 You talk about energy a lot. So it almost sounds like when you were talking it I mean, I want to say it sounds like some women would be considered just energy vampires and we know that term Yeah, a succubus. I mean they live off that that validation live off that just Wanting to be wanted and then once they're wanted they disappear. Yes, that's a pretty I think a pretty standard Protocol sometimes. Well Girl game is succubus game It is so it is now the reason that it's not necessarily bad is because all women are succubi a Woman who's very integrated who has dipped her toes in the masculine Who's learned how to structure herself to an extent she can actually start to create energy for herself and so You can say at that point that she may not Actually need men. I mean if she actually believes that then she's depolarized But if she's fully integrated or you know, we're all approximating these things Then she will want men but not need them. She'll want to surrender to a man, but she can She can exist kind of in her own capacity and those women are are by far the most attractive women They're radiant they are the oracles of old there's this They are the women that the most powerful men always gravitated towards because those women Did not need those men But they possessed enormous power themselves I don't want to get too off topic because you don't see a lot of them in the modern era, but they do exist They do exist and when you meet them You know, it's kind of the experience of of sort of like then the You know, you can kind of think of yourself as like the Greek warrior going to the Oracle There's almost a sense of the fear and trepidation going in there that these women possess something that Is beyond your control as a man and that's both That's Powerful, it's powerful women have a lot of power. They've just really lost it By trying to pretend to be men You need to dip their toes in they need to understand some degree of structuring but That's that's not what men are drawn towards men are drawn towards the surrender that happens afterwards We got to teach them that yep They have to teach women How to attract men? Yeah We really do that the good news is that we're kind of doing it indirectly by simply Kind of create our own community and talking about these things because the thing is women having it are so naturally Even like the women we wouldn't consider to be like super intuitive Women are still naturally much more intuitive than men. And so they are drawn to where the energy is and so you have all these, you know Soy boys and guys who really just are total losers. Yes, men Women are tired of it and they might be Psychologically broken due to the programming that they can't quite like figure their way out of it But more and more women are like I don't like these men. They suck well these guys over here are Attractive even if they're a little bit edgy So let me like listen to them. Oh, wait a minute that makes a lot of sense but you know the thing is And I want to emphasize this not that I really give a fuck but just for the sake of it It's not meant to this isn't meant to be disparaging towards women. It's literally just We're different It's not bad. I've said this a million times men structure women women destructure you know destruct men and They're both valuable because men can be too rigid women break open that allow us to reach structure more cohesively But women have a very hard time structuring themselves That's why you see single women Go towards big government Because they need something to structure themselves around there are very few Genuinely, they're very few genuine independent thinkers and Men are women But there's almost none that are women and the ones that are you notice are like ones that are very You know Camille Peglia, right? I mean there there are ones who are really different Than other women Esther Peral, right? I mean women that are very very different in what they say Because they've actually really like depolarized into the masculine They really really get it to the point where they've almost lost their feminine like and cultures, you know You don't look to and culture for femininity so men Structure women they structure them. I said this earlier in my show today every woman who has gone through a sense of sort of self-improvement and Has really held on to it and gone to another level has had some man whether it's Boyfriend husband father mentor Maybe a male just a male community That would help to give her structure And that's one of the reasons why single moms In the epidemic of it something against single moms themselves, but The epidemic of no fathers, which is what Anthony talks a lot about it's such a big deal because then you no longer have a structuring presence and What that means is that you get a lot of indulgence with emotions so But I do want to go back to that question you can chime in for a second to an edge Gonna take a drink of water but about that sucky this question because I want to make sure people understand that yeah Let me see it was Woody. Yeah, Woody says what what is a succubus can Pat elaborate on that? It's a house play would Yeah, yeah, it's a house plant that sucks up water. It's like a cactus, right? You know it goes all the way back to to ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but but basically a succubus was this mythological kind of woman that sucked the life force out of a man and there are women who do this and You know you hear about energy vampires Women Will often do this in a sexual manner You know a lot of though if you really get like in a lust driven relationship very high intensity sexual relationship they will try to Literally suck the life force out of you I mean they'll try to make you come over and over and over and over again and You actually can become spent as a man. I mean I Try not to