 So what we talked about at the beginning of was it but did we meet before Ramadan began? I think we did about a week or so before or something and We talked about at that time Even for those of you who are only fasting a little bit that even if you're not fasting from food What are the important things you fast from that are not food and water? Could someone raise their hands? What are some of the things? Yes Muhammad you fast from saying any bad words or you fast from Looking at bad things listening to bad things or doing bad things. That's right That's very true and our wonderful brother Hamza Yusuf who is the president of Zaytuna He sent out a wonderful little journal a little booklet for Ramadan To keep in your pocket and all day long. You can check off did I missed I did my prayers. I Recited some Quran. I Gave I was generous. I gave something away, but then he put a little square It was did I watch my tongue and that's what we're gonna talk about today because that's such a big deal You know, we're loving Imam al-Ghazali. I'm gonna tell you something He said and then the rest of the thing we're going to have a conversation between us. So imagine We have our language don't we I mean birds seem to have a language Dogs seem to have a language, but what do you think about the human language? Isn't that a miracle? You can have a thought and then you can say it don't you think that's that's pretty amazing. What do you think? Yeah So language is amazing. We're lucky to have it. We're very lucky to be able to have language But believe it or not language is The biggest difficulty according to Ghazali that we have in polishing our heart and then he put points out Look what we can do with our speech We can say Sopana law we can say La ilaha illa Allah when we die we can use our speech for many many many things. It's wonderful It's very very special, right? So this is something that Ghazali says he says Truly the tongue is One of God's greatest gifts and most wondrous and subtle very subtle of his creations. It's small in size But huge in power Everyone tremendous in power, right? We can use it to obey. We can use it to do the wrong things we can Nothing that exists are non-existent. We can it It's the most the tongue can reach and talk about it the tongue can talk about a law, right? It's the most special organ in our whole body our tongues our voice and Nothing can resist it and it can do a great deal of good and it can do a great deal of harm With someone of you talk about some of the harm you could use with your tongue What is some of the harm or misuse of language and talk tongue? What would you all say? Okay, Anissa, what would you say is something bad you can do with the tongue and something good you can do with the tongue One thing you could do bad with the tongue is Say something that you actually didn't mean to say but or if you were upset or something. Yeah, mm-hmm It just slipped. Mm-hmm. But what are some of the good things you can do with your voice and your tongue? You could um say something nice to somebody Of course, so that's that's a good use of a good use of language So what I'm going to do is Ghazali wrote a book and He went through about 25 things that are good you can do with your tongue and 25 that are not But I made a list of a few of them and what we're going to do today We're going to take one at a time and then each of you are going to talk about How you could see that being used or how you've experienced okay the first one when we When we use our mouth we can lie right and lying is bad, but sometimes there's a good lie So what could a good lie be? Okay, let's see Yes, Mohammed like um, maybe if there is somebody that uh Let's say maybe there's a burglar trying to get somebody's Yeah, what's going to get somebody's money and then while I get the person the person behind him says The book to the burglar that man doesn't have any money. Oh, I see what a great idea That's a good idea. Maybe sometime there's a little girl and she's not very pretty and she says how do I look and you Would what would you say ugly or pretty? Good Yeah, you look good. Yes, because that's a good, but normally lying is bad. Why what's wrong with lying? because if you lie You just keep you just keep on lying just To save that lie and then you keep on saying like why and just keep on lying And you know you sometimes can't forget you can forget what you lied about like maybe I was um Telling a friend like No, I don't have a box of cookies, you know that we can eat and of course I have cookies and then She comes and asks me do you have any cookies and I can't remember Did I lie or not? Did I say we had cookies when we did so lying also can catch you up The truth is always the best and you know, you don't have to be embarrassed about it You can just some say to someone. I'm sorry. I spoke. I spoke wrongly out of place It wasn't true what I said so we can always do that too. So lying is an issue. All right what about The tone in which you speak, okay, I want each one of you To say something how you'd speak to