 We are changing attitudes about Monday. People have taken Mondays to be that stiff day that they don't like. And I'm wondering why it's so. Because you know, yesterday was weekend. So we need to relax and enjoy because we are energized. You can't complain when you have been energized. Or I'm also complaining. It's not a complaint. I am energizing you because we are up next with the discussion of the day. A discussion of the day is laid back, relaxed. A kuna vitu moba, kuna mambona. Sijuiku, scratch head, sijuini. Tukoturi, relaxed. My name is Sankara Kaisu. This is white 51. This is why in the morning, this particular segment is MCM. The discussion of the day on Monday. And today we are going to talk about something that you may like. Dating a neighbor. Dating Jirani. You may like it because the hashtag since yesterday. Since yesterday, I think it's since the day before yesterday is lower food prices. You need to lower food prices. We need to cut another course. We are going to tell you the advantages and maybe the disadvantage. We are going to discuss that. I'm going to tell you discuss the advantages and disadvantages and everything about looking at the distance before you date. Once again, my name is Sankara Kaisu. And I am with neighbors in studio. Whos neighbors? You are neighbors. They are called Divlin and Enoch. How are you guys? You are welcome to white 51. So it's your time. Maybe you should tell people about yourself. Everything that we need to know. Just tell them your names. Just your names alone. So tell them how you come from what you do. And maybe your social media platform and as a custom of the world is we start with the ladies, ladies first. Divlin Keremi. Thank you so much for this opportunity. My name is Divlin Keremi. First of all, I'm a student at Jomo Kenyatta University of Agriculture and Technology. I am a student leader there. Oh, nice. I'm the deputy speaker there. Oh, nice. Yes, far from that too, I pursue bachelors of corporate communication and management. Nice. So this future is yours. Yeah. Then again, I'm a professional makeup artist. I know this is not the best, but yeah, you can find my makeup page at underscore makeup hub D on Instagram. And my account is Divlin D on Instagram. Did you do your own makeup? Yes. Or you did them yourself? Yeah, it was just a first touch up. Okay. Okay. Maybe you'll come back next time to tell us more about this. Sure, no problem. It's an art. Yes, social media channels please. Divlin D on Instagram, Twitter. I don't do Facebook, but I have an account. It's called Dublin Driver. Yes. Oh, very nice. Welcome to this discussion. Thank you so much. And then we have a gentleman. How are you, Timo? I'm fine. Yeah, what are your full names apart from the Timo, you know? Okay. My name is Timo Tumbachi. I'm a student at Kenyatta University pursuing mass media communication. Did you also say Kenyatta University? No. Jekwat. Oh, Kenyatta University. I'm in Kenyatta University. Yeah, so I'm a Kenyan, patriotic, born of a Kenyan father and mother. Nice. Yeah, so what the other things I do is, I do online marketing. Yeah, where you work with M-Global. Oh, you work with M-Global, the internet marketing. Yeah. That's nice. You've not told us your social media handle. Oh, Facebook, find me at Timombachi. Instagram, find me at Anders Kumbachi. Twitter, Atombachi. Okay. Nice. So, now that everybody is saying their social media handles, inisemiangupia, Naila Sankaraka isu, in every social media platform, but now there is also your WhiteFive4. Find at WhiteFive4, in every social media platform, in fact, that's where we do our interactions. So, if you need to connect with us, just search at WhiteFive4. Whether Twitter, whether Instagram, whether Facebook, you'll get us there and you will get this topic posted there so that you can get here, we connect with you. If you are living the house, maybe you need to continue steaming us we are there, www.kbc.co.ke for WhiteFive4. So, let us keep connected, let's roll together with this topic. And as I had said, we are talking about a laidback topic about just dating a neighbor. Have you ever dated a neighbor? Personally, that brings us to the question with a neighbor, someone you're sharing an apartment or someone who is two blocks away. Somebody asked Jesus that same question, who is my neighbor? When we say, you will love your neighbor as you love yourself. So, somebody asked, who is my neighbor? Are you asking me the same question? So, your brother, who is your neighbor? I can say a person who is nearest to you in something that you pursue. It doesn't matter if he is at a long distance a short distance. He doesn't matter. Ya, ya say, timo you say it could be your estimate maybe at the