 If we live in that state of firmness, you're not firm anymore, you're just nagging. I don't want you to fall into that trap. We all hear about feel, we hear about timing. Feel timing give you balance, but what the heck is balance? Let's talk about that. We have physical balance. The horse being on the forehand or the horse leaning back or the horse being balanced from left to right. So we have physical balance. I have physical balance, he has physical balance. But then we also have the horse's emotional state. So can I ride my horse down and truly relax and can I do that on demand? Like a light switch, poof, you relax.