 What's going on you guys? Welcome to the Single Guy Channel. My name is Lloyd. So today we're going to be talking about a question that one of my viewers wrote and he writes to me. What's going on Lloyd? Big fan of your channel. Would love to join your coaching program when I get my job back after this quarantine is over. Love to have you too man. My question for you is I feel comfortable talking to women but when it comes to touching or getting physical with them I am clueless. I have no idea how to go from a conversation to touching kissing and at some point sex. How do I do this without creeping the girl out or getting me toed? Thank you so much for your advice. Look forward to hearing your answer. Cool. Well dude I don't really think you have to get worried about being me toed or anything like that. That's really just blown up by the media a whole bunch and you really only got to worry about it if you're famous but for a normal guy you're going to be just fine. But you don't want to make her feel creeped out or uncomfortable or any of those types of things especially if you like this girl. It sucks for her. It's going to suck for you too. So basically not only am I going to answer your question dude I'm going to give you a step by step process to go from not even talking to this girl to physical intimacy. Basically sex. Okay so if you do these steps correctly you're going to be progressing through it smoothly. You're probably not going to be creeping her out too much. If you do a little bit if you feel a slight bit of discomfort where she's you know maybe not quite down with something just stop there. You're going to be just fine and you guys will be able to go on your way without without any harm done. Okay so let's get into the steps right now. Okay step number one eye to body. Usually this happens when people are when they first see each other. Okay so if you check somebody out usually you're going to look at her body first and actually women by the way all these steps are probably going to be applicable for women too. If a woman sees a guy's body she's usually looking at his body not his face. A lot of women will say look at a guy's face first that's not sure they look at your body first. So eye to body is number one. Number two is eye to eye. So that's when you make eye contact and you first notice the person. Okay step three is going to be voice to voice meaning you start talking to each other. Now usually people stay here for a while before they progress to the next step or maybe not maybe not that long but it depends how you do it I suppose. And that's the next step which is hand to hand. So basically you start talking to them you shake their hand. Hi I'm Lloyd how's it going? Oh nice to meet you Amanda. You know those kinds of things. Okay after hand to hand is going to be hand to shoulder. Okay so maybe she says something funny or you maybe want to give her a little bit of trust. If you put your hand on her shoulder don't stare at it and don't leave it there. Just keep it there for a little bit and then take it away. Okay if she's cool with that then you can progress to the next step which is going to be hand to waist. Now typically I would advise you like hugging her or doing something like that. You know this is something that even friends do sometimes but if she's really interested in you she likes you that she's probably going to be cool with you doing that and going to want you to progress it even further. So if she's comfortable with this then you can progress to the next one which is going to be face to face or mouth to mouth. Okay so this is when you start kissing the person. Okay so you've hugged them, you put your hand on their shoulder, you've been close to them, she's cool with you touching her. Now she might be cool with you getting a little bit romantic and intimate with her. Okay so this is the kind of like the first real test that where now you're no longer friends or any of that sort of stuff. Now your romantic partners unless sometimes you live in Europe they tend to kiss each other goodbye or in Latin America too they do that as well. Okay so after mouth to mouth you're going to do hand to face. So a lot of people think hand to face comes before mouth to mouth that's actually not true. Usually when people kiss each other they touch each other's face but touching someone's face right off the bat without shaking their hand or any that sort of stuff is usually very inappropriate. So if she's cool with you kissing her then she's probably going to be cool with you putting your hand on her face. Okay after hand to face hand to body this means that not you're not just touching your shoulder her waist her face you're also touching the rest of her areas. Let's just say that. Okay now after you do this the next step is going to be mouth to body. Okay so mouth to body is basically you're kissing the different areas that she has or whatever maybe your breasts those types of things. If she's been cool with you groping her she's probably going to be cool with you putting her putting your mouth on her. Okay now if she's cool with that she's comfortable with you doing that you can take it even a step further which is going to be hand to genitals. Okay so obviously don't go aggressive but being sexually aggressive is something that women women really really don't like it it makes them feel very uncomfortable and you'll probably ruin the whole thing if you go way too quickly or too aggressively into it so be gentle you know at first she's nervous she let her get comfortable with you a little bit. Okay so if she's cool with that she's comfortable with it she wants you to go further then the last step you guessed is genital to genital so now you're having sex that's the final step that is step 12. Okay so now you're having sex and that's the full 12 step process to physical intimacy with somebody. Okay I'd say these things work just as well for women as well too but usually I would say it's the man's job to progress things physically it's the man's job to ask a girl out I believe it's the man's job to progress things although women can do that if you know especially in today's society with you know the role reversal sometimes too but I would say in general that stuff still holds true for the most part. Okay cool well those are the 12 steps to intimacy you guys like I said I go more in depth on each of these different parts if a woman if you like touch her on the shoulder and she's kind of like backing away don't progress any further okay wait till she's comfortable with that and then move on okay and if a girl is just not comfortable with you touching your shoulder or something like that you know maybe find a girl who will be comfortable with that stuff okay you know you don't if it's not really working with one person there's plenty of fish in the sea don't have that low value mentality where you think that you have to stick around one girl and try and make it with this one girl um for whatever reason okay all right cool well if you made it to the end you guys consider subscribing and come out the videos like this every single week uh if you have any comments that you like to put in the comment section below any questions or anything like that would love to read them thanks a lot you guys good luck out there