 This video Will make the narcissist disappear as you may be thinking how can this video have the power To make a narcissist disappear How is it possible that it can have that effect? But it can have that effect Because by you watching this video it will influence and affect you It will change your attitude behavior and demeanour around the narcissist Because it all starts by you Realizing and remembering your worth Your value the qualities and abilities that you possess Everything that is great about you Because up until this point the narcissist has been devaluing you They've been putting you down Making you feel like you're worthless But at some point you just got to stop and think Why did they target you? Why did they want to be around you in the first place? Because I don't know about you But for me, I don't want to be around anyone Who is miserable Anyone who Is low-value Anyone who is going to affect me in a negative way all my life I don't want to be around someone like that And I'm sure the same for you And this is why we have to stop and think Why did they target us? Why do they constantly have to be around us? Why do they decide to have power and control over us? Because it really doesn't make any sense If something is so bad I mean just think for yourself What you desire to have unlimited and unlimited power and control over a pile of shit Over something that isn't worth anything of course no one would That wouldn't make it any sense In fact what you would want is to get as far away from it as possible But narcissists They've always got to be around us They can never leave us alone I mean that's not to say that sometimes they won't disappear Maybe for a few days sometimes even a few weeks They may run off with their other supply But even then they're still keeping tabs on us They still want to know where we are and who we're with They've always got to know what we're doing And you just got to think what is the point if You have no value You have no use to them you're really as bad as they say Doesn't make any sense But by you watching this right now And realising your value And then understanding that that is why they have to be around you They have to keep tabs on you Because despite what they have led you to believe You are actually a very valuable person I mean you just got to think of it like this If you bought an old watch Maybe it cost you ten pounds Maybe it was second hands Didn't really mean anything to you And one day you lost that watch I mean maybe you might spend a few minutes looking for it But then you would quickly forget about it And easily replace it It wouldn't take you long to find another one But if you had a very expensive, valuable watch Maybe it's real gold It's got diamonds in it Maybe it has sentimental value It might be something that someone gave to you Maybe something that's not easy to replace In fact it may be irreplaceable You can't find another one Something like that You may search for it until the end of time You may never stop looking for that watch And it's the same thing with the narcissist This is why they're constantly around us They can't leave us alone They always have to know where we are With what we're doing Because we're like That irreplaceable watch We are priceless To the narcissist And yet they make us believe that it is the opposite That we're not worth anything As though we are a liability to them I don't know about you But why would you want to be around Someone who poses as a liability As something that you owe In fact we are an asset to the narcissist And you've only got to look back To see how much they have drained you Of your time, money, energy and resources To know that yes they have really been feeding From the fruits of your labor Well at the same time making you believe That you're nothing When if you look at it it just does not make any sense In fact the opposite of what they're saying is true But by knowing this Because what you have to understand Is that they want to keep you around them They want to keep you under their control Where they can still get supply from you While you're not real Just how valuable you are Because that is the ultimate supply For a narcissist It's to have someone who is very valuable And offers so many things to them But at the same time you don't even realise your own worth So you're not expecting anything from them in return You're just giving away all of your attention Validation, money and resources for free And you're just being completely drained That's typically what happens to us empaths But this is how you make them disappear By realising your worth, your value How much of an asset you are to them Because when you realise that You're going to start holding back on what you're giving to them And you may be expecting something from return From them as well And that's really the quickest way to get rid of a narcissist If you loan a narcissist some money The more money you loan to them The longer it will be until you hear from them again If you loan them a large amount of money You'll probably never hear from them Because they're only there to extract value from you They have no value of their own And I know they have no value of their own Because with all of the tens of millions of views I've received on my videos I can only say that I've never heard anyone Say that they have received anything of value From a narcissistic person That just doesn't happen What I've heard is stories of victims Who have lost everything of value in their lives And they never got anything back Because narcissists, they have no value And of course that is why they want to be In an authoritative position over you Because if it were the other way around What could they do for you? Nothing So if they can maintain that position of power and control over you It works for them, it benefits them Because they could just sit back They don't have to do anything They just work in an effort to please and satisfy them And they just keep you looking at yourself You self-loathe, you keep trying to be better for them Without even realizing That you are already Light years ahead of them I mean, in many cases Even if the narcissist At a thousand years on this earth They still could not Maintain to the level that you have achieved And yet you're so deep in the