university or maybe the person with whom you share an apartment or maybe the person who is in your hood maybe you stay at where do I stay? Loving town. So, at Loving Town, those ladies are all loving town. The person you won't need to travel to go and visit kutupamaoja. You may bump at each other kwa nini kwa asi supermarket easy common places shopping center witu kamaizu, yes. So, that is what we are talking. That is what we mean by saying never. Now that we've answered you, talk. So, personally, I think I've had an encounter with a neighbor. Yes. Yes. Oh, umewai. Okay, you tell us your experience. Have you? Ya, ya, ya. So, it's like everybody has. It's like everybody has. Can you just like roughly from you, Timo, tell us your experiences. What is, was it nice? For me, for me, I dated a neighbor. So, when we were living, she was close enough. I won't say kama ni moza, ama kwa wili. There are many. Ya, and last time you are my fellow man. But for me, I believe dating, it comes with outcomes. Yes. One, you can date for marriage. Two, you can date for intimate relationship. Yes. Three, you can date for no relation. Yes. And four, you can date for, finally for friendship. What was your case now? So, for me it was friendship. Oh, it was friendship. Ya, ya, ya. You were dating your friend? Ya. Okay. It's not allowed in the first place, but we'll talk about that. So, what was your experience, Timo? But sometimes, it has many negative impacts. Cause the first time I dated, nili kwa karibuna it was at home, the first time. So, ningu mu date, and there is a parent, mnei shinaiaiaia. So, nili kwa that, it was a challenge for me. So, nili kwa like, utaki wa zazi wa juwe? Ya, sometimes, nase mu utaki wa zazi wa juwe, but they need to know, because, kama wezi wambia wu neza patas, sometimes it was inakwa was. Okay. We'll get to nili gretis of that. Let's first hear from Devlin. Devlin, what was your experience? For me, I was so young, maybe at 16, probably, when I was dating my neighbor. I think it is the circumstances. Sometimes, you don't have enough exposure to date people from way far places, but now we are in, you know, a very close proximity. We are meeting these people oftenly. You have friendships, end up soup, a relationship. So, I was dating a neighbor. And for me, it was really difficult because I am living in my parents' house and it gets so hard to me, sometimes I'm sneaking out and you know how dangerous that can be. So, but eventually it was interesting but we ended up breaking up because now it is fishy for a man, it is so easy to be out there. But for me as a lady, niko klaz, oh, niko fom fo and I cannot go out. So, what do you mean go out? Like, see you, like see a man outside. Oh. I only went to church Monday to Saturday I'm at home. Doing chores or probably doing my assignments or watching you must be indoors. Alone? No, I have a sister. Oh, so it's like this sister was spying on you or something? Not really. Like, they will not like, I'm not allowed to go outside that is the thing because my father will probably be back from work. Na nisi poku ahom, it will be something else. Yes. Eh, in mosquito is here here niku wa tu America wa restrictions. Asayan girl that is understandable. Parents are always like on the look where did you go but now the problem what I don't understand is that you are alone they have gone to work so you can take one hour then you come back. It is not that easy especially if you have a tough father. Sounds so easy when you talk about it but it is very difficult. Yeah. Oh, okay. Plus, you know people know you out there. So the imagination that someone goes and tells your father hey, nimionams chanawa kwa nakijanawa nani trouble. Gelata shita. Yes. Did he also stay with the parents? Yeah, but you know how many are flexed. Yes. Yes. A man can literally be away from home they will there. Can say, hey, I'm going to spend my time at my cousin so let me go. Okay. Yeah. Okay. Timo, why also staying with your parents during that time? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Did they give you restrictions? For me, there were no restrictions but the parent my parents were strict enough. Oh, they were strict enough they could monitor you. Why also young? Yeah, I was fomfo. Yeah. Oh, fomfo like her. Yeah. You were also around 16, 17, you were teenager. Yeah. Yeah. Is it still going on? No, no, no. Why did it break? Why? She has said her resource though it's not clear enough she will come back to her but why now? For me, I was engaged with this lady so the time came for her to go to university for her. So for me also time will come if you can in the university So to kuna akuna that proximity akuna that closeness in yatulikuwa naio So if you don't do this