and you got butlers then we could do Netflix with you but you can't do Netflix and chill unless you are rich and your house is nice and you already been out on dates and now you're ready to chill for real you got a theater room can we do Netflix in your theater room okay um so you need to buy a wig and play dumb you got it yep you gotta play dumb to get some get some money so you know it sounds I know it sounds bad I know it sounds like the meaning and beneath you but when you get out there back in the dating world and you realize these guys aren't calling you back then you're gonna listen it's not that you're that you have to do this it's just that's what they like that's what they call back that's what they wife that's what they take out that's what they give money to that's what they that's who they take shopping you know I mean look at black china she played dumb she played stupid she got what she wanted she has a college degree you know she has her own business but she played dumb and got exactly what she want now people don't like her but she knew what she was doing from the start mm-hmm no one wants to be black china but she did set the standard for gold diggers you know just I mean she she's an entrepreneur she owns her own business she has a college degree yes she was a stripper but she's still getting paid another way she's spokesperson for you know a few online clothing stores as well so you know she's getting her money too on the side but she's getting some from men too you know why not why can't you have it both ways why can't you be a business owner entrepreneur college graduate and still be a gold digger you know I don't see why you can't do both now she can launch her business to the next level not your females need to stop being evil karma will come back and get you well you know karma can get you anyway if you date in a broke guy because you ain't gonna be able to do nothing you know you might as well date rich get rich and let karma get you while you're rich I read that karma come from you while I'm rich because I can pay my way out of it don't karma come from me when I'm poor plus I don't believe in karma the only way that something is coming to you is if you're attracting it to yourself if you feel guilt about something you're gonna attract the punishment and you don't feel guilty about anything about what you're doing and you think it's perfectly normal and it's okay then you're not gonna attract any guilt to you you know what I'm saying yeah you might piss someone off and they might come for you but if you're smart you protect yourself you know so I don't think I don't believe the karma that's that's something that you agree to not something that you believe in it's like okay do I feel this guilt should I feel this guilt that's been put on women by society yes or no no I don't feel it okay some women do oh I feel bad something bad gonna happen because I did ABC and I know something bad gonna happen I'm waiting for you're attracting it so therefore that's your whatever you start attracting black China she don't care she been doing that already she she was a stripper she knows how to get money out of me and her karma has not hit yet because she keeps getting paid okay so I feel like she don't feel guilt about that so she's not gonna attract any punishment for it you know society tries to put guilt on women but women no longer feel that especially women who know how powerful they are they know they know like why would you put guilt on me because I can get what I want that's power you take the guilt away all you got is the power left I've got power zero guilt if men are dumb enough to fall for it that's not our fault you know it's just like it's just like a scammer you get if you dumb enough to fall and give your social tree number out over the phone and your bank account information over the phone then you deserve to get scammed okay that's your philosophy and that done you know if you if you think some beautiful woman is just a goal of you for you and she don't want nothing from you you're paid then you deserve to get gold you know gold you know that woman is not there for you or your books you there for something else your money and if you play the game right you can keep her there long a long time and make her happy and give her what she wants and she'll give you what you want but if you're if you're if you're rich and you're trying to look for true love then don't tell nobody you rich okay don't do it someone says I'm learning not to feel guilty yeah don't feel guilty guys do that guys use women every day and talk about it and laugh about it so why shouldn't you you know at least they're not getting paid they're actually you know unless they're using woman for money but man usually most mostly use women for sex and if they don't feel guilt about it why should you feel guilty about taking some money they can get money back you know they can go earn some more money you can't get what you gave away back okay so don't do it for free get paid get something out of it gifts trips expensive meals whatever you can't get anything back they can earn some more money okay they can earn more money so y'all women only do things cuz men do it are y'all followers yep men are supposed to be leaders you teach us men are supposed to be the leaders you you teach us how to treat you we're at the mirror of you and you use us eventually we're gonna start reflecting that back to you you don't use us and you treat us like queens and goddesses and princesses and give us what we deserve then that's what we're gonna do to you but since y'all been using us we gotta start back using you because that's just that's just universal law and that's cause and effect that's polarity and we don't start using you something is wrong nature will be thrown off you know what I'm saying if you drop something and it doesn't hit the ground something's wrong if you if you slap something and no sound comes out something is wrong every action has a reaction every cause has an effect okay so now it's time for y'all to see ourselves through us we're gonna be much worse because we're women and y'all are men the whole reason patriarchy became it's because the power of women it's very strong because it reveals the weakness of me you know I'm saying like in every biblical story the woman is always blamed right so I'm feeling like the only good stories about women in the Bible are those who were submissive to their husbands and do ABC and you know that's the only positive light that women are shown in in the Bible and then you have the ones that are shown as evil they didn't they didn't listen to their men they betrayed men they seduced men they did this this and that and they were cast out and taught to be feared or cast out right so with men always knew the power of women and that they were a weakness so now you're getting ready like yeah we we were like yeah we want to do right we want true love we want to be happy we want a good family we want a faithful man we want this we want that and then all that stuff started not happening like it started fading no no guys are like that so why would why would you have faithful good women when there's no faithful good men you know we have to reflect you can't you can't have this and not be that you're not gonna attract that to you if you're bad you're unfaithful you lie and you cheat and you use that's what you're gonna track you know you're not gonna track a good faithful woman if you're not good and faithful even if you are good and faithful it's you know with so many guys out there doing everyone dirty there's not many women left who feel like it's worth being good and faithful like you know what they're gonna use me my let me get them first let me get some clothes some jewelry some some bills paid some shopping you know a car then I'll see what they're really about see if I like them you know so that's just the truth men even though y'all know this y'all still gonna chase so it doesn't even matter that's why it's so easy too many men are thirsty right I don't care tonight I'm drunk I must be all my money on strippers right because one status symbol one status or success symbol is having a woman that you can provide for and buy things for who looks good that's a status symbol you know I said that in my last video you can have a nice car a nice house but when you're out and about walking around you can't drive your car you know into the restaurant you can't show pictures of your house to the waiter waiters and all the people in the restaurant you gotta have a woman to represent how much you have how much you can do what type of woman can you pull woman is a status symbol and if you can't afford