your mother or a brother or friend and say it with a good tone And then say it with a bad tone. Okay, Anissa will start with you I'll be with your mother and I'll say Anissa would you like to come help serve dinner? Okay, now give me two tones that you can answer it in there and fine Perfect boy, Anissa got it correctly. Okay. Let's see Who are some that haven't spoken who hasn't spoken someone speak up who would like to speak? I'm volunteering when I okay, go ahead and then Arianna you want to speak next Yeah, okay. Give us an example of saying saying with a different tone. Okay, what happened someone says What do they say to you someone just says something to you? Maybe maybe um, maybe your father comes in the room and says Oh, I think it would be nice if you picked up your room picked up your clothes off the floor And there's two ways to answer. Let's hear your answer Yes, I would say Okay, or Because what we heard in fine Was you were impatient you were not being patient with your father It's amazing how the voice can show being patient with someone and Impatient and really just putting up with them, you know, you know, that's a good thing. Okay, everyone else. Okay, and that's And that's would you give an example? For example, if my if my dad said My dad said to clean up here two options one like okay, or and the other one like fine Fine. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, so you can see how you can use your phone So it's very it's very unpleasant, isn't it, you know, if somebody is impatient with you I have someone and she tells me things and she always does it like she's really put out You know, because I'm older and I get confused about Whether I got scam on my email and she would say instead of just saying You know, you have to be careful, you know, watch out. She'd say I have told you a thousand times right That's not very nice is it to do to somebody? Okay. Um, who else would like to give an example of tone? Yes, Arianna So if like my parents say to go do something I would say okay, sure, but if like I don't I didn't really want to do it. I'll say Okay, fine. I'll do it. Yeah, you make it sound negative. All right. Okay I'll do it. Yes. We want to be cheerful, right? You know, it's important to be cheerful and joy and joyous. All right So tone. All right. Now. Here's another thing that you can do with your voice. All right with your language Okay Say a friend comes to you and She says I'm gonna tell you a secret and this is just between us and Don't tell anybody and you say I promise. What are some what are some of the things that you can do wrong about secrets? Okay, and that's would you like to say something? So For example, if you like spoil the secret so you so the friend said do not tell to anyone But then you just go to school and then tell every single person you see about the secret Yes Who else would like to talk about secrets? Well, there's even another subtle thing that can happen subtle means very hard to spot Maybe Even you could keep silent about something someone would say now Was so-and-so on time to school maybe the teacher is saying that right and you could just go Like that make an expression You're not actually speaking, but your silence is already Rating on your friend. Do you see what I mean? Are there moments where you could speak up? You know, but maybe being silent can also be like speaking Badly about someone give an example someone of doing something like that. Just make up an example. Okay, who would like to speak? Okay, Maya. What would you give an example? an example is like When you put this isn't like your sister's like Do something and you don't and and you don't want them and then you know about it But they don't want you to tell like that they're doing it Like tell them that Yeah, like threaten them a black male a black male. I'd forgotten about black male That's I'm gonna write that down on my list black male. Yeah black male. Wow Wow examples of black male give an example of black male another one like if you know somebody Something like secret about somebody else you kind of tell it to everybody Yeah, you and you use it against them like you have dirt on them Yeah Isn't that horrible? Yeah. Are you starting to black? Yeah, so are you starting to see how many ways you can use your precious tongue? It was meant to read Quran and praise of law and say nice things look at all the ways you can really do Really misuse and abuse this beautiful little tongue a law has given you Okay, then okay, then there could also be Teasing or mocking somebody everybody talk about a time they got teased or they tease someone All right, let's everyone has to contribute about teasing an honest story Okay, and we all do it and it all happens dust when people used to tease me when I was a little girl It made me so sad, but then also I've teased people too. Okay, everyone speak Okay, one at a time everyone give an example of maybe a time they got teased or And and also a way that they could tease somebody in their family or at school. Okay, go ahead Maya