 Hey, she was seven. I'm back. Okay, so this video It's gonna be about as a woman. You should never initiate sex Okay, and the reason I say this is because Sometimes women become overly aggressive sexually and they you know pressure the man and this is incorrect Okay, a man is the one who's supposed to pursue you sexually and They like to okay. It feels like a challenge. It feels like they've won something. It feels like they've conquered something If you're chasing him, it's like, you know, he feels like the woman. So you need to Let him chase you I was and I know sometimes when you get in a relationship Sometimes you're just like, you know in a habit of you know having sex and stuff and then You know you start to pursue him when you want it and studying him instead of letting him pursue you I Was on Facebook scrolling the other day and I have like a few male friends on Facebook And I was reading one of their posts and this guy, you know, he has money and he's with his girlfriend and You know, he spoils her right and y'all I mean and so he was like man This girl is always trying to get me for sex and I you know, I feel like I wish I could chase her every once in a while She's always chasing me. I should I don't even feel like a man anymore So basically what he was saying is you know Let the man do the chasing, you know, it's a natural for a woman to chase behind a man Anyway, okay, this this will set things off balance and you don't want that in your relationship So if you want something and he's not in the mood or which is rare for a man You know, do little things to get him in the mood. You don't have to say, oh, I want some now You know, you can walk around in a skimpy outfit and hope that that raises awareness If it doesn't, you know, maybe put on a sexy movie if that doesn't help then he just don't want to have sex at that time, you know Don't take it personally. Don't say oh, you don't want me no more Sometimes guys are not always focused on sex or maybe you've been giving it to him too much and now he's bored with You know, that's why I say sometimes you need to withhold yourself and not you know, try to Do it all the time because you know, once a guy has sex with a girl so many times it gets boring And they have to become excited about it again You know, so if you're trying to over sex your man If you're always aggressive towards him if you don't let him do the chasing believe me He's gonna get bored of you even faster. He's like, oh my god You know, I wish I could feel like a man again Or I wish that she would give me the opportunity to chase her or I wish she would you know Slow down. It's not fun when the woman is the aggressor Now some men like this every once in a while, but not Consistently like maybe just once it's flattering to them, but all the time. It's not flattering. Okay Like you know when a guy is Attracted to you in the beginning and it's like all all you want to do is you know have sex and then after a while You start feeling insecure and so you start demanding it more Because you think he's like becoming uninterested, but truly he's just used to you and he he is Comfortable enough not to be on you all the time. He's comfortable enough to you know Not have to prove his manhood all the time and how you know, he's used to you now so You know you got to keep things fresh like I said a lot of times men just become Bored of the same thing over and over and they need a break and it's not that they want to go cheat It's just that they want to regroup in their mind. They want to find new ways that you're sexy They want to see you know, how long you know, it'll take before they are crazy about you again And want to pursue you they want to see You know, they want to chase you, okay? This is why a lot of people like Present challenges even when they're in relationships They don't like if you're too nice if everything is perfect if you give sex all the time and it gets boring So that's why you have to keep stuff interesting, you know Don't always be available. Don't always give it to him when he asks for it, you know Keep things Different keep him guessing, you know, don't be the aggressor Because you feel like he's not into you anymore, okay, that's that's not really the reason if he wasn't into you he'd be gone by now or he'd be cheating but if you know, he's not cheating and He's just not sexually into you like he used to be in the beginning That's a good sign because it means he's comfortable enough Around you to relax and not to you know, feel pressure to to do all this is than that so Hold that ladies they make special toys for you, you know You don't have to always be aggressing I mean and a lot of people think that I mean a lot of women think that if they Oversex their man, they won't be going out to look for you know, six anywhere else But the truth is if you chase your man too much, they're gonna feel like oh, well, I miss chasing women You know, you know, I'm not under sex, but I just miss chasing a woman So the thrill of the chase is what make a lot of men cheat because it's not the lack of sex It's like oh man, I miss that feeling of going after something and accomplishing it and getting it I can't even do that in my house because she's just giving it away or she's throwing it at me, you know This is no fun. This is no challenge So that's why you have to play hard to get even when you're still in a relationship Even when you're at the beginning of a relationship even all that you have to play the game, okay? It's all mental. Okay. Once someone gets what they want and it's not fun anymore. They you know They're off to the the next thought in their mind So this is why women have to hold themselves back This is why I'm a women have to say oh, you know, I'm not in the mood tonight Even if you are sometimes don't give it to him every time you ask for it because this keeps him You know wanting more, you know, you know, don't deny it all the time, but every once in a while you gotta give that a decline And believe me it works y'all cannot y'all cannot go by Like y'all can't go by certain things because I know I'm a marijuana. I've been married since 2006 and I've been with the same person since 2001 I know everything how a man thinks, okay? And for these modern guys and this modern time who want to be just like a woman who want equal treatment to a woman You know these rules still apply because deep down inside They're still men and they are confused. They don't know what they want sometimes That's why they don't really have an excuse as to why they cheated or as to why, you know certain things You know happen in a relationship because they're confused. They're mentally confused They don't know if they want to cheat or stay with you or if they want to be single or they want to have a family because they're So confused because they're too busy trying to be equal to a woman Okay, now if they would just like Take on their role as a responsible male and you know protective provider role Things will be a lot different things would be more clear and you know a lot of people Would probably stay together longer a lot of people will probably get along better relationships a lot of people will probably fall in love faster Getting married But you see there's this struggle like a man wanting to be equal to women and relationships and You know it's a turnoff for a lot of women, you know and then if they do accept this man as an equal Then they feel like, you know, dang I'm equal to a man. So it's okay If I say hey, I want some sex right now. Give it to me because I do the same thing as you do There's no gender role in this relationship so a lot of times these gender roles get confused and You know if there's not a set, you know, I'm the pursuer you're the lady You know, if there's not a set mentality Then things are just gonna be all messed up, you know The man will walk out the house feel like the man be the man at work and he comes home and he feels like the woman or the child because There's no Boundaries and there's no roles in place. There's no mutual respect from male and female in place, you know So he comes home, he feels totally different. Therefore his sixth drive is not that of a Masculine man, you know, he's not gonna pursue you if you make him feel like a woman or if you make him feel like a child So you have to remember that ladies. You can't might be so overly, you know Masculine as far as the way that you handle your relationship, you know, or you can't be so overly Independent as to her, you know You say well, I make more money than you I should get sex when I want it, you know, blah blah blah blah Because you wouldn't want a man doing that to you. So There has to be balance you have to set a roles You have to do all that because if you do have kids your kids were watching this You know, your kids are watching the gender roles in your home and they're gonna say well Like especially the men especially the boys the little boys are gonna be like well mommy works She cooks she claims she looks pretty she does makeup on Everybody likes mommy. She's to come home and lay on the couch and watch TV. I won't be like mommy Okay, so y'all understand what I'm saying. Okay. I'll see y'all later. Thank you so much thumbs up and I'll Answer all your questions in the comments