a status symbol it's like you can't afford a nice car or a nice home then you're not going to be able to show your status in public with shark you show okay they're just gonna thank you anybody like the reason okay my husband just walked in like 30 minutes ago he met the mayor tonight okay why let me tell y'all why he met the mayor because of me I went out with him okay y'all remember that night I did live feed and we were out and about well the owner of that club saw him and gave him his card and say hey you look like somebody you know who are you what do you do because he walked in there with me and then he's like oh well you can stop by during lunch and you know blah blah blah blah blah so he works right around that area he goes in there for lunch him and the guy good friend owner of this club is rich drives Bentley know the mayor well you need to get into politics or you want you need to work for you need to work with us or you need to be a part of our little clique because of me because he saw him with me if he would walk in there by himself single he would not have gotten the attention of that guy okay so status symbol will take you further your woman will take you for your woman will make people say who is that man what does he do he must be having some money okay so why you know why can't my why can he get this young you know good looking attractive one what he must be important he must be somebody you know so your status symbol women are not just women they're powerful very powerful and they can take you to the next level especially if they look good and you treat them well you know what I'm saying yeah there's other women that can get you to the next level too but they're not going to be that status to you that's why every time somebody get famous or rich they go get a status symbol type woman why because the other woman yeah they might educate you they might have taught you some things and they might you know be good with business but they can't be your Ferrari they can't be your Porsche they can't be your Range Rover you know so that's why they do that you know so it's like men don't want to pay for dinner that's not the type of man you need to be with anyway man don't want to provide that's not the type of man you want to be with anyway go get someone who knows your value you know you don't have to be the most beautiful woman in the world just get someone that knows your value and that will value you and who's proud of you you know I know people think I'm confided in all that stuff blah blah blah blah I'm just being honest I mean I know I'm not the ugliest thing in the world I know I look decent compared to my hood and I look real good okay so me sitting next to him makes him look better that's just how it is that's fine okay now that's a little bit sweet remember that drink that we meet with all that I will one sugar packet and some ice I hope this is easier I'm gonna taste it mmm it actually tastes like a smoothie like a juice like a juice like you juice berries and stuff that's good so you didn't even taste it and you gave it to me don't get that on my dress thank you thank you I'm getting my auntie off to dance yeah so you'll be treated better the woman here are also poor most of the women that I know are not poor they just want me and that means more money than them you know what I mean most of the women in my group are not poor they just want a man that makes more money that's hard to find not man that makes the same amount of money or a little bit more but more so they can go do stuff you know and you know man don't be mad just go get your range of woman like get your range like some some men try to date range just go get your range and she'll be happy to oblige you know I'm saying I've seen some guys make videos talking about all these women they're they're so conceited they feel like they're God's gift to the planet and even though they're this and that you know they expect to be treated like a princess and they don't look like a princess and you know they got all these kids and stuff like that I'm like well why y'all still chasing them you know hey social you just want to be on camera I know it you can't help it you think you think you look good to your mama jeans you just want to be on the camera don't you you're already paying get out of here you gonna look better to me by she's gonna look better than me oh my gosh I have to teach her now Sasha with all day yeah so yeah oh yeah this guy a lot of these guys aren't always upset because oh women got you didn't expect us to do this this and that yeah but y'all still chasing them you know y'all are still chasing them so it's not their fault it's your fault as soon as you hear something that you don't like about a woman you stop trying to chase you should stop trying to use okay because then you're gonna get caught up and then you don't she let me have your baby so stop just walk away if that's not the type of woman you want stop chasing stop trying to get something free just walk away you can't benefit her walk away if you can't accept her children walk away okay go go find someone who's standards are high because they don't have and who would never talk to you go chase them you know go go try a challenge and then when you realize don't nobody want you then you like okay well that stupid guy on the video was wrong I need to go back and make up with my ex or the lady that I was interested in even though she has kids and this isn't that I was stupid for listening to that man because every other woman that was single with no kids wanted a baller and you know I just got this regular job so I struck out every time because they didn't want me because I wasn't good enough for them you know so let me go back that dude was wrong you know maybe that child needs a father figure in their life you know don't be don't follow these guys out here who try to tell you not to date women with children because you know a lot my mom dated man she had four kids she never had any trouble she got married so and it's not a well in an issue but a lot of men will say it's an issue because they can't afford to take care of themselves so they can't take on a woman with a child because they don't have the finances to do that so don't try to use a woman with a child either just bypass and let the next man who got it take care of them because they don't want you to accomplish anything because it's gonna make them feel useless like a lot of women have the problem where they they're wanting to date up and then with money older guys with money more sophisticated guys and their friends are still stuck dating these thugs and who are running around getting sharkish you're pregnant on the side and this this net that's what they're used to and they don't want you to have a better life than that okay so they're gonna say who are you dating him he oh he ugly oh you know what about love you don't have no chemistry with him they're gonna be mad you for trying to improve your lifestyle you know then they're gonna be like I'm glad I got what I got with my man you know even in jail and cheating that three kids by three different women they proud of that they're not really proud of it they just don't want you to have any better as soon as you hear somebody hating on you like that that's how you know that you are on the right path you need to get to the next level quit and get you some new friends okay new friends who are about that life your the lifestyle you know you can't hang out with your old friends when you're trying to do better unless you dragging them along and they want to do better too okay let's see if I'm on if I can get on the computer with this video okay so even though you're going back to the title of this video you know being smart never guarantees you a successful relationship anyway so you know men just said in the comment why can't you be submissive men like feminine submissive women and if men like those type of women if they're not trying to use them if they're trying to use you they want you to be just as masculine as them so that you can help out and pay half these bills but any any man who expects their woman to be submissive is either a delusional or be paid okay make sure you get the one that's paid because a woman can never be honestly submissive unless she's fully taken care of and trusting her life in his hands that's it you want a submissive woman make sure she don't worry about nothing financial make sure nobody can come and take her away because you offering so much you know that's how you get a submissive woman she's not gonna allow talk you in public she's not gonna tell call you out your name in public she's not going to embarrass you because