 Are you currently in a marriage or a committed relationship that you feel is not working the way that you desire? Even if you haven't physically given up, have you emotionally, mentally, spiritually? Have you decided to take matters into your own hands or decide on your own what is and what isn't working according to you and according to your plan? Are you pushing the blame on the other person? That's an indication that you are living through your ego and not your spirit. Have you cheated, whether physically or just with desire or lust outside of your relationship and came up with some type of excuse or reasoning that that's okay? That's an indication that you're living through your ego and not your spirit.