you can't do it. I am kwa nasimu? Tulikuwa nasimu but language barrier Ika kwa chi yada. She means language barrier she belongs to another tribe or something? No, no, no. The same tribe but she didn't do it as you know unezona bie bie am toki ena mahaliku. Oh. Yeah, that conversation that you had inazatu kupunguwa. Okay. No, this is bringing us bringing us to a point that when you're dating a neighbor you are seeing each other like all the time. Yeah. All the time. Yes. Maybe you are in the same apartment a kutad flow kwa second flow. So lapdaw me tumakununuwa sukari e pia metoka kununuwa chumvi muna kutani akuani. Muna kutani ya. Uko kwa stairs e ma kwa lifta ma kwa stairs muna pisha na sumu na onana all the time. Sii inimzuri kwa nana all the time like sasa umbeskedi disadvantage ya kwa liya chana liya kwa li toka soka zaku suspect napdaw me anzanku. So e kwa nana all the times in advantage. Yeah. But for you you said it was a challenge. Yes. Yeah, for me it was something different from what you were saying because uh for me like now the guy finished school before me. Oh. Now it was he stand to go to campus and I am in school now in form 4. Yes. So that means when I was in form 3 he was in form 4. Now it is my turn I am in form 4 he's living for college. So it really became so difficult. I am in school. It is that time um I was suspended in school. For reason you don't want to say here. Yeah, for a reason I will not say. But now you see when you've done something like that it has a consequence. So the consequence was I was not going to get my phone back. Also you were suspended because you had a phone in school? No, not really because I had a phone but the consequence I was supposed to suffer because I went for a suspension was that when I go for my holidays I will not have my phone. Oh it's now that is punishment from your parents. So it is um second term holiday I don't have my phone I had a boyfriend now we don't even talk more so it becomes so difficult. Elibidu Patemwingin? No. Elibidinika iwo e alina kampo So it was really difficult for me it was once in a while yeah probably if I'm going to church for a function and maybe I'm sure takwa uko What is it like now? Do you still are you still in contact? We talk. You have this number so you just talk generally remembering the childhood life. I know this person who was dating a child how can you date a foam free child? How can you date a foam free child's friend? Those are the best The best? Yes. The best time in relationships. You don't regret it? No I don't. Okay. Okay okay but this guy if we know you you're going to arrest you're going to arrest you for dating a child you can't date a child a foam free child so how can you date a foam free child and if you cause a shule look at you I know we were talking about the availability always available it's not bad or good it's not bad or good it's not bad or good the fact that there always for availability yes it's good because when she's around sometimes there's positive things that you can earn from her like she's there to help you financially it's used to do that yeah yeah yeah okay okay I get something no she's giggling she's insinuating that you are the person who should be like that is the notion you are the person you are the person but she's giggling you are the person who should maybe supporting support her yeah all that but it's good you are a good lady you could support now go on for the availability so she was supporting me I was supporting her too but the problem was since we are so close my friends know that we are dating so when she's around all the talks about friends is all about me and her it's embarrassing for ma it's embarrassing sometimes because it becomes a challenge you start losing some of your friends for nothing yes those who maybe are eyeing her yeah because sometimes you are giving more time than giving your fellow friends so your friends start want to talk to poli poli yeah so that was a challenge for me okay no I want us to exhaust this availability we've talked about now the advantages of it that you are always there it's different for ladies when friends talk about maybe your relationship because these people just shout cheliaku it's like it's nothing to them but men are reserved like they don't want they are they don't want themselves to be on the limelight now that the people being disguised yeah but our too and I want to share that with you see when we first met we were very close to each other of course now we are together yeah now there is an issue it was not an issue in fact we talk about it more often yeah the problem now that a knocker sighted is now that another person and you are all there everybody knows like kama mabeshite wako kuja