you take care of her why would she do that to you she has to she has respect for you after that she's like dang you know he does everything I have to do anything you know he's the leader you know even though secretly you make it more make a lot of the decisions that you make me think it's his idea he thinks he's the leader and you want him to think that you want to keep him on that level because you do trust him like you you know he's not gonna go out and spend all the money on strippers because he's he's got money he fully takes care of you every bill is paid your car is paid you live in a good neighborhood you don't have to worry about nothing you know you don't even have to work so of course you're gonna be submissive to that but men don't like you to be in competition with them you can't go tip for tat with a man they don't like that that's not feminine if they're gonna compete it's gonna be with another man so they don't want to compete with the person that they're sleeping with right yeah someone asked why do men think it's about dick size it's about money that's true all these men think oh she just needs some sex oh let me put it on her most of time women faking that to women like money okay girls like sex women like money so if you think it's all about the D go for somebody 23 and under anybody above that they want they want to know you can do some form okay because there's women that are walking around here dating man with stuff this small but how's this be you know what I'm saying so no they sell machines in the store for that we said black men want black women to act nice to us well get yourself together become a man because I always say you know if you're if you're a boy pretending to be a man we can't be nice to somebody who's not what we need and want you know I think if if you step to me and you say I'm gonna pay for everything I got you you don't have to work you know blah blah blah blah we're gonna be nice oh yeah you kind of be saying you got to work pull out these bills get up take care of kids do this this and that and then be submissive to me then we're gonna laugh in your face you know some women might do it but then they'll pull their rank they be like no I'm in charge you know I do just as much as you and more so if you want a black woman to be nice to you you have to be a full provider that's just how it's gotta be you know just like you know first of all as a black as a black woman I'm married to a black man he he supplies all my needs if if he didn't I wouldn't marry him that's just straight up I would not have married him if he couldn't do that that was the number one thing that I wanted in my marriage provider you can't do that I can't be nice to you you know that's just that's just how it goes on to the next I can't deal with you unless you are a man and that's what men do they provide for their women you want you want to be treated nice go become a provider male everybody will treat you nice how to make my ideas his ideas hint around to something look at pictures say oh you know this looks cool you know this vacation looks cool that looks you know hint around kind of like give him clues and hints to where he's gonna put it together and then come up with the idea on his own like if you want to move start you know if you want to move into a nicer house start pointing out pictures of nice houses or whenever you drive by a house and who that's a nice house you know get all excited when you see it a nice house or commercial for you know real estate you know property and neighborhoods and he's gonna see that you're responding to that so then he's gonna maybe we should move or let's go look at nice houses or you know or have like bring home a house magazine from the grocery store and leave it on the counter like you were looking at it but don't don't ever say nothing damn that he might glance at it like oh this is a cheap house like you know did you buy this magazine oh no I picked that up by accident I thought it was something else well this is a nice house oh really let me see there you go just lay stuff in front of him so he thinks he comes up with the idea it's like planting seeds some people say my dad because she wouldn't support him financially now my mom only wants to date rich men and pay for that paper and that's right and no grown man should be asking for a woman to support him unless that's his mama he should be supporting his mama after he's grown anyway like or helping his mom you know that's like you know if you're a grown man and you can't contribute anything to your woman your home your mother your children that you not a grown man you still you just in a grown man's body you don't you don't have the mentality of a grown man you know what I'm saying because grown man take responsibility and they do whatever it takes you know I'm saying so you can't expect women to respect you if you can't do those things I'm not mad at them you know there's there's a lot of guys out there that can't do it won't do it will never do it I'm not mad at them that just don't deal with them and many women are stopped dealing with them many women have stopped dealing with them you know so ladies if you stop enabling men and stop dealing with these guys they're gonna get up and go do something you know they can't sit there forever they can they can try to date this person and this race move go to this country do this they can try to do everything but become the man that they're supposed to be and when all those options are gone then they gonna have to step up you know I'm saying they can try to lead a country with their tax check to go get laid by women that's out of their league in the States they can go hop the race fence like someone said in the comments until they get sick of their mess too they can go and date younger women who can't contribute to them anyway they can go date women who are beneath them or they're not really attracted to to climb up they save their little money and then try to go date someone else they can do all of that but until they make that decision to become an actual provider male they're gonna keep running in a circle you know and women if you accept them you're enabling them to last longer you know if you don't stop accepting that mess it's gonna continue that's why I'm telling you like bypass don't even don't even look their direction don't dress so good when you leave the house they are afraid to approach you okay so yes I did one video I think I was talking about you know this one girl she was talking about every time I go somewhere a broke dude always approaches me and I am so offended I'm like well what are you dressing like what do you look like if a broke dude is confident enough to approach you you must look broke too walk out your house looking like you have money look or looking like you have standards like you would never date a broke dude walk out your house looking like that don't walk out your house looking like you can be approached by a broken okay they won't approach you because they look first of all they're gonna see how nice your dress to help how how maintenance you are and they're not gonna even approach it in my thing she's gonna look at me like I'm screwed I ain't gonna approach her so being fake is the key to get rich man yes don't you see all these people getting paid in Hollywood fake everything don't you see all these women with fake fake boots fake butt fake tan fake lashes getting paid don't you see that don't you see it don't you see all these dumb dumb women getting paid dumb not really done but acting done don't you see reality television these women are getting paid because men like to feel smart compared to a woman you know even though these women probably are way smarter they can't act that way around you know so like when my husband takes me to meet people I don't I don't act smart at all like I'm not trying to press them I'm being pretty and I'm just sitting there you know they have no idea I know half the stuff I know I just smile oh that's interesting yeah and they love it they eat it up you know so you just you got to fake it because that's what they like but they have to think it's real so you gotta act sicknesses in a good look yes it is because every time one walk by I'll be looking oh she looked good and in a cold Smith play dumb and got paid rest in PPL can you tell me how to get over an ex date somebody better that's the best way date someone with more money and go shopping go on trips and then when you get back you're like what was I thinking I would you know just go and date someone better that's the only way to get over an ex you can't sit there and think about it ex he gone go what can you know what else can