lies and the gaslight And you don't even realize it So of course once you start to realize your worth They are out of there Because they already know there is no possible way That they could ever repay you For everything that you have done for them They already know that there's no possible way That they could ever do that It would never be enough To where you finally feel satisfied as though It was a fair exchange And they already know that And not only that But they already know from the point that they deprive you Of course they already know when they're maintaining This position of power and authority over you They already know that this is nothing like What you want in a relationship Of course they already know that They know you don't want to be with some hard ass Who is always telling you what to do They've always got to know where you are What you're doing, who you're with They're never leaving you alone They're always bossing you about I mean who wants to be with someone like that You just want to chill and have fun You don't want to deal with all these arguments every day I mean that's no fun for anyone But for a narcissist it is They thrive in that type of environment But even while they feel comfortable in that And they're thriving in it They already know that's nothing like what you want I mean there's empaths Especially us men We desire Something more Softer Something that's not constantly in our face Where it's always demanded attention And they're just constantly barking at you Never leaving you alone I don't think any man wants to deal with that But these narcissists they find us They see that we're very strong We're able to put up with them And then they feel like they've got something good with us Because they already know most people don't want to put up with that Most people don't want to be bossed about They want to live their life in the way that they choose to They don't want someone else coming in And taking control over their life I mean with women it might be a bit different Of course I'm sure some of the women who are watching this right now Those of you who are in Yes You may desire a strong man Who could be a leader in your life I mean I'm sure that's how many of you found my videos Because I'm fulfilling something That the narcissistic man in your relationship Gave to you There was no strong leadership Which you desired and craved There was no direction It was this constant chaos and dysfunction every day You never knew where it was going So yes it can be different Depending on whether you are a male or female victim of the narcissist But either way They knew that that was not what we wanted in a relationship So from the very beginning they already saw it as something temporary They already knew that we weren't looking for that We weren't looking for that at all And of course that is why they displayed the false character And I've experienced this myself With several narcissists They portrayed themselves as These kind, empathic people And then I later discovered That that was the exact opposite of who they were They were nothing like that at all They were highly narcissistic And then when I started to figure that out They already had one foot out the door Because they already know men Especially empathic men We do not want women like that We do not want women who are so controlling Envious, jealous, competitive Women who boss us about I'm sure many men in this life chat can relate to this And as for the women who are watching this We've got a man who has some direction in his life He knows where he's going He's got a purpose, he's motivated And hopefully you can already see a clear pattern of success in his past But whether you were dealing with a male or female narcissist It's still the same They present this false character in the beginning But no matter how long you're with them They can never live up to it And you end up doing all of the work Until you finally watch a video like this You realise your value, your worth And then when it changes your behaviour, your attitude, your demeanour Then they're about ready to take off Because they know their time is up They can only display the false character for so long And then when you start to catch on They start to devalue you They target your self-esteem To make you believe that you're not deserving of them When in fact you are more than deserving You deserve someone who is a million times better than that And that is what they don't want you to know But as soon as you know it They're off They disappear Because deep down they already know They already knew from the very beginning They knew that they could never be good enough for you They already knew that And that is why they displayed the false character I mean just think about it like this If someone knows that they are really good enough for you They're just gonna stop playing this false character And they're gonna show you exactly who they are If there is anything to them If they have any value If they left They're gonna find a way to come back If there is a possible way for them to come back They will come back And they will do everything in their power To make it right To fix the situation No narcissist is ever going to do that And it's not because There's something stopping them from doing it It's because they can't Narcissists are very weak insecure people They have very low self esteem And they have no innocence of value And of course that's why when you're around them When you're trying to understand them You're listening to them You're trying to see things their way But all you get is the gaslight and a word salad And you feel like They're just being sucked into a void And that's their void Because there's no value inside of them As long as they're around you All that they do is suck the value out of you They suck out all of your energy And in the moment it might give them a two second high It gives them that little bit of narcissistic supply But then it fades away And they return to their normal state Which is why the abuse never ends They have to continue to abuse you Because they're feeding off you You are their host They are a parasite They're a leech So they're living off you energetically And it's just too overwhelming for them by the end of it With everything that you've done