wako reporti eh demo kwa na mga na mtu kwa baraba na waka na mga na tiriya did you have any such like that like mtu ana reports ana reporti kumkwa ppamoja water na nini mabeshite so mtu ana reporti kitu demo kwa mefanya mahali yeah sometimes juhi availability juh there is that moving each and every place uli kuna pata sometimes a friend aneza ni ambiya kenye al mefanya ee so na mimi one day once a waiter ah hello niki yandatua na approach in another hangor azini kana na mungelesha tuina loton um ah that was mature of you we condemn violence at all cost pili kuna mwa mwa cheli kwa kuna nani kuna nani na kwa kitu for girls it's different it's not as he says but kumade matawana eza kata kukwambiya that is the bitter truth but sometimes if you have a good friend like a head atakwambiya there is someone uli we uli kashule but kuna mtu na get ujuwe ujuwe tukuna ujuwe tukuna ujuwe tukuna kuna mtu mingine is your reaction na juhunge unge kusuwa waze tuba kelele I wish nilim pata iyo time at that moment but the fact that I did not even see them at that moment ah it just sezes nile ningawa pata iyo time but now they were not there and you know reality so I'm like okay we are still young yes people are still young you are young he was young so it is understand yeah we have so many people to meet yet so somebody is talking about parents he's saying that maybe parents could embarrass you when she or he is watching he is watching wambiya tuwe kejana wei muna ujiwa ushe vihombu ume kalea me kalea tuwi tuwa pa na ujiwa ushe vihombu na kuna ana pita kumahali iyo embarrassment ya ya kusumewa akiskiya did it ever happen for me yes no but I have I had this encounter back where I had my friends my friends many of them were girls so at times likuana leta seme nifood sometimes it's like a lunch nile pata food ivo ivo alafu likuana tembe amadi tu likuatuna ishi so iyo kwa ngaochi na oki aski asi skumoja parenta tujuwa and by the way liniyambiya it isn't good liniyambiya chana bede wei chana isiki tu na fadja she was suspecting oh you my dad was suspecting so skuana dating naiya but we were close friends ah but likuana demwa kuhu ah no no we were friends but my father was suspecting that we were dating so likuana nii ana naniyambiya eh is it a bia nimbaya hei hei hei hei hei hei hei hei hei hei hei hei hei hei hei hei matakuna embarasment kubuana kukusomia mbelea ke ama kukuchapa una juwa tiywa edge iwa young people mgaeza cha pua cha pui tumbelea ke ibu ea kuna embarasment nili pata lakini nili fihil kwa ah she was my friend but ana sema like we are dating so yes okay wei sema wei na juwa viliu na katu na kaku cha pua jume taja suspension me taja suspension me taja vituming no sija kwa me kama kule kwa na kitu siya taku kuchapata kwa mbewa atakusomiawa ama kitu yote tumbea kutukia in his words juwa kwa sija kwa kwa situation that my parents are there and I have a guy yes but my mother has ever suspected that I was dating someone I think kalyambiawa and she actually confronted the guy what yes like she's too young for that please let her be and I was like okay geez but that was good I know it was bad for you but that was good because you are young actually we were not even dating with the guy now you are diverting both of you both of you are diverting that you are not dating while we will be we've been discussing dating here I think it is not the same person we are talking about I'm saying in another context oh okay okay now go on now I'm saying in another context my mother has confronted a guy whom I was not even dating yeah people sometimes if you have a friend like he says you can suspect that we are dating but we are not so this time maybe I remember when I'm saying they've been hanging around so then she was like hey please let her be were you mad at your mum no I was not even mad at her I felt like good yes because now I felt like okay so she cares did this guy ask you why is your mum confronting me that we are doing nothing no he did not ask because my mother did not approach her oh did not approach him in a bad way he reached out to him and he was like so in case you want something just let her be what's her ya kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa neshule then he's of it was it a kujatu was in a kujaga so it's not like she was arrogant or anything so I was like come it's my mum being my mum yeah it's a mum being a mum she's been a parent yeah but from both of you and from the comments I'm seeing here which we'll read in a few I'm getting like you just used to do it when you are young now that you're grownups yeah you guys are teenagers is it is this neighborhood dating a teenage thing is it just a teenage thing when people grow up they look for distance relationships yeah what