 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and in this video We're gonna talk about complimenting guys, you know complimenting a guy so that he In a way that makes him like you even more than he already does And so there's kind of a right way in a wrong way to compliment a guy And if you do it the right way you can encourage him to pursue you more You can get him to do more of the things that you want him to do You can get him to feel sexually validated. You can get him to like you You can even get him to fall in love with you if you do it the right way And if you do it the wrong way A lot of times you can push a guy away And you can even make him feel like you're just like every other woman that he's met Which is the opposite of what do you want him to feel like if you want some type of committed relationship that's gonna lead to marriage or you know Last to the end of time or something like that So if you're looking for something that lasts make sure you do it the right way And so I have two different ways to compliment men here that I think will be incredibly beneficial to you and Are really really powerful ways of doing it the first one I like to call the attractive man compliment and this gives him a genuine compliment A type of compliment that he probably hasn't heard before and it also tells him that you're sexually attracted to him Which can make him feel validated. It can encourage him to pursue you It can do all kinds of great things for you And so what you want to do is you want to find positive traits in him that? And then tell him that he's attractive because of those traits and so an example of this is You know if you see him acting nice to a waiter or something you can say I noticed that you're really kind to waiters and it's kind of hot right and so you're Complimenting him on some on on a way on a way that he's behaving right and so it's gonna encourage him to do that Even more and you're also telling him that you're sexually attracted to him Which kind of make sure you stay out of the friend zone there In the second One the second type of compliment that I want to give you is called is something that I call the crystal ball compliment This one is really really powerful. This compliment will make him feel like you're caring and nurturing Which are both incredibly attractive traits to men And so the way that you do this is You take something that's important to him take like his passion or Take kind of the image that he sees himself being and has conveyed to you through questions and and Just general conversation and and if you need to learn more about how to have conversations like that I have more videos and audios and podcasts and stuff that you can check out that talks more about that But what you want to do is you want to tell him That you can see him becoming really good at his passion or his job or Becoming the man that he wants to be one day, you know, so a way that and you can kind of Do it by for instance taking a characteristic that he has so let's say that Let's say that he's really into Let's say that he's really into business and and he wants to become a business leader you can say, you know, I can tell that You're gonna be a really awesome, you know, a really great business leader one day because of because of how Because of how much of a you know powerful vision you have, you know and that's something that I haven't really seen and a lot of people and You know, it tells me that That you have what it takes to really become a powerful business leader in the future And just saying something like that and doing it genuine, you know Finding something that's actually going on with him and just you know telling him that He can be the man that he wants to be one day is really really powerful and it can make him feel like he's more supported by you then he is By you know people in his family including his mother and so if you can do that It can go a long way to making him fall in love with you and and thinking that you're the one So that's it for this video if you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take the quiz there I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon