 Yes, welcome back to Quinn's day. And yes, as we promised, we still have a lot lined up for you on this particular day My name is Barry Moses or it's very more of your social media platform And our family platforms are why to fight for each other on Twitter why to fight for one the school channel on Instagram? And why to fight for on Facebook on Facebook? We have a question for you and It's for the guys in relationships and the like to be in relationships What kind of relationship would you like to be in? that kind where a man provides and The ladies admits or people meet somewhere at the center. We'd like to get your views comments and suggestions But without much further ado, our first guest is in studio. She goes by the name evangelist faith. Why remove? She has amazing work that she's doing which is definitely going to inspire you Caribou Sanam nice to be here. Nice to have you as well. I only see you online I never even knew it was you are going to meet today, but it's a blessing for sure. Thank you Your camera is number four. I'd like you to introduce yourself Like the CS of education all credentials, right? Good morning viewer. We are so glad to have you logged on this channel And I'm sure you're going to have an amazing time and my name is evangelist faith. Why remove? I have a couple of portfolios So the first one is that I am a pastor and evangelist at the manifestance of Godchurch Which is located on the eastern vipers at a place called corner and maybe some of you have seen me in your counties hosting crusades I have been hosting crusades in our counties. Yeah, so Other than that in my secular world. I am a regional director for education USA Which is a part of state department US government And we love to help Kenan students and students in the region of Africa to go study in the US So that's what I do on my eight five Work. I don't know that I love charity. I love engaging with women And so I have a mentorship program for women in moringa county where I work with widows to help them start businesses I also, you know, love orphans. And so I also do a lot of charity work to Often ages so by God's grace that's that's who I am. I'm also a blessed mother of two a boy and a girl Can we say hi to the mother watching right now? Hi Hi, son and daughter A money and a beautiful names right there. All right. So this is why I love working with preachers on sets Because you're used to this you just picked up the torch and ring with it But welcome to why in the morning The first thing that got my attention. We are living in the information Is this website that you have on every bio of your social media pages? This is mcgchurch.org Yes, and uh, when I Webside I And then there's find location. That is what I'm focused on Find location. You've really adapted to to technology during this day and age How does this church work because I was hoping to see Find a location you need to find a location So it's interesting that we are living in the information age as you write this day And our world is basically shipped by technology and we If if you don't embrace technology, it's going to just run you over And so what we have done is that we have a virtual part of the church where we engage with people on Wednesday for Bible study on Sunday for A Sunday Savi's and on Fridays. We have many cash hours tend to midnight But the most importantly is that if you want to worship that in person can come to our church Before covid pre covid because covid has just changed the world We used to be at uhuru park where we had crusades And then we'd go to the counties to do crusades in the counties Then every first Saturday of the month. I'm at all saints cathedral And we have a wonderful program for women called royal daddams We just sit as as kings daughters and talk about what god is telling the women I've also traveled around the continent of africa doing crusades preaching the gospel So we are in in multiple places. If you go to some countries, uh, like burundi, tanzania Then you will find people who know us who lovers All right. Yes. So this is the reason why we need to find a location. You need to find a location You find a location that's that is closest to you. Yes. All right msd church.org Find the website. Uh, so you can be blessed in the process as well. I'd like to know, uh, at what point In your life you met cry and decided to serve him in this way. Oh my world. I've had a journey It's been a journey and uh, so the first time I got born again. I was 12 years I think I was 11 right Myself and I was so excited that I was born again and when I went home and I told guys, you know what? I've been born again. My cousin looked at me. She said the people like you can't be born again. She said beautiful All right, did you feel discouraged after in your walk after after Yeah, because uh, you know what happens is that Then you begin to have the spiritual walk with god you begin to read the bible and we can that that kind of person But whereas when you look at your edgments peer pressure is real. They are doing other things They're interested in dancing to macarena. They're interested in all I had an amazing time and then um, you know, I went to high school preached a bit in high school But again in high school that's when I I I think I decided to create my world and to try to find out who I was What I was interested in and so I started clubbing when I was in high school and I had a really good time and uh She never knew before So you are doing it? No, we didn't see any homage until one day we got caught You know, you can only lie for X number of jump sessions I think 40 40 days I was not even 40 the grace was not that sufficient All right, so you there caught my walk. Yes. She's very disappointed. Oh my god a strong christian. Yes Raising a children in the right way Going to church. All right going to church every sunday. Yes, and then she finds out a daughter a beautiful daughter Going to jump session going to jump and I think what broke her heart was the fact that we will go to church It was called english service in pca and then in the morning in the morning And then we'd have lunch at family and then when she goes for something we call district We chomoka with white jeans so that we can reflect we go party and then we come back All right, and she couldn't and she's she was like this must be the devil's work More along the story next time you're going out to wear white jeans for reflection. Exactly, right? So she found out after she found out How was your relationship after because there's so many people go through this face with their parents especially daughters Because sons get away with it most of the time. Yes, they do because I I clubbed with my brother and my brother kinder You know my it was light for him. Yes. My mom was like, you know, if you want to to waste your life like that Just wasting it just wasted I didn't have a chance anywhere to waste it Okay, so I was a relationship after that during that period after you were caught. I was that relation I think one of the things that and I would like to speak to teens right now Is that I'm sticking to that right? Our parents really trust us, you know Our parents want to watch for us and they want to believe that we are the people that we reflect to them Our parents want to believe that we are not double-sided that that that you are who you represent yourself to them And so my mom was really happy with working the day she found out that I was clubbing And she said, you know, if somebody told me that she met you or he met you in Nakua town at Kokosabana I would say the devil is alive Because she trusted me. She trusted that I was going to make the right decisions And I'm going to tell this to you. Don't break your parents trust and don't do stuff behind your back If you're going to go to the club, please tell them have that conversation with them And and and try to tell them why you want to do that And it is not the right thing to do because I can tell you that it's by God's grace that I've got out of that lifestyle Because most of the people that I collaborate Marry and survive. So getting caught was a blessing It was a blessing, but I will never forget how disappointed my mom was So you always see that face and you don't want to you don't want a recurrence of that Yes, and one day she told me if the club is too good, why don't you tell me what it is that you have in the club? I can buy it here if it's the big spot because I will buy it and then you can have your club in the house All right, but I He can't do the same especially the playlist And the DJ, I'm going to bring the DJ I like that. So the relationship between parents and kids should be an open one It must be an open relationship I want to tell you know, I want to let you know that your parents trust you If there's something that we do as parents is that we trust our children. We trust the process We want to trust that they are becoming the people that we are modeling them to be and because we are also role models You know working our best. We are human beings. We have our imperfections But we are trying our best to show our children who we want them to be By observation because kids learn by observation and Don't break that relationship be open with your parents be open with your parents So kids have been home for seven months now A lot has happened during these seven months. They have learned a lot And my friend was telling me when they go back to school Teachers need to be very careful because what make our juniors sad. They were juniors. Oh my world May God redeem and deliver All right, but you work with kids Often What is that that works? Because we might say we want to open relationship between parents and kids But kids are tricky people. That is for sure. I was a kid once and I know I was a tricky person What works? How do you break that that wall? How do you? Make a child open up After working with kids the first thing that I will say is that as parents we don't give our children time And I think I'm an example of that parent who is so strange because I am doing multiple things I travel a lot And so I might not have time But creating quality time if I'm going to spend 30 minutes with you I'm going to spend 30 quality minutes with you number two understanding the love language Because our children have very different love languages So for my first born son, it's doing activities with him. That is his love language He wants to teach me how to play the playstation. That is his love language and he gets so hard broken that I've still not learned All right But you're improving. Yeah, I hope so No disappointions. Yes. I went to work on that definitely And then my my daughter have her love language is me looking at her She wants me to look at her as she's doing everything so you can imagine the whole the mommy look Mommy look and I'm just looking so as parents once you spend quality time You begin to understand what their love language is and also understanding that Buying things for our children is not it. It will never cover for your absence Buying kids buying things for your kids will never cover for your absence That's a powerful lesson right there. So learn the love language. Yes It helps with your child spend quality time with them Not time on your phone and they're on the other side eating fries Yes, and this is reward. You don't leave your phone switch it off. Let them know that this is my time with you It's gonna be 30 minutes that you got me you have my time All right, let's spend it together. Thank you very much for the wise words right there Remember me on facebook at y254 channel twitter at y254 underscore channel instagram at y254 underscore channel Remember we have a question for you. It's about relationships and say to facebook So we can know what you think where your head is at and don't forget to tell us where you're watching us from I'm very interested in this project. Do you have in Murangah with the widows? Yes Why widows first? It was a very interesting way how I got myself in this so, uh, bishop cameo art Deliverance chart in Murangah who's a regional bishop used to invite me to speak to to preach during the women's meetings Which I did for a couple of years and then one day we were having a focus groups and breakouts rooms. So he said You know, I feel that you should go and minister to the widows. And I looked at him and I said What am I supposed to tell them? Because I you know, I understand that they've gone through emotional Hats they have lost so much and I was wondering whether I was the right person to go and speak to them And so that's how I got engaged with them. So anytime we had these So sometimes god uses other people to to to show you the path that is he has intended for you All right, and that is why it is important for you to understand that it is pretty cool that you work with the right people Because when you work with the right people god will use them to reveal yourself to you So he could see a gift in me of working with widows, which I never saw But it took bishop canary to tell me, you know, you can do this and I think that you're going to be successful in it And so we started having meetings with him and one day after we had prayed worshipped and you know, and just had a one-on-one You know, just we used to have those moments when we would you know Just have to have two heart talks and you wouldn't believe how we traumatize our widows in this country It is long and we need to rethink that we need to rethink the process Of how we treat our widows. But remember it's it's a it's a it's a complex dynamic because we have 43 cultures in this country And each culture has a way of dealing with the widows. That's right And it's very hard to merge to find to find a conclusive way of doing it among 42 cultures. So how what do you think is the way for it because I'm I'm also hurt At the way they're treated. Yes, and I think we need to find common ground And the first common ground is this is a human being right who has just gone through loss and They need us as community To embrace them And so one of the common themes that we heard is that You're married. So we hang out with all these married couples the time somebody's husband dies All the women feel insecure Now you you were single you're gonna take my husband So they've lost their husband and then they lose friends because of the insecurity amongst their friends And I'm not saying that it is everyone because I will be generalizing it, which is not right But pushing these people away when they need that support And then worse still is when we have people who are married and their husbands built in their parents homes And so the the husband is is dead and the brothers are very abrasive with them Assistant laws are like my brother's death. So it happens across the country. Yes. It does happen everywhere. And so They become homeless the parents of their If the father mother doesn't stand with them the brothers the sisters are gonna kick them out all right, so as uh As the family of the man We also need to be very careful in how to we need to be more embracing And again, I say that there is no perfect human being I am not a perfect human being and if you look for faults in a human being you will find one million definitely You will write a book So always try to find the good things in humans. Always try to find those those good things in them Understanding that people grieve differently, right? So maybe this person was so nice when your brother was there, but nothing's dead And maybe her way of grieving is going to make them not really nice to be around with Allow them time to to grieve. All right. I like uh, the The part that you said You used the word success The the bishop told you uh, you need to do this or this is a path for you And I think you're going to be successful at it. People have different definitions of success But your success story, what is your success story in this case? My success story is that I was in opposition to gain that trust and that we could have very open conversations And you know, we could pray together. We did lunches all good from my ruby good morango We have matches together and just half time to to speak and one day when I was leaving morango I was very excited because we had such had we had to have such a break together we cried together and They won't say to me What are they going to eat? And I was like What? So I'm praying about what the lord had stayed And you know god told me I am asking you to help them start businesses Like The wall at 72 widows. I was like, oh my god 72 businesses Yes, I'm If running one business is is is is hell or not. And how do you even give them capital for that? I was like, I don't know anyone at IMF or world bank Yet, yes, right? and so um You know the wonderful thing about god is that he will always provide if he gives you a vision He's going to give you the provision for it. And so a couple of months later on my birthday I went and met them and I said, you know what? We have been having this conversation about what you want to do about the businesses You want to to start and we have hard conversations about this and I said Did it has come? You tell us how much your capital is and we sat in the church. My son was there My son had never seen so much cash Mommy, what about me? I like it already Okay, it's going to be a successful guy. Yes He has a high affinity point. He wanted to start a business too. All right But it's the law that you raise this capital and so far how many businesses have been set up? So the 21 women came and so what we said is that what they needed to do is to give up To give back a hundred shillings per month And give it to the next lady and that's how they were able to fund themselves Yes, all right. And so they started businesses and and they are Financially stable and I blessed the lord for that So this is currently happening in moranga. Yes with the widows and I hope this is going to spread across the country I hope it is because lives are lost every day people lose their dads every day. Yes, unfortunately Widows are left behind every single day. Yes. Thank you very much. Evangelist faith. So as we progress, how is school by the way? School is great. I think 2020 is a gap here for everyone We've taken gaps and I'm taking a gap here. So, um, uh, master's student at The famous Fletcher school is one of the oldest public diplomacy schools in the world And I am studying international law and diplomacy. I am looking forward to be through with it And so I've done my first residency edited in singapore in january of 2019 And then life happened I changed jobs And so I'm trying to build up time for me to go for my next residency in medford, uh, massachusetts at tufts university But so far so good. It's been such a wonderful experience. I've met wonderful people I never imagined I'd be in the same class with an ambassador, which I did and you know, just having those conversations and seeing the world at a very different perspective because of all The contributions that you're receiving in the class and also to be taught by professors who are Nobel Peace Prize winners Is is amazing To help professors who are teaching the books they wrote wonderful conversations in class, which I'm very grateful to god for all right, so being uh A woman in this, uh, man's one. Yes And uh, you uh, the work that you're doing is uh, predominantly male, especially preaching diplomacy And the rest of the things, uh, remember you told me once you were told being saved is not something for a beautiful woman Yes, all right. Yes. So being a beautiful woman in this position In this position right here What are some of the challenges you go