 Hi y'all she was seven. I'm back. So this video is going to be It was his idea Okay, so that means when you're dating a guy if you're in a relationship and you have a hard time getting your way Make it seem like it was his idea Okay. Now, how do you do this? You plant little subtle clues and hints that will lead up to him Coming up with the idea in his own mind like If you want to go somewhere in particular First of all, you gotta make him feel smart intelligent and like it was his idea. So There's a restaurant that y'all both know that's really nice, right? Pretend you can't remember the name Pretend like but you know that restaurant on such-and-such Street over there on that side of town I can't remember the name. They have really good, you know Sushi or whatever It's on the tip of my tongue. We should go there. We really should go there He's gonna be like and then he's gonna he's gonna guess the name cuz you know, he wants to be like seeing this smart He's gonna uh, oh, yeah, such-and-such Restaurant, you know, I'm like, yeah, so you want to go and he'll and then he'll say hmm I'm like, you know, I could not think of that name. You have such a good memory. Oh my god. I wish I had your memory But yeah, so we're going there now, right I'm gonna call make Reservations now that I know the name thanks to you Thank you, honey. And he's gonna be like wait. I didn't say yes. I didn't say no She was asking me the name. I gave it to her. I guess that means I said yes so That's one way. Okay. Another way is Like if you're If you don't want to do something like if you don't want to drive somewhere If you want him to go get something for you and you just don't want to leave your house If you want him to bring you something because you don't want to leave your house Tell him you have something of his but he needs to come get it and If he asks what it is say, I don't want I don't know I Don't want to tell you over the phone, but I want you to just come get it. I just want you to see what it is I don't know what this is But it's it's hard to explain. He'll be like we'll take a picture of it or something like that I'm like, you know, no, I don't want I just want I want you to come get this Okay, but he's gonna be like, oh my god, what did I leave at her house? Or what did she find another like if y'all are in a relationship or Was as surprised as a sex, you know, get him excited to come over there and like and then say oh on your way Could you bring me? Whatever you need. Oh on your way. Could you bring me some? Some gum or some ice cream or on the way. Could you bring me? Some dish washing liquid. I just ran out. I just remember and since you're already gonna come over here My can you just pick it up? I'll pay you when you're here And he'll go and get it up bring it to you like so what did you find? What did you find and you come? and You said, you know what I Found this receipt, but it wasn't yours. It was my sister's receipt. I'm so sorry it was a receipt to Name something like really embarrassing like Like Like what would be a really embarrassing place that you would be concerned about like Well, it was still like a clinic and like a doctor's office and I just want to know if there's something you wanted to tell me Like I wanted to be here for you if you need to come for me But it was my sister's thoughts. I threw it away. She told me to throw it away Bam you got your dish washing. We're good. Didn't have to get dressed to go to the store, okay? Make it seem like it was his idea or you know, it's It's okay to do this because a lot of times They like doing stuff for you and you have to get them used to it so that When you do ask in a nice honest way, they'll be more than happy to do it because now, you know They know that they're gonna do these things for you anyway, so So the next time you'd be like, you know what honey? I really don't feel like getting up out of the house. I just really don't feel good Could you please bring me this and that and it won't you won't seem needy after you've already gotten him to come over the first Time and he's done it now just make him feel like he's lazy and he just doesn't want to do it And if he doesn't continue to do it, it's like, okay. Well, you don't love me anymore You know, you did it last time and why can't you do it this time and blah blah blah blah You know, some women like their men to do stuff for them to show love to show appreciation You know, you might he might not be the richest man in the world I have the most money But if he's willing to get up and go buy you something from the store that you need or bring you something that you need from his house Over all the way to your house If he's willing to do that, you know, he cares, you know, so a lot of times women test men to see if they'll do stuff like that Okay, so Other ways to get men to think things were their idea You would tell them a story and you would say, you know what this guy did for this lady He said that he Proposed to her on Valentine's Day, let's tell him some stupid story that he proposed to her on Valentine's Day, but she said no Because he wasn't, you know, he didn't have enough money or They didn't know each other long enough or he didn't know if she was the one and Well, and then ask him, well, how would you know if you were the if I was the one like would you ever propose to me if You thought I was gonna say no And then you all start talking about proposals and marriage and stuff like that And then he'll start saying all this stuff and it's being supplanted into his subconscious mind So he's like, you know, I would never ask any woman to marry me that I was not sure they would say yes I would hope that she would love me enough to say yes You know, if if we ever and then he'll start talking as he'll start talking like we You know, if I ever asked you to marry me I hope that you would say yes, and then this is your opportunity to say, oh, well, you know what I Guarantee you if you ask me You won't be You know in that situation So basically you're saying you might you might say yes But you haven't said yes for sure But basically you're not gonna be in that same situation, which means it could go either way like okay Well, you're not gonna be in that same situation because I'm not going to say no in front of all these people but that doesn't mean I'm gonna say yes either You know just kind of hint around but now he's got in his mind the image is there it's burned in he's already imagine getting down on one knee and Then then you can start the conversation. Well, how would you propose to me if you were to propose? and then he'll