you do how can you make him look stupid by dating a better man okay I look in there because anyone with fake tips and but have psychological issues yeah but they still getting paid society will give you psychological issues but society will also give you money if you have fake books and so that's obvious like I don't have that I mean I got I got real stuff but the women who don't have it that one and they they pay for it you know changes are some man paid for it I mean look raw Kardashian paid for black China's breast job life old suction everything so that's nothing to do with it men men are visual creatures they don't care you see a stripper in the club and you see she got fake stuff you still go you still gonna tip her you might not marry somebody with all that stuff but you damn sure gonna spend some money on one of them men are visual because you see a ugly woman you gonna say ooh she's ugly you see a pretty woman you don't look she looks good you know you ask like I wonder what her personality is like let me go over and find out right bxg Thomas you're gonna be you're gonna start you're gonna date a climber chick you're gonna date a ladder chick you're gonna date a chick that you climb up and then when you save all your money you build your credit you're gonna hop over there and get one of them strippers or women that look up to you because you won't feel like a man with a woman that is in competition with you because she's always gonna bypass you because women naturally who are smart and competitive will always work harder to pass up the man you know so and plus she'll never respect you if you don't make more than her so you can get you a climber chick she can mentor you direct you teach you stuff and once you get tired of being her son and student you're gonna go and move forward to a woman that looks up to you and sees you as a man okay that's just how it happens to everybody they think they want this type of woman and then when they get there dang I got a new mama dang she she she's trying to figure out everything I'm trying to do she's trying to give me tips on everything I can't even make a decision without her anymore she she thinks she knows more than me now that's what she's gonna do until you get tired of it your credit's good you got enough money to move you got you a decent car you got a couple promotions thanks to her helping you out teaching you how to save and do all this stuff and become a responsible man I build a man after you've been built up by this climber chick you're gonna go find a chick that you can impress who doesn't take credit for your success okay you think you want this type of one once you get it you're gonna get tired of it and you're gonna be gone it is true watch ask any of your older man friends who married a climber chick and like either they're cheating on her or they're almost about if they get caught you know if she divorces them they don't have no problems because they don't want to deal with it can't tell me otherwise the only type of man that will stay with a woman like that is if he's going into politics okay okay I need her to be this this net I need her to be my Michelle Obama I need her to be this on my side we're going into politics we're going to business together y'all are business right Donald Trump is the only politician that has a gold digger wife you know who don't know nothing who don't say that who don't stand for nothing so he never planned on becoming president really you know but you know now he is but still he didn't marry a first lady he married a Russian male or the bride you know yeah she owns she runs business and stuff like that but he gave her all that so that's not where it's about then he then you see him author the inauguration telling her to shut up and stuff like that because you know she don't need to talk she's just there for the money y'all she don't care about him she don't even like him they don't even live in the same house but she's just there for his money and he don't even care that's the funny part about he's like I can't afford another divorce let me just keep her just cheaper to keep her please speak more on your thoughts about Obama Michelle um Obama and Michelle she was his mentor you know she taught him a lot of stuff I know she's the brains of operation he's just the you can tell that she tell him what to do and he likes it you know he's still got to the highest office but he likes it alright but he likes it that's a difference oh you're gonna steal the fruit that you gave me that's okay you can have it you can have it you can take it yeah I think he actually likes it like it turns like some guys like that some guys get turned on like that you know I don't know if you never know you know he just might like it you know some guys like it some guys don't like it he was already gonna be successful anyway he was in law school you know and so I'm sure he stated other women before her and he saw how dedicated she was she'd make a good mother blah blah blah they made it to the White House their life ain't over yet never know what can happen in the future but I'm just saying you know they're in the public eye they got to pretend even if stuff is not how it looks or whatever they still have to be this perfect example never know it's like there's some there was some scandal about him dating some deep some secretary or whatever when he was a senator so you don't know what if my man acts feminine it bothers me then he make me lose my plate what if your man acts feminine it bothers me or maybe he's maybe he is feminine maybe look into that we need to suggest a threesome and talk about bringing a man into it do he say like baby let's have a threesome I'm gonna play and Tony don't tell him Tony is a girl a boy if you don't ask that means he might and I even hear they totally has Tony works out you don't like Tony then bring a man and see what I'll watch him when he's watching like gay guys on TV or something see what he does look through his browser history well what what are you researching if this browser history is clear that means he clears it which means he's hiding something it's not clear to even look through it and see what he's looking at yes take it thank you I'll be off in a little while they love me so much what I've had women who come to me and said that their man is gay but they don't want to leave him he's bisexual but he don't they don't want to leave because he got money and he take care of them and stuff like that okay well everybody puts up with something but I ain't sleeping with him anymore I used to work for a guy that was gay had a wife a long time ago and she knew she just didn't care because she gets nice life though she might have been gay too I don't know okay don't date me if you don't grow up if you're asking me about spiritual stuff you guys going to my I'm talking about this subject right now okay um so men chime in do you like a woman that's smarter than you who's always telling you what to do and correcting you and who has more accomplished it accomplishments than you who can compete with you tit for tat maybe even be more accomplished than me would you date someone like that would you date a well educated woman who has your degree or higher would you would you I have glasses right here in context somebody said I need the gold dig for some glasses cuz I'm blind I'm on a phone these words are little I'm trying to strain to see is late at night y'all better be happy I don't even read these comments okay don't conform to gender roles if you don't conform to gender roles then your man is going to be acting like a woman then you don't wonder why then you're gonna wonder why you're doing everything and he's doing nothing okay so any woman who does not believe in gender roles is the climb me pick me just I'm sorry that's what y'all are you're a climber a man will climb your back and you will be in the comments on Facebook talking about there's no gender roles I do this and he do that and you're gonna get picked you're gonna get picked to be climbed and then when they finish with you they're gonna move someone who expects them to be a man okay because after they played with you used you up climbed you got know your resources your good information your good credit they're gonna be like now I can't impress her so I'm gonna go over here to this woman who thinks I'm a man and treats me like a man because men cannot pretend that they're not men it's just nature okay you can pretend all you want as a woman but at the end of the day a man wants to be a man and be recognized as a man they can't be recognized as a genderless you know roommate that's the work because eventually they're gonna they're gonna they're