I can say is that ukshato kakwa teenage ah uki grow up you get to learn more friendship relationship unapata you get to learn more so unapata unapata wezian counter kudet and adjust a neighbor lazima akwe a distance a bit yanyata there's that kitu neza free lazim I'm missing yes kuliko akwe karibu o kumisi anapia nipua that feeling I think is the best because kwa evo karibu sana sometimes it isn't good do you know people who are dating adults people who are grown up but now they're still dating neighbors yes actually my apartment there are two people who are dating okay they were dating right now want me breakup why is breakup blooming everywhere but it's okay I know but I feel like sometimes long distance is not it I feel like I think their faces there is that time you need someone who is close enough a phone call away or a walk a walking distance yes a walking distance amakabia 20 bob you see but now squeezy people feel like long distance because you're not even sure what that partner is doing personally I feel like I can't do long distance are you still doing neighborhood I'm not doing neighborhood yes but I'm saying I'm saying given opportunity yes you can do yes okay because long distance is something else sometimes you need someone to talk to maybe on end of job every morning every evening then maybe in a sato you feel like you need to go somewhere now instead of maybe you are supposed to do laundry you have things to do uka like ah let me hurry up nakuja you see in long distance you have to plan for that trip you have to plan like there are so many things to do in long distance plus you see in neighborhood dating some people become joe you've watched you juggle bag some people are stalking each other now that is now a setback like it is bad when you're well neighborhood dating because now people start stalking their partners you're not sure who your partner wangwa na onaga nani every time you see at toka job nani wana pata nanga paleko kanti na pochini they start becoming insecure but I feel like for me they are more prone than cons for neighborhood dating yes so you prefer neighborhood dating yes than long distance would you like to say that I prefer long distance because of your opinion tell us tell us your points what I can say is that for long distance it doesn't matter if example there's no quality time that you're creating for yourself so I mean to say for long distance if there is a mature dating it doesn't matter because I believe umneza kwa mkiongia you can create time if it is a mature dating but if it is all about passing time then umneza patatuki date a neighbor sometimes so you want to be like the people who date neighbors are not mature enough they are mature but for me I find it weird weird because let me say like an example if that relationship gets to an end it may get worse in neza kwa okwa because you can your friends okwa po iwa karibu do we imagine kwa ime isha kwa ta se mani ini and all that time wame shiwa ki onam kitembe atua weili kia nafuba sijuini inim kirodi iwa iwa iki isha they'll talk bad about you so you also care about how people will talk maybe in kia chama yeah sometimes yeah if it is a mature dating I am surprised that it's supposed to be if she supports it you are against it while the most thing that men talk about here is about kukula fair ati you can date neighbor whizikulwa fair you are not even sending that fair in the first instance you are not sending it so people are talking about kustia see kust effective to date neighbor and you are a man it's men who most of their time sponsor dating the people who pay for fair for plesia kuenda so kutua po kwa kalo koliyen to evo like ame toka kwa ke I'm speaking now about mature people like her case case of her friend where she said somebody was dating a neighbor maybe in the same apartment mutua na ishi third dema na ishi third chalena ishi second so it's like one of pitiana kuenda alafu evo evo evo akuna kusti inafa kwa evo and that kusti is bad because you dating mkiwa maniibwa kuna disadvantage miki sana sometimes yes mneza pendana to an extent where seme she's in second floor ame in third trenza nga liya to seme tunali pa rent twice yes you say naza katala iskwa ano atu awa no no no again naza seme na tuwa rent na tuwa rent and we are one yes kuna jwe neza leta presu na pata trenza muvin yes for even seme marriage yes na tukotu me plan ooooh that is what happens timu ataki kumuvin si kumuvin nemzuri si kumuvin nemzuri asa mi se la kusti kumuvin si poa actually si poa trena wepe una una kata si poa kumuvin it's not good especially for us women we want our space sometimes we don't want to see your faces honestly speaking ooooh I understand I understand yes so if you are going to I think