get too esoteric for some of these things But there's like demonic aspects to this as well that a lot of times these women are really actually entity captured and they know If a man is blind to himself in a certain way these women can kind of sneak in there and Make the guy want to give up his energy to her And so gain her is all that matters sleeping with her is all that matters Men have a similar version. It's a little bit difficult different called an incubus, you know the band incubus That's kind of like a male seducer and what he does to a woman. That's a bit of a different mechanism though Yes, do not give your strength to women your ways to those who destroy kings It I mean, I don't have to tell this to Michael because Michael is the Is the goat with these things, but the Bible tells you all this stuff warns you about About these types of women And warns you about them The vital message is such a good such a good comment female destruction isn't entirely bad It can free up some areas or exposes chinks in a man's armor that he needs to reinforce It's a hundred percent and this is one of the things I'll say to the guys because I know that this is a big dialogue in this community Getting burned by a woman isn't bad It's not bad Even the succubus women even the women who really mess you up They are showing you yourself Because if you if you actually understood yourself on a deep level you wouldn't fall for them Like when I see a succubus now I see it all the time with clients. It's like I'm like, ah, it's one of these again. And so it's just a matter for me to help Direct the cup the client to seeing it In a way that's not going to trigger too much dissonance. That's the sort of art form of it But I mean, they're very visible They're very very visible at this point and they're not anything to be afraid of because I know what their energy is like I know what sort of behavior they do and what they prey upon and One of the ways I know that is because I can feel how it affects me It's not to say that like like this sort of dark energy. It's not to say that You don't ever stop feeling it Like, you know what they're, you know Michael would understand this, you know, Jesus was tempted, right? Like well, if he was tempted, he felt something like there are certain trigger points that you can hit but the awareness you're like, well, I'm not really You know, I'm not really super interested in this. But the point is that what they do is they reveal where these weaknesses are and Even if she destroys you so to speak well that you were maybe not Constructed ideally. So now when you build yourself back up Which this community is really about it's about building up men You can build you build back better yet you can build yourself back better, right as a man and That's the point and the the biggest thing that men to be afraid of is that they are too afraid to be broken You should never be afraid to be broken because a man who's more integrated is ready to be broken at any given moment He can allow parts of himself to be deconstructed Because he knows that's how he makes himself stronger and stronger so he encounters an obstacle He can leave something put something back in the men who's rigid and tries to fight against it will eventually shatter against the force that he's being put against as Time goes on you need less and less of that you become more and more resilient So don't be afraid of women Are you gonna get hurt? Probably you are gonna get hurt and by the way, this is not thing to do with the laws and the fairness of the laws but gain hurt by women is a rite of passage and If you're ignoring that you might as well check out a puberty as my personal perspective So yeah, you know Vivian has a good question It's facts. It was the question I was gonna ask. How do you recognize the succubus or or how do you if you haven't been? Really had the life force sucked out of you like I have once or twice How do you recognize that or or discern that? Without going through it. Is it possible? I? think Bob Love bombing early on I think is a sign of a succubus especially from an older woman to a younger man I think it's a dead giveaway. Yeah Yeah, that's a really good. I mean that whole thing with older women and younger men is a really interesting topic But before I go into that just yeah, love bombing is very huge with it It's basically Flattery is very important because if we're gonna be honest when It comes to Emotionally, I would say the two of the biggest things that men have as weaknesses are Vanity and lust and so a lot of what girl game will focus on is those two things So lust is you know one thing, but then you could just leave the woman as a whore, you know Okay, well, we have good sexual chemistry, but that's it But you know, oh, well she compliments me and stuff, you know, she makes me feel like a man But you know, I don't have this that blah blah blah. It's kind of like one gives the whore one gives the Madonna Right, but if you get both of them together If a girl in and I'll tell you one of the things that is So you have to respect it. You actually have to respect it, but there are some girls the more intelligent ones Who can go from being one of the filthiest? sluts in the world To then Persuading a guy that now she's gonna be pure and It may sound crazy to hear it boilerplate like that, but they do it They do it because they know Exactly how to explain. Oh they they distance themselves for a bit Well, the reason is that now I'm really trying to you know, I didn't want us to have sex again because You know, I'm really trying to stop doing that stuff and really trying to You know purify myself. I've recommitted myself to God and I don't want to you know do that Dude Dude, it's like really Insane how much it throws guys off and if you're in if you're in it It's so hard to see your way out of it