 Find a man who makes you feel fat and ugly. If you can do that, you're winning. So what I mean by that is, my husband, and I love him so much. I said to him when I, I'm like, you make me feel fat and ugly. I look at him and I love him so much. I imagine if I was really an obese, gassly woman who's toothless, and then I found this man, I would do anything to keep him. Because he has options. So I, I want to please him. He makes me feel fat and ugly. I'm like, do you want a sandwich or what? You want roast tonight? Do you want to go for a hike? What do you want to do? You know, like whatever you want to do, I will do that for you.