for women even in marriages I'm not married but I think it takes a lot from them you have to be committed that uta kuna una yumtu every day uta kuna kaja hake but you know for women it's different like you feel like you need your space today I want to eat popcorns today I want to but when you are coming to walk half naked in the house yes to sleep naked in the Netflix and shit it happens but now when you have someone around sometimes you won't even want to throw things away like be a little bit untidy for a moment it feels nice then you have someone you have to do these things you have to cook you have to you have to be atop but you know that that also counts when he's around when maybe I'm insisting on her being at third and him being on second because I'm what he called Brenda is making a joke about it and when you are neighbors he can pass anytime can knock anytime yeah he was just neighbors you've not moved in is that also uncomfortable for ladies yeah I was not encouraging an apartment on neighborhood dating at least some blocks away is okay but now here apartment it is very difficult imagine having a friend in your house and your man is snooping around and a chunguli and then he's talking that can feel very uncomfortable why are you hiding what are you hiding you're not hiding see you mum be a 2 kuna friendo ango na kujakuni tembele kusifre kukutukuja so muna sasasi ano yu wa kuna frienda nandu men are human beings too atawia be atawia kikuja na dem kwa kuwe lasi mum on the chunguli one was a photo redoing Rishwa just us but had you and the upate kama lango me funga mba mba me funga me lango see mua chetu kama kuna na fanya see mua chetu imu lango 2 wa that is bad no i feel like that's apartmental dating should not be encouraged it fosters so many insecurities in relationships you find that insecurities me kwa mingisana you cannot even be in a relationship honestly you take about this you had negated everything about neighborhood dating kwa unata kawatwa kwen bandi a kuwe gidurai ukiwa kawa west asi kawa west the opposite side of town langata a kuwe langata kama uko kawa west if we were square square ata like which are never in let's go Eastland kariobangi umo wajah iupia kaiugosama so long as you are in different estates yeah yeah yeah you discourage kia besa the same estate the same estate nimbaya because she's advocating for some blocks away for me the same estate it is discouraging because juja juja ah no no no ah you are nakana you are tight no because but ma'am have a lot to hide i think that is why yes ma'am have a lot to hide very true yeah it's very true but if it is a mature dating i won't call it is immature because if it is mature obvious aina jani there's no monetization yes yeah you don't need to monitor me if it is a mature one yes but it doesn't mean because we are living in the same area geographical area that i'm supposed to monitor you what's talking i said it may lead to that but come on to anaka like some few do i even have time to block to to to stalk him why do you want him around if you don't want to monitor i want him around for the times that i need him there i might behave can you make me some dinner i'm on my way you see i'll sleep there in the morning i'm dressing up in my house and i'm going to work but you lack your space okay yeah you lack your space because okay you see she's saying that she wants you around when she wants you yes yes when she wants you yes sometimes just not feeling like cooking and i come here and cook i'm coming please he's a kujetrumu gu atau siku kujetrumu gu kujekule arudi ala lekua kwa amasa me ah milios yundi kuna lakua ala lekua kwa ala fukesu kuje address and a job between see that's life it's it's sweet that way so yundi ala encourage but we will talk kijulabda kuna mwingine kwa nyong yeah kuna mwingine lapda kwa nyongba so uramon bia when you're coming to my place please book an appointment yes you know sometimes you need your own space sometimes okay okay watu kwa nyongba you need that space as in okay wa inje umepatashida mingine ni you house yany yundi o space tunataka you relax your mind so you find it time on a date you are your neighbor it becomes so and because there's lack of privacy you refuse to talk about the coast don't you fear don't you think it is cheaper it's less expensive to date a neighbor you squeeze your own akula fare on a land I don't think so oh we are on a shader it's like it's not about the cost yes yeah what is it about like uh najiwa wa ufa ikuongelaya coast most of the time you am garami am garami so it's man who should be talking about the coast we also pay bills come on after transport dating me transport muna tumiwa muna kula muna tumiwa muna kula you are known for that you guys are known for that so I just so me comments military too comments military to alafutu on a village watu anongelaya ima mo ya dating a neighbor somebody say called David karie wa subuki anase mama paya ona isa kutwa mwenye bb ona isa kutwa mwenye bb wei uliku udet bbmtu wama una dating uliku udet bbmtu we are talking about the thing here wanyawajawana wakama una date bbmtu neighbor suwa David karie be careful with your wives wanyawame kwa the somebody called wa hirimu wajjiku anase mama kuna kukula fare yeah you tumiongelaya and then the money Steve anase mama mazurini mazurini siyora isi u u u kuchesevi baia juwesi kwaana kamutu kenginekano ujama anab advokati imutu ya kenginekano iilekuliku wa tumiongelaya suwa anase mama nimbaia juwesi ningumu kwaana kamutu kenginekano wei uskue na kamutu kenginekano be faithful anazu sami sami tegaya anase mama ubaia ni wei zi leta side check no na wana wumendi wana sami juwuta onwa tu vizuri na kwa hakuna gara maia fare but wana wume wana wume tuwachi mama wei zi side check wana desanada wana wume kiyakul a kebulan tribes manase mama eish wei zi leta to dame twingine ayo man ayo my fellow man they are complaining to G.I.C. this Nairobi East Nika na sama wana aza kwaan bia ni kubaiye ice cream na ufiki bei na anaza kwaan bia u ni kubaiye ice cream na kujama na aza sama all the time wana ambiwa ni baiye ni baiye ni baiye he is also watching to shoot him a dame ima mo ya ni baiye buongelaya address the nation in this camera wana ambiwa ima mo ya ni baiye ni baiye juwana sama wana wana complainia uyu uyu Nairobi ista ani uyu alke ru lamb anaza sama mademo anaza sama ni baiye most of the time umkona yae so anaza sama watua fai kudet naiba kusababu ni baiye ita kushina uti will be one up with ni baiye ebuo address the nation about ni baiye ni baiye attitude I think that is just a notion that you may have about us personally when ni baiye is a not many they are not many as you want them to sound like ni baiye ni once in a while because piya weven taku baiye as kumoja you see skwezi mefa niya dating kakwa 50-50 skwezi you find that you are buying lunch I am going to buy sapa or I am going to chip in that is it's a said that una bai cha kula na nunu asoda happens it is happening is it common yes very common on a scale of one to ten the ladies will do that six ah ah ah ah six six ah ah ah piya nasi at 50-50 listen the ni baiye is they are really many months crazy because mefa niya dating ika ni kama ni 50-50 and now we are accepting it na penda biliu na tete yama na tukotu sula sita achaku kumkua na yon notion that is just like stereotyping we women don't ni baiye is every time I use my own fare to go to someone yes and you think most girls do that six six out of ten women do that okay do your math we will do research about that yes yes research do your high yeah these callings and asema watching from Jamelil ozuri pesam fukoni noni tukotu mafea ewa na una nalili afea ala fukunam tula bo rose an asema ukudeti jirani aku je kwa kuku kula na yu kuchumim baiya yu jama taki watua kule kua ke ebu kumet kidogo kwa hiye moza moza me kwa kupet anata gemi omingine oh labda kuna experience labda anata gemi maybe a lady kusuna pata hiya na most of the time spesati na dunia inze inze wapi where ijudikani lakini kufudaji ebao na hashtag low food prices so it's like Uyama na patiringa fotum yalu na meiru nakape Two for the economy aku axup'ua ok k저akaimingin kuko ajama na itwa betray rough food prices and food was not going to be sold and it wasn't a good idea to change it to diet It's not a good idea to change it to diet We need to discuss the sidechicks One time, ya. Kusubaku na ula kawana umewanzangu. Too deep, too deep in it. Alafukunahunya na sema, why is that girl shying away from the camera? Oh my. Ebuji bui. Umpuana sema, like, umeskia soji. Ya. I'm not shying away. I think I was so much engraved in the conversation I was looking at you. I think you just want to know that there is a truth and a feature. Really? No. Okay. Kuna sosa peri sinjami anase mozuri ati wezi fi kiriya kuchit. Since kila time kupa moja hapa kwa hapa. Kuna johu ni dem. So demo anase ma it's a cheat. It means you guys are insecure. You guys are insecure. Why? Why are you so insecure? Why don't you trust me too? As we have talked about it, meskia wana umewengi wana comment that wana taka side chicks ama wakuna side chicks. That is how women feel. We feel like you have side chicks there. We will suspect that you have side chicks. So it's in securities ni menge. Maybe we still have side chicks up here. We feel like we have side chicks. So it's you guys who are placing us in that situation. Muna fanya to feel very insecure. If at all you guys become very loyal, women are very loyal. Like