starting I think my are you going to start Maya go ahead Okay, Maya, I forgot to lower my hand. Sorry. Okay. What about the two people on either side of you? I want them to then talk would they each okay? Tell about a time She's whispering tell about a time that you got teased or you tease somebody, okay? Like at school we were doing like a basketball unit and like I was going slow and like The people want to know like why you guys are slow and Oh, yeah, you're you're slow. Yeah, they're teasing you. Oh, you're so slow. Have you ever teased anybody? I don't know Yeah, and my go ahead and give your example, we've got you on right now Maya Yeah Like I got cheese would we're doing volleyball like I couldn't throw over the hoop Over like the net over the over the balls on that and then and and they said that I was like not that good Oh, that's so sad Have you ever seen people tease people and say oh you're wearing those stupid shoes, so you're wearing a dress That's not nicer. Yeah. Yeah that too like Yeah Is this your brother next to you? No, that's my sister. I couldn't tell your hair was back. Okay, sister. Oh Has anybody ever teased you for any reason? No, no, I really know no, you're okay, you're lucky. All right, we'll go out Anissa Anissa talk about teasing That Anissa Anissa is gonna talk now Anissa go ahead. I've never really been teased Never Mm-hmm. Have you ever teased anybody a younger brother or sister? I don't have a younger brother or sister. Oh, okay So Anissa hasn't ever have you ever seen teasing going on have you ever watched it at school? Yeah, it happens regularly Describe it what happened what have you seen give us some examples of what you've seen No, like maybe hey your shoes look ugly or something Yeah. Oh, it's terrible. Isn't it? Yeah Yeah, okay, okay. What about in ass would you to give us an example of teasing? In ass in ass, maybe I'm mispronouncing it There are a couple of hands up for a testing and You said Salma. Yeah, could you be in charge of putting them on because they're not showing up on my screen You are then charge of the getting the kids. Okay, sure You said in Salma Okay, um one time I was at school and So I was walking I was walking at the basketball courts and then I heard somebody call somebody stupid You see That's terrible. That's terrible. And what about your sister? What please what have you seen people being teased? um Do you tease people? Yeah She teases me she does. Yeah. Oh like what does she say? Yesterday. She called me a grandpa I was slow He also pulled me around And then this morning I did not Like 30 seconds ago she pinched me on the back And Morning I was I was sleeping and then and then she told and then she put really loud music on so I asked her to turn it down Okay, well, I think we've got a good couple I want you all to act out Arguing because arguing is a thing you're never supposed to do so would you two pretend to argue you and your sister about something? Let's have an argument, okay I don't like you you called my best friend ugly. So you're Emceeing I like mother mother is the artistic film director in the background. Hello mother That's great. Well people don't like it listening to people arguing It's a terrible thing to do with the mouth isn't it arguing when I hear people arguing. It's just so horrible I can't stand it. And yet people even though we don't like to listen to it. Do you like listening to people argue? Have you ever heard your parents ever have it an up? Yes, Anissa Anissa, yes, people who argue for a living What do you mean lawyers? Yeah, but there are also some people who argue for a living like who are they I Don't remember But there are some people who make money because they're special players players Debate teams debate Yeah debate team. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I think in a debate team, you're actually trying to look Oh, you're trying to learn to win right you. Oh, that's interesting. Yeah arguing. Yes, Hana Maya you wanted to say something Okay Unmute yourself honey. I'm sorry. Um, but I don't like listening to arguments because it makes me scared but and um, it's and and arguing is something that you're not supposed to do and like I don't like like how people Like yell and fly fight sometimes Sometimes people take it too far and after you start hitting I prefer negotiating Yeah Yeah No, nobody likes arguing and remember when we were studying the 10 things in Manmohal Ghazali said we can never do Said arguing is one of them because of course what you're doing Do you think the prophet peace and blessings be upon him? Do you think he would have argued with people? No No, no, no, so we're trying to copy him, right and the prophet peace and blessings be upon He thought of the other person first now when you're arguing are you thinking yourself first or the other person when you When you're the one arguing You're thinking of yourself. I want to be right. I'm the right. I got it right. You're wrong. You're wrong I hear people going on and on arguing and it really makes me feel so upset inside