 But when two relatively emotionally grown up people show up together, this is what it's going to look like. And I hope you like this. So number one, when a guy, here's some signs and he shows that he cares and he looks at you as the one. First off, he's protective. He's protective of you physically, but more importantly, he's protective of you emotionally. He is actually being mindful of your feelings, true care from a true, you know, ladies, I know you love the idea that men are the providers and protectors. Well, that used to be hunting the buffalo and protecting against neighboring tribes. Now, since women are capable of paying their own way, a true protector is a man who can emotionally protect your heart. This is why I highly recommend checking out this book, Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters.