 And sleeping in the same bed doesn't count as those hours, really doing things together as how you build a relationship with someone. Folks, you have to decide what is it you want, what is your end goal, because I get it. People are afraid to commit to someone they don't know. But you have to invest a lot of time with each other to get to know one another. And this is the trap we're experiencing today. And I say the trap is, you know, you meet someone, you feel a sense of chemistry, you feel a sense of connection. You're like, God, I like this person. And then you're thinking of all the hundreds of people. It might seem like hundreds of people that you've never had chemistry with no connection with. So you'll hold out on this one person you're holding out when you're not when you don't really know if you share the same.