You know, don't you so arguing we're not supposed to do and Ghazali said in the book of knowledge he said if You're arguing with somebody Let's just say this wonderful brother and sister arguing and then one of them realizes, oh my gosh I'm arguing and you stop arguing There's a hadith that says the person who stops arguing in the middle of an argument just stops There's a special special place for them in paradise in Jannah and then there's another hadith that says If you're arguing with somebody and you're right like let's say I'm driving my husband and I are driving in the car, right? And I keep telling him we we we got to take exit 10 and he's saying no We're supposed to take exit 9, but I know it's exit 10 I'm seeing it on the map if rather than argue and if you're right and you give up arguing Just let the person do what it is then you get a very special Marvelous little palace in paradise now whether that's literally true or whether it's meaning you're uplifted in your spirit to a high level Which is the thing you want to do. That's what we're talking about So arguing is a terrible thing to do with this very precious tongue. We have you're arguing is bad okay, then What about let's talk about? Subtle ways you show off. Okay. It's called like name dropping. Oh I'm just casually talking that's to one of you and you know, oh, yes We had a wonderful trip we got to go to New York see I'm showing off, right? Oh, and you know, we met the Queen of England. It was really lovely showing off and name dropping You know and it's hard. I got an A plus plus on my exam, right? What are we doing? We're using our voice to push us up so people will think wow She's but you know if somebody does that if they're showing off and name dropping I don't actually like them when they do that because I know what they're doing But the truth is the person who's doing it. Sometimes I do it myself I think maybe people will like me better if they know I went to New York if they know I have a new car So we do a lot of things thinking people will respect us more But you know what you can see right through the person who's showing off Okay, so every we're gonna go through and everyone will give Say something in which they're kind of showing off or bragging Just anything you could say to someone. Okay start at the beginning. Everyone raise their hands and everybody do it, okay? Testine has been for a long time testing is she there testing site of the scene Do you see her because I can't see her Her camera went off. I think there she is. That seems back. Can you unmute? Yeah, I'm a miracle. I'm gonna put that that gallery thing. Oh look. Wow. There she is All right. Good. Okay. You pretend to Bragg and show off say you're talking to people and give examples of how you just do it All right, go ahead. Oh I got the newest I Yeah, and how does that make the other person feel? That's right, that's it and Something we also learned my dear the other day is that When you do that, I've got a new iPad You might make the other person Sad because they wish they had one you might make them have envy and they want they envy what you have We don't want to create envy remember the story. We were talking about one of the things you can do There was a man who lived at the time of the prophet peace and blessings be upon him And he didn't wear his new fancy clothes when he went out because he didn't want people to wish they had them So even thinking about how we act that we don't want to cause envy It was not only are we bragging but then we're causing more bad things to happen because envy is no good Okay, who else would like to talk about bragging and showing off? Yes, yes, sir Yes, use of in Selma. I have a phone I Also got my dad also got the new Tesla for free Okay, I'm ending you already. Okay, it worked. Okay. Do I think you're a nicer person? No, you were really nicer before you said that. Okay, but we all do it Okay, everyone now your sister, please. Would you give an example of bragging and showing off or name dropping with your friends? I met the president Yeah, exactly the president. Yeah, precisely Yes, sometimes that could be interesting information, but it depends on your intention Now when you said you met the president Were you trying to show off? Or we was it let everyone know that when you were in Washington, DC this important opportunity came Were you showing off or did you do it to really pass on information? Uh What did you do? She tried to show off Yeah, okay, good All right. Oh, who else would like to speak now? Anita go ahead So, um, let's pretend I'm this person Okay, and I say I go ice skating every single day and I have Classes that are present and then after that I play The whole entire day until I go to bed video games and I'm the richest person there Yeah, see See I'm just now. We are all listening to you Did anybody like her more because she said that everybody did any of you like her more? No In fact, we start to think this poor girl Anisa She doesn't have enough Security in her own golden heart She feels she has to