 So, an elderly monk and his young student are walking down the road when they come to a ditch. Next to the ditch is standing this beautiful woman. She's got long silky black hair. She has a shimmery, shiny dress on that's slightly clinging to her. The problem is that the ditch is quite deep and it's full of water and she's trying to figure out how to cross it. So, the elderly monk scoops her up in his arms and he carries her across the ditch. His young student is horrified. He gives his master the dirtiest look ever and then muttering angrily under his breath. He follows him to the other side. The elderly monk puts the woman down and just carries on along the road as he was before with his young student still muttering under his breath, still shaking with anger but trying not to see anything. Finally, however, he can't control himself. So, he bursts out and he says to his master, he says, how could you? We're supposed to be monks. We're supposed to be celibate and yet you held her in your arms. You let her body touch yours. How could you? And the elderly monk smiles at him and he says, you know what? I put that woman down two miles back. You are still carrying her. You know the first rule in life is that we need to understand our actions and our beliefs because if we just follow something blindly, we become rigid and if we become rigid, you become more angry and if you become more angry, you end up carrying more baggage and if you carry more baggage, you waste more energy.