gonna get you know bored and want to impress a woman want to chase a woman want a challenge want to feel masculine you know they're not gonna sit there and look at you and say oh we don't have gender roles around here you know then your son's gonna grow up confused you know thinking that the woman is the leader and makes all the financial decisions because she makes all the money and then he'll have no respect for his father and he might grow up to like men because he didn't learn gender roles and there's nothing wrong with that I'm just saying if you're a woman and you're talking about you don't want gender roles don't be mad when your kids come out the closet when your husband is doing nothing and you're pulling in all the money and struggling and you know doing all the man's job don't be mad don't be mad when they leave you for Sharkisha and is able to impress her and she do expect him to be a man okay I refuse I'm not giving no one with my paycheck well if you live in paycheck to paycheck anyway you're not even a target goodbye you know well sharkisha is not the pick me name sharkisha is the one that the man has to go to because she's easily impressed the one that he's with is the pick me the woman that he's with is the one that's pushing him to the next level who's training him who's building him up who's correcting him who's being his mother who's trying to get his credit good who's not expecting him to be a man in the house that's the pick me chick sharkisha is the one that want her nails done hair done pay her rent and stuff like that and since he's got his credit built up he can go do that for her he can feel like a man with her he can take all the credit with her he can't do it with the pick me because she created him she built him he's only successful because of her so he doesn't feel like a man and eventually he's gonna want to feel like a man he's going to leave or cheat or feel like I need to feel like man so any woman that thinks gender roles are not necessary will find out the hard way I've seen it too many times to know you might get lucky you might keep your man but he's probably wanting to feel like a masculine man somewhere you don't know what he's doing but you if you are constantly trying to build him up and fix him and improve on him you're building him and eventually he's gonna want to have all the credit and he can't have that with you you can't enable somebody so yeah you know pick me's are the worst because there that means they're desperate or they were just taught wrong they were taught that they're supposed to build a man like like there are some Legos or something your man supposed to already be built up when he comes to you otherwise he doesn't value you why would somebody come up to you incomplete that's like somebody trying to sell you something but they don't have the product but they want your money all right I'll order online I don't trust you you know so Sharkisha ain't too proud to play dumb half of the time she isn't even playing yep and you know whenever you get left or cheated on by your man it's always with someone beneath you someone that you can't even believe he would mess with oh you know but she made him feel like a man and you didn't that's all they really want so playing dumb or being dumb if you're actually done you probably get lucky and don't even know why you like that I did good for myself I'll surprise my guy every now and then by courting him that makes my stomach turn what I'll surprise my guy every now and then but courting him okay I was right that wrong okay yeah and you don't court command that's their job yeah birthdays gifts every once in a while that cost less than this much amount of money yes fine but as long as they're gifting you as well at the same time and doing way more for you every five gifts he gives you maybe give him one small one okay every five gifts give him a small one men don't care about the gifts if they already paid they care about are you thinking about them you know what I'm saying hi she run what is the role of women supposed to have other than looking good being submissive and taking care of the kids well the role that I wanted supposed to have is stacking her money okay you could be doing all that and have a bank account a savings account stacking your money investing money market account playing I mean investing in stocks online and building money online you know starting online business you don't have to just do those things you can start your own business but don't ever tell him how much you make you know that's it smart women can play dumb but they got money in their account more than their hood sometimes so someone told me today I did a consultation with this lady today she said some guy married this lady who's very submissive you know stayed married had a kid 18 years as soon as that kid was grown she divorced him to cap his money went open up her own business she stuck in there for 18 years being submissive cooking cleaning had kids was a housewife as soon as that child turned 18 she divorced got the settlement because he was wealthy went start her own business that's just it yes there's an old choir singing pop song old choir singing pop songs by who oh they're saying hip-hop that's funny there's old people in the choir singing hip-hop yeah so women know your role but be smart like you don't have to really be done just play dumb you're you might need money for this one day in this one day but you're really stacking it to start your own business and investing once you start investing got that money market account then you can you know do whatever you need to do sorry oops someone texted me I pressed the wrong button so yeah like for me I'm a housewife I put my housewife but I get paid you know so I don't have to leave my house to get paid I have to work for nobody to get paid you know being able to stay home gives you time to do what you need to do you know it gives you time to figure out what you want to do gives you time to say hey maybe I could start an online business or do this and that so the women that don't do anything and don't save anything or don't go to school or use that time to do something you know they're setting themselves up just in case something happens you should always have a plan B a backup plan or something like that you know but don't don't lose the gender roles because when you lose the gender roles that's gonna you're gonna have to start pulling the man's weight eventually because there are no gender roles oh you know when the garbage is fully gonna look at you we ain't got no gender role you take that garbage out okay no I have gender roles in my house I don't do certain things I will never do something I will let that trash fill up till it overflows until he takes it out I don't touch trash in my house okay um I have strict gender roles he pays all the bills I'm the woman that's it you know if you don't lay the law down in the beginning and then try to change it later on you don't have some issues lay the law down from from the get-go look at it I'm not with you because I want to pay bills so make sure you set you set the law in the beginning like look when I you know when I marry someone I want gender roles I want to be the woman of the house the lady of the house I don't want to touch trash you know blah blah blah I don't want to pay any bills I don't want to do any of the things that I mean if I don't want to mow the lawn I don't want to do that okay I just want to be a house wife I want to look pretty I want to dress nice play done you know what you're really saying is I don't want to do your job okay that's for you okay I think I took the trash out three times since I've been married over or since I been with my husband because he was out of town or sick that's it but I don't touch trash only those emergency situations I will but if any other time I don't touch it so if you have kids already how do you get the man then you got to go for ugly and old if you already got kids they'll be happy to have you you can't go for somebody young and cuter than you because they can obviously get someone without kids so both of old ugly and rich they don't mind kids it just won't to be in the presence of you you know if you look good and you still look good the older and uglier you go the more acceptance you will have plus they they're paid you know your kids won't want for anything yeah but you can't treat them like they old and ugly you gotta treat them like they young and good-looking that's how you get the money you make an old man feel young again you ever heard an old man say oh you make me you make an old man feel young again you can have all my money that's what they like old man