say more to make people like her, but you know what Anisa we're all doing this everybody does it It's really depressing. You know, it's really depressing You know Yeah, you know, it was just a joke, right? I don't actually Have that No, no, I know that I know you are giving an example. No, we're all this is only examples We're we're we're we're learning from it because we're showing Ourselves how easy it is to use our tongue Ariana tell us some ways you could you could show off and So, um I'd say like oh my parents got this mansion. It has like three Stories and I got this new video game and it's really cool and no one has it. Oh boy. Whoa This is terrible Okay, so we all know this isn't fun. Okay next we're gonna play at the gossiping game Each one of you is gonna gossip about somebody, you know backbiting Oh, you can pretend. Oh, did you know blah blah blah? Okay. Who wants to start? Okay, use of go ahead gossip You know that so much hair is fake She wears a wig And that her glasses They're actually just a pair a pair from the doctor and um She she lives in a dirt hut in the middle of the desert Okay, so you've gossiped now if your sister Then spreads that around right passes it on it can become a scandal. Okay, so what are you going to do with that information? Are you gonna do is it soma? Yeah, you you turn it into a scandal. He's whispered some possible now you go to the school and what are you going to do to create a scandal Tell somebody Everybody tell everybody Say on the microphone thingy that that the uh, oh, yeah, the pr says attention attention everybody Soma lives in a dirt hut in the desert And she wears and she has wears glasses from the dumpster You know what you all are really good Would anyone else like to give some examples of backbiting how you subtle backbiting You know putting somebody down talking about them just a little bit to someone who will be next Here come sapa. Okay sapa sapa Her family is poor and she wears rags She has so like swollen shoes and it's has her clothes has dirt right now So you've you've now backbit you've you've mentioned this if you had to correct yourself What would be the right thing to do in this situation? You've seen this little girl who has very little who has poor clothing through no fault of her own She's living like this. What could be something good you could say with your voice to help that little girl I would say Um I'm sorry. I backbited to you and um I hope we could be friends That's really lovely And then I was just thinking is as she was saying this That maybe what she could do Is she could go and talk to some other people and say let's give her a hand You know through no fault of her own her parents have fallen on hard times Maybe you don't want to collect and give her clothing because that would be too obvious But what about ways of including her what are ways a little girl like that you could you could talk about behind her back What are ways that you could actually make her life better? Let's all think what what would you what would you do? Anisa to help that little girl probably include her and With stuff I do Yeah, I I had a something happened yesterday A man came To wash our windows. We do it twice a year And he and his friend But of course people don't hire window washers in the winter when it's raining and they wait for the spring, right? So he and his friend were washing the windows and then he just looked at me and he said he said lady I I need to find work and he said that to me, all right I could have just said, you know, uh, thank you very much and here's the fee for today and You know, I'll I'll ask them of my friends and then I thought and this is really I'm crying to tell you then I thought to myself This just came to me. It's like we know the hadith Allah said Um, when when I was sick, why didn't you visit me? In other words, Allah was giving you a chance to visit a sick person and he was present there So I thought this person is standing in front of me And so I went into another room and I called a neighbor and I said, could you get your windows Washed maybe you don't need it, but would help him and they said sure and then they thought of someone And then I put his phone number on my iphone and I took his contact Really the washer window washer and went to all of my friends and said, here's somebody Not do you need your windows washed? Who really wants to find work? He needs money and you know what by the end of the day, we had like 16 people all doing it and that was simply using my voice In a good way Something sad came and I could have ignored it, but that's another way you can use your voice. Don't you all think just like Anisa was saying with the little girl that was um, so poverty-stricken So poverty-stricken that she would include her, you know and respect her you see And you know, it's funny listening to you all today You know when we some of the negative things have been saying like I'm bragging because we're rich and we have a tesla right but then um Negative would be using the voice and saying oh That person, you