for them I mean just think about this for a moment It's just like a meter Some of you might have these energy meters in your home It gives you a reading of how much energy you've used If there was like a meter to read Everything that you've given to them All of the time, energy, effort, money And resources that you invested in them And then everything that they invested in you And then you compared the two readings To see how much they owe to you To balance it out It would be so overwhelming for them If it ever came down to that They would probably just grab a gun And shoot themselves in the head Because they would already know There is no possible way Even if they lived a million years on this earth They could never measure up to you And your worth And the value that you have provided to them But remember, narcissists are cowards So they're not going to face things head on Instead they're just going to run away They're going to ghost you They're going to run off and find some new supply As soon as you realise your worth As soon as you realise what you're owed What you deserve They're going to be gone, ghost They're going to be out of there And in many situations you may never hear from them again But you should be glad if you don't You should be very glad if you don't hear from them That are narcissists Because all they're going to do It doesn't matter if they try to hoover you If they try to come back I don't care if you get all of the fake apologies The false epiphanies It doesn't matter if they're on the hands and knees Begging you at your door It's not going to make a difference It's manipulation, it's an illusion It may look like they have some potential But they have nothing They have no value at all They are completely worthless people You've only got to look back at the people That they've dealt with in their past And see, did anything good happen with them Because if someone has any value at all As you look back at the people in their past They're going to have experienced something good I mean I know myself With the narcissist that I dealt with in my past I invested so many years of my life Just waited on them and I never got anything back I lost hundreds of thousands of pounds I almost lost my business, everything I gave them everything I had Because I am a high value person I provide value to thousands, tens of thousands of people Around the world every day But narcissists, they have no value And it doesn't matter how long you wait around Hoping that they're going to change It doesn't matter how many of my videos you watch As you think, you finally found the answer You found the missing piece to the puzzle You figure them out, now you can get them to change You can get them to understand That is never going to happen The narcissist is never going to change They are always going to be that way And if it doesn't work with you They're going to run off and find other supply Or they may just find other narcissists Who know exactly what they're like And what they're about But they don't care They have very low standards They accept it, they can tolerate it And I'm sure many of you have seen that In family dynamics Several family members who are all narcissists They seem to mix them all together They seem very comfortable in that environment The only thing that aren't comfortable with is you Because you see right through them You know exactly who they are So of course if you're dealing with narcissists Any family dynamic Of course they're going to skip you And turn everyone against you Because they're all exactly the same You are the only one who stands out So of course they're going to take you down But this is sadly and unfortunately In this world But this is how you know what to look for If you want to find another person Who is similar to yourself Just as narcissists find people who are like themselves And they born together over our destruction If you want to find someone who is more like you Trust and believe That they're probably going to be alone And they may be scapegoated by their entire family They may be isolated They may have no one Because that is typically how it goes True empaths People like ourselves They're not going to have too many friends If any They're going to be completely alone And that is how you know what to look for If you are seeking someone Who is similar to yourself Other than another narcissist Because as we know these narcissists They're the life of the party The business owners, CEOs They've got all of these enablers and flying monkeys True empath They tend to be alone And typically As many of you who are watching this will already know The empath The good, kind Generous Considerate person Like ourselves That person is normally scapegoated by their entire family And often even their entire community So even if you do manage to find another empath And I hope that you do I do manage to find that The odds are that it's just going to be you and them There's not going to be anyone else involved Unless it's just other narcissists Who are targeting the both of you But believe it or not as well The narcissist that you are dealing with Is probably exactly what they want as well The last thing they want to see Is you being with Another narcissist Someone who could pose as a threat to them Someone who has their own other narcissistic family members Or friends Their own group of enablers and flying monkeys All of these connections They don't want you around someone like that So believe it or not They would probably hope that you do find An empath like yourself Someone who is isolated alone Scapegoated by their entire family, their community They'd probably be quite happy with that But that should be what we want as well We should gravitate to someone who is more like ourselves But yes, just by watching this video The narcissist will disappear They will be about to take off Because as I said the last thing they want Is someone who realises their true worth They don't want to be around someone like that Because that's no good for them If you realise your worth Then you're trying to tell them what to do Remember they have no value What can they do for you? Nothing So they've got to be in control of you But as soon as you start to realise your value Your worth, your power and capabilities As soon as