date young women to make them feel good again you know she would is your husband open the car door of course he does hello something hilarious did you email me no I texted you that's what messed up my life eat on the phone yeah I'm still live okay I'll read it read it when I'm off I have to click it little email or texting yeah so you make an old man feel young again he gonna give you all his money because he's paying to feel young yeah he's paying to feel useful here he look at you he don't remember he's old he's like oh I got young young woman to look at he don't even feel until he looks in the mirror and then you remind him that you need some money this is stupid I should be ashamed of myself I'm not ashamed because it's the truth like it seriously is you don't like the truth I'm sorry this is the real world y'all could be politically correct y'all gonna have these fake morals that no one lives by y'all can think what y'all want to think but when it comes down to everything this is how it is this is just how it is you know you have these women who feel guilty for knowing their value and worth because men like you will say that this is wrong but you don't have any problem doing or doing worse to women or using them or lying to them to get what you want so I don't feel like it's anything is wrong with it I think it's perfectly okay if you're dumb enough to fall for it you're dumb enough to fall for it or if you're lonely enough to fall for it or thirsty enough to pay for it then what's the big deal these people are not being robbed you know they're not being forced to do things they want to do it and it's not free it's only free from from basic women who don't value themselves it's not free for me it's not free for a bunch of women that I know it always cost and it's definitely not free if you get it pregnant so I don't know who you messing with but you probably most know most men probably don't even want that if it's free you know and it's not free all the time you know you might be free for the first five times until it gets pregnant now now you got to pay for it for 18 years okay so you keep thinking it's free there's always a catch yeah there's I don't have any of the morals that you try to put on women I don't have them they're gone like I throw them out the I throw them in the trash and I made my own so and it seems to work out better you know when you can create your own morals it seems to work out for your own benefit people that live by other people's morals they don't benefit from them you make your own morals you benefit from it yes Sasha another hug another hug can y'all stop interrupting me cuz it's gonna take me longer to finish love you young you go to sleep messing up my heart but yeah our morals if you create your own morals you'll benefit if you go by somebody else morals especially man made morals created by a man they're not to help you they're not everyone agrees with your little miss you need to grow up a lot of guys who are okay as soon as I hear a man say I want a smart woman who can teach me something I want someone who can build with me I automatically think he's broke like as soon as I hear it I'm like broke as soon as I hear I want an independent woman not to feel it broke that's all I hear I just hear broke like you can't do it on your own like I can't be impressed by that I don't want to help you build you know and any woman that hears that broke should go off in your mind broke you need me no I don't want you to need me I want you to want me I want to need you I want you to improve me I don't want to improve you I'm not your mother you know so I don't have to worry about doing a man's job being with a man you know so whenever I hear a man talk about that stuff I already know he's broke probably in a five-figure job and looking to get to six figures through a woman it's all I know so automatic turnoff if I see build-up struggle independent I'm out like I'm already telling the girls that I that I do consultations with you hear those three words next so like guys if you're wondering why the old guys are getting all the young women it's because they can afford it they can afford it they got paid they got the money they know what women like they lived long enough on the planet to understand that this is what we want you know some women still are looking for love they're the younger women you know go for 23 and under 22 24 and under if you still looking for love after 25 you know good luck with that not saying you can't get it but you should be focused on you know future lifestyle you know living better they love because you should have loved in your teenage years you're you know puppy love years your young adult years dating you know in your 20s you should have had your love then when you get married that's a business business decision that's a lifestyle choice that's a setup for your future generation you don't marry for love only you marry for finance you marry for stability you marry for future generations you don't marry only for love okay you already had love you should have had it already you should have experienced it you should have been heartbroken a few times you should know the game before you get married you get married for the wrong reason which is only based on one thing when that one thing starts to fade or get old or boring then you're left with nothing so don't marry for that one reason because it doesn't pay the bills it doesn't ensure your kids future it doesn't ensure your future okay someone must be talking about my kids she or explains to her girls that their dad might be old but the reason they get what they want and live in a nice living live nice so they understood then show them how good they're like okay yeah I had to drive them I had to drive them to a bad neighborhood to show them how other kids live who who are dating guys who whose moms are dating guys they're on age okay with the same or less I have to drop them to that neighborhood and show them look you want mama have a young hug but let me show you what we got to pick for me drive you over here lock your nose okay this with this what we got to pick from y'all want to live over here y'all want roaches you know no mommy okay okay y'all want y'all want this type of guy be your dad no even the you know even the parents at my kid's school their husbands are always older you don't ever see them at the same age you know it's very rare the man's always at least 10 years older especially in those type of environments where there's nice houses and you know high income the man always goes for younger who have money you know I'm saying very rare unless they're marrying for money themselves because like a lot of people they will marry a woman with just as much money as they do to build family well you know a lot of people been doing that but the woman won't be as beautiful she'll just have her money you know and they can do big things they can go yacht they can have other houses on the other coast you know that's the thing he sacrifices to build the family well into a bigger empire that's a whole new that's a whole new video but what I'm saying is the majority of people with you know the average wife who don't make as much money as the husband the husband is always 10 years or more older than the wife okay plus men mature slower mentally than women do when it comes to wanting to settle down you know we have the biological clock so they might be 32 but they act 22 you know I'm saying they might be 42 acting 32 well that's why you got to go up if you want someone to settle down they got to be done with the club they got to be done chasing women they got to be young trying to be I mean they have to be done with trying to be young and hanging out they got to be done with all that you're not gonna find a 20 something-year-old that's done with that you're not gonna find a 30 something-year-old that's done with that you got to go 45 and up if you want someone that's starting to become serious about their life who's making moves in their career who's getting paid who's getting that 401k who has a career who's building credit and getting a house and stuff like that that's what women want when they're young but men don't want that stuff they just want to play around until they wake up one day and say hey it's always time I'm always time me to get a wife and they're not gonna go pick someone their own age they're gonna go for somebody younger why because they can impress them okay so that's why you got to act dumb so that the men can think you're impressed you're impressed by them even though you can run circles around them you got to act dumb so they don't know that let them find out later on was too late surprising