through or some of the stereotypes or some of the energy that people Direct towards you. I think one of the things that I've realized Is is I which never was apparent to me is that I'm female Oh Yes But but you are a woman We are supposed to be different. I'm supposed to to be less aggressive. Exactly. Then you don't qualify. That's basically what they're telling you Instead of telling you you don't qualify. They say but but you are a woman right, um And and then some people will will will try to tell you but you see in Africa women are not leaders So you face this every single step of the way. Yes. Yes And and I've always told myself. Well, I've got to keep my eyes on the goal Because god asked me to do things these things and at the end of the day The Bible says that a day comes of judgment and god will hold me accountable for everything I said and for everything I did All right, and I don't want to tell people. Oh god So, you know that's guy the tall one with the blue shirt told me that women don't do these things I just want to do What I'm supposed to do. Okay. So women can do it Women can do it. They should not they should not be told they can't Yes, and I think I will also like to to speak to the girls out there And to let them know that you can you can be successful And I know that our society has talked about girls empowerment And and and it's a good thing for us to have this conversation about but I want you to know that you can do it But I want you to know that girl empowerment doesn't mean Removing the place of the mind because then we create a very imbalanced society And that is what we are seeing is the offshoot of focusing more on the girls and forgetting the boy child If I raise my daughter as an empowered girl and I don't raise my son as an empowered boy Who's we going to marry? All right, my brothers. They're very happy because of that point They represent different organization for the moisture So girls need to do what they need to do if you want to study engineering Go for it go and study engineering because you can you can be successful as an engineer And I remember you know growing up you you will be told. Oh, you know work hard So you can get married to a doctor. Why don't you become the doctor your mother yourself? Yeah From evangelist faith So I'm told humans are inherently discriminating sometimes you try to be just open-minded But you find yourself just discriminated. That's right. That's right. All right. So which one is worse the person who tells you All right Woman cannot do this or the person thinks it doesn't tell you I am open to criticism So you try to have somebody who's going to criticize then just Think about it and And take some actions On the low exactly because you see when somebody is open We think and they say that you know, I don't think women should do this Then they give you ground for conversation And you get to talk to them and and try to understand where they're coming from as well as share Why you're doing what you're doing But the people who keep quiet mostly what they do is that they sabotage you They don't tell you know But they go out to make sure those are dangerous people. They smile at you and they say god bless you woman of god And then behind you back. They make sure you will never stand up to say anything God forgive you people So the next few questions are going to be opinion based So I'd like to know are the people who proposed Regulation in churches some time back. You have not seen it. Do you support it? This is where I say Regulation is good policy is good But do not create policy or regulation Without being well founded I cannot regulate an industry that I'm not part and parcel of I cannot regulate an industry that I am not Working on research. So before you regulate the chart. Have you read the bible? Do you know who god is? So that you do not get in his way. And this is what I'd say is that god is not man So you cannot step in his way and starting. Oh, you know, I'm gonna do this to you cannot stop god Read the bible very well. Today. We are driven by ai gene editing all these things are happening in our time But no one has been able to part the red sea god did So before you regulate the charge conduct some research Nobody has been able to part the red sea god did god did before you regulate the charge Do some research do some research a research god Find out who god is Be a prayerful person be spiritually Guided because you can never regulate spiritual things physically unless you're looking for trouble Which we shouldn't oh god of all creation bless this our land and nation That's right. Thank you very much for that schools are opening on monday for grade four. Yes Class eight students and form fours. What do you take on that? I know it's a bit controversial. I've had many people say many things But this is what I want to say to the students It is you who is going back to that classroom You've been out of class out of school for a long time And there are things that are going to sound foreign yet the teacher has taught you And so I'm going to ask our learners to take it upon themselves to study extra hard And Teachers have taught you and our education system is cumulative So you are going to be asked from four your kcc questions are going to be drawn from one two from two from three From four they're going to ask you questions across the board and I want to address the students and say this is your life We are out of school and if I try to go back to high school, it it would not be right, but this is your chance Go for it. You can do it. I know that you've been studying if you've not been studying it is still well The bible says that the memory of the russia's is bless me. May your memory be blessed May god remind you everything you studied and may you be successful in jesus name Thank you very much. That is a word to the students I wish we could talk to the parents But we are running out of time because parents have different struggles from the students. Definitely. We have to think about school fees. Yes We're not going to talk about that Relationships the one that we have on facebook. Yes, should be the should a man be the provider or should we meet Somewhere at the center. Should we go dutch? Um, I I I I'm old school and it comes to relationships and man provide. Thank you very much for That I'll give you a few minutes to tell them how they can find us on social media How they can catch your next someone and how they can get at to see your content Thank you very much. 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