start talking about it and Now you've sucked him into talking about getting married proposal couple How he would do it better than this guy because you know with guys is all about competition So you just read him this cheesy story about how this guy proposed so bad and the woman said no and Try to make him out be able to outdo him, you know in The conversation like oh, what would you have done different? Oh, why don't you think that worked or what would you do? differently and Then he'll be like well if I propose. I'm not gonna tell you because it's gonna be a surprise. So now, you know, he's thinking of you as a wife Okay wife material, but if he just tells you all the details down to the last thing that means, you know If he does propose it's going not it might not be to you because he's just giving you in the surprise away. So You got it like read between the lines. I'm sorry y'all like my I'm like all Tung tied today. Sorry I hadn't had enough coffee obviously, so Yes, make make him think things are his idea get him into the conversation pull him in trick him to getting into these conversations with you So that you know where he stands, okay? It's okay So if he doesn't want to introduce you to his friends or family and you're like, you know what it's time for me to Meet these people, you know, I think I've done a video on this, but here's how to do it even better first of all If you want to meet his family You have to ask him straight up Am I ever gonna meet your family? And he he's either gonna say yes or no or I don't know If it's a good time right now, he'll just make up some excuse, but whatever he says, here's your comeback Well, family is very important to me and I just would really love to meet your family before we go any further in this relationship It's very important to me and just leave it at that So now he has an ultimatum, but it's not really a direct threat It's like, you know, I really want to meet your family before I go any further into this relationship Because this lets him know that you're serious and this lets him know that you will leave and This lets him know that he needs to get on it and introduce you to his family if he wants to keep you as a girlfriend, okay? And follow through like if he does not want to introduce you to his family And you've given him the ultimatum and you've made it clear that it's very important for you to meet his family blah, blah, blah You've already introduced him to to your family and you just tell him straight up Well and don't like don't take all the blame. It's like, well, you know what? My family said that you know since you have not introduced me to your family that I must not be the one for you And they're really, you know, they're really kind of Thinking that I should be wrong and you know, I love you so much But they're right, you know, you've already met them. You know all their names You've seen them many times on many occasions and I have not met your family at all so, you know, I do Want to share holidays. I want to do this and I want to do that So I'm just gonna have to Let you know that, you know, I really need to meet your family before this relationship can go any further So I can know, you know, where we stand and it's not I'm not trying to rush you into anything I just think that you've met my family. Why can't I meet yours? And then he'll go into it. He'll be like, well, if something is wrong He'll be like, oh, they're in jail or oh, they don't live here and da da da da They'll make he'll make up something because sometimes it'll be a lie. You have to catch them in the line so You'll say, okay. Well, you know, we tried and I Just you know, I really need to you know, there's Skype You I'm sure you talk to some members of your family. There's you know, you have siblings aunts uncles You have introduced me to any of them. So that lets me know that you don't see me as Important enough to introduce you to your family So I'm not going to waste any more time in this relationship Because you know, I'm still young and I still have time to venture out and do other things You know, you're not the only person that's out there Uh, and I'm just I I feel like I'm more important To myself than I am to you Because I've introduced you to my family. You won't introduce me to your family. So therefore Everything is off balance now And I don't want to be in an unbalanced relationship. So I gotta go Okay, then he'll be like, okay, I'm going to introduce you to somebody. I don't know. We'll find somebody to introduce you to y'all A lot of ladies ask me well, when is he going to introduce me to his family? When is he going to introduce me to his family? And you know, if you're weird if you fly off the handle if you have a bad attitude if you're negative If you do anything that will embarrass him, he's not going to introduce you to his family girl Y'all you're going to have to be on your best behavior. You're going to have to not use curse words You're going to have to have good manners You know, if you're going to be brought home to mom, you need to be able to dress respectable He might not want to bring you around because you don't dress nice Or enough to meet his parents, you know, he he might just be You know, having his fun with you, but the real woman that he plans to bring home is, you know, well put together Nicely dressed has a clean mouth As far as you know cursing You know impressive has some credentials and stuff like that. So If you look at yourself and you realize, you know, I'm not that impressive, you know if he introduces me to his mom dad sister brother and There's nothing for him to tell Rather than oh, this is my girlfriend. Of course, he's not going to want to introduce me to them because, you know, I don't bring Anything, you know of value To this relationship, you know, I don't I'm not Good at, you know, I don't have any talents. I don't have any skills Uh, I'm just blah. So, you know, try to improve upon yourself. Take a cooking class start cooking. Um, You know, take an art class. So he'll have something to brag on you about oh, she's a great artist. Oh, she's an art class. Oh, she's uh Painter and transition or I don't know. He'll have something to say and how to introduce you. Okay So ladies get something for him to be proud of as well because when you when you introduce a guy to Your family, you want to be proud of him too? Okay. So, you know, my battery's blinking. That means I gotta go So I'll see y'all later. Thank you all so much for watching. If you have any questions or video requests I'll put them in the Comments and I'll see what I can do. Okay. Bye