one day and just be like the square root of such is such is such is such and such yes I you didn't know I studied calculus you know I was a pre-med you didn't know I was oh yes go back to your idiot status and get what you want you know what I'm saying that's why you see a lot of doctors who marry nurses because they're superior to them you know they they might know similar things but the surgeon knows way more than the you know the nurse so he feels superior he makes way more money than the nurse he's not going for the next surgeon cuz he can't impress her I'm going for the you know the one that looks up to him the one that caused him doctor yeah oh I have my hater in the audience hey a sheer star got his hater how are you I love your picture so beautiful anyways yeah if y'all see a person call a sure star got his hater that has my picture in the comments that's that troll Queen Nefertiti that I trolled really bad a couple of videos ago so she made a whole page call a sure star got his hater or something like that but that's okay you know doesn't bother me at least she got my picture up looks good um if you have that much dedication to being my number one troll I salute you yeah it's like it's like a fan club in reverse like I'm your number one fan but instead I'm your number one troll I'll take it okay conscious men just want conscious yes I must make sure they yep hater sure you're still anyway I gotta go I've been on this thing too long I'm beyond for like five more minutes and then I'm out so you want to know anything I'm going out tomorrow I might livestream I'm going I'm actually going out with one of the girls in my group and you know she was a YouTube viewer you know we met through YouTube Facebook and all that stuff she was one of my clients and she's just happened to live close to me so we're gonna go hang out tomorrow tomorrow night I might do live wherever we end up and show you guys what's going on and say hi you know I want to go you know we're thinking about doing a Houston meetup maybe once someone like during you know after school starts back up but it's gonna be very private we'll talk about it in the group okay we'll talk about it in the group if y'all are in the group but you know it's gonna be private just like the group not gonna be like an announcement on my channel okay so yep mm-hmm yeah we don't allow picnics in our group like you can't get in there if you looking for if you don't want gender roles if you want to pay half the bills you can't get in you gotta be strictly gold digging to get into the group you can't get in if you still struggling with your baby daddy unless you want to unless you really are dedicated to learning and improving yourself and leaving that person that's not benefiting you you know unless you're in doing that yeah but this group is to show you how to do that how to get to that next level like I said in the beginning of this video we've had women go from dating a broke man to dating a multi millionaire within a matter of months okay months not even not even I don't even know how long this group been open but it's not and hasn't been very long so that's a miracle it's not really a miracle it's just women don't know their value and they've been messing around with the wrong dudes they giving away stuff free when they can't been getting compensated trips jewelry money rent paid purses you know all those things in return they be giving themselves away for free and paying a man so yes I'm teaching women how to get what they deserve and they're getting it they're getting more than me I'm like dang you good you know you know and but they they're nice you know they they love what I teach they send me gifts so I'm very appreciative you know they share the wealth so I'm just happy to help you know I always say there's women out there that look 20 times better than me but they're paying for men or they're with a broke man you can be out there living 20 times better than me so I teach him how to go do it and they go and do it and they're like I'm so glad I'm so glad I found your channel I'm so glad I'm in this group I'm so glad I'm so glad I look what I got you know flashing all their gifts and nice things that guys are buying them cash flowers purses trips tickets and I'm like dang you know that's what I like to see I don't like to see women struggling is crying over some broke dude okay I like see them living happy getting what they deserve getting treated like goddesses instead of people who are just there to pay the rent I like seeing them get what they deserve it makes my heart picture pattern okay it's like it's kind of like you watching your children grow up I'm not saying y'all are my children but it's like watching your children grow up and being successful instead of being you know unsuccessful like would you want your child or your daughter to grow up and pay for some grown man while he cheats on her and you know she's crying all the time and or would you rather her date someone who's gonna lavish her give her a great lifestyle take her to trips you know out of the country by her car you know car nice thing she don't have to do nothing okay you want her to be spoiled you want your child to be treated that way you will be like well that's how you're supposed to be treated they will and they will never be able to move backwards they will never be able to date a broke man after that they're only gonna be aiming high and so you already know her kids gonna be taken care of you have to worry you have to sit up at night thinking you know is she gonna live is she gonna survive does she have food it's her rent paid you got to worry about that so my daughter is gonna have a balanced brain okay she's gonna have a balanced brain and then she's gonna come across the guy who wants to climb her back okay she's gonna date a guy that wants to climb her back dog her out get good credit leave her for the next chick that's if that's what you're gonna train your daughter to do and she comes to you heartbroken and wonder why she paid you know mortgage and half the bills with some dude that was gonna leave her eventually because you know he didn't want a pick me then that's fine teacher that I'm gonna teach my child and my kids you don't date anybody unless they can do for you it be single or date up don't date in between okay I said yeah fall in love in your 20s after 25 get serious get serious about this money you know who you marry or who you end up with and who you deal with is gonna show you the next five to ten years of your life you dealing with a broke loser you gonna have a broke loser life okay I'm not I'm not training my kids to be no pick me they're gonna make money up their own too but they're not gonna be with some guy that's less than them or equal they gotta be with somebody better okay now I'm gonna tell him look don't come here with no broke man I will tell him straight up you broke you not good enough for my daughter I will never respect you and she's gonna mom I love him I said it's okay I love broke dudes before too but just don't marry him when you get tired his brokenness you'll be able to understand what I'm talking about get through get through that face first baby go love him y'all go try to eat y'all go to the movies y'all go try to go to concerts y'all struggle together when you get tired of struggling come on I'm gonna help you we're gonna go out together yeah someone did create a channel just for me I feel so special like you have to have a lot of time energy create a new email just to hate on me that's just so awesome like that takes you know you got to really love someone to hate them that much first lately you know if you don't if you're not submissive and do what people think is right you don't fit into a box either A you're gonna be hated or B you're gonna be loved or C both I'm C I'm hated and loved and that's the balance that you need you can't be loved by everyone because if you're loved by everyone eventually it's gonna get boring like okay she's old news by there's nothing I can learn from her you know yeah she's a perfect example of this this and that okay great but if you're hated by some and loved by others then you have something to grow with you have something to talk about you have something to discuss you have something to challenge you you know so that's a good thing you know you ever saw those pop stars and you know goody-to-shoe actresses or musicians and after while they start fading out getting boring and no one's talking about them or until they start acting crazy and doing outlandish things to get attention and now they're sitting there the hottest thing and social media you know what I'm saying so you gotta have the good