you start to emerge from the fog Then they know it's time for them to go Because they can't be around someone like that They have to be around other people like themselves Other people who have no value People who are fake Because that's the only way that they can survive They can't be around powerful, empathic people like ourselves Not once we know who they are And we realise our own worth I just drove down from the mountains And then got a nice view from this condo Now I'm moving more away from the mountains And coming back into civilisation More into the cities Hopefully see a few beaches as well But what do you think of this room? It's quite cute Got all of these Pokemon here I've never actually seen a black Pikachu I do have the yellow one in my luggage I take it with me everywhere I go I got it in Japan Pokemon in Asia Nala She's kind of like my real life Pikachu But yeah, this is it This is all you have to do to get rid of the narcissist The entire time they've just been sucking you dry Leeching off you Like a parasite Stripping away all of your value While at the same time making you believe that you have none And that's just how crazy it is But they're very good at doing that Because we're used to that dynamic in our childhood Many of you You may resonate You could please your parents You went to school, you worked very hard You're trying to get all A's in your exams You're trying to dwell in sports You're trying to do everything that they wanted But no matter what you did it was never good enough And they never acknowledged Just how great you are So of course, when you become an adult In adult relationships It's easy for the narcissist to come in And create that same dynamic with you When no matter what you do And I've seen some real extremes It doesn't matter how extreme it goes You could be a billionaire I mean I know there's one billionaire I can't remember his name But even him Even though He's got private jets, super yachts Mansions and villas around the world Still isn't enough for his wife Who often cheats on him with much younger men And it just goes to show There really is no limit Even if there was a perfect person Walking the earth That person would not be able to satisfy a narcissist So many of us We have perfected ourselves Our abilities To the point where In a normal relationship It would probably be far too overwhelming For them It's like they wouldn't know how to reciprocate Anything back to us Because to the point where we have been Trying to please a narcissist And it's like no matter what you do It's never good enough for them So then it's like when you come back down to earth And then you're just Involved with a normal person It could be hard sometimes To just relax And not have to do everything And when you meet another empath You may find that they want to do things for you They want to take care of you They want to make you happy They want to cook you foods Maybe they want to clean your clothes, everything Make sure you're comfortable Because that's how it is When you do meet an empath They will want to take care of you Just as we have ourselves But other people I mean I know that's what I did I worked hard every day Just to clean the house Wash the dishes Clean all of the clothes every day I did everything But it was never appreciated And it never will be By a narcissist No matter what you do They will never be happy With you or anyone else They will never be satisfied But just remember That's not your fault You were not enough for them And you will Never be enough for them But that has nothing to do with you Because just by doing a tiny fraction Of what you did for them That could mean the world To someone else And when you find that When you have it, when you experience it Then you will realise Why it never worked out with them They have a mental disorder They cannot be satisfied It's not like us We could just be satisfied with the little Life Narcissists Does not work that way with them They will Just in their old age Their entire life It's just a lifetime of misery A lifetime of stress And pain and blaming everyone else A lifetime of never experiencing True happiness And then we wonder Why they can't be happy for us Because they know it, they see it We're experiencing something that they can't They could never have that with us But hopefully this will get them off your back Realising your power Realising your worth Realising that yes You are a million times better than they will ever be When you realise that They are out of there They are gone They can only be around people who don't know Their worth Or around people who Have no value just like them People who are just as fake As they are They're quite comfortable Around people like that I mean it's really like Drug addicts Criminals They all feel very comfortable With each other And it's because they all know That they are exactly the same It's us, we don't feel comfortable Around them We are the ones who are always Walking on eggshells They are not walking on eggshells Around us They are never doing that As long as they can make us They are very comfortable with that But for us it is a very Uncomfortable experience Because despite what they make us Believe on the surface deep down We already know that we deserve so much Better We already know that we do not belong Around narcissists Anyway, I hope this message Is helpful I know a lot of you are going through this But the narcissist is just constantly Badgering you He's on your case They won't leave you alone They're holding you up to these Impossible demands and expectations And at the same time They're downplaying your worth So it doesn't make any sense But this is what you have to do To get them out To get them to ghost you Realising your worth, your power It's kind of like You've got a roach You've got the repellent spray And it's... They're gone They run away So yeah, I hope this video is helpful I'm going to do some more work Get some sleep And then I'll put you early in the morning Continue on my travels So if this video resonates with you You can give it a thumbs up down below To support it And let me know what you think about it In the comments Hit that subscribe button as well If you haven't subscribed to the channel yet And as always I will talk to you in another video very soon