 Hey everyone, just at this beach, a new beach, I haven't been here before. How can you get your narcissist boyfriend to obsess over you? I don't think I need to answer that question now. All you need to do is watch my video, how to make the narcissist obsess with you. It's a 30 minute video and it'll tell you everything you need to know. That's good to hear Paul, I'm glad the video resonated with you. I'm sure that will resonate with anyone who is a grade A source of supply. If you're not a grade A source, then in those cases the narcissist won't care if you're trying to move on or not. That's a good point, Hevins Mansions. Why would you want anyone to be obsessed with you? I completely understand where you're coming from there. I think the way it is, people are still healing and they just want some validation from the narcissist. I'm not saying it's right, but I can understand and that's what made me make that video. Jenny, narcissists always repeat themselves and get you to constantly repeat simple conversations. Because most of the time they're not even listening to you, they're just listening to their own in a dialogue. And that's constantly repeating in their mind, so that's why they constantly repeat themselves. Yes, it is very common for narcissists to accuse other people of being narcissists. That is very, very common. Especially since another thing that's common is two narcissists being in a relationship. So when one of them accuses the other of being a narcissist, in those cases they might even be right. This beach is Clan Steffen Beach and it's in Wales. I think it's Carmarthenshire. Yes, Narkelson. There is such thing as narcissists who don't abuse. There are narcissists out there who are self-aware. They understand how their mind works and they often catch themselves when they are engaged in narcissistic behaviors. And when they reflect on their shame, they can be aware of that and they can often pull back before they hurt anyone. But that's not so common. Most narcissists out there will abuse people in some way and they won't be fully aware of why they do it. I think deep down they all know, they all know what they're doing. They just don't fully understand it. What do you do when you realize that you are and have always been surrounded by narcs all your life? I think it's good to educate yourself. You know, watching videos on YouTube is definitely a good thing to do to make yourself aware of everything that you've had to go through. And most importantly, you need to start limiting your contact with those people. Because they're going to try and make you see things their way. Like anything that you research, anything that you find out that may affect their supply, they're only going to discredit it. They're never going to agree because it's against them. They will only agree with things that favor them. I understand you, Jemeta, when you're being abused it will tie you out. Because what's happening is there's like an exchange of energy. Your energy is being transferred into them and their energy is being transferred into you. So then you begin to feel the way that they do. Hope you're all enjoying the view out here. I know it's quite cloudy, but it was raining, not long ago. Yes, Bella, COVID narcissists will always just play the victim role. If you're dealing with an overt narcissist, they might just come out and say, yeah, they did that. And so what? And then they'll just blame you for something or how do you know contact when you have children with them? You can't really. I mean, you know, if you care about the child. Go limited contact and all your drugs needed. And practice the observe.absorb technique. Yes, Sherry, I believe that all narcissists do get their payback. I think that this pandemic is actually a part of their karma. And I did a video on that too. Yeah, it is very creepy, Ronda. Like everything they do, everything they say. It's like the sole intention of it is for them to disown who they really are and then to take on who you are. Like everything they say and do, that's the whole purpose of it. It's really crazy when you think about it, but that's really what it is. Yes, Yvonne, I personally don't believe that a narcissist can love anyone because they're at such a low frequency. They're at the lowest frequency there is, which is shame. And that's why you'll notice the majority of the things that they say and do are designed to project that shame onto you. Whenever you begin to feel shame, it's probably because that's exactly how the narcissist wanted you to feel. For someone to love a person, they must first love themselves, which means that they must be willing to own all parts of them, even the parts that they might not like. They must still accept them. Whenever you're trying to disown a certain part of yourself or you don't accept something about yourself, then that's less than acceptance, which means it's less than love. How do you go no contact from the narcissist financial wise? The best thing you can do is to start saving money. Keep saving until you've got enough to move away. You don't want to be dependent on them financially because they're never going to support you leaving. They're going to manage how much money they give you so that you've never got enough to leave. Anyway, that's all for now. I hope that this live video resonated with you. If it did, be sure to join us later today at 6.30 for another premiere. And then there's another two premieres tomorrow. I just finished one of them earlier today. So if this resonated with you, please do join us later today for another premiere. I hope you all have a good day and I will talk to you soon.