know, really has shabby clothes But what we're forgetting here Is we're judging people by what they have rather than what they are and this is a very big point You know, I remember when we lived in Egypt There was a very poor man and he did live in a mud hut and he never missed his prayers And he was a sweeper. He swept and in fact when he died You know the position of prayer called sedged up when your forehead is on the ground He was in his sedged a position And he died in that position right? And then there was a very rich man saying oh these people don't have anything They don't even have coca-colas and I thought that poor man Who lived a humble life and prayed he had all the wealth the wealth that matters in the world It didn't matter the big company in the country clubs So one thing we have to be careful always Is to keep our hearts open and know that the person in need in front of us Is an opportunity for us to give Share Even kindness share all of the things we've been given and and and in so much so So much of it. All right, let's see. We've talked about gossiping scandals lying blackmail Um the tone of the voice Devulging secrets we've talked about teasing and mocking And joking joking around I think And we've also talked about arguing And then we've talked about oh we have a few more we've talked about showing off You all know what hypocrisy is Hypocrisy is in Islam. It's really bad. It's called nifak and you can't You can't it's really bad to be a hypocrite. Does anyone know how to define the word hypocrite? Go ahead. You said go ahead Someone who says something but does the opposite? Yeah, in the book of knowledge we had to The man telling the children how they had to be nice to animals And they should let the bird out of the cage And then they noticed he had a dog tied up and the dog's water bowl was turned over people and and imam al-ghazali himself That's what happened to him. He realized he was a hypocrite. He was lecturing in Baghdad He was the smartest professor in the world. He was great And he was telling people, you know You must never lie. You must Never be hypocritical. You must never he was telling people students to do all these beautiful things in islam And then he thought oh my gosh, I'm not doing all of these myself. I'm just telling other people to do it So that also is something that can happen on our lives Okay, would a few of you give examples of something you could do that would be hypocritical Okay, go ahead. Anisa, go ahead Uh, let's say I'm at a party and I tell somebody hey, you should wear a mask But then I'm not actually wearing a mask. Of course. Perfect example. Excellent. Okay. So I already think you wear a mask Yeah Good for you All right, just name tassin You said Some people that you should be You should like study a lot a lot of the time And you should make a mask and stuff But uh In reality, you don't like study around them. You Have that the way you see doing stuff. No You're right I'm always telling people to you know clean up their desks or Fix their closets in my desk and closet or a wreck, you know So Any more examples I see other hands up. Okay ariana So for example, you tell someone you should Like you shouldn't lie and you should tell the truth But you yourself you usually like lie Yeah Yeah, exactly and safa you have something to say Um like you tell someone to pray and then you don't even pray yourself Oh boy Look at the voice all the things the voices can do wrong, but the tongue that's hypocrisy and then Then also imam audazali says a lot of us do a lot of waste of time talk Just blah blah blah and it'd be better if we were silent to use our tongue just for he calls it vain talk Just talking talking, you know about nothing at all, you know Can you all think of some subjects you could talk about that's just total waste of time Subjects when you could have the beauty of being silent Safa could you answer that? Like you could sell um someone Good um You could talk about people when um you could talk about um people when they're um um but then You shouldn't Wow, exactly. Yeah, just a total waste of time, isn't it? To use our beautiful voice just you know, and I I I talk more than I should you know and A law says it's to be silent is to be present, you know to be present for people Not just always talking. It's a real problem just talking and talking and talking And then then the problem is sometimes You get careless in your talk and you say things that are wrong or they have errors in them So we people should you mean we our speech is very precious. We have language Shouldn't we use it carefully and be careful with this beautiful gift? We've been given Yes, it's a beautiful thing. We we can't and so you hear sometimes people saying bad words Do you ever hear that? I mean every single movie they put on television now people use really horrible language and it's it's so I don't know why they think they have to do it. Isn't it awful, you know Do you all hear people saying? Yeah, people my class say a lot of bad words and like the teacher doesn't