 Listen, a good predictor of the future is how someone operated from the past and I don't mean to pigeonhole people by their past, but certainly when someone is secretive about their past, that is not someone who is intentional about being in the process. Someone who is intentional is transparent about their past and they also don't throw their previous partner completely under the bus. A lot of times people are throwing their partners under the bus and all that is is deflecting the blame because if you don't take ownership in your part of what went wrong, that is going to be problematic in the relationship.