 you do this it will destroy the narcissist there is one thing that hurts the narcissist and you may think that there are other things but regardless of what that thing is it always comes back to one thing and that one thing is rejection nothing hurts a narcissist more than rejection because you have to remember that they are self-absorbed or they're like empathy they only care about themselves they don't care about you or what you're going for they couldn't give a shit about that it's all about how they feel and what they have in their mind and how they're going through something or dealing with a situation so yeah whatever it is it always comes back to rejection one thing that hurts the narcissist is rejection but for some of you you may have already rejected the narcissist and it may seem like they don't even care the reason for that is because you're probably just a secondary source of supply and they may have other supplies so they could care less if you reject them it doesn't matter you're not beneficial useful to them because you have to remember that they compartmentalize people and they see it was objects so you are used us and maybe your purpose wasn't that important to them maybe they could do without it maybe they can find something else something better so then they may not be concerned if you reject them sometimes it depends who you are and what you're doing for them it depends what you have if you have what they want because if you have what the narcissist wants looking for what they need what is beneficial and useful to them and it's important to them it's significant and trust me they will feel it when you reject them it will destroy them it will and especially if you are someone that they look up to someone who they admire and respect if you are that type of person in the narcissist life and you reject them they're really gonna feel that that will really destroy them and as I've said it is the one thing that hurts them nothing destroys them more than that and as I said it's not just the rejection it's the significance of the person who is rejected and when they really feel lost where that is when you not only reject them but you also level up and become the best version of yourself you become more attractive and successful I know of course these are superficial things you have to remember what narcissists value they don't care about your heart they don't care about anything deeper or meaningful so you need to level up things that matter to them money power success status social connection that's when they're really gonna feel the loss when you level up and you show them what they are missing what they've lost what they're missing out on because that's another thing narcissists they always the missing out on something it doesn't matter what they have they always feel like there could be something better or something more they always think the grass is greener on the other side even though it may not be they may still think that it is so yeah if you reject them you're gonna contact move on with your life and narcissists are very obsessive and possessive so even when you move on you can be sure that they will be stalking you on your social media so what you need to do is you need to move on go to contact level up your life level up yourself it's time to boss up and become the best for that take a video of that and then put that up on social media let's see how they like that because they're gonna be stalking you to see that you're in pain they want to see you suffering after you have gone and moved on they want to see that you are missing them like you're lonely so they will be stalking you on your social media and when they do that you've got to make sure you put something up that will spoil their stomachs something that will make them sick yeah you should just go and let them see that but they might have a good look at that see what they think about that that's all you got to do and I don't really advise doing that I mean as many of you know if you watch my videos I am not a vengeful person I'm not seeking to harm anyone or anything but this is what you should be doing anyway you should be moving on you should be living your best life processes but for you and this should happen naturally you're having a good time you want to post it up on social media share it with your friends and it's the narcissist own thought if they end up stalking you well they may not want to see it but they may just end up by chance when they're looking to see you in pain they look to see you suffering so yeah that's what you've got to do move on live your best life have a great time do the things that you do you've got to get out more you see me I'm walking by this lake right now you see in all of my videos I'm always doing something I'm always and you should want to do it it should happen naturally it should be what drives you traveling exploring go into the gym working on yourself becoming successful studying because when you do these things what you're doing is you're building character you're building strength you're becoming resilient powerful something that the narcissist will secretly look up to something that they will secretly admire and respect even though they may never tell you and yeah they will become envious and jet that too and that is the whole point why you put it on social media for them to see because that is when they will feel that rejection they will feel that loss but as I said I don't really advise do that you should take the pope and just focus on becoming the best version of yourself you through because if you were it with a narcissist we know that they must have put you through hell that's what narcissists do they abuse you they put you down they make you feel small they harm you they affect your life and I know it's not right it's not fun to go to that when all you wanted to do was just cooperate with them and build something together live your best lives together I know that's all you wanted to do but it just seemed like they weren't with that all they wanted to do is abuse you harm you put you down insult you make you feel like you'd never be good enough for anyone or anything and that is ultimately what they want to see when you try to move on they don't want to see things getting better for you they want to see you that you're still here and you're still lonely you can't move on you're still thinking about them thinking about maybe they could have changed maybe they could have been better maybe you should have given them another chance yeah they want you to feel regret they want you to feel like you're missing out on something but you're not just remember how you found my videos there was a problem something wasn't right so that you can move on because that's really the message behind this video it's a positive message it's not just about hitting the narcissist it's about you separating yourself from what was not good for you and finding something that is better for you and the only you can do that doesn't mean you just got to move on and find someone else no one else can do that for you you have to find the passion the drive the motivation within yourself because otherwise it's not going to be consistent you have to have something within your heart that drives you something that makes you wake up every day first thing in the morning because you have a passion a purpose and that's is what I want to give to you that's what this message is about and I hope that it does drive you fuel you motivate you to where you need to be in your life as you can see I am out here living my best life every day and that's not just because I'm driving the new BMW 330i but it's also because I'm out here in nature and you know my heart is filled with love every day and I just enjoy sharing my love with the world making like none of you could see before the video but I just went and fed a few cats well actually only one of them was hungry and some kittens here baby kittens let's just come over here and see them before they finish the video that's really what drives me you know just do my best to make things better for people and animals you know sometimes it's not just all about ourselves and you know just consumption and just constantly doing things for ourselves sometimes we think that will make us feel better you know some of you you may be going through depression anxiety sometimes that's just because you're so consumed with yourself and I can understand that because following we do tend to go within a lot because we're trying to sometimes the most healing thing is to give people what they need I can honestly say that is the most healing thing for me and I've been doing this now almost five years every day I put these videos out there nothing is more rewarding than that for me and seeing people learning and developing an awareness of things that can be harmful to them and we're all becoming better together and I know that this was the possession that was destined for me in life I am a leader I am a boss I am a champion CEO of Narc Survivor LTD every day we put out these videos five years of a 40 million views and that is my achievement I know it's not about me it's about I'm giving to you I'm just someone who delivers the message you're all the stars of the show my viewers my clients and I can only say that I love you all I appreciate you all and I support you all on whatever your mission is in your life hopefully it's become the best version of yourself so that you can share that with someone else and then we will all grow together and then it's just better but I'm not an angel I'm not a saint I'm just a man who tries to do his best every day and do hope that you will appreciate that I'm sure that many of you do that's why you watch my videos so yeah that's the message for today I don't want to stay on you too long and do have somewhere to be today but let's just enjoy this beautiful feel of the lake before I go all right thank you all for joining me today and