 و أقول في القرآن ما جاءت به آياته فهو الكاريم المنزال و أقول قال الله جل جلاله والمصطف الهدي و لا أتأوله الحمد لله رب العالمين له الحمد الحسن والثناء الجميل و أشد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له و أشد أن سيدنا و نبينا محمد صلى الله عليه وعليه وعلى آله وأصحابه والتابعين لهم بحسان إلى يوم الدين أما بعد نحن نتحدث عن مظاهر الدنو والهما و أخبرنا أن يحدث عن مظاهر الدنو والهما إن شاء الله و تعالى في today's episode we're going to speak about the 13th مظهر من مظاهر الدنو والهما and that is التحصر على ما مضى وترك العمل it is to regret the past and what has happened in the past and to abandon righteous action فمن الناس who from amongst the people are those يتحسروا على ما مضى من تقصيره he regrets the shortcomings that have taken place in the past and he doesn't do no actions at that current moment all he does is he regrets the past he dwells over the past he thinks over the past but nothing is he doing for now the poet he said ما مضى فات والمؤمل غيب ولك السعات التي أنت فيها what has happened in the past has happened the past has gone you are now living this time this moment the future you don't know if you're going to reach it you probably might die the past has gone what you really have control over is that particular moment that you're living and that particular moment that you're living what are you doing are you working hard are you exerting effort or are you just crying over the past that type of thinking which is just to dwell over the past and what you did wrong in the past يضيئ على الإنسان حاضره what it would do to you is that it would destroy the current moment that you're living ويقطع عليه مستقبله and it would destroy your future if you live to it فيأتي عليه زمانه يتحسر فيه على زمن اللذي الضيع وفي الحزن والتحسر and then again you're going to remain in that cycle of regretting and regretting and regretting because you're not moving forward you're not doing anything productive what is it that you're doing you're just crying over the past and you're doing nothing fruitful and that truly is تلاعب بك الشيطان يجب أن يقوم with you my beloved brothers and sisters يجب أن يقوم with your mind يريد أن تشعر with you to feel remorseful in the past which is something good to feel remorseful in the past but it's actions that you need to do now you need to work hard that is going to come to you and you've really forsaken many years you might have done a sin at a particular moment in your life you shouldn't spend 2-3 years regretting it with no actions إن تحقيق الأماني لا يكون بالندم على ما فت to fulfill your goals in life is not to regret the past ولا بجترار الأحزان على الماضي وإنما يكون بالجد والعمل and it isn't also to go through sorrow and sadness of the past but rather it is to exert righteous actions good deeds واختنام كل فرصة يتقدم بها نحو الأماني خطوة and every chance and opportunity that presents itself you take a step forward to doing it that is a person who is going to reach their goals that is a person who is going to attain their objective in life and that is an indication of what فهذا دليل فهذا دليل الكياس وآيات لعلو الهما this is an evidence that you are smart and it is also an indication that you have high aspiration أما إضاعة الحاضري as for forsaking your current time the moment that you are in right now forsaking it for what حزن على الماضي because of something that has happened in the past فنزول في الهما this shows that your aspiration is going down and it is going low and it is also surrendering yourself توات وستسلامو للأوهام it is surrendering yourself to delusion وصياق وراء وساويس الشيطان and it is allowing Shaytan to whisper to you and it is giving in to the whispers of Shaytan how is it delusion you keep replaying that event of your life and you keep replaying it if only I said this if only I did this if only I spoke this way well that has gone it is not that you can really do about it you are now living this time benefit from it and accumulate righteous actions نابغة بني جعدته he said he said do you not see that the blame the benefit in it is very little blame me the benefits that are in it are very little especially when the matter is gone it is already over even in the English language there is a saying don't cry over spilled milk what happened all it brings is courtiers and regret ثم لا تغير شيء غير ما كان قدرة and it doesn't change what has already happened the benefit of regret is really little it only benefits you if you've learned a lesson from it and if it set your future bright then you've benefited from it but if you keep replaying it all it does is bring sadness and it be sorrow and pain but it doesn't change anything else it's not like the event will change and it won't happen again قال الباروديه فلست لأمر لم يكن متوقع ولست على شيء في مضى أتعته he said I am not one regarding a matter that will not happen لأمر لم يكن متوقع something that's not going to happen I'm not one to busy myself and sorrow myself and regret and dwell over it ولست على شيء في مضى أتعته and something that has happened in the past I don't blame myself for it I don't scold myself for it so there is an extreme both ways we regret what has happened in the past and we work hard for the future we regret all our sins that we've done in the past but that regret is what pushes us to righteous actions and exerting efforts and hard work if you just sit around and you cry about it and you're always sad about the past but you're not doing any actions then you truly are not coming with high aspiration I'm going to stop there إن شاء الله anything which I've said that was wrong and incorrect is from me إن شاء الله had his messenger I'm both free from it سبحانك اللهم بحمده أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله أستغفروا كواتوه إلي السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته how can you do a two second action right now that will give you a share of the reward of everything we're doing on this YouTube channel simple like this video and click subscribe why to allow YouTube to recommend our videos to other users and imagine the huge 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