with the bad just comes with the territory okay all right y'all no one's gonna go dig you okay you're not even a target you don't have no gold like all these broke guys are talking about anybody gonna go dig on me well duh you ain't got no gold like you don't have gold you're not even a target we're making these videos because we know real man with money don't watch them exactly like y'all the men that are the men that our targets don't watch these videos they don't care they know they know what the game is okay the only way that you would be a target is if the girl just didn't like you and you liked her and she just wanted to get rid of you but you wouldn't take no for an answer so she said well I might as well use them you know if she's out of your league and you're chasing after her you and she shows interest in you you might be a target but other than that you're not she might just be mad and wanting to take her anger out on some random dude and take your little paycheck you know some women won't mess with men who live paycheck to paycheck because they will feel guilty for taking their rent they will only mess with men who can throw money away like it's nothing okay so don't be upset don't think that we're gonna go dig on your little call center check because that's not what gold diggers go for they go for gold okay so you don't have nothing to worry about you're safe rest assured we don't want that check okay we don't want your direct deposit okay you're safe you're good we don't want that we don't want it because it's not enough anyway like your whole check could even buy a purse you know I'm saying your whole check could not even buy the type of purse most gold diggers carry that's what I'm that's all I'm saying you know your little check you would have to save up three checks to buy her one purse so why would you be a target so anyway I mean you could possibly be a target if the woman was evil enough to take your check you know hmm but most women who are real gold diggers they don't aim for they don't aim that low you know a practical digger yeah who's practicing yeah she gonna get your little chick she gonna get she gonna get something out of you you know you might have you might you might can afford you know a Michael Kors purse not say Michael Kors is cheap but you know that's something that you can afford but the real gold diggers they're gonna want way more than that so you know you can start off with this with this you know the younger ones they might want you to buy them something a little something something take them to the mall you know take them forever 21 go shopping you know that's that's the the pre gold diggers they're in practice mode when you get the real ones they're not even gonna look your way they're gonna be like okay sorry y'all I'm just I have to be honest you know because guys they really think that they're targets and they really think that women are still all about this love thing but after a certain age it's just not true anymore it's like okay what's next we will act and pretend all day long some women really feel like you know genuine but it's not the type of woman you want you know men complain oh I can't find a good woman oh we'll do this and that but the type of woman that are good women you bypass those are the pygmy chicks in in the groups who want you who will support you who will let you climb their back you know after you then when you get them you mess over them so what you say you want you don't even want because when you get it you mess over it so that's why ladies it's just best to be the other woman that they eventually go to and pay everything for okay skip being the climber pygmy chick stop trying to be the good woman the good woman never wins ever rarely the bad chick the gold digger chick the one who wants him to be a real man and pay for everything they win at the end of the day okay so skip being the good girl because they don't win they always finish last they always get left go straight into the woman that they build themselves up with four go for being the goal at the end of the the rainbow like after he climbs her back gets the good credit I always keep saying that he's gonna start looking for other women that look up to him be that woman don't be the woman who he used okay if you have to choose don't be a pygmy yes get paid I'm just trying to tell y'all you know these guys say they want this good girl they say they want this and then when they get this it's like okay I don't want it no more let me go back I really do want this type of woman that was so stupid duh you know we already know this that's why we just gonna skip that step we're gonna be like skip go to go wait it's coming they're they're on the way so I gotta go downstairs now talk to my husband and see what what happened like he got to meet the mayor tonight like hi how did it go like act interested and play dumb like what's the mayor's name again so he can hike himself look telling me about it oh really let me go let me go make him feel like he he's the best thing in the world because I just ordered a bunch clothes online let me go get these kids some attention they keep bringing me food drinks like I don't even tell them to they just they just want to they just want to take care of me because I deserve it I don't know when you vibrate and you feel like you deserve stuff it comes to you you know people think it's I'm being conceited and I think too highly of myself but when you do that other people think the same way and they bring things to you and you attract things to yourself you know what I'm saying but you can't be ugly doing it and you gotta keep you gotta get up every day and put some makeup on your face do your hair I don't know you gotta do something you can't you can't attract something to you unless you're putting in the work too you know what I'm saying if I look the mess my kids will still love me yeah that's that's unconditional love but with anybody else it's not happening okay even my kids ask me am I gonna leave the house like that and I'm like like what but they know that I don't leave the house up and crazy like oh I forgot thank you for reminding me Layla you know so I know you hate me unconditionally that's why you love me um my haters said that she hated me unconditionally it does make me feel good like it does make me feel good I feel like hate is just another degree of love on the opposite end of the scale that's all it is to me is a degree so thank you how do you get motivated to put your makeup on when you're home every day well I hold myself accountable like I'll do snapchat I'll have to get on camera you know if you get on camera every day you'll put makeup on your face you know especially if you're always putting makeup on to be on camera so it's like it kind of makes you want to do it because you people are gonna see you um some days I'll put less makeup on or barely any but I always have something on unless I'm sick and I don't even get up you know I'm saying I mean my husband says you look good without makeup but um I still try to stay you know looking good so that like he goes out sometimes he come home early he'd be like home early like I guess that wasn't nothing in there looked better to me went to bar huh you know you go out and nobody looks better than your woman and you go home you know the thing or if nobody is um showing you interest like your woman you're going home you know if you gotta work extra hard to get the attention of somebody that's uglier than your woman and um don't make you feel good and expect you to do abcnd and take care you know her tab and stuff he's like I'm going home my wife looks better than you you know and the wife don't nag you the wife is this the wife is that you know he's like showing me her picture off the people at the bar like this is what I'm going home to that's how you want to be you know and the funny thing is my husband he has a good sense of humor he calls like women that approach him or come up to him or try to talk to him he calls them scallywags I'm like you ain't no pirate he's like yes he's like I already know what they want they just want money I'm like yeah he said I know that's what all women want like yeah he's like they're just but but they're scallywags and I wouldn't date them you know I was like no that's how he talks he's like there's scallywags okay you a pirate now whatever he feels the same way about them that I feel about broke man like get away from me be gone I've made him stuck up now like he used to be real humble now he's stuck up because of me like dang dang I created a monster all right I'm gonna see y'all later I'll try to do live feed tomorrow when we go out okay all right bye