 Holy relationship is just when you put the Holy Spirit in charge and you say, I'm given this relationship completely over to you to use for your purposes. My fingers are out of the pot. I'm not going to lift a baby finger for any kind of need or control or any kind of possession any more with this relationship. I give this relationship to you, Holy Spirit, to use for your purposes. And remember the Holy Spirit only has one purpose and that's for the forgiven world. The Holy Spirit would like you to see all these figures and all the perception as part of a giant dance. The Holy Spirit is the Lord of the Dance. This amazing orchestration. Think of the Holy Spirit as wanting you to see a relationship as a dance, a big dance. And the Holy Spirit is the Lord of the Dance, the orchestrator of the dance.