 So what happened where you swallowed a red pill some of you are familiar with these steps, but if not here's our continue we are our review It's not this way you don't think the world works that way You're in the denial stage. Everyone is in denial at the beginning unless once again You were fortunate enough to come up and know it is how the world is. I Hate that it's this way Anger And we all get so mad at How things really are no one just jumps from all right Santa isn't real and they just accept the non-man kids throw tantrums man. That's just what happens in many of the kids in this way Some of it's this way, but not all Then you bargain you you you try to Eat some of it throw the rest of it back up, but you can't you can't go back to fairy tale land I guess this is not too hip on the particular lingo or at least what constitutes this phrase But I suppose this is what some people refer to as as purple pill You know where you where you have swallowed this thing and you're like, oh god It takes horrible and you're trying to throw it back up and it comes back up purple and it's like Oh Holy shit, it really is this way Depression you know once you you take in that People want to be a certain way and you just can't it just can't go to it. You know we talk about hypergamy and That concept really bothers a lot of people But who will bothers more than guys who reject it or guys who have accepted it and they realize that it places the burden of Performance on them. They cannot just have it the way they want it to be you have to work to be a certain way As I always say nature does not care about your feelings Nature is not a social justice warrior nature only cares if you can fight and if you can reproduce I usually say another word that begins with F, but there's some Edding up here in the last part. It's all true acceptance Once we reach this point or you know, you're somewhere along the way You got to make a choice. You're gonna go. Okay. Well, what's next everyone has a different response to it, you know Regardless, whether you're your mig-tow or your pua or you want to build a trad life or whatever The point is you come to that conclusion only after you've you've absorbed all of this That doesn't mean your conclusions right or wrong But your process that you've arrived that it is correct You have seen that the world is in desperate need of something some different response Some different way of living and you want to go on about that So how do you continue? I? Went and found this quote. I thought it was really cool You know if you belong to the world it would love you as its own as it is you do not belong to the world But I've chosen you out of the world. This is why the world hates you Amen John 1590 That quote speaks to us all here I Know that from my experience. I know that from talking to me you last night One of the most difficult things to be is to be aware of the truth Especially when everyone else is operating from a position of falsehood a position of I want this to feel good Not I want to do what is best and very often those two things do not coexist They are mutually exclusive So how do you continue once you have decided to no longer be part of the world? step 1