dogs actually. You stand accused. So the person representing man here, the person representing man. So can you clear your name? I feel like when they are dating between the two genders, I believe that girls are so loyal than guys because you get that for girls if they love someone, they feel jealous. So I don't know if this is a point. Because when you get married, you are forever for life. Why are people getting bored to their partners? Well, you need some break out of. You need to break them ono to ni. So probably they don't even do outside dating. So she needs to start going out with her partner and create time outside there so that they can break that monotoni. I love to see that you see someone at a kamam na dating the neighborhood. You can even see that person once in a while. Let's say you are working from Monday to Friday, you are at work. Saturday you can create time. Sunday you relax at your place. Monday you go back to your place. Or rather, on Saturday you can go outside now. Ya. Ya. Ya. Ya. Ya. Ya. Ya. Ya. Ya. Ya. Ya. Ya na. Ya nana kata urufakwa. Ya na. Ya na. Ya na. Ya na na. Yah nee ngemitcia developers yok ti grewi niyo. Habin na nga si'n jo. onal, tumiave baya, yuuki kuja wanao shambiyombo onaashangu atizu ni majibzama bibi, banywame onlewa So, nikiwa neighbors yuukosoted oki deqneba, wendi wikiwa na kataku deqneba Kosoted, ghoza komi clean iron every weekend Adi? Adiku liko boy child Sqweezy So How's the view? Kwezo vituza I think So he Sila zimu amtu As in guys that are taking a message Dream them don't have a clue I think that is not empowerment Just like kumese ma 50-50 dating It's our 50-50 house chores Because now Inaka ni kama Eo ku submitia kitambo inaisha Inaka Itchoponians You wash the tray I'm using Unona Plus It sounds metaphorically like Ni kama madem Tuna fakfanya iso vitu Honestly you are a guy You're supposed to be clean Uta ni goja after a week Niku jen kufuli ango No That does not sound like empowerment That sounds like being responsible Because now you can cook for yourself You can wash your clothes In my absence When I am around I will cook for you You can do the dishes Our guys on Twitter Wame kata kungene ito piku Wakotuku wa Lower food prices Lower food prices Ebutu wongene hii lower food prices Siyao ni labda Wapia wakue covered Lower food prices Lower food prices Lower food prices Tutasai deaje Tutasai deaje mambuna Na food pricing And all that Maisha imekumu Ngumusana Afo neza se matu Kujitu matu Onajue zili every time Si jui foodi kwe lower Na ekonomi napa Inapa kwa lower lakini Pia ina itaji kujitu malafu It needs both of us We contribute As in sim to moja na contribute Tse me maybe Tse me kanade tu God forbid si jui Na zekana tu Na zekana Si jui Si needs to contribute As in nase ni tegeme Si jui mimi ni metuwa yanguio Tegi miisha And then easy support Ume kuja tukutetewa na umekuwe hii utena At lower food prices Mademua contribute Na wakumotewa jitu me Waw na zese mahaji ima moja Food prices as we conclude It's the way the economy is But it can be fixed We need to call Election period So Liwais, when electing Your Ya Your leaders So that Tu li tokako ekonomi Ko very low Ime shutsana juu Ekonomi ni Apenda hu So ina isa shuka bado But still what wajitu me As a lady Girls have been empowered Squeeze it una fanya kazi We will be mothers We will be wives And still we have to provide squeeze We have to chip in kwa bills So kila mtu aji tume Okay We were final You were closing remarks To liyaza na wewa Tozze na wewa Wame sema Always girls first Your final remarks about Kudetejiran Well be ready to either Move in Move out or move on Thank you Okay Nini Timuti As we close Your final Final closing remarks For me what I can say is that If you want to date Date for a reason Okay Yeah If you want to date Iwa ita manisha Iwa jirani Iwa jirani You have your reasons Yeah, date for a reason Okay Because I believe that If you are dating for marriage Marriage is a continuation Of dating problems Or positive things So I believe People need to Date for a reason Okay Finally from me I learned the Kenyan scene The hashtag Lower food prices Lower all prices Not just food prices Even if dating is pricey If dating is becoming expensive Kamakudetejiran You could lower Dating prices Lower all prices A lafu hours I'm going to pay for my sema What was the tume So as you cry As we cry Because I joined in that cry Lower prices Jitumi PLC Sema lower prices A lafu jitumi So this has been one in the morning I've loved it I've enjoyed it Had a wonderful panel And everybody was Who came to job To make sure that this goes on From the TX people From the producers Sound Everything Everybody I really appreciate So up next We have Tano Tano Kali And Kip tuned Till tomorrow