really care Uh-oh Yeah, my old teacher used to always tell us think before you speak Exactly There's a that we learned about and in a class like about like it's if they They do every if they do the opposite like if you tell them something they will like They will like They'll if you tell them a secret they'll but they'll tell somebody else if you um If they if they promise you something they won't promise you anything breaking promises. Yes. Yeah, and um And if they and if and if if if they um If they talk about people and back bite When they're not supposed to Yeah, yeah, that's one of the The things that hypocrites do Yeah, one of the worst of ways. Yeah, that's a good hadith. Yeah, it's a good hadith. I remember it vaguely But she's good to remember it. Isn't she? Yeah so, um I think we've covered just about everything now Aren't you all now all of you as a group? I mean our class ends in about four minutes Aren't you all now suddenly more aware of your tongue? And it's not just things that are obvious like lying and bragging. Yes. Yes I'm really aware of what I say even though I don't really I don't really use bad language Yeah, but I'm more aware of what it's not like what to say and what is good to say like what But what's not like Okay It can hurt them I see adam and fahad you didn't speak yet would would adam or fahad say something Uh, yes Yes Yeah, I think I really love today and I just want to say something looking at you all You're really beautiful children every single face. I see it. I'm just thinking mashaAllah mashaAllah You all are a beautiful. Let's just stay friends forever, you know and report in we'll we'll have meetings Okay, and I can hear more about how you grow up and all these wonderful ways because honestly just us having this conversation today You may have preferred to be outside playing or doing something else But you know what I think all of us will take away An awareness that will we might we might catch ourselves doing something and maybe we'll be able to stop it What do you think don't you think so? Yeah Yes, okay anyone would like to make a closing statement about today or about speech or the tongue. Yes Yes, go ahead Yes, it's a henna was it a seal it's with you I see a hand up Nope, no, I really like the listen And what you taught us. Yeah, like knowing that there are that things we should Say to people Yeah Or or even even the tone Yeah, yeah, like and how you're how you should speak to your parents and how not How to speak to your friends and not Yeah, and how to like use your tongue correctly because um Because the tongue and um be careful of what you say Or what like other people say to you. Yeah, because it might not be good. Yeah, not to argue It's not good. Yeah, it takes all your energy. Sometimes if you argue too long Yeah does Isn't amazing the tongue Is so little And it can do so much damage. I can take my hand and hit and hit but even hitting I don't do as much damage as what the little tongue can do right Yeah Anyone else like to have a Concluding remark anything they've gained from today Anissa. Yes Be careful what you say because you cannot take it back Oh, you know what a child told me. Where did you hear this? This is great for you, Anissa It's like a tube of toothpaste. You squeeze it. You can't put the toothpaste back in can you Right, so remember when you just make that little remark you can't take it back. You've hurt somebody, okay You can apologize. That's important But you can never take it back. So don't say it to start with right anybody else Well, then I I wish you all a very blessed Eid and just a little over a week What are you all going to do on the Eid? How would you celebrate it? Yes I'm going to celebrate it by waking up late Yeah That's great. That's great That's a good way to celebrate. What else who else how else would the others celebrate when you get together with family or What will you do anything special? Anissa I probably will make my mom gifts Oh, what are you thinking to make her? What what's what are some ideas? I'm not really sure but I think she really likes Cats and tea And tea That's probably before she wakes up. I'll make her tea. Oh, isn't that lovely. Oh, how sweet I that's like, okay. And Hannah, Athene, Aseel That group somebody's saying something go ahead First you wanted to say something Like thank you for the lesson and they're in Mubarak. Yeah in Mubarak everybody. Yeah In Mubarak and come to Kentucky and visit me you can have Kentucky fried chicken And you can go to the Muhammad Ali clay museum with me. So would you all come and we'll have a visit? Yeah Very good. Well, I love being with you today And I've learned a lot myself because I've really been thinking about it And I bet I'm really going to be watching myself now because we've talked about like 12 or 13 ways And of course, there are many so I love you all very much Kula Sano Antum Taibin Wafi Manila and Barkal Alfikya. Yeah, my my blessed family. This is so much fun. And thank you Muneer for getting us all together Okay, Salamu alaykum everybody