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Now, let's discuss this five ways or five things rather That narcissist do to trap you What you've got to think about is when someone's trying to trap you It's really because they see something of value They're not going to trap something that's not worth anything They're trying to trap you because they see your value They see what you're worth And they just want to take it and keep it off themselves That's what that is really about And they will do anything to do that The very envious jealous people they will go out their way to try to contain you To lock you down under their control and you just have to find ways to find your freedom Don't cave into their demands Don't be afraid to say no You have the right to do that Can't just let someone come into your life and tell you what to do Tell you how to live and rearrange everything from the way that you've been doing things Can't just let someone come in and do that But of course they will try That's why they're trying to do in the first place Because they wanted to pull you into their realm And just make you do the things that they want you to do Whatever benefits them right as long as you let them do that they're gonna keep doing it You have to stand up and say no You have to say you're not gonna do it anymore When you do that You will finally feel free It's only when you cave under the pressure That they think that they can get away with it, and I'm not saying that things are just gonna change overnight No, of course not it takes time and also It's not about Changing the narcissist behavior They're always gonna be narcissists It's more about protecting yourself It's about self-preservation It's very important No one else is gonna preserve who you are Problem with these narcissists is they depend on you to preserve not who they really are but the full self and You just got to think You got to stand up and say no, I'm not gonna do that anymore They will still try to trap you But it's really up to you whether or not You stay in the cage Because here's the thing when we're dealing with these narcissists It's not like they've locked you in a box And thrown away the key No, what we experience with them is They've put us in a box But the door is still unlocked It's just many of us are so afraid of what they might do If we try to leave It's that fear that keeps you locked in So you have to choose not be afraid anymore You have to decide that you're just gonna leave that box Whatever happens will happen. Of course if you are dealing with a Very dangerous, maybe physically abusive narcissist then I recommend being very cautious Because you never know what they might do Yeah, when they try and trap you you just could have tried and find your freedom You've got to realize that you're not locked in the box The door is unlocked. You can step out at any time Anyway, I hope this helps and this is a discussion video. So Share with me your thoughts below Let me know the ways that The narcissist is trying to trap you and I'll read it out now And we can talk about it. We can try and figure things out together So let me know below now Bella Brenda for you says He tried to cause bodily harm to my child and Because I didn't want to talk to him anymore Yeah, they will often do that And that's the problem sometimes is that when you act strong and confident And you stand your ground They will often find other ways to get to you often through other people The people that you really love and care about the most They will hurt your child because they know that that's gonna hurt you and then that's how they control you That's how they keep you locked down Because it makes you think If I try to leave he's just gonna do that again any other thoughts or Any stories that people would like to share Please do it now below Well, I'm here alive with you At Phuket in Thailand We have to remember as well that you can't control what other people do Just as we don't want them to control us The only way to deal with them is to leave to walk away because All they're gonna do whenever you're around them Is try to contain you Because no matter what they've said to you they do recognize your value If they didn't they would just let you go You've got to think about it like this if you Just got a cheap watch from a secondhand store Didn't really cost you much money and it went missing. You're probably not gonna care much about it You're probably not gonna spend too much time chasing after it because it was a cheap watch Just got it in a secondhand store. It didn't really mean much to you. But what if it was a Rolex? or what if it was a Watch that someone gave to you And it had real sentimental value You would probably spend a lot of time looking for it and if you found it You would make sure you'd never lose it again, and it's the same thing That's why it's so hard for them to let go That's where they keep chasing after you and trying to contain you because you are that Rolex You are that watch with sentimental value if you were just some Worthless meaningless meaningless watch from a secondhand store. They would just let you go and they would just forget about you But no, they can't do that because they recognize your value and you are What least what you can do for them and how you make them feel is Worth a lot to them And that's why they don't want to let it go Anyway, I hope this message has helped someone out there. The sun is shining out here. It's really beautiful I'm just out here Join life Gotta practice what I preach in my videos Enjoy your freedom or find your freedom if you don't have it yet There's nothing more valuable and just being free free to enjoy life Free to live life the way that you choose to live Rather than someone else telling you what to do telling you how to live That's not living at all Because when you're doing that you're just living for someone else life is so short Really got to make the most of it while you're here That's why I do what I do. That's why I'm out here traveling Just living my life for the new BMW Life is too short to live for someone else Make the most of your life and live the way that you choose to Instead of letting someone else trap you Recognize the value of your life They sure recognize the value of what you can do That's why they're trying to trap you in the first place I'm just really enjoying my life out here This life was made to be enjoyed. No one's gonna trap me down Yeah, these narcissists they will try and trap you But you really just got to find your freedom Remember They may have put you in the box But they didn't have the key to lock it So you're free to walk out of there whenever you want Just remember that Anyway, I just like to thank you all on another live video Here on Nark Survivor. I love you all Please give the video a thumbs up if it vibed with you Share your thoughts in the comment section Share it with anyone who you believe may help And I will talk to you in another live video very soon