 Whenever you open your heart and share your thinking, you know that people are gonna judge it. Instantly people moving to judgment about you. People judge you before you open your mouth. People judge you with their eyes, before they judge you with their ears when you step on a stage, like maybe you did about my pink shirt. Which is why I said up front, I have one on, I'm okay with it. So all of us are subject to that in this world, social media has kind of put this out of control, the judging on appearance thing. So to step up and open your mouth and open your heart is by definition vulnerable. I still think it's worth the journey and the experimentation to find an appropriate level for you. And that's the thing, vulnerability doesn't have to look like what someone else told you it should look like for you, because that's how they express vulnerability. I've seen it done badly and thought, I don't want that. It needs to be authentic to who you are. And...